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Plastic surgeon called out for “toxic” video

<p dir="ltr">A beautician has been slammed for a video she posted online outlining the cosmetic surgery she thought a star of Stranger Things would need.</p> <p dir="ltr">Miranda Wilson, who describes herself as a nurse practitioner injector, posted a video on TikTok outlining the alterations she believed would enhance the look of actress Natalia Dyer.</p> <p dir="ltr">“We’d start by treating those masseters … to help slim the face,” Ms Wilson said, referring to Dyer’s prominent bottom jawline.</p> <p dir="ltr">She then recommended adding “a bit of chin filler just to help fill out her chin and make her face more of a heart shape”.</p> <p dir="ltr">Moving onto Dyer’s lip and brow area, Wilson said she would “add just a little bit to the lips” than “do a little Botox (to) give her a nice brow lift to help open up her eyes”.</p> <p dir="ltr">“And to top if off we’d start with some Sculptra, she does seem to have more thin skin and we want to prevent that from getting thinner and create more collagen,” Wilson said.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-9149ad08-7fff-bb3b-fff3-0b07f1571f97"></span></p> <p dir="ltr">She ended the clip with a “before and after” image of Dyer, where she complimented the actress’ slimmer jaw, pointy chin, lifted brows and pouty lips.</p> <p dir="ltr"><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2022/07/tiktok-beauty2.jpg" alt="" width="1280" height="720" /></p> <p dir="ltr">However, her assessment drew large amounts of ire from viewers, who described the clip as “toxic” and “highly insulting”, with one commenter arguing that videos like hers were “one of the reasons girls today are so insecure”.</p> <p dir="ltr">Though she has since deleted the video, download copies have been uploaded and shared on other social media platforms, including Twitter, where the uproar continued.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Still can’t believe a plastic surgeon (sic) spoke on what she’d change about someone’s face without a) their consent, b) any indication that the person disliked those features and c) putting a disclaimer that the person is already beautiful as they are,” one Twitter user said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Like I cannot believe she ‘influencerfied’ her face completely unprovoked as if it was a free consultation.”</p> <p dir="ltr">After the backlash, Wilson posted a follow-up video saying she wanted to “clear the air”, adding that she “didn’t mean to offend anyone” in the controversial clip.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I was simply offering suggestions – not on what you have to do – just on what the possibilities are,” Wilson said.</p> <p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-0ddeb030-7fff-db78-228d-a6f65798aa52"></span></p> <p dir="ltr">“As an advanced injector that is what we do – we look at faces and assess and look at the possibilities.”</p> <p dir="ltr"><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2022/07/tiktok-beauty-1.jpg" alt="" width="1280" height="720" /></p> <p dir="ltr">She then took a photo of herself and suggested improvements, such as botox injectables, lip and cheek fillers, and a brow lift, sharing another “before and after” image and writing in the caption that “Natalia is absolutely stunning the way she is” but that her image was just an “example”.</p> <p dir="ltr">Though comments were disabled on her later video, upset viewers took to Twitter to call out her behaviour.</p> <p dir="ltr">“She posted a sorry, not sorry video where she completely missed the point of what the original complaint was,” one Twitter user said.</p> <p dir="ltr">Another questioned who Wilson’s target audience was and pondered the impact such views would have on young women.</p> <p dir="ltr">“If Natalia Dyer, a white and thin and conventional woman gets scrutinised on her appearance like this, what happens to all the young impressionable poc/mid-size/plus-size girls watching?”, they wrote.</p> <p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-a74d389f-7fff-ff36-d394-0b51934b7163"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Images: TikTok</em></p>

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Brain surgeon claims he saw the afterlife while in a coma

<p>An academic neurosurgeon has recalled the "life-changing" near-death experience he claims he had while deep in a coma as his brain was ravaged by a rare bacterial infection.</p> <p>Dr. Eben Alexander told The Sun that before his near-death experience (NDE), his many years as a doctor made him skeptical at the idea of an afterlife, rather believing that our consciousness dies at the same time as our bodies.</p> <p>However, after his "life-changing" and "profound" NDE, the 68-year-old has experienced a "180-degree flip" in his belief system, claiming to have seen heaven with his own eyes, calling it more real and alive than the realm we currently inhabit.</p> <p>“I basically used to have a very conventional, scientific and reductive materialist view that consciousness was created by the brain, and that only the physical world exists,” Dr Alexander said.</p> <p>“And what my coma journey showed me … is that consciousness is something that is fundamental in the universe and does not originate in the brain."</p> <p>“What I experienced was the most extraordinary, memorable, detailed, and ultra-real experience of my entire life,” Alexander continued.</p> <p>“In fact, the world we live in, this material world, is more kind of cloudy and dreamlike than what I saw on the other side."</p> <p>“That world is sharp, crisp and alive – and very real.”</p> <p>On the morning of November 10, 2008, Dr Alexander woke up with severe pains in his back and what he described as "the worst headache of his life".</p> <p>After being transported to Lynchburg General Hospital, where he worked as a neurosurgeon, he discovered he had contracted an incredibly rare and aggressive form of E. coli meningoencephalitis, which had started to gnaw away at his brain.</p> <p>He was hastily placed in an induced coma and onto a ventilator, with his chances of survival diminishing by the hour.</p> <p>According to Dr Alexander, his medical records show that his brain was "very badly damaged", with his brainstem also in "deep trouble".</p> <p>As his chance of survival dipped to just 10 percent, loved ones gathered by his bedside, and although it seemed his grip on life was loosening, he insists his spirit had travelled to another realm in which he was experiencing a “re-birth”.</p> <p>“People think going through this experience, in this state of almost amnesia, must’ve been very horrific,” he told The Sun, “and yet, I knew nothing else as a possibility, and therefore, to me, it all just seemed natural."</p> <p>“This was existence. There was nothing foreboding about it."</p> <p>Dr Alexander claims he was in a dream-like forest with plush clouds, tall trees, sweeping valleys and groups of joyous people dancing.</p> <p>He says he spoke telepathically with a woman who told him, “You are loved. You are cherished. There is nothing you can do wrong.”</p> <p>His peace in this heavenly realm was soon interrupted as he was thrown into an infinite depth and darkness before waking up.</p> <p>As he regained his consciousness, he started to think he had truly glimpsed the afterlife.</p> <p>“Those memories of that kind of [infinite depth] psychotic nightmare disappeared within a week or two, compared to memories of the deep coma experience, which was sharp, crisp, vivid, alive and detailed today, as if the whole thing just happened."</p> <p>“As more than half of people who’ve had an NDE will tell you, it’s a much more real existence than this existence in the material world.”</p> <p><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p>

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Cancer surgeon writes his own joke-filled obituary before dying

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A US surgeon has jumped the gun and written a quirky obituary about himself before he died at 48.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Dr Thomas Lee Flanagan passed on April 27, but his cause of death is not publicly known.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In a post published on </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/toledoblade/obituary.aspx?n=thomas-lee-flanigan&amp;pid=198520306&amp;fbclid=IwAR08jHG4hN-UFNjxvslLCmYy1YpR-XK5gFKXnFVh5LEzQX7epBPWJglLDss" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Legacy.com</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> - a website dedicated to obituaries - he jokingly described himself as the “Ginger God of Surgery and Shenanigans”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Yes, I have joined the likes of Princess Diana, John Belushi, and Steve Irwin the Crocodile Hunter in leaving while still at the top of my game as an iconic superhero who seemed almost too good to be true,” he wrote.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">According to the post, the army veteran and father of three said he married his wife Amy so he could make husband jokes, then had three children so he could make Dad jokes.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“It did not disappoint,” he wrote.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“The jokes I mean, but Amy and the kids were pretty good too.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Flanagan writes that his time “was magical” and “saw some other delightful things in my time here - Hawaiian volcanoes, Egyptian pyramids, and even the advent of air fryers.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though he “dabbled” in a few things, including serving his country in the army and saving lives as a surgeon and MD, his real legacy is the bad Dad jokes and Facebook memes he’ll leave behind.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“What was I to this world if not a beacon of light shining upon those who couldn’t scan the internet for their own hilarious and entertaining comic relief?” he wrote.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I guess what I am trying to say is that you’re welcome and you owe me big time.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He ends his obituary announcing he is riding off into the sunset “after re-enlisting with a new unit.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He continued, “Due to the unknown and cosmic nature of my next mission, this will be our last communication. It will self-destruct in five minutes.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though his whereabouts “are now top secret” he has made new friends called Elvis and Kenny.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“The Church of Tom is closed for business, but please continue to worship me, light candles, and send money. You know the deal,” the obituary read.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Tributes to Flanagan also flooded in on the online condolence page.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“You meant so very much to me. The world is dimmer without you in it,” a former patient wrote.</span></p>

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10 secrets surgeons won’t tell you

<p>Surgeons have our lives in their hands, but most of us know more about the people who cut our hair than the doctors who cut our bodies. Here, insider tips to become a smarter, healthier patient.</p> <p><strong>1. To know which doctor is good, ask hospital employees</strong></p> <p>“Their word trumps a degree, prestigious titles, and charm.” - Marty Makary, MD, author of Unaccountable: What Hospitals Won’t Tell You and How Transparency Can Revolutionise Health Care.</p> <p><strong>2. Ask about their complication rate</strong></p> <p>“If they don’t have one, they’re hiding something or haven’t operated enough to have one. No one is immune to complications.” - Arnold Advincula, MD, division chief, gynecologic surgery &amp; urogynecology, Columbia University Medical Centre.</p> <p><strong>3. Surgeons have an inherent financial conflict of interest</strong></p> <p>“That’s because they are paid approximately ten times more money to perform surgery than to manage your problem conservatively.” - James Rickert, MD, an orthopedic surgeon in Bedford, Indiana.</p> <p><strong>4. Are they board certified?</strong></p> <p>“For the same reason, always check if your surgeon is board-certified in his specialty. Many are not.” - Tomas A. Salerno, MD, chief of cardiothoracic surgery at the University of Miami Miller School of Medicine.</p> <p><strong>5. Don’t assume your doctor’s recommendation is best</strong></p> <p>“Referrals may be politically motivated or be given because the doctors work within the same multi-specialty group.” - Howard Luks, MD, chief of sports medicine and arthroscopy at Westchester Medical Center and University Orthopaedics.</p> <p><strong>6. Ask if you can talk to former patients</strong></p> <p>“It’s like getting references for a babysitter.” - Marc Gillinov, MD, author of Heart 411: The Only Guide to Heart Health You’ll Ever Need.</p> <p><strong>7. Some won’t mention procedures they don’t know how to do</strong></p> <p>“I’ll see patients who were told they needed an open hysterectomy, even though it could be handled laparoscopically. That’s one reason it’s good to get a second opinion.” - Arnold Advincula, MD</p> <p><strong>8. Find out who is going to take care of you after surgery</strong></p> <p>“You want to hear ‘I will see you on a regular basis until you have recovered fully.’ Often it can be residents or physician’s assistants. Sometimes it’s not anybody, especially after you’ve been discharged from the hospital.” - Ezriel “Ed” Kornel, MD, clinical assistant professor of neurological surgery at Cornell University.</p> <p><strong>9. It’s better to have an elective surgery early in the week</strong></p> <p>“Lots of doctors go away for the weekend and won’t be around to make sure you’re OK. If you go in on a Friday, and then on Saturday or Sunday something icky is coming out of your incision, you’re going to get someone who’s covering for your surgeon.” - General surgeon who blogs under the name Skeptical Scalpel</p> <p><strong>10. Some hire business management consultants</strong></p> <p>“The consultants may want the practice to sell equipment like knee braces or walkers at a markup. They may want the doctors to buy or build a surgery centre to capture facility fees. They usually want orthopedic surgeons to get an in-office MRI. Every time a doctor does this, he becomes more financially conflicted. As soon as you put in an MRI machine, you order more MRIs so you won’t lose money on it.” —James Rickert, MD</p> <p><em>Written by Michelle Crouch. This article first appeared in </em><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/tips/48-secrets-surgeons-wont-tell-you?items_per_page=All"><em>Reader’s Digest</em>.</a><em> For more of what you love from the world’s best-loved magazine, </em><a href="http://readersdigest.innovations.co.nz/c/readersdigestemailsubscribe?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=articles&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;keycode=WRN87V"><em>here’s our best subscription offer.</em></a></p> <p><img style="width: 100px !important; height: 100px !important;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7820640/1.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/f30947086c8e47b89cb076eb5bb9b3e2" /></p>

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