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"Did you forget?": Nicole Kidman hounded by angry fans

<p>Nicole Kidman, the famous Aussie star with a Hollywood career spanning four decades, has found herself embroiled in controversy after she proudly announced her collaboration with fashion house Balenciaga.</p> <p>The announcement, made via Instagram, featured Kidman showcasing the brand's latest designs during their Fall 2024 show in Los Angeles. However, the excitement from Kidman was met with a swift and vehement response from fans who couldn't overlook the brand's troubling past.</p> <p>Balenciaga had <a href="https://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/beauty-style/why-people-are-calling-for-nicole-kidman-to-be-cancelled" target="_blank" rel="noopener">previously come under fire</a> for a controversial photoshoot that sparked widespread criticism and accusations of "paedophilia" and "child exploitation". The offending campaign featured children clad in bondage harnesses and costumes, causing an immediate uproar online. The hashtag #cancelBalenciaga trended across social media platforms at the time, putting immense pressure on the fashion brand to issue an apology.</p> <p>Despite the global backlash last year, Kidman's recent association with Balenciaga has reignited the flames of discontent. Fans flooded the comments section of her Instagram post with expressions of disappointment and frustration. One user implored Kidman, stating, "Seriously? Come on Nic. You're better than this. UGH." Another echoed the sentiment, saying, "No. You too. Did you forget? This designer has been cancelled. They promote ads the public didn't want. It was wrong."</p> <p>The criticism did not stop there, with another fan expressing their disappointment: "Well, that's disappointing, but not surprising, really." Another comment labelled Kidman's decision as "disgusting", highlighting the continued disapproval of Balenciaga's controversial past.</p> <p>This incident raises questions about celebrities' responsibilities when endorsing brands and the impact of their choices on public opinion. Kidman, who has previously shared her approach to online criticism, has made it clear that her preference is to avoid such feedback to maintain creative freedom.</p> <p>In a recent interview, she revealed, "Don't tell me, I don't really want to know – it will stop me doing what I want to do." Kidman acknowledged the existence of hurtful comments but emphasised her commitment to staying true to her choices.</p> <p>While Kidman's determination to navigate her career with a focus on personal choices and creative freedom is understandable, her association with a brand that has faced severe backlash for controversial practices inevitably places her in the centre of a heated public debate. </p> <p>As the controversy unfolds, it remains to be seen how Kidman will address the mounting criticism and whether this incident will prompt a response from Balenciaga.</p> <p><em>Images: Instagram</em></p>

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"Makes us feel sick": Angry vegan slams meat-eating neighbours

<p>A letter from a vegan neighbour has gone viral, as they asked a close-by resident to close their windows while they cook meat. </p> <p>The hand-written note was published on a community Facebook page for the Perth northern coastal suburb of Burns Beach, and was labelled as an "Important message" for the recipient to "Please take seriously".</p> <p>The note began, "Hello, neighbour."</p> <p>"Could you please shut your side window when cooking, please?"</p> <p>"My family are vegan (we eat only plant-based food), and the smell of the meat you cook makes us feel sick and upset."</p> <p>"We would appreciate your understanding."</p> <p>The letter went viral not long after it was posted, and drew in a range of divided comments. </p> <p>Some people believed the request was a ridiculous ask, with many people wondering where they draw the line when it comes to catering for others. </p> <p>"I'd understand if they were smoking cigarettes and the smoke and smell was spreading and affecting the family's health," one person wrote.</p> <p>"But not liking the smell of meat, this isn't really a good reason to ask someone to close their windows."</p> <p>"What does she do when she takes the kids to the park, and people are cooking BBQs? Ask them to stop cooking. Audacity."</p> <p>Others thought the request was reasonable, and praised the writer's politeness. </p> <p>"I feel like this was a genuinely polite letter, and it’s true the smell of meat is overpowering," one person wrote.</p> <p>"It would be nice to see some respect for your neighbours, and not publicly trying to shame them for holding strong ethical morals."</p> <p>Another put it simply, "Be vegan. Eat meat. Each to their own!"</p> <p>One commenter suggested the recipient resort to good old neighbourly pettiness, encouraging them to "Write back and say you're offended and sad by what they said about your cooking and could they please move to a different room as you would appreciate their understanding."</p> <p><em>Image credits: Facebook</em></p>

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(H)anger is real: your bad mood and empty stomach are linked

<div class="copy"> <p>Grumpy? Long time between meals? Well now you can cheer up, thanks to a new study validating the link between your cranky mood and grumbly belly – your ‘hanger’ is real.</p> <p>Psychologists studying a group of primarily Austrian, German and Swiss adults have found an association between self-reported hunger, and heightened levels of anger and irritability.</p> <p>Helping people understand their own emotional responses to feelings of hunger could help them better regulate their behaviour, says Anglia Ruskin University professor in social psychology Viren Swami.</p> <p>“Research suggests that being able to label an emotion can help people to regulate it,” says Swami, who was the lead author of the study <a href="https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0269629" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">published</a> in <em>Plos One</em>. “Therefore, greater awareness of being ‘hangry’ could reduce the likelihood that hunger results in negative emotions and behaviours in individuals.”</p> <p>The three-week study monitored 64 participants who submitted five daily reports to researchers via a smartphone app.</p> <p>In each report, participants used a 0–100 scale to evaluate how hungry, irritable and angry they felt.</p> <p>Even when accounting for demographic differences between participants, there was an association between hunger and heightened levels of irritability, anger and reduced feelings of pleasure.</p> <p>It’s the first time the phenomenon has been investigated outside of a laboratory environment and adds to an existing body of research showing that declines in blood glucose levels influences negative emotions.</p> <p>“This ‘hangry’ effect hasn’t been analysed in detail, so we chose a field-based approach where participants were invited to respond to prompts,” explains study co-author Stefan Stieger, professor of psychology at Karl Landsteiner University.</p> <p>“[It gives] a much more complete picture of how people experience the emotional outcomes of hunger in their everyday lives.”</p> <p>The researchers didn’t offer conclusions as to how to mitigate hunger-induced feelings. Reaching for a banana next time you feel cross is probably a safe bet.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> <p><em><img id="cosmos-post-tracker" style="opacity: 0; height: 1px!important; width: 1px!important; border: 0!important; position: absolute!important; z-index: -1!important;" src="https://syndication.cosmosmagazine.com/?id=197455&amp;title=%28H%29anger+is+real%3A+your+bad+mood+and+empty+stomach+are+linked" width="1" height="1" /></em></div> <div id="contributors"> <p><em>This article was originally published on <a href="https://cosmosmagazine.com/health/body-and-mind/hanger-is-real/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">cosmosmagazine.com</a> and was written by Matthew Agius. </em></p> </div>

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Bitter groom sells ex-fiancée’s dress in angry post

<p dir="ltr">A bitter groom selling his ex-fiancée’s wedding dress has been called out for his nastiness in the ad in which he claims she cheated on him.</p> <p dir="ltr">Photos of the wedding dress were shared to Facebook Marketplace for just £5 ($A9) in which he then claimed he had a lucky escape. </p> <p dir="ltr">He labelled the dress size as “size fat” before giving viewers an idea of why the wedding was called off.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Wedding dress – would fit the larger lady, quite chavvy in style so would suit a cheap sl**per,” he wrote.</p> <p dir="ltr">“It’s a size 12 I think – she was prone to lying so it’s possibly a 14/16.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Within the post, he accused his ex of cheating on him and he just wanted to get rid of the dress.</p> <p dir="ltr">Viewers however sided with the bride, claiming she was the one who had a lucky escape from his disgusting comments.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Somehow I think it’s she who had the lucky escape,” one wrote.</p> <p dir="ltr">“This says more about him than it does her,” someone said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I think it's a beautiful dress. She's probably the lucky one to get out of the relationship,” another commented.</p> <p dir="ltr">There were a few people who sided with the groom who said he was probably venting after getting hurt.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Everyone thinking she had a lucky escape when it sounds like he was cheated on. Who hasn’t said crap about an ex,” one wrote.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Maybe she broke his heart and he’s venting?” asked another.</p> <p dir="ltr">“All the ‘she’s had a lucky escape’ comments but if it was a girl trashing a guy’s car they’d all be hyping her up! Double standards,” another added.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Images: TikTok</em></p>

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"I'm so angry": Man fumes after threatened with fine for sleeping in his van

<p dir="ltr">A Queensland man has taken to social media to share his fury at the local council after he was issued a move-on directive while sleeping in his van.</p><p dir="ltr">Mark Pemberton shared his story on the Facebook page Van Life Australia, recounting how council workers shone a torch into the window of his van which was parked on a suburban street.</p><p dir="ltr">“I’m so angry,” he wrote.</p><p dir="ltr">“Last night (Tuesday) I parked in a very quiet spot at around 8pm. (Gold Coast) 10.50pm, council came around and knock (sic) on the door.</p><p dir="ltr">“They were very nice, but told me it was a $680 fine for sleeping in the street in a van and I had to move.”</p><p dir="ltr">He then questioned why he had been approached while countless other people who were sleeping rough in Surfers Paradise were left alone by Gold Coast Council workers.</p><p><span id="docs-internal-guid-f1a56598-7fff-40d2-045f-87002713a08f"></span></p><p dir="ltr">“Now the thing is, I live in a unit in Surfers Paradise. I was in the van for various reasons,” he continued.</p><p dir="ltr"><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2022/02/53992333-10492397-His_Facebook_post_on_the_page_Van_Life_generated_plenty_of_discu-m-1_1644461096527.jpg" alt="" width="634" height="476" /></p><p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Daily Mail Australia</em></p><p dir="ltr">“I see the homeless drunk, swearing, begging and sleeping in the street on a daily basis in the middle of Surfers.</p><p dir="ltr">“I also see a guy who I won’t name, but is semi-famous and walks around in a bikini, sleeps in the street cuddling a teddy.”</p><p dir="ltr">Mr Pemberton questioned why the council thought it was acceptable to let that individual walk around in public in front of kids, when he wasn’t allowed to sleep “down a dark street in a registered vehicle”.</p><p dir="ltr">“This is ridiculous. This is not about an individual, this is about the stupidity of the Council,” he concluded.</p><p dir="ltr">Though his post generated plenty of discussion, it has since been deleted by page administrators.</p><p dir="ltr">The former business executive who once earned a $200,000 salary is now unemployed, with the pandemic and other personal circumstances seeing him “lose everything”.</p><p dir="ltr">“My van is registered and roadworthy and was also legally parked on a street in Paradise Point,” he told <em><a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10492397/How-fined-sleeping-car-Australia.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Daily Mail Australia</a></em>.</p><p dir="ltr">He recalled being almost asleep when two council workers shone a torch into his van.<br />“I explained my situation and I will say they were sympathetic, but I was told I had to move on elsewhere,” he told the publication.</p><p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-db484a14-7fff-7861-ba0b-4bff38319252"></span></p><p dir="ltr">“I understand they are doing their job, but surely the council could focus on other issues at hand?”</p><p dir="ltr"><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2022/02/217397376_1146034059251748_5444362758567874310_n.jpg" alt="" width="652" height="960" /></p><p dir="ltr"><em>Mark Pemberton was inspired to take up living the van life after his travels through Europe. Image: Herc the Merc (Facebook)</em></p><p dir="ltr">Mr Pemberton said the council should focus on addressing issues such as “homelessness and mental health”, rather than “people minding their own business in a registered van”.</p><p dir="ltr">Having lived out of a van during his previous travels through Europe, Mr Pemberton is convinced it is the lifestyle for him.</p><p dir="ltr">“After my personal dramas, van life was great for mental health,” he said.</p><p dir="ltr">“I understand it isn’t for everyone, but in my eyes it is a great opportunity to see the world differently.”</p><p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-d2975602-7fff-9d1a-883f-ac905eb8c719"></span></p><p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Mark J Pemberton (Facebook)</em></p>

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“No right to be here”: Angry tennis stars pile on as Novak issues new statement

<p dir="ltr">Novak Djokovic continues to face harsh criticism from commentators, fans, and fellow tennis players as more details about his behaviour in the lead-up to his arrival in Australia emerge.</p> <p dir="ltr">The Serbian tennis star posted a statement on Instagram on Wednesday afternoon, in which he clarifies when he tested positive for COVID-19, and admits that he attended an in-person interview and photoshoot on December 18 while knowingly positive for the virus. He explained that he did this as he “didn’t want to let the journalist down”, but he made sure he “socially distanced and wore a mask” except for when his photo was being taken. He added that upon reflection, he realises this was an error of judgement.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CYnO7cDqbdj/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CYnO7cDqbdj/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Novak Djokovic (@djokernole)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p dir="ltr">He also explained that his travel declaration was submitted by his team on his behalf, and his agent has sincerely apologised for the administrative error in ticking the box about his previous travel before arriving in Australia that saw him detained last week.</p> <p dir="ltr">Meanwhile, his fellow tennis players have voiced concerns about his actions, with former world number 1 Andy Murray suggesting there are “a few questions to be answered” and urging Djokovic to come clean. Murray had just won his first match in Australia in three years when he was asked about Djokovic, and he told reporters, “I mean, obviously, it‘s positive that he’s not in detention anymore. Obviously, he won in court, so that‘s a positive thing for him. Hopefully, (he) will be able to concentrate on the tennis now.</p> <p dir="ltr">“There are still a few questions that need to be answered around the isolation and stuff, which I‘m sure we’ll hear from him in the next few days, but I’m obviously here to try and play and win tournaments.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Like I said, it’s the first match that I have played here or won here in over three years, and this is where the situations like this are frustrating for players because I want to come off and talk about my tennis and what’s happening there, not talking about situations like that. So I‘m hoping that we can move on from it now.</p> <p dir="ltr">“He won in court, which is good. Looks like he’s going to be able to play and compete in the Australian Open, which we do want the best players there, but like I said, I think there is still a few questions to be answered. Until that happens, tough to give a definitive opinion on everything. But like I said, positive that he‘s out and practising.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Portuguese player Joao Sousa was critical of Djokovic’s attempt to skirt the rules. He told reporters, “I respect that he fights for what he believes and I can be empathetic with what he is going through in Australia, but it’s a bit selfish from him to arrive here as the only player unvaccinated. It’s tough for us players to accept that.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Many players — not my case — didn’t want to get vaccinated and were forced to do it to be able to play tournaments. He is finding a way around those rules.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Marton Fucsovics also criticised Djokovic, saying, “People’s health is paramount, and there are rules that were outlined months ago, namely that everyone should vaccinate themselves — and Djokovic didn’t. From this point of view, I don’t think he would have the right to be here.”</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Michael Dodge/Getty Images</em></p>

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John Mayer responds to hate comments from angry Taylor Swift fans

<p>As pop music icon Taylor Swift re-records a selection of her hit albums, her exes, who are often the subject of her music, are copping a lot of hate online.</p> <p>Recently, Taylor opened up about her relationship with Jake Gyllenhaal (the pair had a fleeting romance in 2010) in her re-release of her album <em>Red</em>.</p> <p>Following the album's second life in the public eye, Jake Gyllenhaal has seen a flood of hate message from dedicated Taylor fans, asking how he could possibly break her heart so much to warrant such devastating songs.</p> <p>As Jake has chosen not to respond to haters, another one of Taylor Swift's exes John Mayer, has not stayed as quiet.</p> <p>As Taylor's next album to be re-recorded will be the <em>Speak Now</em> album, which famously centres arounds their 2009 romance, dedicated Swifties have turned their attention to John.</p> <p>One fan decided to call John out in a private message on Instagram, saying, "<span>F–-k yourself you ugly b---h I hope you choke on something …  Answer me you b---h."</span></p> <p><span>Thinking the Grammy award-winning artist would never see the threats, the user was shocked when she got a message back saying, "Hi Alondra, it's John."</span></p> <p><span><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7845690/john-insta.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/d69423daf0f6433aa7b8793399fd3f7a" /></span></p> <p><em>Image credits: Instagram</em></p> <p><span>John responded to the startled fan saying, "I've been getting so many messages like these the past couple days," Mayer wrote back. "I'm not upset, I just tend to have a curious mind and feel compelled to ask. Do you really hope that I die?"</span></p> <p><span>Taken aback by the message from Mayer, the fan in question replied with a voice message to John, saying, "My friend literally dared me to do that. She's a Taylor fan and like so am I. It was a dare. I'm sorry. I did not expect you to see."</span></p> <p><span>The singer graciously accepted the apology, but was perplexed as to why people would be sending such threatening messages about a fleeting romance from 2009 that is mentioned in a re-recorded album that hasn't even been </span>released yet.</p> <p>The fan responded, "Yeah, I guess nobody really thought you would see it or answer since you are famous and don't interact with random people. Again, very sorry!!"</p> <p>John praised the revelation, saying "There was some healing here today!"</p> <p>The fan got in one last warning to the singer, as she said, "Just a warning that people are probably going to be 1000x meaner when Speak Now (Taylor's Version) is released so take care of yourself."</p> <p>Taylor Swift has been <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.firstpost.com/entertainment/explained-why-taylor-swift-is-re-recording-her-studio-albums-and-what-it-says-about-copyright-battles-with-mega-music-labels-10138211.html" target="_blank">re-recording six albums</a> she created at the start of her career, when her previous record company would not give her the rights to her own music.</p> <p>John Mayer's response to the startled fan just goes to show that people need to be wary of what they say online, or run the risk of being publicly dragged by a Grammy award-winning musician with something to say.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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Trolls really are just angry souls

<p><span style="font-size: 14px;">Words don’t come easy. But anger does. Research suggests it’s not the anonymity of the internet that excites hostility. Instead, being obnoxious is usually already well and truly entrenched in an online troll.</span></p> <div class="copy"> <p>A <a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/american-political-science-review/article/abs/psychology-of-online-political-hostility-a-comprehensive-crossnational-test-of-the-mismatch-hypothesis/C721597EEB77CC8F494710ED631916E4" target="_blank">study</a> published last weekend by the journal <em>American Political Science Review</em> aimed to pin down differences in online and offline behaviour, based on surveys of more than 8000 US and Danish subjects.</p> <p>Common excuses for social-media and chat-room angst include a loss of empathy through the lack of body-language feedback, the minimal context conveyed by raw text, and reduced inhibitions through responding from a safe, familiar place.</p> <p>“There are many psychological reasons why we might have a harder time controlling our temper online,” says lead author Alexander Bor. “In the end, personality differences turn out to be a much stronger driver of online hostility.”</p> <p>Put simply, the study’s statistics suggest online trolls are already trolls long before they get behind a keyboard. They turn out to be just as hostile in face-to-face debates.</p> <p>And that has implications for troll slayers.</p> <p>“We cannot remove online hate through education because it is not born out of ignorance,” says the Danish postdoc student. “Hostile people know that their words hurt, and that is why they use them.”</p> <p>But Macquarie University Department of Indigenous Studies professor Bronwyn Carlson says online trolls aren’t that two dimensional, though personality does play a key role.</p> <p>“It is not as simple as some people are more aggressive or assertive and others are not,” she says.</p> <p>For example, racists can express their views through aggressive online trolling, but they also can “remain friendly while they continue making racist comments or ‘help’ us see the ‘great things’ Western civilisation has done for us”.</p> <p>“It is not always the case that they remain anonymous, either – some, and indeed many, are happy to have it known who they are, and they stand by their views.”</p> <p>Flinders University digital technology security and governance researcher Dr Zac Rogers says the study reinforces the danger posed by amplified trollish voices, and how such “useful idiots” can be exploited.</p> <p>“Anger drives responses,” he says. “That means more clicks. That means more revenue. Social media and search algorithms have long since discovered this and actively promote it.”</p> <p>Feeding trolls is big business. And angry trolls make useful political and marketing tools.</p> <p>Anger draws the attention of profit-seeking algorithms, Dr Rogers says. So the more intense a gathering of trolls, the further their voice – and message – gets propelled.</p> <p>“But we need to be wary of any suggestions social media is only holding a mirror up to society,” he says. “The internet serves as an automated filter and funnel. It is an amplification mechanism that is highly distorting of the thing it reflects.”</p> <p>Bor agrees. “To end online hate, we need to decrease the visibility and reach of those who are hateful. The alternative is that many people will be deterred from participating in online discussions. This is a democratic problem, given that social media play a larger and larger role in political processes.”</p> <!-- Start of tracking content syndication. Please do not remove this section as it allows us to keep track of republished articles --> <img id="cosmos-post-tracker" style="opacity: 0; height: 1px!important; width: 1px!important; border: 0!important; position: absolute!important; z-index: -1!important;" src="https://syndication.cosmosmagazine.com/?id=163543&amp;title=Trolls+really+are+just+angry+souls" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> <!-- End of tracking content syndication --></div> <div id="contributors"> <p><em><a rel="noopener" href="https://cosmosmagazine.com/people/trolls-really-are-just-angry-souls/" target="_blank">This article</a> was originally published on <a rel="noopener" href="https://cosmosmagazine.com" target="_blank">Cosmos Magazine</a> and was written by <a rel="noopener" href="https://cosmosmagazine.com/contributor/jamie-seidel" target="_blank">Jamie Seidel</a>. Jamie Seidel is a freelance journalist based in Adelaide.</em></p> <p><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p> </div>

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"Hurtful": Bride shares aunts furious wedding RSVP

<p>A bride has revealed the furious RSVP she received from her aunt after not inviting her partner of two years to the wedding.</p> <p>Taking to Reddit, the woman shared the "rude" response, explaining she had to cut down on her guest list due to the pandemic, but her aunt didn't take it well.</p> <p>"Most rude and hurtful," Aunt Edith scrawled across the invitation sent back in the mail.</p> <p>She added her partner's name 'Uncle Danny' and wrote a cross alongside 'Declines with regret'.</p> <p>Before adding: "Family shouldn't separate family. You shouldn't have sent one at all.</p> <p>The bride continued to explain that Uncle Dany wasn't very well-liked among the rest of the family and she had only met him a handful of times.</p> <p>Many agreed with the bride's right to invite who she wanted to, with one person telling the aunt to "harden up".</p> <p>"That‘s a quick way to quit being invited to family gatherings ever again," one person wrote.</p> <p>There were a few who thought the couple was actually rude for not inviting the partner, given they had been a couple for two years.</p> <p>"It's possible to think the couple was rude for not inviting a guest's long-term partner while also thinking the aunt's reaction was over the top," was one response.</p> <p>While others agree with that point, though stressed Covid changed the situation.</p> <p>"I think Covid makes a very big difference though. Without Covid, you should invite partners. With Covid, guests lists are very restricted," one person wrote.</p>

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Angry neighbour rants over chalk drawings

<p>A Melbourne resident tried to spread joy to her community by drawing on footpaths in chalk, but has since been labelled a "pretentious pr**k" by one of her neighbours.</p> <p>Fiona Cracknell set up Cracknell Chalk Drawings to showcase her chalk designs on Facebook.</p> <p>“I started drawing for my beautiful 3 year old daughter, had no idea it would impact my local neighbourhood while in lockdown this much,” Ms Cracknell wrote on the page.</p> <p>However, another resident took issue with the drawings and has since complained to council.</p> <p>“Someone has complained to the Council about my chalk drawing. Calling me a pretentious p**ck and that I am graffitiing,” Ms Cracknell wrote on the Facebook page on Thursday.</p> <p>“First of all I was doing to bringing joy to the community [sic], not cause drama and second, the Coucil loves it. For the first time in ages I have brought positive news to Gladstone Park.</p> <p>“I cannot believe this! I am really upset and angry. All I wanted was to make people smile at a time they needed it the most.”</p> <p><iframe src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/video.php?height=314&amp;href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2F9NewsMelbourne%2Fvideos%2F266144354828037%2F&amp;show_text=false&amp;width=560" width="560" height="314" style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" allow="encrypted-media" allowfullscreen="true"></iframe></p> <p>The letter was sent in anonymously and called the artwork "destructive graffiti".</p> <p>“I’ve copied the letter to the pretentious p**cks at that house in the hope they will see this letter as a warning and cease their crap,” the letter says.</p> <p>“They may also get it into their skulls that graffiti of council land is illegal. Placing the lives of locals at risk because of their desire to.”</p> <p>However, the council won't be doing anything, according to a statement from <em>7News.</em></p> <p>“Chalk messages and drawings on streets have been developed by children and adults alike during the COVID-19 pandemic, bringing hope and joy to Victorians during this difficult time,” the statement to Seven News said.</p> <p>“Council will not issue any fines for these drawings or ask for them to be removed.”</p>

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Explosive documentary on Princess Diana set to make William and Harry “very upset and angry”

<p>A new documentary focused on the life of Princess Diana is set to be released soon, but it’s assumed that Prince William and Prince Harry will not be watching, let alone have any involvement in the production.</p> <p>The four-episode<span> </span><em>Being Me: Diana</em><span> </span>is reportedly going to focus on the mental health struggles faced by the late Princess of Wales, her painful childhood and her broken marriage to Prince Charles.</p> <p><em>Being Me: Diana</em><span> </span>will reportedly use never-before-seen footage of Diana’s speeches in 1990-1992 in the final years of her marriage to Prince Charles along with interviews with people close to her.</p> <p>Endemol Shine, the parent company of production company DSP says that “everything” featured is “already in the public domain”.</p> <p>Speaking to<span> </span><em>The Sun</em>, a TV insider revealed that both the royal family and Diana’s Spencer family will refuse to take part in the tell-all documentary that has not yet been commissioned by Netflix.</p> <p>“William and Harry will be very upset and angry. It’s particularly distressing for Harry because he’s been working with Netflix,” said the insider, referring to Harry’s Thomas the Tank Engine special with the streaming giant.</p> <p>“At a time when the royals have been dealt a blow with Harry and Meghan leaving, the timing is not good.”</p> <p>Since their mother’s tragic passing, both her sons have been advocates of mental health.</p> <p>After chatting with Maddy Austin who was diagnosed with anorexia and revealed that Diana’s openness about her eating disorder helped her, Prince William said: “We need to be matter-of-fact about it, and not hide it in the dark where it festers.”</p> <p>The Duke of Cambridge added that he was “absolutely” proud of his mother for speaking out about her struggles with bulimia that Diana herself referred to as a “secret disease”.</p> <p>“There are illnesses. Mental health needs to be taken as seriously as physical health.”</p> <p>Although both the princes have taken part in documentaries relating to their mother in the past, both have also slammed the media – particularly tabloids – for the treatment their mother and respective wives have received.</p> <p>“I will not be bullied into playing a game that killed my mum,” said Harry before the lawsuit he and Duchess Meghan filed.</p> <p>“Everything that she went through and what happened to her is incredibly raw every single day, and that is not being me being paranoid.</p> <p>“That is just me not wanting a repeat of the past.”</p>

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“He was so angry”: Elton John stuns concertgoers with onstage rant

<p>Sir Elton John surprised fans with a foul-mouthed tirade at “moron” security guards during his concert in Perth on Sunday night.</p> <p>He was in Perth performing on his<span> </span>Farewell Yellow Brick Road Tour, but halfway through his three-hour concert, John spotted a woman being removed from the concert by security guards.</p> <p>He stopped the show and demanded the lady be returned to her seat.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en-gb"> <p dir="ltr">**Warning - Explicit**<br /><br />"You don't treat girls like that!" &lt;3 Elton<a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/EltonJohn?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#EltonJohn</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/Perth?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#Perth</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/perthnews?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#perthnews</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/nsfwtwitter?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#nsfwtwitter</a> <br />**Not my footage <a href="https://t.co/F9pHLHaRLj">pic.twitter.com/F9pHLHaRLj</a></p> — Nokternl (@Nokternl) <a href="https://twitter.com/Nokternl/status/1201194991315349505?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">1 December 2019</a></blockquote> <p>“Hey, you two security guards with the girl … F**k off,” Elton can be heard saying in a video doing the rounds on social media. “Let her up here immediately … come on, you c**ts.</p> <p>“Morons, both of you, morons. You don’t treat girls like that. Leave her alone you turds!”</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en-gb"> <p dir="ltr">Elton John just called out venue security guards live on stage for aggressively accosting a fan at his Perth show.<br /><br />“You don’t treat girls like that.”<br /><br />What a legend 💕 <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/EltonFarewellTour?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#EltonFarewellTour</a> <a href="https://t.co/wN387iGKoA">pic.twitter.com/wN387iGKoA</a></p> — Lucy Thomas 🌈 (@lucylockit_) <a href="https://twitter.com/lucylockit_/status/1201129110409334786?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">1 December 2019</a></blockquote> <p>It is currently unknown why the woman was being removed from the concert.</p> <p>Channel 9 presenter Louise Momber was in the crowd and spoke to the<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.smh.com.au/culture/music/elton-john-unleashes-c-bomb-at-security-at-perth-concert-20191202-p53fxk.html" target="_blank">Sydney Morning Herald</a><span> </span>that the singer apologised his outburst.</p> <p>“He was so angry,” Momber said. “He said he can’t stand violence against women and had to say something.</p> <p>“He sang the next song and then immediately apologised for his rant — but said it’s something he’s really passionate about.</p> <p>"It was certainly a side of Sir Elton I'd never seen before.</p> <p>"One of the biggest music stars in the world – and he took on Perth security guards."</p>

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Terrifying moment angry elephant charges at Aussie tourists during South African safari

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A jeep full of tourists got more than they bargained for as they’ve filmed the moment an adult elephant charged towards their car.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The footage posted to YouTube shows the vehicle reversing at high speed to escape the irritated animal that’s chasing the vehicle.</span></p> <div class="embed-responsive embed-responsive-16by9"><iframe class="embed-responsive-item" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/ksMwL-w45cw"></iframe></div> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The elephant appears to ram the front of the vehicle in the video and makes trumpeting noises while flapping its ears while chasing the vehicle.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Some of the passengers used their phones to film the ordeal, while the driver desperately tried to lose the elephant. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The driver is seen reversing at high speeds to outpace the elephant, who isn’t happy at all with the intruders.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">People were quick to comment on the nerve-wracking encounter.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Not even a full grown male. Wouldn’t have ended well with that happening,” someone said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Others were quick to point out the car full of people filming the event.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Getting attacked by an elephant? Get the Snapchat ready,” one person wrote.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Quick the elephant trying to kill us, grab [your] phone,” another added.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The average African elephant will grow between 2.5 to 4 metres from shoulder to toe and weigh between 2268kgs to 6350kgs, according to the </span><a href="https://www.nationalgeographic.com/animals/mammals/a/african-elephant/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">National Geographic</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"> They are known as the largest animals on Earth and are also known to defend their territory with the same gusto seen in the video.</span></p>

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So grown up! Nicole Kidman's daughters just landed major Hollywood roles

<p>They’re so much like their mother already! Nicole Kidman’s daughters with husband Keith Urban, Sunday, 11, and Faith, eight, have just landed their very own major movie roles for an upcoming film. </p> <p>Their very first role is one in a film likely to be seen by many excited children in September – <em>Angry Birds 2</em>.</p> <p>Sunday will be playing a bird called Lily, while her little sister Faith is voicing a bird named Beatrice.</p> <p>The young girls are sure to be knockouts considering their talented bloodline. It's not their first time in front of the camera either, after they joined their mother in playing extras on a TV series she was shooting in New York.</p> <p>Pictures of Kidman in her character for the HBO series <em>The Undoing</em> were captured of her on set, with her two young daughters standing alongside her.</p> <p>Both Sunday and Faith were wearing school uniforms in a street in Manhattan’s Upper West Side.</p> <p>It’s quite clear Nicole likes to keep her two youngest children by her side – and that includes in-between shoots or even when she is working.</p> <p>Nicole told <em>E! News</em> last year that her eldest daughter Sunday had gotten her own small role at school – hinting she might want to take after her talented mother.</p> <p>“My daughter just got cast in her school, so that's been the main priority, learning lines with her,” Kidman said.</p> <p>The Golden Globe winner has opened up in the past about her unconventional parenting methods – admitting she doesn’t let either of them have a phone.</p> <p>Next to that, neither of her girls are allowed to use social media, including Instagram.</p> <p>Even despite being “unpopular” in her daughter’s eyes, she still tries to “keep some sort of boundaries".</p> <p>Nicole told<span> </span><em>E! News</em><span> </span>last year that her eldest daughter Sunday had gotten her own small role at school – hinting she might want to take after her talented mother.</p> <p>“My daughter just got cast in her school, so that's been the main priority, learning lines with her,” Kidman said.</p> <p>Scroll through the gallery above to see Nicole and her two daughter's spending a day on set together in New York – and how much Sunday and Faith have grown!</p>

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"Please keep your hatred to yourselves": Pink hits back at 'parenting police' in angry online post

<p>Pink has defended her two children from backlash after she shared a photo of the pair at a Holocaust Memorial in Berlin.</p> <p>She’s known to speak out against those who offer her parenting advice, and this time was no different. The singer was in Germany to perform as part of her <em>Beautiful Trauma</em> world tour, and while there, she posted a number of photos featuring her two kids Willow Sage, 8, and Jameson Moon, 2.</p> <p>One of the images showed the two running through the city’s memorial, with many fans taking offence saying the act is offensive to those who died.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/Bz5lC96gVed/" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Bz5lC96gVed/" target="_blank">Berlin, I love you. #holocaustmemorial #panamarestaurant #cocktailclasses #history #herstory #worldtour and for all of the comments; these two children are in actuality Jewish, as am I and the entirety of my mothers family. The very person who constructed this believed in children being children, and to me this is a celebration of life after death. Please keep your hatred and judgment to yourselves.</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/pink/" target="_blank"> P!NK</a> (@pink) on Jul 14, 2019 at 6:57am PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>“Berlin, I love you,” Pink wrote. “And for all of the comments; these two children are in actuality Jewish, as am I and the entirety of my mother’s family. The very person who constructed this believed in children being children, and to me this is a celebration of life after death. Please keep your hatred and judgement to yourselves.”</p> <p>The mother-of-two referenced Peter Eisenman, the man behind the Berlin memorial. Speaking to <em>BBC</em> in 2017, the architect said that he does not find children playing at the memorial to be disrespectful.</p> <p>“People have been jumping around on those pillars forever. They’ve been sunbathing, they’ve been having lunch there and I think that’s fine,” he said. “It’s like a Catholic Church, it’s a meeting place, children run around, they sell trinkets. A memorial is an everyday occurrence, it is not sacred ground.”</p> <p>But despite his views, Eisenman made sure to mark a clear line of difference between the memorial he designed and burial sites such as Auschwitz, which he said are “a different environment.”</p> <p>After ongoing hate comments against her parenting style, Pink made the decision to limit the amount of posts about her kids.</p> <p>“People went as far as saying, ‘Someone should call Child Services,’ because he didn’t have a diaper on, and ‘How dare I?’ – just some of the nastiest things,” she revealed on <em>The Ellen DeGeneres Show</em>. </p> <p>“I cried so hard after that because I like to share my family … I’m prouder of my kids than anything I’ve ever done and I just won’t share them anymore. I won’t do it.”</p>

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Roger Federer's shock admission: “I was an angry person"

<p>Roger Federer has dominated the tennis world since 2003, but he recently reflected on his bad behaviour in an interview with <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.tennisworldusa.org/tennis/news/Roger_Federer/68395/roger-federer-i-was-an-angry-person-on-the-court-as-a-teenager-/" target="_blank">Tennis World USA.</a></p> <p>When the Swiss tennis legend was a teenager, the champion admitted he didn’t have a lot of control over his emotions. </p> <p>Federer explained:</p> <p>"I also had my bad times, I struggled with my temper, I was an angry person on the court and very sad once I lost.”</p> <p>Federer also mentioned that he would ruminate on the mistakes he made whilst he was playing.</p> <p>“I was more always very sad commentating every point I lost and I was like, 'Okay, play today is terrible.'</p> <p>“It took me a long time to get really serious and maybe that's the small regret I have, maybe that I did not realise or react earlier but with all the success I have had, I had a very normal and clear path.”</p> <p>This clear path to tennis success has helped him keep a clear head when it comes to his goals, although the 37-year-old did reflect on how long it took him to break through into the world of tennis.</p> <p>“It took me more time than other players maybe to breakthrough but once I broke through, everything was in place ... I did not become a superstar overnight so I think that helps me today."</p> <p>Federer has just recently won his 101st career title as he won the Miami Open over John Isner on April 1.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/Bvr3WTMg15t/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Bvr3WTMg15t/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" target="_blank">1️⃣0️⃣1️⃣‼️😁💥</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/rogerfederer/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" target="_blank"> Roger Federer</a> (@rogerfederer) on Mar 31, 2019 at 1:02pm PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Without his tennis idols, Federer might not have had the drive to be where he is today.</p> <p>His two idols were Stefan Edberg when he was growing up and Bjorn Borg later on. This is due to Federer’s coach Peter Lundgren telling stories about Berg.</p> <p>“I heard so many stories from my coach Peter Lundgren and all these great records and what an influential and great person he was for the game of tennis and this is obviously when I started to admire Bjorn as well and everybody who did such amazing things for tennis.”</p> <p>Federer maintains that without these two idols, the world of tennis would be very different today.</p> <p>“I am thankful too because they created the great platform we play in today and I hope I can do something similar for the next generation."</p> <p>With 101 career titles under his belt, Federer is well on the way to inspiring a new generation of tennis stars.</p>

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Driver’s angry note goes viral: “Laziness is not a disability”

<p>It is becoming more commonplace for people to leave passive-aggressive notes to strangers, calling them out for behaviour they deem unacceptable.</p> <p>However, one mum has shared her fury after she returned to her parked vehicle after visiting the doctor to find a note accusing her of wrongly parking in a disabled spot.</p> <p>Emma Gearing took a photo of the brutal note and shared it on social media.</p> <p>“Laziness is not a disability,” the note reads.</p> <p>“Using a disabled badge when you don’t need it could cost you £2,000 and permanent removal of the badge. Don’t take your good health for granted.”</p> <p><iframe src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Femma.j.flood%2Fposts%2F10155484620691735&amp;width=500" width="500" height="740" style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" allow="encrypted-media"></iframe></p> <p>The 26-year-old mum slammed the author of the message for being “heartless”.</p> <p>She explained that her son, Reggie, has several medical conditions and needs to be fed through a peg inserted into his stomach.</p> <p>“I think it is disgusting how people can judge too quickly,” she wrote. “Pushchair, walking, wheelchair whatever is used you should never ever judge anyone! </p> <p>"I feel so sorry for anyone who has gone through this themselves.”</p> <p>She said that medical disabilities are “not always obvious” and that she hopes the culprit will see the post and learn not to carelessly assume things about other people.</p> <p>Emma, who hopes her post will go viral to raise awareness about unseen disabilities, has had her post shared over 150 times.</p>

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Why self-serve checkouts make me so angry

<p>The tiny piece of meat that wedges itself in your teeth is only ever a tiny piece of the delicious steak. But until you get it shifted, there is no other aspect of that steak you can possibly think about. If, like me, you're too lazy to walk six steps to fetch floss or a toothpick, it can be bothering you for hours.</p> <p>Small things can become disproportionately important.</p> <p>The self-service supermarket checkout shouldn't really warrant more than your slightest attention,  and yet when it won't do the simple damn thing you want it to do, it can fill you with great frustration and furious anger. At least, that's how it feels for people like me who are too lazy to walk six steps to fetch floss or a toothpick.</p> <p>When the rage comes on, I take myself off to Twitter where all my angry friends are waiting, ready to shout at anybody and anything. This week I typed: "Thank you for shopping. Also thank you for not taking to the goddam self-service checkout with a f.....g mallet."</p> <p>They all knew exactly what I meant.</p> <p>"That thing is an instrument of psychological torture banned by the Geneva Convention," said my friend Dovil (not her real name).</p> <p>"I try my hardest to avoid them," said Moana, "but I keep the guy with a key in a job. He always has to uncrank the Lady Machine ... at least three times when I'm there."</p> <p>Everyone had a story to tell about the machine that's supposed to detect your bag, get the weight right, and smoothly process everything, but doesn't.</p> <p>They wrote: "The stupid woman inside the machine never raises her voice, just repeats herself, repeatedly. Hate. Them. And. Her. Hate her big time."</p> <p>And: "I have removed my bloody bag!" </p> <p>And: "I overheard a man yelling at it once. Each time it spoke he said 'Alright!!!!' It was great. Very Basil Fawlty."</p> <p>Becs said: "I get terrible performance anxiety and feel like other shoppers are judging me."</p> <p>John asked: "You bought a newspaper? Please tell me you didn't buy a newspaper."</p> <p>I never have at the self-service, but right away I can see the problem with a flimsy object and scales that can't weigh things very well. Feel free to insert your own joke here about columnists who are less weighty then they're supposed to be.</p> <p>But we are also human beings with inquiring minds, so talk soon turned to larger things, like: Are the robots coming for our jobs?</p> <p>Friends wrote: "I have nothing to do with self-service checkouts" and: "Use real people and keep them in a job" and: "Supermarkets suck enough money without me doing their work for free."</p> <p>Max, though, wanted to know why we still have human checkout operators at all, making them slave away at an unnecessary job that could be automated.</p> <p>Phil wrote: "We have reached the point where work is redundant. All the wages are accumulating in the bank accounts of the absurdly rich. Existential crisis for humanity."</p> <p>There is a growing drum beat to this as the bank branches close and robots mow the grass by the motorway. I hear the water lapping at the doorstep. Who is replaceable. Are you? Am I? Obviously the easiest columnists to automate will be the ones who string together posts from their Facebook friends.</p> <p>What will happen? The best person to listen to might be Thomas Frey. He got the attention of a lot of important people when he said that by 2030 more than 2 billion jobs would disappear. He has had to spend every day since then explaining that although he meant it, he also believes it will be possible to replace those jobs with other ones. </p> <p>If you want to fill yourself with hope, the best thing you can possibly do is read the list of specific jobs and industries Frey suggests will come into existence. It's a new and fascinating world he describes, with vast possibilities. </p> <p>But his point is clear: those opportunities won't just come to us, we will have to seek them out. And I suspect my friend Phil may be right too. We may need to get there before the private equity guys and the bankers. They tend not to get distracted by the small stuff, and they have voracious carnivorous appetites.</p> <p>What are your thoughts? Do you use the self-serve checkout?</p> <p><em>Written by David Slack. Republished with permission of <a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Stuff.co.nz</span></strong></a>.</em></p>

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Tennis world stunned by Roger Federer's surprise outburst

<p>Asides from the championships, poise under pressure, unforgettable matches and that incredible backhand, if there’s one thing Roger Federer’s reign at the top of the tennis world has been characterised by, it’s his calm, gentlemanly behaviour. But a recent on-court outburst in a match against Juan Martin Del Potro had the <a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/health/body/2018/02/roger-federer-hilarious-response-to-reaching-world-no-1-again/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Swiss tennis ace looking anything but the Federer of old</strong></span></a>.</p> <p>The two faced off in a tense decider at the Indian Wells Masters in California on Monday, where raucous fans started to get on both player’s nerves.</p> <p>Del Potro was victorious 6-4 6-7 (8-10) 7-6 (7-2), ending Federer’s unbeaten start to 2018, but it was the behaviour of the crowd that made headlines with fans audibly yelling out between serves, hoping to put the Argentinian off.</p> <p>The World No 8 quickly lost his nerve at the yelling fans and remonstrated chair umpire Fergus Murphy for not doing enough to bring them into line.</p> <p>“The people are screaming when I miss a first serve!” a filthy Del Potro yelled.</p> <p>And it wasn’t long before Federer started to lose his cool.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-video"> <p dir="ltr">2nd set 7-6 Roger! <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/BNPPO18?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#BNPPO18</a><br />Keep going! Go! Go! Go! <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/Federer?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#Federer</a> 🙏🎾 <a href="https://t.co/iawVpGk9yk">pic.twitter.com/iawVpGk9yk</a></p> — Suama (@suamax88) <a href="https://twitter.com/suamax88/status/975490706797092864?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 18, 2018</a></blockquote> <p>Viewers watching the match were quick to note this.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Roger's brain is boiling.</p> — Carole Bouchard (@carole_bouchard) <a href="https://twitter.com/carole_bouchard/status/975489386262364160?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 18, 2018</a></blockquote> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Federer being pissy in a match against Del Potro. This has never ever happened in the history of the world.</p> — Tumaini Carayol (@tumcarayol) <a href="https://twitter.com/tumcarayol/status/975488459216482307?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 18, 2018</a></blockquote> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Federer and del Potro both are angry at the chair umpire in this match. So much at stake. Testy on both sides.</p> — Jill Martin (@ByJillMartin) <a href="https://twitter.com/ByJillMartin/status/975489241814913024?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 18, 2018</a></blockquote> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Federer pretty upset and convinced Del Po's serve is out. Challenge. He's wrong. Still upset lol</p> — Carole Bouchard (@carole_bouchard) <a href="https://twitter.com/carole_bouchard/status/975487591922348032?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 18, 2018</a></blockquote> <p>While both players were starting to lose their cool, the tennis itself was engaging, even if the quality of the match fell below the lofty standards of both players at times.</p> <p>Del Potro’s triumph brought an end to the Federer’s perfect year, which saw the World No 2 go 17 matches without losing. And even if Federer got a little bit testy during the match, after the match he was as classy as you’d expect.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-video"> <p dir="ltr">Beautiful footwork! <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/Federer?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#Federer</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/BNPPO18?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#BNPPO18</a> (🎥modron-tennis-coaching) <a href="https://t.co/ulEqRPBSwu">pic.twitter.com/ulEqRPBSwu</a></p> — Allez Roger (@kah22jad) <a href="https://twitter.com/kah22jad/status/974259896098189312?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 15, 2018</a></blockquote> <p>“Not much in between us but you deserve it. Well done. Enjoy the moment,” he said.</p> <p>What are your thoughts? Did Federer go over the top? Or is he well within his rights to let off a bit of steam? Let us know in the comments section below!</p>

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Feeling irritable and angry? This could be the surprising reason why

<p>Whether you have a naturally short temper or not, we all go through the occasional bout of irritability from time to time. Usually, it can be blamed on a stressful day at work, hormones, or some other external issue.</p> <p>But when it comes out of the blue and begins happening constantly with no real reason, it’s time to ask yourself – what’s REALLY going on?</p> <p>Well, among the usual suspects like depression and anxiety, the cause could actually be something completely different – diabetes. Yes, you read that right.</p> <p>Although the more common symptoms of type 2 diabetes are excessive thirst, increased urge to urinate, tiredness and constant hunger, one of the often-ignored signs is anger.</p> <p>Mood swings are common in diabetics, as hypoglycaemia (low blood sugar) can cause an imbalance of chemicals in the brain, including the so-called “happy hormone”, serotonin. As a result, this can lead to aggression, confusion and even panic attacks.</p> <p>The anger was so powerful for one married couple, it almost drove them apart.</p> <p>Writing for <a href="http://www.scarymommy.com/anger-sign-of-medical-condition-diabetes/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Scary Mommy</span></strong></a>, US author Kristen Mae described how she found out about her husband’s diabetes diagnosis just before she was about to issue him an ultimatum – admit you have an anger problem and get help, or the relationship is over.</p> <p>Mae’s husband, who was just 39 and “physically fit” when he received the diagnosis, had been uncharacteristically angry over the past few months before a routine blood test confirmed the news.</p> <p>“He began taking meds, eating better, and exercising more, and after a few weeks, something wild happened,” Mae writes.</p> <p>“The man I married began to reappear. I hadn’t even noticed he’d been taken from me, because diabetes had stolen him so gradually.</p> <p>“My husband, my true husband, is not short-tempered … Diabetes had changed him from a calm, rational person into someone who was tired, irritable, and angry.”</p> <p>So, what should you do if you or your loved one are experiencing sudden, constant anger, irritability or some other mood change?</p> <p>“If your spouse is acting in a way that causes you to question how you could ever have married them, send them to the doctor,” Mae urges. “They might just be sick, and you might just be about to get your loved one back.”</p>

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