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Expert reveals why working parents are really parting ways

<p dir="ltr">Dennis R Vetrano Jr, a divorce lawyer who regularly provides insight into the secrets of his industry on social media, has revealed the major theme he has identified when it comes to working parents ending their relationships. </p> <p dir="ltr">In one of his TikTok videos, which has been viewed over 4.7 million times since its release, the US-based lawyer opens by asking, “do you want to know the major theme that I’m seeing in the divorce industry, as a divorce lawyer, as I do consults these days?"</p> <p dir="ltr">The answer, it turns out, is quite simple: “women are tired”. </p> <p dir="ltr">“I am seeing working mums do it all, and I am seeing the husbands step back and say ‘huh, I don’t gotta do a thing!’,” Dennis explained. </p> <p dir="ltr">“She’s got the kids, she’s got the groceries, she’s got the laundry, she’s got the meals, she’s got the work. And by the way, she’s making all the money and she’s paying for the house, and doing everything else. </p> <p dir="ltr">“‘I’m going to go to the firehouse, I’m going to go play this, I’m going to go hang out with my friends.’ That’s the theme. </p> <p dir="ltr">“And women are tired.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Dennis’ video drew in over 10,000 comments, many from women who couldn’t agree more with what he’d said, sharing their own stories and experiences with each other. </p> <p dir="ltr">“And the younger generation of women are choosing not to marry, they have grown up watching their mums struggle and refuse to let that happen to them,” one wrote. </p> <p dir="ltr">“This is why I got divorced,” another shared, to over 15.3 likes. “He then accused me of cheating! When would I have time? I don’t even sit on the couch”.</p> <p dir="ltr">“WAY less stressed since divorce. And I get nights to myself!!!” one woman said. </p> <p dir="ltr">“We aren’t just tired. We are sick and tired,” one corrected.</p> <p dir="ltr">“We get sick of the mental load,” another viewer agreed. “Having to give instructions on everything. It's exhausting.” </p> <p dir="ltr">“I'm a stay at home mom to 5 and my husband legit told me today ‘I don't go to his job and help him’. It changed something in me tonight,” one revealed. </p> <p dir="ltr">Another had something else to add to the discussion, noting that while she agreed “100%”, Dennis had forgotten “to say that the husband’s ‘super power’ was his ability to critique meals, housework, fashion, body image etc!”</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Images: TikTok</em></p>

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Lawyer sued for ‘quiet quitting’

<p> A legal firm in New York have sued one of its own lawyers, accusing her of using remote work as a way to “quiet quit” while she started a new venture.</p> <p>Quiet quitting is a relatively new term that refers to employees who do nothing above the bare minimum in their role, often leading them to end up on the chopping board. </p> <p>Defendant Heather Palmore then filed a countersuit against Napoli Solnik accusing the firm of mistreating minority employees, “brazen bullying” and seeking to “intimate people who stand up to them”.</p> <p>The lawsuit, which was filed in late February 2023 in a state court, accused Palmore of “breach of fiduciary duty of loyalty, aiding and abetting breach of fiduciary duty of loyalty, injurious falsehood, unjust enrichment, declaratory judgement and constructive trust”.</p> <p>According to the firm’s lawsuit, Palmore “misrepresented her skill set, experience, and book of business to obtain a position with Napoli Shkolnik, where she took advantage of the new remote work environment to ‘quiet quit’ her job, and simultaneously worked for two law firms at once,”</p> <p>The firm also accused her of “performing little to no work for Napoli Shkolnik while directly competing with the firm by simultaneously running Defendant Palmore Law Group”.</p> <p>Palmore said in her counterclaim that partner Paul Napoli recruited her to be the firm’s chief trial counsel in October 2021.</p> <p>“Ms Palmore has been subjected to and witnessed egregious race and disability discrimination by senior management as part of their standard operating procedures,” she said in a lawsuit filed in Manhattan federal court. </p> <p>Palmore said she agreed to engage in mediation to settle her claims but claimed the firm used the time to “fabricate its own bogus lawsuit to file before Palmore could file her lawsuit — and gain some ill-conceived strategic advantage by filing first”.</p> <p>The firm claims Palmore was never committed to her job and that she established her own company almost as soon as she was hired.</p> <p>“Further, not even one month after defendant Palmore was hired by the plaintiff, defendant Palmore established her own separate law firm, The Palmore Group, PC, which she was operating and marketing while claiming to work on a full-time, attention, and energy basis for the plaintiff,” it said.</p> <p><em>Image credit: Instagram</em></p>

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Why men should always pay on the first date

<p dir="ltr">A break-up lawyer has sparked debate by saying men should always pay for the first date.</p> <p dir="ltr">Justin Lee took to <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jleejd/video/7085515338791587078?is_copy_url=1&amp;is_from_webapp=v1&amp;lang=en" target="_blank" rel="noopener">TikTok</a> to explain why men should always pay on the first date - as that person could be the person you are going to marry.</p> <p dir="ltr">He explained that the amount of money the date costs is not the problem, but rather that the person sitting in front of them is blindly allowing a stranger to pay for them without offering.</p> <p dir="ltr">“The issue is when we end up with someone who has this real sense of entitlement, like this expectation that we will pay. That’s why we must always pay,” he begins.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Your date, whoever that is, may very well be the person you end up marrying. And trust me when I say, as a divorce lawyer, who you end up marrying is so, so important.</p> <p dir="ltr">“So let’s say at the end of the date you pull out your wallet and offer your pay and your date just sits there expecting you to pay as if that is the obvious course of action</p> <p dir="ltr">“At that moment, what did you just learn? You learned that the person in front of you is entitled and has the audacity to expect a near stranger to pay for them.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Then imagine how that person could end up treating their significant other, their spouse for a low cost of $20/30 or $40.</p> <p dir="ltr">“You learned that the person in front of you does not have the basic courtesy to pretend to offer to pay and therefore you should never go on another date with them.”</p> <p dir="ltr">The video, which has raked in more than 540,000 views, sparked a debate in the comment section with many saying the men should pay for the first date regardless. </p> <p dir="ltr">“If that man lets you pay on the first date.. ladies…. Imagine what being married to him for the rest of your life will be,” one comment read.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Ladies should really be selective when dating. If he is crying over a $30 date then he isn’t financially stable and shouldn’t be dating,” another person wrote.</p> <p dir="ltr">“That’s fine - someone who invites me out and expects me to offer on *their* invite has zero manners and probably wouldn’t make a great husband,” someone else commented.</p> <p dir="ltr">Justin however had to reiterate his position in the comment section, explaining that many people misunderstood the video and was not gender based.</p> <p dir="ltr">He explained that “The issue is when women perceive the payment as an obligation as opposed to a kind gesture. Entitled vs Appreciative. No one owes anybody anything!”</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Images: TikTok</em></p>

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Prince Charles “calls in lawyers”

<p dir="ltr">Prince Charles has reportedly “called in lawyers” over allegations that he questioned what colour skin baby Archie would have.</p> <p dir="ltr">The claim comes from the newly released book,<span> </span><em>Brothers and Wives: Inside the Private Lives of William, Kate and Meghan</em><span> </span>by US author Christopher Anderson, and is one of several reported on by<span> </span><em>Page Six<span> </span></em>over the weekend.</p> <p dir="ltr">The book<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://7news.com.au/entertainment/royal-family/prince-charles-calls-in-lawyers-as-hes-named-as-royal-who-made-skin-colour-comment-in-book-brothers-and-wives-inside-the-private-lives-of-william-kate-and-meghan-c-4738910" target="_blank">alleges</a><span> </span>that Prince Charles asked his wife Camilla, “I wonder what the children will look like?” in reference to his son Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s then-unborn child.</p> <p dir="ltr">Anderson goes on to claim that a “somewhat taken aback” Camilla replied: “Well, absolutely gorgeous, I’m certain.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Prince Charles is alleged to have then said, in a “lowered voice”, “I mean, what do you think their children’s complexion might be?”</p> <p dir="ltr">Clarence House has slammed the allegations, telling British tabloid<span> </span><em>The Sun</em><span> </span>that Anderson’s account “is fiction and not worth further comment”.</p> <p dir="ltr">The<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/16879170/prince-charles-racist-claims-fiction/" target="_blank">publication reported</a><span> </span>that the book’s claims had only been seen by Clarence House several days before the book's publication, and that royal lawyers had been alerted.</p> <p dir="ltr">“The claims are utterly ridiculous,” an insider told the newspaper.</p> <p dir="ltr">“There is more of a concern that commenting on it will simply sell more books than actually damage Charles’ reputation.”</p> <p dir="ltr">The allegations come months after Meghan and Harry’s bombshell interview with Oprah Winfrey, where Meghan claimed there were “several conversations” with Harry about “how dark Archie’s skin might be when he was born”.</p> <p dir="ltr">Though she declined to say who Harry had the conversations with, it was later revealed that he told Oprah it didn’t involve the Queen or her late husband, Prince Philip.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p>

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Lawyers for Rust armourer claim ‘sabotage’

<p dir="ltr">Lawyers for Hannah Gutierrez Reed, the<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://oversixty.com.au/finance/legal/she-s-a-rookie-rust-s-armourer-comes-under-fire" target="_blank">24-year-old armourer</a><span> </span>at the centre of the investigation into the tragedy on the set of Alec Baldwin’s film<span> </span><em>Rust,<span> </span></em>are now<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.latimes.com/entertainment-arts/story/2021-11-03/rust-shooting-armorer-hannah-gutierrez-reed-lawyers" target="_blank">claiming</a><span> </span>their client was the victim of sabotage, and that the accident was ultimately the fault of someone else.</p> <p dir="ltr">Her lawyers have suggested that someone intentionally smuggled live rounds of ammunition into a box of dummy rounds before the<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.oversixty.com.au/news/news/alec-baldwin-allegedly-shot-and-killed-cinematographer" target="_blank">fatal on-set shooting</a><span> </span>that killed cinematographer Halyna Hutchins. Lawyer Jason Bowles made the suggestion while appearing on numerous morning news programs on Wednesday morning.</p> <p dir="ltr">On<span> </span><em>Good Morning America</em>, he asked, “Why do you place that in the box labeled ‘dummies’ that the armorer is going to be pulling from? Why would you do that other than to try to cause some incident on the set?</p> <p dir="ltr">“Now, we’re not saying anybody had any intent there was going to be a tragedy — a homicide — but they wanted to do something to cause a safety incident on set. That’s what we believe happened.”</p> <p dir="ltr">When GMA anchor Michael Strahan pressed him for evidence to support this serious allegation, Bowles simply asserted that his client did not place the live round that was ultimately responsible for Hutchins’ death in the ammunition box.</p> <p dir="ltr">“We know the live rounds shouldn’t have been in that box, but they were,” he said. “So there can be very, very few explanations for why live rounds end up in a box of dummy prop ammunition on a movie set. And one of them is that somebody wants that to go into a firearm and then wants there to be an incident on the set. There’s no other reason to mix a live round with the dummies. There’s just none.”</p> <p dir="ltr">After presenting the same argument on<span> </span><em>Today<span> </span></em>and being asked by host Savannah Guthrie why anyone would “have the motive and opportunity” to sabotage the ammunition in this way, Bowles said, “I believe that somebody who would do that would want to ... prove a point, want to say that they’re disgruntled.</p> <p dir="ltr">“And we know that people had already walked off the set the day before. ... And the reason they were unhappy is they’re working 12- to 14-hour days. They were not given hotel rooms in and around the area. So they had to drive back and forth an hour to Albuquerque, and they’re unhappy.”</p> <p dir="ltr">This is a reference to the fact that the camera crew had staged a walkout before the incident, fed up with unreasonable working conditions and amidst a push within Hollywood to improve working conditions for film and television crews.</p> <p dir="ltr">Guthrie then asked Bowles if he was accusing the crew members who had walked out of planting the live ammunition, to which he said, “You can’t rule anybody out at this point. We know there was a live round in a box of dummy rounds that shouldn’t have been there… there was opportunity to tamper with the scene. And yes, we’re looking at that possibility.”</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Instagram</em></p>

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Trump lawyer's press conference mistake goes viral

<div class="post_body_wrapper"> <div class="post_body"> <div class="body_text redactor-styles redactor-in"> <p>A weekend press conference by Donald Trump's personal lawyer Rudy Giuliani went viral over the weekend as a staffer mistakenly booked Four Season's Landscaping instead of the five-star hotel.</p> <p>Donald Trump tweeted "Lawyers Press Conference at Four Seasons, Philadelphia,' but quickly deleted it and replaced the tweet with Four Season's Landscaping".</p> <p>“Big press conference today in Philadelphia at Four Seasons Total Landscaping – 11.30am!” he tweeted.</p> <p>Four Seasons Total Landscaping is a small business located between a crematorium and an adult book store called Fantasy Island.</p> <p>People on Twitter were quick to make fun of the incident.</p> <p>"I could write jokes for 800 years and I'd never think of something funnier than Trump booking the Four Seasons for his big presser and it turning out to be the Four Seasons Total Landscaping parking lot between a dildo store and a crematorium," one person <a rel="noopener" href="https://twitter.com/ZackBornstein/status/1325274318218035201" target="_blank" class="editor-rtflink">wrote</a>.</p> <p>"I'm sorry, I can't let this go: The people who can't find the right Four Seasons want you to believe they uncovered 40,000 fraudulent ballots in Philadelphia?" another person <a rel="noopener" href="https://twitter.com/JeffLieber/status/1325298846705061888" target="_blank" class="editor-rtflink">pointed out</a>.</p> <p>According to <em>The New York Times</em>, Trump's team did intend to hold the press conference at the landscaping business but the president was a bit confused.</p> <p>“In reality, the mistake was not in the booking, but in a garbled game of telephone,” the <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.nytimes.com/live/2020/11/07/us/biden-trump?smid=tw-nytimes&amp;smtyp=cur#which-four-seasons-oh-not-that-one" target="_blank" class="editor-rtflink"><em>New York Times</em></a> wrote.</p> <p>“Mr. Giuliani and the Trump campaign adviser Corey Lewandowski told the president on Saturday morning their intended location for the news conference and he misunderstood, assuming it was an upscale hotel, according to multiple people familiar with the matter.”</p> <p>According to insiders, they told the landscaping business as it was in a more Republican-friendly part of town.</p> <p>PBS Senior Political Reporter Daniel Bush added a bit more info, <a rel="noopener" href="https://twitter.com/DanielBush/status/1325143314170048514?s=20" target="_blank" class="editor-rtflink">tweeting</a>: “An answer to the Four Seasons Total Landscaping mystery: the company told me the Trump campaign contacted them today out of the blue ahead of the Giuliani presser and said their location was close to an exit on I95, and was secure, and that’s why they wanted to use it.”</p> </div> </div> </div>

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Australian lawyer allegedly sacked for refusing to lie

<p>A <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/criminal/legislation/corporations-act/">corporate lawyer</a> has commenced proceedings in the Federal Circuit Court after he was terminated from his position as a senior legal adviser with Meriton Property Services for allegedly refusing to lie in an affidavit.</p> <p>Sydney lawyer Joseph Callahan is claiming $556,500 in compensation and costs after being terminated from his $350,000 a year position in February 2020.</p> <p>He claims that during a meeting on 3 February 2020, his employer, billionaire property developer Harry Triguboff, demanded that he falsely state in an affidavit that Sydney Council had taken three years to approve a development application.</p> <p>According to his statement of claim, the lawyer responded by stating, “I’m a solicitor and can’t include something in an affidavit which I know isn’t true”.</p> <p>He says his employer then said, “Listen my friend, you write it my way or you can fuck off”, and “Fuck you. I pay you to win cases do you understand?”.</p> <p>Mr Callahan says he then told his employer, “I understand I am here to win cases, but it did not take three years to get the building approved, so I can’t give evidence to the Court that it did”, to which Mr Triguboff responded, “Enough crap from you. Write it my way or you are no good to me”.</p> <p>The lawyers says he stood his ground, telling his employer “Harry I won’t do it. It’s a lie”.</p> <p>He says his employer emailed him on 13 February 2020 to advise that his position had been terminated.</p> <p>Meriton Property Services refutes the allegations, filing a defence which states:</p> <p>“All allegations that suggest otherwise are strongly denied. Meriton disputes the sequence and nature of the events set out in the court filing”.</p> <p>The case is listed for hearing on 17 June 2020.</p> <p><strong>The offence of swearing a false affidavit</strong></p> <p>Swearing a False Affidavit is a crime under <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/criminal/legislation/oaths-act/swearing-falsely-in-affidavits/">Section 29 of the Oaths Act 1900</a>.</p> <p>The offence carries a maximum penalty of 10 years in prison.</p> <p><strong>For the offence to be established, the prosecution must prove beyond reasonable doubt that:</strong></p> <ol> <li>The defendant swore or affirmed an affidavit,</li> <li>The affidavit was affirmed or sworn before a person authorised to do so,</li> <li>The affidavit was false in any respect, and</li> <li>The defendant knew the affidavit was false in that or those respects.</li> </ol> <p>In addition to this, <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/criminal/legislation/oaths-act/false-statement/">section 33 of the Oaths Act 1900</a> prescribes a maximum penalty of 10 years in prison for the offence of making a false statement in an affidavit.</p> <p><strong>To establish that offence, the prosecution must prove beyond reasonable doubt that the defendant:</strong></p> <ol> <li>Swore or affirmed an affidavit,</li> <li>Made a false statement within that affidavit, and</li> <li>Knew the statement was false.</li> </ol> <p>Swearing to false information in an affidavit may also amount to perverting the course of justice, which is an offence under <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/criminal/legislation/crimes-act/perverting-course-of-justice/">section 319 of the Crimes Act 1900</a> carrying a maximum penalty of 14 years in prison.</p> <p><strong>To establish that offence, the prosecution must prove beyond reasonable doubt that the defendant:</strong></p> <ol> <li>Engaged in an act or made an omission, and</li> <li>Did so with the intention of perverting the course of justice.</li> </ol> <p>‘Perverting the course of justice’ is defined as ‘obstructing, preventing, perverting or defeating the course of justice or the administration of law’.</p> <p><strong>Defendants have been found guilty of the offence for the following conduct:</strong></p> <ol> <li>Falsely swearing or declaring that another person was responsible for an offence,</li> <li>Attempting to bribe a police or judicial officer to avoid being prosecuted or punished,</li> <li>Using a victim’s phone or email in an attempt to create a defence to a crime,</li> <li>Encouraging or bribing another person to plead guilty to an crime they did not commit, to provide a false alibi and to give false testimony in court.</li> </ol> <p>Where it is alleged that a false affidavit was used in connection with judicial proceedings – such as court proceedings – a person can be charged of perjury, which is an offence under <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/criminal/legislation/crimes-act/perjury/">Section 327 of the Crimes Act 1900</a> carrying a maximum penalty of 10 years in prison.</p> <p><strong>To establish the offence, the prosecution must prove beyond reasonable doubt that:</strong></p> <ol> <li>The defendant made a false statement under oath or affirmation,</li> <li>The statement was in, or in connection with, judicial proceedings,</li> <li>The statement concerned a matter that was material to those proceedings, and</li> <li>The defendant knew the statement was false or did not believe it was true.</li> </ol> <p>The maximum penalty increases to 14 years in prison where the prosecution proves that the defendant intended to procure the conviction or acquittal of a person for a ‘serious indictable offence’, which is one that carries a maximum penalty of at least 5 years in prison.</p> <p><strong>Defences to the charges</strong></p> <p>In addition to prove each ‘element’ (or ingredient) the charges, the prosecution must disprove beyond reasonable doubt any legal defence which a defendant validly raise in court.</p> <p><a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/criminal/defences/">Legal defences</a> which apply to these offences include:</p> <ol> <li>Duress</li> <li>Necessity, and</li> <li>Self-defence</li> </ol> <p><strong>Professional obligations</strong></p> <p>In addition to obligations under the general law, a solicitor or barrister who falsely swears to information in a legal statement such as a statutory declaration or affidavit is liable to disciplinary action by the Law Society of New South Wales, including being <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/blog/lawyers-struck-off-for-professional-misconduct/">‘struck off’ for professional misconduct</a>.</p> <p>Going to court for an offence against justice?</p> <p>If you have been charged with an offence against justice such as swearing a false affidavit, contempt of court, perverting the course of justice or perjury, call Sydney Criminal Lawyers anytime on (02) 9261 8881 to arrange a free first conference with an experienced criminal defence lawyer who will advise you of your options and the best way forward.</p> <p><em>Written by Ugur Nedim. Republished with permission of </em><a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/blog/lawyer-allegedly-sacked-for-refusing-to-lie/"><em>Sydney Criminal Lawyers.</em></a></p>

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Should I tell my lawyer the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth?

<p>When engaging a criminal defence lawyer, clients are sometimes unsure about how much to say at the first meeting – concerned that telling their lawyers everything all at once could make it harder to achieve the best possible outcome.</p> <p>Indeed, in serious cases, lawyers may not obtain full instructions from their clients until they have received the statements and other materials upon which the prosecution relies, and until both they and their clients have gone through those materials.</p> <p>So, what are the rules that affect how a lawyer can deal with information from clients?</p> <p><strong>Legal professional privilege</strong></p> <p>The client/solicitor relationship is one of the most fundamental of our legal system.</p> <p>As such, principles have been established so that clients can provide full and frank disclosure to their lawyer without fear that this information will be used against them.</p> <p>Chief of these principles is ‘legal professional privilege’ also known as ‘client legal privilege’ which protects conversations between lawyers and clients. In the words of Dean J in <em>Baker v Campbell </em>(1983) 153 CLR 52:</p> <p><em>“That general principle represents some protection of the citizen – particularly the weak, the unintelligent and the ill-informed citizen – against the leviathan of the modern state. Without it, there can be no assurance that those in need of independent legal advice to cope with the demands and intricacies of modern law will be able to obtain it without the risk of prejudice and damage by subsequent compulsory disclosure on the demand of any administrative officer with some general statutory authority to obtain information or seize documents.”</em></p> <p>Legal professional privilege protects against the disclosure of communications between client and lawyer made for the dominant purpose of seeking or providing legal advice or for use in anticipated legal proceedings.</p> <p>This means your lawyer is generally prohibited from disclosing communications made for the purpose of your cases, subject to the exceptions outlined below.</p> <p>Privilege applies to both verbal and written communications between a lawyer and his or her client; whether in person, over the phone, by mail or over the internet – so it’s a broad protection which seeks to facilitate free communication between the parties.</p> <p><strong>Exceptions to client legal privilege</strong></p> <p>There are, however, a number of exceptions to client legal privilege that you need to be aware of.</p> <p>In NSW, sections 121 to 126 of the Evidence Act provide a number of situations where client legal privilege does not apply to the admissibility of evidence, which are:</p> <p><a href="http://www5.austlii.edu.au/au/legis/nsw/consol_act/ea199580/s121.html">121</a> – Where the client has died or where disclosure is necessary to enforce a court order,</p> <p><a href="http://www8.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/ea199580/s122.html">122</a> – Where the client waives privilege, or consents to the lawyer disclosing information or producing materials, or where the client acts in a manner inconsistent with maintaining the privilege (eg discloses to others),</p> <p><a href="http://www8.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/ea199580/s123.html">123</a> – Where a defendant is giving evidence in criminal proceedings, unless it is a a confidential communication or document between an associated defendant and a lawyer acting for that person in connection with the prosecution of that person.</p> <p><a href="http://www8.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/ea199580/s124.html">124</a> – Where two or more clients have jointly retained a lawyer in civil proceeding and one or more of them wishes to disclose a confidential communication or contents of a confidential document,</p> <p><a href="http://www8.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/ea199580/s125.html">125</a> – Where a communication is made or document prepared in furtherance of a <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/criminal/offences/fraud-charges/">fraud</a>, an offence or an act which would render a party liable for a civil penalty, and</p> <p><a href="http://www8.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/ea199580/s126.html">126</a> – Certain information necessary to understand material to which privilege does not apply as a result of the preceding sections.</p> <p>What if I’m actually guilty but want to plead not-guilty?</p> <p>There are some circumstances where being too frank with your lawyer may limit how they can advocate for you inside the courtroom.</p> <p>And it should be said that if you are indeed guilty, pleading that way will entitle you to <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/blog/what-is-a-guilty-plea-discount/">a guilty plea discount</a> – which could result in a less serious type of penalty than if your were to plead not guilty and be found guilty. For example, an early plea of guilty could result in a penalty such as an <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/criminal/penalties/nsw/intensive-correction-orders/">intensive correction order</a> or <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/criminal/penalties/nsw/community-correction-order/">community correction order</a> instead of a prison sentence.</p> <p>However, an experienced criminal defence lawyer will be able to ask you questions in a way that reduces the risk of future prejudice.</p> <p>If you do admit to the offence, but wish to plead not-guilty to it – your lawyer will be limited in how he or she can present your case in court.</p> <p>This is because all lawyers are required to abide by professional ethics and conduct rules which can limit the questions that can be asked in certain situations, and the way cases can be argued.</p> <p>The rules <u>do not</u> prohibit lawyers from representing clients who admit their guilt to their lawyer; however, lawyers are strictly prohibited from lying or knowingly misleading the court on behalf of their clients.</p> <p>A lawyer who knows their client is guilty can still ‘put the prosecution to proof’; which means they can ask questions of prosecution witnesses and make submissions to the court to the effect that the prosecution has failed to prove each of the ‘essential elements’ (or ingredients) of the charge case beyond a reasonable doubt, and that their client should therefore be acquitted.</p> <p>But again, the lawyer will not be able to elicit false or misleading evidence, or make false or misleading submissions to the court.</p> <p>For example, a lawyer to whom you admit your guilt can assist by questioning and challenging prosecution witnesses. But he or she cannot allow you or another person to tell lies on the witness stand. If this nevertheless occurs, the lawyer would be well advised to submit to the court that he or she is ‘embarrassed’ and withdraw from the case.</p> <p>Often honesty is preferable, as you may be guilty of a lesser offence than the one you have been charged with, in which case your lawyer can push for the charge to be downgraded, or tailor your defence to ensure you are found not guilty of the charged offence in court.</p> <p>So it’s a bit of a tricky area, but experienced defence lawyers are well-aware of the rules, the pitfalls and how to act in the best interests of their clients whilst abiding by their other ethical obligations.</p> <p><strong>Changing</strong> <strong>lawyers</strong></p> <p>If you don’t feel your lawyer can adequately represent you – whether this is because you have told them something you shouldn’t have, or you believe they are not suitably experienced, or for another reason – it may be in your interest to obtain new legal representation.</p> <p>Changing lawyers is a simple process, and when making that decision you should always bear in mind that choosing the right lawyer may be one of the most important decisions you ever make, and that you should always be looking out for your own best interests.</p> <p>If you want to change lawyers, you will normally need to sign an ‘authority to uplift’. Your new lawyer will be able to provide you with this document, and can send it to your previous lawyer on your behalf in order to obtain the materials they have.</p> <p>If you have unpaid fees with your previous lawyer, it is advisable that you pay these to enable a smooth transfer and ensure your previous lawyer doesn’t seek to exercise a ‘lien’ over your materials – which means to refuse to forward your materials on to your new lawyer.</p> <p><strong>Going to Court?</strong></p> <p>If you are going to court and require expert advice <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/about/lawyers/">from experienced, specialist criminal defence lawyers</a>, call Sydney Criminal Lawyers anytime on (02) 9261 8881 to arrange a free first conference.</p> <p><em>Written by Jarryd Bartle. Republished with permission of </em><a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/blog/should-i-tell-my-lawyer-the-truth-the-whole-truth-and-nothing-but-the-truth/"><em>Sydney Criminal Lawyers.</em></a></p>

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“Dangerous nuisance animal”: Man accused of ripping kookaburra's head off named and shamed

<p>The lawyer for a Perth man who is alleged to have ripped the head off beloved Kevin the Kookaburra has called the bird a “dangerous nuisance animal” that should have been dealt with by the Parkerville Tavern much earlier.</p> <p>The Parkerville Tavern is where the man is alleged to have grabbed the local favourite known as Kevin, ripped his head off and thrown the bird under the table.</p> <p>Ross Williamson said that his client Daniel Welfare had left the country after a barrage of death threats and attacks over last week’s killing via social media.</p> <p>However, Williamson would not confirm whether or not his client was guilty of being responsible for the death of Kevin.</p> <p>He has also issued restraining orders to two women who he has accused of issuing an “online vigilante campaign” against his client.</p> <p>However, the women said that they will not stop until Welfare is brought to justice.</p> <p>Tania Scheulin, witness to the incident, has been outspoken about this.</p> <p>“I will never stop until the person that did this has some repercussions for it, charged by police or gets a fine.”</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"> <p dir="ltr">There's a new development in the case of a kookaburra that had its head ripped off at a Hills pub. <a href="https://twitter.com/kamingock?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@KaminGock</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/9News?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#9News</a> <a href="https://t.co/TQe8N6qICt">pic.twitter.com/TQe8N6qICt</a></p> — Nine News Perth (@9NewsPerth) <a href="https://twitter.com/9NewsPerth/status/1189124300785123329?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">October 29, 2019</a></blockquote> <p>However, Williamson has said that he has previous information relating to Kevin’s behaviour at the Tavern and that kookaburras are an invasive species in WA.</p> <p>"The kookaburra is an invasive species in WA," he said to<span> </span><em><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.9news.com.au/national/perth-kevin-the-kookaburra-beheaded-man-leaves-australia-death-threats-crime-news-wa-australia/e3c92ab2-5af5-4df1-bca7-c5b5f9089de2" target="_blank">9News</a></em>.</p> <p>"Until recently you could shoot them with impunity and people used to do that and get a community service award for doing that sort of thing.</p> <p>"This particular bird I have reports about. It has attacked children. It's injured the faces of children... this bird is - or was - a dangerous nuisance animal and the Parkerville Tavern should have done something to deal with it."</p> <p>He has also criticised the state government’s role in the case.</p> <p>"I noticed the Police Commissioner, with the Police Minister at his side, called a press conference saying they are going to prosecute my client over the demise of a pest - a harmful, nuisance bird," he said.</p> <p>"I hear nothing about the police investigating and prosecuting people for making threats to harm, kill and rape my clients.</p> <p>"I call on the police to do that - to investigate this criminal vigilante."</p>

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Best marriage tips from divorce lawyers

<p>When you want to know what can make a marriage last, turning to a divorce lawyer might seem like a strange decision – but as witness to the institution’s failures, they are the people who understand why relationships end and what factors could be at play.</p> <p>Here are some of the best advice on wedded life from attorneys across the world.</p> <p><strong>Voice your concerns the right way</strong></p> <p>Divorce trial lawyer James Sexton said relationship killers are usually not the big, dramatic problems such as cheating, but the small issues that add up throughout. “It’s always those tiny discourtesies – that annoyed look on your face, that time you ignored your partner when they needed you, all those times you couldn’t bother to give that person your full attention,” he told <span><a href="https://www.vox.com/2018/12/3/18075794/marriage-divorce-happiness-relationships-james-sexton"><em>Vox</em></a></span>. “These are the small things that become big things over time.”</p> <p>To address this, Sexton advised against bottling things up. Instead, call out what bothers you in the moment to avoid building up resentments.</p> <p>Stay respectful when airing your grievances. Family lawyer Franco Pomare said one of the most common complaints he saw in his 30 years of practice was “I can’t talk to my partner as all they do is yell and scream and then we don’t talk for days”.</p> <p>“There is no communication in yelling, screaming, name calling or the silent treatment,” said Pomare.</p> <p>“Sure, you will win the odd agreement by such behavior – but in the long run, you will lose out when your partner finally says enough is enough and just walks out.”</p> <p><strong>Secure your own oxygen mask first</strong></p> <p>When life gets hectic and your marriage is in turbulence, it can be hard to maintain a clear perspective due to stress and frustration. “Those emotions can lead to <span><a href="https://www.huffingtonpost.com.au/entry/unconventional-pieces-of-marriage-advice-from-divorce-lawyers_n_5b23efdce4b0f9178a9cc22a">dysfunctional behaviors</a></span> that have a negative impact on your marriage,” said attorney Christopher S Hildebrand.</p> <p>According to attorney Vikki Ziegler, this is when you should start taking care of yourself. Dedicate some time just for yourself outside of work, relationship and family. Allow yourself to do the things you’ve always wanted to do, be it going to the salon, trying a class or going on a hike.</p> <p>“Don't forget that you are a person outside of this relationship with unique needs and desires that need to be fulfilled in order to keep you happy,” Ziegler wrote on <span><a href="https://www.popsugar.com.au/love/Marriage-Advice-From-Divorce-Attorney-45180358"><em>PopSugar</em></a></span>. “Don't make anyone else responsible for your individual happiness.”</p> <p><strong>Talk about the money</strong></p> <p>Discussing finances can be quite uncomfortable, and it is common to have one person end up making decisions and managing the money for both parties. However, this imbalance can turn relationships sour, according to family law specialist Sarah Bevan.</p> <p>“As family lawyers, one of the most common complaints we hear from our clients who are separating is that the other person is secretive or controlling about the couple’s finances,” Bevan told <em>Over 60</em>. “That person may not intend to be secretive or controlling, but it is very common for the other to feel out of the loop, and that their opinion or input is not valued.”</p> <p>Bevan warned those who are making the financial decisions in their relationships to still keep their partner in the know and run any proposed plans by them, even if they do not actively involve themselves in the day to day management.</p> <p>Do you have any tips on how to make a marriage last? Let us know in the comments below.</p>

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Divorce lawyers share the most shocking things couples hid from each other

<p>You never know quite what’s going on in the lives of those around you, do you? Often when we hear of a friend or acquaintance getting divorced, the first response is, “why?” Chances are, you’ll get the generic “irreconcilable differences” excuse, but when you delve deeper, who knows what you could find.</p> <p>Well, wonder no more. <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/5z0l6k/divorce_lawyers_of_reddit_whats_the_best_kept/?sort=top&amp;limit=500&amp;st=j1fs0jrn&amp;sh=75fcc59c" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">A recent “Ask Reddit” thread</span></strong></a> has offered us nosy people a look into some of the most bizarre things couples have kept from each other from the lawyers closest to the cases, and some of the revelations are utterly unbelievable.</p> <p><strong>1. A whole lot of property</strong></p> <p>“The husband in a very high stakes divorce managed to hide two apartment complexes, an ocean-front penthouse in a very expensive city, and an offshore oil rig that were held in two offshore companies that the wife did not know about. It only came out very recently, about two decades later when husband died and left some of that property to their two sons (who were able to see the property histories).” – <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/andyjams" target="_blank">andyjams</a></span></strong></p> <p><strong>2. Lottery winnings</strong></p> <p>“Not a lawyer, but my husband's uncle (they're close to the same age) was going through a divorce. His wife had just packed up her stuff and their kids and moved out one day while he was at work. Come to find out, a few weeks before she left, she'd won a $5000 a week for life lottery ticket. And thought she could divorce him without splitting her winnings. That didn't work out very well for her.” – <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/jader88" target="_blank">jader88</a></span></strong></p> <p><strong>3. A massive fortune</strong></p> <p>“In Australia, a divorcing husband hid $10+ million by making an over payment to the tax office, auditors thought it was a tax payment but six months later it was refunded with base interest rate. Since then auditors have caught on to this.” – <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Syidd" target="_blank">Syidd</a></span></strong></p> <p><strong>4. No marriage to begin with</strong></p> <p>“Guy doesn't want to break up with his girlfriend, she keeps nagging him about marriage but he doesn't want to marry her. So he tells her they'll have a 'destination wedding' on a tropical island with a local ceremony and it will be very romantic. And they do. Except he just hired some resort staff to pretend to officiate a marriage ceremony and no marriage contract was ever drawn up. Guy dies years later, 'wife' finds out she was never married and is not in the will.” – <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Mtlguy" target="_blank">Mtlguy</a></strong></span></p> <p><strong>5. Two other families</strong></p> <p>“East coast husband had a listed income of $1.5 million. Cheated on wife 10 times. Almost at the end of the divorce process it was learned that husband had another family in Seattle, a different name and another $14 million salary in tech. His vested stock options under the second identity were worth $214 million. How was he discovered living the double life? Seattle wife posted a picture on Facebook and tagged him with his west coast name. East coast wife similarly posted a photograph of him – the facial recognition assigned him a possible name – his west coast name. The two wives got in touch. But wait, there's more! He has a wife and family in the Czech Republic and moved there to avoid family court – and is currently being pursued for extradition.” – <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.reddit.com/user/Cold_Zero_" target="_blank">Cold_Zero</a></strong></span></p> <p>Wow. The lengths people will go to just to hold onto their fortune! Tell us in the comments below, what’s most bizarre divorce story you’ve ever heard?</p>

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6 surprising relationship tips from divorce lawyers

<p>It may seem a strange idea, taking marriage advice from someone who specialises in divorce but there is merit in the idea. Divorce lawyers have seen the ways a marriage can disintegrate, often at very close range and as such, can pinpoint exactly where things started to unravel. It’s this insight that helps them to advise how to avoid the pitfalls for a long term, happy marriage.</p> <ol> <li><strong>Understand that marriage is a work in progress</strong> – While having the “perfect” marriage may seem like an admirable goal, it’s not a realistic one. Marriage is constantly evolving and will experience the ebbs and flows inherent with life. Committing to working on your marriage and keeping it a priority is key.</li> <li><strong>Go to therapy, at least once</strong> – Think about marriage counselling as a gym session for your relationship. It’s all about strengthening what’s already there, working on skills like communications and problem solving and opening a space to openly and honestly discuss your relationship without the exterior chatter that often accompanies relationship chat.</li> <li><strong>Set boundaries</strong> – Whether its friends or family, having boundaries in place prevents problems from occurring down the track. Your family unit should always come first, no matter how hard that can sometimes be to achieve.</li> <li><strong>Stop saying “always” and “never”</strong> – Speaking in definitive terms like “always” and “never” often create the most arguments. By taking these loaded terms out of action, you lower the risk of discussions morphing into heated arguments.</li> <li><strong>Pretend your spouse is included in your texts</strong> – Before sending a text or an email, think about how your spouse would feel if they could see/hear your message. Venting frustration and anger with a friend or family member can be immediately soothing but in the long term it can just fuel the fire of frustration and anger.</li> <li><strong>Commit to time out together as a twosome</strong> – We all have commitments to juggle but taking time out together offers a much needed opportunity to reconnect and release stress. Getting away from “everyday life” helps you to switch off and fully focus on each other’s company, something that can sometimes be a rare occurrence with today’s busy and often stressful lifestyles.</li> </ol> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="/lifestyle/relationships/2016/06/the-best-way-to-apologise-according-to-science/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>The best way to apologise, according to science</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/lifestyle/relationships/2016/05/why-always-being-right-is-ruining-your-relationship/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Always being right is ruining your relationship</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/lifestyle/relationships/2016/05/marriage-secrets-from-relationship-experts/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>6 marriage secrets relationship experts want you to know</strong></em></span></a></p>

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8 favourite lawyers from literature

<p>Literature has produced a number of memorable lawyers over the years. We’ve put together a gallery containing eight of our favourite lawyers from fiction.</p> <p>To view all these iconic lawyers, scroll through the gallery above.</p> <p><strong>Dr Gonzo – Fear &amp; Loathing in Las Vegas</strong></p> <p>Hunter S. Thompson famously blurs the line between fact and fiction in this book, with Dr Gonzo understood to be a reference to real life attorney Oscar Zeta Acosta.</p> <p><strong>Sydney Carton – A Tale of Two Cities</strong></p> <p>This Charles Dickens classic features Sydney Carton, an alcoholic lawyer with disdain for everyone around him except for his unrequited love for Lucy Manette.</p> <p><strong>Paul Biegler – Anatomy of a Murder</strong></p> <p>In this thriller by Robert Traver, Paul Biegler is the underdog, humble country lawyer who is up against a big-city prosecutor in what seems an unwinnable case.</p> <p><strong>Jake Brigance – A Time to Kill</strong></p> <p>John Grisham generally has the literary community divided, but his history as a successful lawyer has let him to create compelling characters like Jake Brigance.</p> <p><strong>Guillaumin – Madame Bovary</strong></p> <p>An opportunistic antagonist in Gustave Flaubert’s classic novel, Guillaumin takes advantage of Emma Bovary when she comes to him seeking financial advice.</p> <p><strong>John Milton – The Devil’s Advocate</strong></p> <p>As far as evil bosses go they don’t come much better than John Milton in Andrew Neiderman’s novel, who’s quite a bit more evil that anyone would think!</p> <p><strong>Portia – The Merchant of Venice</strong></p> <p>While she’s technically not a lawyer, Portia manages to pull of the legal move of the century while in court in Venice with Shylock demanding a pound of flesh.</p> <p><strong>Atticus Finch – To Kill a Mockingbird</strong></p> <p>And who could forget Atticus Finch? The main protagonist in Harper Lee’s classic To Kill a Mockingbird, Atticus is a noble, principled protagonist.</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/finance/legal/2016/02/alternatives-to-legal-action/">4 alternatives to legal action</a></span></em></strong></p> <p><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/finance/legal/2016/01/10-celebrities-who-cut-their-kids-out-of-inheritances/">10 celebrities who cut their kids out of massive inheritances to give to charity</a></span></em></strong></p> <p><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/finance/legal/2016/02/10-of-our-favourite-law-based-tv-shows/">10 of our favourite law-based TV shows</a></span></em></strong></p>

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