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5 things we all do wrong in the shower

<p>While showering every day keeps us smelling fresh, it actually disturbs the natural bacteria on our skin and strips it of the oils that keep it supple. In fact, many shower habits can actually be very unhygienic. Experts reveal what we’re doing wrong, and what to do instead.</p> <p><strong>1.  Showering everyday </strong></p> <p>The University of California found that too much washing can actually be bad for you, because it strips away beneficial bugs that the body uses to help ward off infections. Apparently, if we simply wash our hands and below the belt regularly we can skip a full shower every day.</p> <p><strong>2.  Showering for too long </strong></p> <p>Water is an irritant, so the longer you’re in there, the more irritated and dry your skin will become. Oil from the sebaceous glands hydrate the skin, so showering for too long strips it of moisture.</p> <p><strong>3. Rubbing soap on your whole body</strong></p> <p>Soap dislodges dirt and oil from the body, allowing water to wash it away. But the skin on the arms and legs doesn't contain a lot of oil, so cleaning them with soap just makes them dry.  Instead, simply focus on the armpits, buttocks, groin and feet</p> <p><strong>4.  Letting the shower water blast over your face </strong></p> <p>A hot shower can cause and exacerbate fragile capillary networks in the cheeks, leading to unattractive, visible capillary networks and worsened impaired skin conditions, experts warn.</p> <p><strong>5.  Using a pouf </strong></p> <p>Poufs and loofahs are a haven for bacteria — the dead skin cells they scrub so well from our body get caught up in the nooks where bacteria can feed on them. Also, because poufs take time to dry and may well retain dead skin cells, it’s a potential source of infection. To keep it clean, wet your pouf and put it on a medium heat in the microwave for 30 to 60 seconds.</p> <p>How would you feel about skipping your daily shower, like one of these tips suggests? Let us now in the comments below.</p> <p><em>Image credit: Shutterstock</em></p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="../health/body/2016/03/ways-to-stay-active-in-winter/"><em>4 ways to stay active in winter</em></a></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="../health/body/2016/04/ways-weather-influences-your-health-and-behaviour/"><em>5 ways weather influences your health and behaviour</em></a></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="../%20http:/www.oversixty.com.au/lifestyle/home-garden/2016/04/how-to-get-the-best-lawn-for-winter/"><em>How to get the best lawn for winter</em></a></strong></span></p>

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Here’s how often you should really shower

<h2>Shower power</h2> <p>Whether you prefer a quick morning shower or a luxurious pre-bedtime soak, chances are your shower routine is so established that you haven’t put much thought into it in years. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), proper personal hygiene is the one of the best ways to keep yourself healthy. So, in the shower, it’s important to make sure you’re not just going through the motions – but really getting good and clean.</p> <p>To help you scrub up on the right way to take a shower, we rounded up the latest dermatologist tips and research.</p> <h2>Bathe most days</h2> <p>The American Academy of Dermatology recommends that kids over age 11 start showering or bathing every day. For younger kids, a couple times a week is usually enough unless they’re sweaty, dirty or have been playing in a pool, lake or ocean.</p> <p>Two to three showers a week may be enough for many adults – but, if that’s not quite enough for you, that’s all good, too. Showering every day doesn’t appear to make skin dry or itchy.</p> <h2>Wash hair less frequently</h2> <p>Most people can wash their hair less often than they bathe. How often you wash should be determined by your hair type and texture.</p> <p>Hair naturally gets dryer with age, so many adults can wash their hair less often than teens. However, an oily feeling and flakes are signs it’s time to shampoo. Wash your hair by gently massaging shampoo on the scalp. Follow up by using conditioner on the entire length of your hair.</p> <h2>Close the door when you shower</h2> <p>Let your skin absorb moisture by closing the bathroom door while you shower. This keeps the humidity in the bathroom, building up steam so your body can soak in some extra moisture. After you’re finished showering, open a window or flip on the fan to pull remaining humidity out and prevent mould and mildew growth.</p> <h2>Find the right temp</h2> <p>The best temperature for your shower or bath water is your body’s natural temperature. You’ll know it when you don’t feel the temperature of the water, said Natalie Aguilar, dermatological nurse and aesthetician at N4 Skincare. Water that’s too hot can cause inflammation and immediate transepidermal water loss (TEWL), which one report in Applied Dermatoxicology defined as “the amount of water that passively evaporates through skin to the external environment due to water vapour pressure gradient on both sides of the skin barrier leads to dry, dehydrated and/or irritated skin.”</p> <p>“Inflammation from hot water, as well as TEWL, can contribute to a variety of unwanted skin issues such as dryness, itchiness and a more pronounced appearance of fine lines and wrinkles,” Aguilar says.</p> <h2>Keep it short</h2> <p>Lingering in a warm shower might feel luxurious, but it can also dry you out. Try to keep your time in the shower under 10 minutes to help your skin barrier stay hydrated. (This is also a good rule to cut down on water waste.)</p> <h2>Pick gentle products</h2> <p>Many dermatologists recommend gentle cleansers without added fragrance. No need to use too much, either. You don’t need enough bubbles to fill a tub to get clean – just use enough soap to clean any dirt and oil off your body.</p> <h2>Don’t forget moisturiser</h2> <p>Lotion isn’t a special treat. It’s important to moisturise within three minutes following a shower or bath.</p> <p>“Applying moisturiser after a shower or bath is crucial, as damp skin absorbs moisture better,” Aguilar says. “Your skin will be more receptive to the moisturising qualities of body creams while it’s still damp.” And, this doctor says, that means following every daily scrub: “Consistency is key.”</p> <h2>Launder with care</h2> <p>Choose a soft cotton towel that feels nice on your skin. Then launder it with care, Aguilar says, and skip heavy detergents. “Harsh detergents can irritate freshly bathed skin and can cause skin flares, especially to those who have eczema or psoriasis.”</p> <h2>No need to be harsh</h2> <p>“It is also best to pat and rub gently using soft cotton towels,” Aguilar says. “Using towels that are hard or stiff can be too rough on skin.”</p> <p>Take your time drying off. Rubbing your skin harshly or quickly with a towel is a common showering mistake.</p> <p><strong>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://www.readersdigest.co.nz/healthsmart/beauty/skin/heres-how-often-you-should-really-shower-say-doctors" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Reader's Digest</a>.</strong></p> <p><em>Image: Shutterstock</em></p>

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How often should you wash your hair?

<p>If you shampoo daily, you might be doing more harm than good for your locks. Our experts give you the skinny on how often you should wash your hair. </p> <p class="">You wake up, jump in the shower, and lather up your hair. That’s your morning routine and has been for as long as you can remember. But it turns out you may be doing more harm than good by shampooing your precious locks daily. (Yes, even if you’re using one of the<span> </span>best shampoos.) So how often should you wash your hair?</p> <p class="">It seems like a simple question, but there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Many of us are overdoing it, causing hair loss or breakage. Others are underdoing it, leading to flakes and oil buildup, says Amy McMichael, MD, professor and chair of dermatology at Wake Forest School of Medicine in Winston-Salem, North Carolina. “Generally, the hair and scalp should be washed at least weekly to every other week,” she says. But as with all rules, there are some exceptions.</p> <p>Read on to find out just how often you should be hitting the (shampoo) bottle, based on your hair type. Then stock up on supplies, whether that’s the<span> </span>best shampoo for oily hair, the<span> </span>best shampoo for curly hair, the<span> </span>best shampoo for thinning hair, the<span> </span>best shampoo for color-treated hair, or<span> </span>purple shampoo for blondes. Throw in<span> </span>hair masks<span> </span>and the<span> </span>best conditioners<span> </span>for good measure, and you’ll have clean, healthy-looking hair in no time.</p> <p class="">You wake up, jump in the shower, and lather up your hair. That’s your morning routine and has been for as long as you can remember. But it turns out you may be doing more harm than good by shampooing your precious locks daily. (Yes, even if you’re using one of the<span> </span>best shampoos.) So how often should you wash your hair?</p> <p class=""><em>This article first appeared in <a href="https://www.rd.com/article/how-often-should-you-wash-your-hair/">Reader’s Digest.</a> For more of what you love from the world’s best-loved magazine, <a href="http://readersdigest.innovations.com.au/c/readersdigestemailsubscribe?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=articles&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;keycode=WRA87V">here’s our best subscription offer.</a></em></p> <p class="">It seems like a simple question, but there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Many of us are overdoing it, causing hair loss or breakage. Others are underdoing it, leading to flakes and oil buildup, says Amy McMichael, MD, professor and chair of dermatology at Wake Forest School of Medicine in Winston-Salem, North Carolina. “Generally, the hair and scalp should be washed at least weekly to every other week,” she says. But as with all rules, there are some exceptions.</p> <p>Read on to find out just how often you should be hitting the (shampoo) bottle, based on your hair type. Then stock up on supplies, whether that’s the<span> </span>best shampoo for oily hair, the<span> </span>best shampoo for curly hair, the<span> </span>best shampoo for thinning hair, the<span> </span>best shampoo for color-treated hair, or<span> </span>purple shampoo for blondes. Throw in<span> </span>hair masks<span> </span>and the<span> </span>best conditioners<span> </span>for good measure, and you’ll have clean, healthy-looking hair in no time.</p> <h2>What is shampoo exactly?</h2> <p>Shampoos typically contain several ingredients to help remove oil, dirt, dead skin cells, and other impurities, explains Janiene Luke, MD, an associate professor of dermatology at Loma Linda University in Loma Linda, California, and a member of the Skin of Color Society’s board of directors.</p> <div id="article_nativo1" data-nativo-placement-id="1095008"></div> <p>“Common cleansing agents, such as surfactants, bind these impurities and create a structure that can be easily rinsed away with water,” she explains. Common surfactants in shampoo include sodium laureth sulfate, ammonium laureth sulfate, sodium lauryl sulfate, and ammonium lauryl sulfate.</p> <p>What else is in the bottle? Water, for one. Without adequate water, the shampoo wouldn’t be able to pour out of the bottle. Foaming or lathering agents like cocamide or cocamidopropyl betaine give your shampoo that satisfying sudsy factor. Shampoo also contains silicones like simethicone, which smooth and shine your hair. Other ingredients, like panthenol, fatty alcohols, and nut oils, are added to lock in moisture and hydration. Polyquaternium may be added as a thickening agent. And finally, there are the preservatives. These are added to make sure your shampoo has a decent shelf life.</p> <h2>How often should you wash your hair?</h2> <p>Ready to suds up? Your lifestyle will help determine how often you should wash your hair. “Those who exercise or perspire profusely for any reason may wash their hair more frequently,” says Dr. McMichael.</p> <div id="ad61441abd7592e" class="ad " data-ad-slot-name="/article/content_1" data-ad-responsive-sizes="{&quot;mobile&quot;:[[300,250],[3,3]]}" data-ad-targeting="{&quot;tf&quot;:&quot;btf&quot;,&quot;pos&quot;:&quot;content_1&quot;,&quot;location&quot;:&quot;top&quot;}"></div> <p class="">Your hair’s oil level will also play a role. If you have extremely oily hair, washing daily can keep your strands from looking greasy, says Dr. McMichael. On the flip side, “for those who have particularly dry hair shafts, washing infrequently may be helpful,” she says. (Your hair shaft is the part of your hair that can be seen above your scalp.)</p> <h2>How does hair texture play a role?</h2> <p class="">The texture of your hair makes a difference in how oily your hair gets each day. The oilier your hair, the more often you need to wash it.</p> <p>So the first step is determining what type of hair you have. This is based on the amount of curl in your hair. It may be straight (no curl), wavy, curly or even super curly, or coily. The curl factor comes down to the shape of your hair follicles. If they are oval or asymmetrical, your hair will be curlier.</p> <p class="">Still not sure what your hair type is? Ask your stylist next time you get a trim.</p> <h3 class="">Naturally curly or textured hair</h3> <p>This type of hair tends to be drier because the sebum, or oil, does not travel as far down the hair shaft of a curly hair compared to a straight hair. So how often should you wash your hair if it’s curly or textured? At least weekly or every two weeks, Dr. McMichael says. The idea that everyone should suds up daily is just a<span> </span>hair myth.</p> <h3 class="">Straight and fine hair</h3> <p>You may need to wash multiple times a week for the most effective hair styling, Dr. McMichael says. That’s because straight and fine hair tends to get oily faster than other hair textures. Wash infrequently—one of the biggest<span> </span>fine hair mistakes—and your locks might look greasy.</p> <h2>How often should you wash your hair with braids, locks, or weaves?</h2> <p>To prolong your style, you might avoid washing your hair for up to four to eight weeks. “This is too long to wait between washes, and a way to wash the scalp should be instituted even if it means the hairstyle is a bit mussed,” Dr. McMichael says.</p> <p>She offers this tip for regular hair-washing: “Wash the scalp primarily and allow the shampoo to just run through the hair shafts to minimize further drying of the hair shafts.”</p> <h2>How often should you wash long hair?</h2> <p>Like those with curly hair, people with really<span> </span>long hair<span> </span>may experience dry ends since the sebum may not travel the entire length of the hair shaft, says Dr. Luke. “Shampooing is related to cleansing the scalp, so the length of the hair does not affect how often it should be washed,” she says. Instead, go by whether your hair is oily or dry.</p> <h2>How often should you wash with a scalp disorder?</h2> <p>If you have a condition like<span> </span>scalp psoriasis<span> </span>or seborrheic dermatitis (aka<span> </span>dandruff), you may need to wash your scalp with medicated shampoo several times per week, Dr. McMichael says. “I typically recommend concentrating shampoos on the scalp itself—especially [for] those who use medicated shampoos, because some can be drying or strip the hair—and then follow up by using a good conditioner for the rest of the hair.”</p> <h2>How do you know which shampoo to use?</h2> <p>Your choice in shampoo matters because it’s part of your larger hair-care practice. A shampoo that doesn’t weigh down your fine, thin hair may extend the time between washings. Medicated shampoos may require a certain number of uses per week.</p> <p>You’re probably wondering, “How do I know which shampoo to use?” Here’s a<span> </span>hair stylist tip: Use a shampoo that has high-quality surfactants. This will make a big difference in the look and feel of your locks. “The less abrasive your surfactants are, the more moisture will stay in your hair,” says Michael Dueñas, an Aloxxi celebrity hairstylist based in Los Angeles.</p> <div id="article_nativo3" data-nativo-placement-id="1118521"></div> <h3 class="">Gentler ingredients</h3> <p>Abrasive surfactants like sodium lauryl sulfate strip your hair of moisture, Dueñas explains. And that can lead to breakage, especially if you’re washing your damaged hair too often.</p> <p>“Using a moisture shampoo is always a bonus,” he says. “If the surfactant is a variation of sodium laureth sulfate or sodium lauryl ether sulfate or a coconut derivative, you are in good hands.” Sodium lauryl ether sulfate is gentler than sodium laureth sulfate, he says.</p> <p>Another great product to consider is a deep conditioner, which can offset some of the damage and keep hair looking healthy, Dr. Luke says.</p> <h3 class="">Balanced pH</h3> <p>To be effective, your shampoo also has to have the perfect pH level, which means it needs an acidic ingredient like sodium citrate or citric acid. A quick chemistry refresher: The pH scale ranges from zero to 14, with 7 being “neutral.” The lower numbers are more acidic, and the higher numbers are alkaline.</p> <p>Why should you care about your shampoo’s pH? It can affect your hair health. If your shampoo has an alkaline pH, for instance, it can<span> </span>cause cuticle damage and hair breakage, according to research in a 2014 issue of the<span> </span><em>International Journal of Trichology</em>. Pro tip: If your hair is prone to frizzing, choose a low-pH shampoo (it’ll say “pH balanced” on the label).</p> <h2>Can you use dry shampoo instead of washing?</h2> <p>No.<span> </span>Dry shampoo<span> </span>may be trendy, but it doesn’t work the same way as liquid shampoo, Dr. Luke says. “It has ingredients that help absorb excess oil on the scalp,” she says. “They do not cleanse the scalp or remove the dirt or oil.</p> <p>It’s a good call in a pinch if you are between washes, but it’s not a substitute for shampoo, she warns.</p> <p>McMichael agrees. “Dry shampoos are best used to prolong washing by a few days at most or quickly allow better appearance of hair shafts when they are oily,” she says.</p> <h2>Is it unhealthy to wash your hair every day?</h2> <p>It can be. “If you are washing your hair multiple times a week, that in and of itself may not cause damage,” says Dr. Luke. But if you always use high-heat styling tools after you wash, and you wash it daily, it may cause cumulative damage to the hair, including dry hair and breakage.</p> <p>If you are experiencing hair loss and shedding, more-frequent manipulation from over-shampooing or styling may lead to more noticeable shedding, she says.</p> <p>So, how often should you wash your hair? It’s a fine balance. If you don’t wash your hair enough, you can also run into problems. “You may experience buildup or flaking,” says Dr. Luke.</p> <p>Getting it right may involve some trial and error, adds Dueñas. “If your hair seems to get greasier quicker with more washing, then you need to do less,” he says. “If your hair is naturally greasy, then you may need to wash slightly more.”</p>

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4 genius morning hacks when you have no time to shower

<p> We all have those mornings: the alarm blares, you hit snooze, roll over and fall back asleep ... ten times in a row. If there are zero minutes to jump in the shower before heading out, use these household items strategically to make it look – and smell – like you did.</p> <p><strong>1. Baby wipes </strong></p> <p><strong> </strong>If yesterday’s sweat is still clinging to your skin, whip out the baby wipes stat. Rub down the stinky areas, and then spritz a bit of antibacterial body odour spray on top. If this not-showering thing is a habit for you, consider investing in wipes designed just for this purpose. Look for ones that are super soft, plant-based, biodegradable, compostable and smell amazing. Bad smells, be gone!</p> <p><strong>2. Baby powder </strong></p> <p><strong> </strong>Depending on the thickness and texture of your strands, second-day hair can look either fashionably unkempt or just plain oily. If the latter’s the case, rub a bit of baby powder onto your scalp to soak up the grease. Again, if hectic mornings are business as usual for you, invest in a dry shampoo that will whisk away dirt and oil without leaving a powdery residue. If hair stink is your main complaint, give strands a light spritz with fragrance made for hair.</p> <p><strong>3. Apple cider vinegar </strong></p> <p><strong> </strong>For greasy morning skin, first wash your face with a mild cleanser. After drying, pat on an apple cider vinegar toner (one-part apple cider vinegar two parts water) to purify and refresh. Bonus: ACV’s bacteria-fighting, pH-balancing properties will rid your body of unwanted odour, so feel free to rub it on any lingering smelly spots.</p> <p><strong>4. Witch hazel</strong></p> <p>Another amazing skin tonic? Witch hazel. Pour a small amount on a cotton pad and gently wipe your cheeks, forehead, chin and nose to remove excess oil and sweat. Consider keeping a bottle at your desk at work to maintain an oil-free T-zone all day long.</p> <p><em>Written by Ashley Paige. This article first appeared in </em><a href="https://www.readersdigest.co.nz/culture/no-time-to-shower-then-you-need-these-8-genius-morning-hacks"><em>Reader’s Digest</em>.</a><em> For more of what you love from the world’s best-loved magazine, </em><a href="http://readersdigest.innovations.co.nz/c/readersdigestemailsubscribe?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=articles&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;keycode=WRN93V"><em>here’s our best subscription offer.</em></a></p> <p><img style="width: 100px !important; height: 100px !important;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7820640/1.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/f30947086c8e47b89cb076eb5bb9b3e2" /></p>

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Professional cleaner reveals her MAJOR shower cleaning tip

<div class="post_body_wrapper"> <div class="post-body-container"> <div class="post_body"> <div class="body_text redactor-styles redactor-in"> <p>A cleaner has shared her major secret tip to get her showers sparkling clean.</p> <p>Under the TikTok account<em> <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thebigcleanco?lang=en" target="_blank">The Big Clean Co</a>,</em> a Melbourne woman has showed her method of using dishwashing liquid to get shower tiles, shower screen and metal shower handles absolutely spotless.</p> <p>“This shower gets cleaned weekly, if it was a deep clean, we’d brush these bits,” she wrote.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7841502/shower-2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/c9283a99d87146219aaecb6e7984a19c" /></p> <p>After wiping all of the shower surfaces down, she then showed how she rinsed the shower before drying it with a towel.</p> <p>“When we use dishwashing liquid, we don’t even need a glass cleaner,” she said.</p> <p>The clip has been viewed by more than two million people and left viewers excited to try the new cleaning hack out on their own showers.</p> <p>“This is so impressive,” one person wrote.</p> <p>“I love the tip! Thank you,” wrote another.</p> <p>A third said: “Going to clean my shower right now! Looks brilliant!”</p> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="post-action-bar-component-wrapper"> <div class="post-actions-component"> <div class="upper-row"></div> </div> </div>

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Man tragically killed at a baby shower

<div class="post_body_wrapper"> <div class="post_body"> <div class="body_text redactor-styles redactor-in"> <p>A US man has died after being struck by metal shrapnel during an explosion at a baby shower.</p> <p>Family and friends gathered to celebrate the baby's pending arrival when the homeowner fired a small cannon device.</p> <p>The device blew up, causing shrapnel to strike three parked vehicles and the man who was standing nearby.</p> <p>Evan Thomas Silva, 26, was the only person struck by the device.</p> <p>“The cannon is designed to create a big flash, a loud noise and create smoke,” Michigan State Police said in a statement.</p> <p>“The cannon did not contain any projectiles, but it is suspected that the gun powder loaded into the device caused the cannon to fracture, resulting in shrapnel being spread in the area.”</p> <p>Evan was taken to hospital, where he later died from his injuries.</p> <p>His brother Phil Silva posted a touching tribute on Facebook.</p> <p>“Yesterday evening, Evan Silva was in a fatal accident,” Phil wrote.</p> <p>“He has left behind a loving family, countless friends and memories in all of our hearts. Further details are to come, your thoughts and prayers are appreciated.”</p> <p>“I’m still expecting a call, a text, snap. I want it to not be true,” a friend posted online.</p> <p>“You were such a fun, happy, uplifting kinda attitude guy ... my condolences to all the family,” another wrote.</p> </div> </div> </div>

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Woman's shower habits spark online debates

<div class="post_body_wrapper"> <div class="post_body"> <div class="body_text redactor-styles redactor-in"> <p>A Twitter user has divided the internet after explaining her shower habit and asking the social media platform if it was "normal".</p> <p>“Help me settle a debate," Alice wrote to her followers.</p> <p>“It’s normal to shower with your back to the shower right? Not facing the water?” she asked.</p> <p>Many were quick to share their thoughts on the matter.</p> <p>“I face the water to keep my hair from getting wet and then spin round and hold my hair out of the way to do my back,” one person said.</p> <p>“See I’m not the only one who thinks facing the water is strange,” another added, tagging their friend.</p> <p>People said that they prefer their back to the water so they don't get hit in the face.</p> <p>“Aye but you’ve got to at least face the shower at least once to get hit on the face with the water,” one person then demanded.</p> <p>“I don’t like my face in the water at all, unless I’ve had a terrible day and you do that thing they do in films, where you put your hands on the wall and lean forward with your hair streaming down, like you’ve just blown up an entire planet and need some time to think,” another person joked.</p> <p>One user was "shocked" to learn that people have their backs to the wall.</p> <p>“I just assumed EVERYONE faced the water. Back to the shower is for hangover recovery only, usually breathing deeply and steadying yourself against the wall, praying you’re not pushing sick down the plug hole before the time’s up.”</p> <p>Alice disagreed.</p> <p>“I always face away from the water,” she said. “You stand underneath the water with your back to the shower head so water runs over you!”</p> </div> </div> </div>

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Brutal moment husband exposes wife at baby shower: “This isn’t my child”

<p>Video footage has captured the brutal moment a husband exposed his pregnant wife for carrying another man’s baby in front of family and friends at their baby shower. </p> <p>The clip was taken during what was meant to be a glorious occasion. </p> <p>The video was shared on Reddit although its authenticity has not yet been verified.</p> <p>According to a Reddit translation, the Spanish speaking husband addresses the crowd and says, “This is my lawyer. We have over here a document.”</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7838634/baby-shower-1.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/ab74751a523443c59f26c9ffc6a5f8e3" /></p> <p>“You guys all know that I’m expecting a boy. Here, look, I have the pregnancy test, you guys know I’m gonna (sic) be a dad. But you know what, you guys overlooked an important detail.</p> <p>“Here is proof that she isn’t four months pregnant but in fact she is six months pregnant.”</p> <p>The mum-to-be becomes more agitated as she begs her husband to discuss the matter with her outside, however he persists. </p> <p>A lawyer went on to show the crowd footage of the wife appearing to get hot and heavy with her love, who sat at the baby shower just a few tables away.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7838635/baby-shower-4.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/ddb688d35b844f968f75729483f7dd8a" /></p> <p>“That isn’t my child; this party is for these two” the man adds.</p> <p>As the baby shower begins to descend into chaos he says, “This party is not for me, but for them and I will leave it at that.”</p> <p>The woman’s father also can be heard on the footage turning to his daughter and asking,“What is your husband talking about?” to which she responds, “It’s a misunderstanding, Dad.”</p> <p>The chaotic event ended in a scuffle as the husband left with his wife chasing after him. </p> <p>The video was shared on the subreddit r/Trashy.</p> <p>The group has over 2.2 million members and is described as a place for “trashy stories, trashy glamour, all things fake, plastic and downright trashy”.</p> <p><em>Watch the video h<a rel="noopener" href="https://www.reddit.com/r/trashy/comments/jmid6h/husband_provides_proof_that_the_child_is_not_his/" target="_blank">ere.</a></em></p>

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“Works awesome!”: New cleaning hack will get rid of tough shower stains

<p>A new shower cleaning hack has gone viral, much to the delight of people who clean around the world.</p> <p>The new trick sees people using a magic sponge with a dishwasher tablet inside the sponge which helps remove tough stains.</p> <p>One mum shared her impressive results with the popular Facebook group<span> </span><em>Mums Who Clean</em>.</p> <p>“My husband is a mechanic, so our shower cops a lot from all his hand washes to get the grease off,” Lauren said.</p> <p>“I tried the magic sponge and dishwasher tablet. Five minutes and not much effort!”</p> <p>She revealed her technique, explaining that she lets the magic sponge get very wet before removing part of the sponge and inserting the dishwasher tablet into the sponge.</p> <p>Lauren explained that she removed the “power ball” part of the dishwasher tablet.</p> <p><img style="width: 0px; height: 0px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7836176/body-shower.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/c465a27f9a174cbaa03c3359a3a28a69" /></p> <p>Other group members excitedly revealed that they had tried the hack with exciting results.</p> <p>“I did the same thing tonight! Amazing results here too!” said one.</p> <p>Added another: “Works awesome! Did mine today with the same trick, it’s never been this clean before!”</p> <p>Wrote a third: “I gave it a go and worked a dream. Didn’t even have to scrub hard.”</p> <p>Said one more: “I used this as well on shower I had scrubbed with everything. Worked like a charm.”</p> <p><em>Photo credits:<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/mumswhoclean/" target="_blank">Facebook / Mums Who Clean</a></em></p>

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5 things you should never ever do in a hotel room

<p>Your health and your wallet will thank you if you never do these things in a hotel room.</p> <p><strong>1. Steal the bathrobes</strong></p> <p>“Guests sometimes take home essential amenities that the hotel provides during their stay, like shampoo, lotion, and other vanity products,” says Ryazan Tristram, photographer and travel blogger for <u><a href="https://everythingzany.com/">everythingzany.com</a></u>. “However, people sometimes take home the bathrobes as well, which is a no-no.” You could be charged extra or fined for taking pricier items, including linens, artwork and electronics.</p> <p><strong>2. Cook anything without a proper kitchen area</strong></p> <p>“We always want to save money when we travel,” says Tristram. “Some guests will bring their portable cooking appliances with them during their stay, and this can cause a few problems, primarily if the hotel room doesn’t have any kitchenette area.” These cooking appliances can set off a hotel’s fire alarm system or cause an actual fire, so stick with no-cook meals if you want to save a few bucks on food.</p> <p><strong>3. Keep your bathroom door ajar when taking a shower</strong></p> <p>There’s nothing wrong with enjoying a steamy shower at a hotel, but beware what the vapour can do if released into your room. “A hotel’s hot showers can cause a lot of steam, and as a result, can trigger the hotel’s fire alarm system inside your bedroom if you leave the bathroom door open,” says Tristram.</p> <p><strong>4. Restock the minibar</strong></p> <p>There’s no crime in enjoying a drink from the hotel fridge. After all, that’s their purpose. “But if you plan on taking a bottle of whiskey out of there, just accept that you’ll still be paying for it,” says Sophia Borghese, a consultant for La Galerie Hotel in New Orleans. “Don’t try to fake the hotel staff out by replacing the liquor with a half-sipped bottle of Diet Coke. This happens more often than you might think, and those who do it still get charged for taking that [expensive little] bottle of spirits.”</p> <p><strong>5. Use the fire sprinkler as a coat hanger</strong></p> <p>Closets are great for hanging clothes. Fire sprinklers are not. Bob Tupper, author of <em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Drinking-Culture-Tuppers-Exploring-Europe/dp/0990961001/?tag=reader0b-20">Drinking In the Culture: Tuppers’ Guide to Exploring Great Beers in Europe</a>, </em>says he saw people using the safety devices as coat hooks – a silly stunt that could not only set off a hotel’s fire alarm but also burst the pipes, causing water to flood into rooms.</p> <p><em>Source: <a href="https://www.rd.com/advice/travel/never-do-in-hotel-room/">RD.com</a></em></p> <p><em>Written by Noelia Trujillo. This article first appeared in <a href="https://www.readersdigest.com.au/travel/tips/15-things-you-should-never-ever-do-hotel-room">Reader’s Digest</a>. For more of what you love from the world’s best-loved magazine, <a href="http://readersdigest.innovations.co.nz/c/readersdigestemailsubscribe?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=articles&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;keycode=WRN93V">here’s our best subscription offer.</a></em></p>

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Duchess Meghan sets record straight on “lavish” baby shower

<p>Duchess Meghan has set the record straight about her highly publicised baby shower in New York, according to<span> </span><em><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.hellomagazine.com/royalty/2019111680667/meghan-markle-sets-record-straight-baby-shower/" target="_blank">Hello!</a> </em>magazine.</p> <p>She has denied previous reports that she intentionally left her mother, Doria Ragland, off the guest list as well as the price of the event as new court papers were filed on Friday about the baby shower.</p> <p>"The suggestion that the Claimant (Meghan) deliberately left out her mother from her baby shower and ditched her in favour of her famous friends is untrue and offensive to her," Meghan's lawyers said.</p> <p>"The Claimant’s mother was of course invited, and the Claimant also offered to buy her airline tickets. However, her mother was unable to attend due to work commitments.</p> <p>The new paperwork filed by the Duchess of Sussex’s lawyers also mentioned the cost of the event as well as the amount of famous guests who attended, including Serena Williams, Amal Clooney, Jessica Mulroney and Gayle King.</p> <p>“It was also untrue and offensive to suggest, as the article does, that ‘not a single guest had known [the Claimant] for more than a decade’. In fact, the true position was that the baby shower (which actually cost a tiny fraction of the $300k falsely stated in the article) was organised and hosted by one of her best friends from university; the fifteen guests who attended the shower were close friends and included long-term friendships some of which had existed for over 20 years."</p> <p>In early October, Prince Harry and the Duchess of Sussex announced they were taking legal action against the British tabloid<span> </span>The Daily Mail over its publication of a private letter written by Meghan.</p> <p>The couple allege it was published illegally and selectively edited to hide “lies” reported about her.</p>

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Smart things healthy people do before 10 am

<p>Try these expert tips on how to enjoy a healthier start to every morning.</p> <p><strong>Start your day right with these tips</strong></p> <p>Early birds get the worm. You know how the old adage, but do you know how to put it into practice? Here, experts share what healthy people do before 10 am… every single day.</p> <p><strong>They meditate</strong></p> <p>Before you roll your eyes at the thought, remember that meditation doesn’t have to be a lengthy, drawn-out process to be effective. As Dr Lillie Rosenthal, explains, setting your intention for your day helps you connect your mind and body, allowing you to reset and reboot your central nervous system. “Upon opening your eyes in the morning, instead of racing to put on the coffee, take a brief pause,” she recommends. “Do some gentle breathing, breathing in for four counts in and breathing out for eight counts, taking in the ‘good’ and letting out ‘negative’ feelings.”</p> <p><strong>They take a break from their phones</strong></p> <p>It’s not enough to pause before hopping out of bed. Bryce Kennedy, life coach, says the healthiest of people avoid their phone as long as possible. In fact, prioritizing your time without distractions is essential. “Nothing or no one is allowed to enter that space. It is a time for reflection, writing, brainstorming, and flow. It is a small window that is open and needs to be caught in order to be used. Once the phone is turned on, emails checked, news read, texts replied to, etc. the window is closed,” Kennedy says.</p> <p><strong>They take a shower</strong></p> <p>Bad news if you prefer to rinse off before you go to bed at night, according to immunologist Dr Tania Elliott, it’s a healthier tactic to hop in the shower in the a.m. Not only does it help you feel extra alert and more awake, but when you add eucalyptus or peppermint you help stimulate your level of concentration via your nasal passages. (Add a drop of an essential oil to a diffuser near your tub.) Clean and ready to impress your boss? Yes, please!</p> <p><strong>They read something inspiring</strong></p> <p>Consider the last book you read or article you clicked on via Facebook that left you smiling once you paged through it. Life coach Dr Cali Estes says healthy people continuously seek sources of inspiration to keep them in the right frame of mind. “Spend ten minutes reading any article that will help you obtain your goals. This can be business, personal, self esteem-related or anything that will give you tips and tricks you can apply throughout the day,” she suggests.</p> <p><strong>They connect with others</strong></p> <p>While having “you” time is necessary to regenerate and refocus, Jeana Anderson Cohen, founder and CEO of the wellness and fitness media company A Sweat Life says spending time with others – especially those who lift you up and support you – is essential to your daily health. “Your family, your friends, your children, the groups you dedicate your time to – those connections are shown to be the greatest determinant of happiness. And happiness is not so surprisingly tied to your health. Try sending a text or an email to one person you miss in the morning with the intention to join them for a coffee or lunch in the near future,” she says.</p> <p><strong>They stay positive</strong></p> <p>Did your mother ever nudge you to talk to yourself as you would to your best friend? Probably so – and it’s worth applying that logic as an adult. Sonia Satra, life coach, says many people harp on the reasons they’re not measuring up, from not sleeping enough to contributing enough and the list goes on. “The best way to combat those ‘not-enough’s’ is to shift your focus by asking questions that will give you helpful, powerful answers,” she suggests. For example, ask yourself: What do I have enough time for? What am I already doing well? What am I grateful for? What do I want today to look like?</p> <p><strong>They practice gratitude</strong></p> <p>Even though the practice of gratitude is something that’s been trendy lately, Kien Vuu, MD and motivational speaker, says the benefits of being thankful are timeless. That’s why starting each day focusing on your blessings maintains your health in a long-term way. “Writing down things you are grateful for every morning releases feel-good hormones that prime your body for health and wellness. The emotion of gratitude cancels out fear and stress as well as reduces the production of cortisol, aka the stress hormone. This is a great emotional priming technique that allows you to better handle any stressors that may arise during the day,” he says.</p> <p><strong>They exercise</strong></p> <p>While hitting snooze once (or twice or three times) is a tempting prospect when you didn’t catch quite enough Zzzs, Dr Rosenthal says starting your day with movement does wonders for your health. “It gets you out of your heads and into your body. It stimulates the neurotransmitters in the brain and keeps you physiologically younger and more agile,” she notes. When you put a good workout on your priority list, you strengthen your cardiovascular health, curb your appetite, increase your consciousness, build muscle, and boost your overall happiness.</p> <p><strong>They eat breakfast at 10 am</strong></p> <p>Believe it or not, there’s a big benefit to fasting, according to Dr Rosenthal. When you go without food for ten or more hours, your blood sugar normalizes and your metabolism is restarted. This is why the healthiest of people wait to eat breakfast until 10 am, when enough time has passed from their midnight snack. A doughnut, of course, won’t do your body good though, which is why Dr Rosenthal recommends focusing on nutritious options, including unprocessed foods, such as oatmeal or a homemade smoothie with fruit and vegetables.</p> <p><strong>They hydrate</strong></p> <p>Considering our bodies are mostly made of water, it’s likely no surprise that continuously chugging this natural wonder is a must for a long life. Dr Rosenthal says the majority of us wait to chug water until we feel thirsty, and by then, it’s too late. She recommends drinking at least 350 to 475 millilitres of water right after you wake up and drinking a minimum of two litres total throughout the course of your day. “Try adding lemon to water which is alkaline and adds a favourable PH balance to the body. Do your best to avoid sugary drinks and diet drinks which are heavy on artificial sweeteners and chemical additives which the body processes as sugar anyway,” she adds.</p> <p><strong>They keep their space clean</strong></p> <p>Technically this is a task that should be completed before you tuck yourself in for the night, but Kennedy stresses it’s a must in order to start off your day on the right foot. Clearing off your workspace might not seem like such a big deal, after all, it’s just a few papers and a coffee cup, but it’s more about the mental message it sends your brain and confidence. “When the mind sees clutter, it elicits shame, guilt, and anxiety, creating confusion and chaos,” he explains. “If your desk is clean and you sit down to that first thing in the morning – Wow! – a completely different feeling. There is a sense of empowerment, a clean slate, and a new beginning.” He suggests removing papers, pictures, office supplies, corporate nonsense, books, and whatever else you may store to make room for more creativity.</p> <p><em>Written by Lindsay Tigar. This article first appeared in </em><a href="https://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/tips/smart-things-healthy-people-do-before-10-am"><em>Reader’s Digest</em></a><em>. For more of what you love from the world’s best-loved magazine,</em><em><u> </u></em><a href="http://readersdigest.innovations.co.nz/c/readersdigestemailsubscribe?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=articles&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;keycode=WRN93V"><em>here’s our best subscription offer.</em></a></p> <p><img style="width: 100px !important; height: 100px !important;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7820640/1.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/f30947086c8e47b89cb076eb5bb9b3e2" /></p>

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Do you wash this body part in the shower? Simple question sparks huge online debate

<p>Showering seems to be a pretty straightforward task – turn on the water, lather, clean and rinse. However, a simple question about a common shower habit has taken Twitter by storm, dividing people all over the Internet.</p> <p>The burning question came from American writer and graphic designer Conor Arpwel, who posted a poll on his account on Friday.</p> <p>“Do you wash your legs when you take a shower?” he asked.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Do you wash your legs when you take a shower?</p> — Conor Arpwel 🌹🧰🌾 (@Arpwel) <a href="https://twitter.com/Arpwel/status/1126594900055793671?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">May 9, 2019</a></blockquote> <p>Within 24 hours, Arpwel’s post went viral with an overwhelming number of responses. At the time of writing, more than 816,000 people had voted on the poll, with the majority (81 per cent) saying they wash their legs.</p> <p>Many of the leg-washers have expressed confusion over the idea of skipping the lower body parts in the shower. “Are there people who do not feel the need to... wash their legs...” one asked.</p> <p>“I’ve spent awhile thinking about all the reasons not to wash every inch of your body while in the shower and I couldn’t find one,” another commented.</p> <p>“Everyone who voted no, think about all the toilet seats you’ve sat on and wash those thighs!” one urged.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none"> <p dir="ltr">I wash everything. What is this question?</p> — Ms.TymberleeChanel (@TymberleeHill) <a href="https://twitter.com/TymberleeHill/status/1126964650233430016?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">May 10, 2019</a></blockquote> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none"> <p dir="ltr">so people really just walking around with clean everything else but dirty legs I- <a href="https://t.co/C7EoUwRnrl">pic.twitter.com/C7EoUwRnrl</a></p> — 𝒥𝑜𝓇𝒹𝓎𝓃🧸 (@prettyprncesss) <a href="https://twitter.com/prettyprncesss/status/1127013395948089345?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">May 11, 2019</a></blockquote> <p>Non-leg-washers have their own explanation. “I only [wash my legs] if I’ve been bare legged or to the gym and they feel sweaty,” one shared. “I used to but when I got eczema on my legs I had to stop as soap made it worse and I was told not to use SLS soaps. It's bad for your skin and mostly unnecessary.”</p> <p>Another replied, “They've been safe inside my pants, the whole day. What's the problem?”</p> <p>One believed the trickle-down effect is enough to keep their lower body clean. “I feel like my legs don’t get dirty,” they wrote. “Plus, soap and shampoo run down my legs when I’m showering.”</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Does the shower not automatically do that?</p> — The Sassiest Semite (@LittleMissLizz) <a href="https://twitter.com/LittleMissLizz/status/1127026932791566336?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">May 11, 2019</a></blockquote> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none"> <p dir="ltr">I'm tired of hiding in the shadows, which is why I'm coming forward to say... I don't wash my legs. Soap is not good for your skin! I wash all the parts of me that get smelly, the soapy water washes over the rest of me, but I feel no need to scrub all of my skin, thanks</p> — ghostmeow 🌹 (@ghostmeow) <a href="https://twitter.com/ghostmeow/status/1126954148249915393?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">May 10, 2019</a></blockquote> <p>As the question’s creator, Arpwel stated his position on the matter. “Leg washing is an important component of my cleanliness regimen, but also I’m not out to get people who don’t wash their legs for various reasons,” he wrote.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">My name is Conor Arpwel and I am a leg washer<br /><br />Leg washing is an important component of my cleanliness regimen, but also I’m not out to get people who don’t wash their legs for various reasons<br /><br />I only meant for this whole thing to be a fun &amp; frivolous topic of conversation lol</p> — Conor Arpwel 🌹🧰🌾 (@Arpwel) <a href="https://twitter.com/Arpwel/status/1126889261129719816?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">May 10, 2019</a></blockquote> <p>A dermatologist has previously shared his two cents on the subject. “Unless your legs are visibly soiled, you don't actually need to wash them directly with a cleanser,” Joshua Zeichner, director of cosmetic and clinical research in dermatology at Mount Sinai Hospital in New York City told <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.womenshealthmag.com/health/a19902843/should-you-wash-your-legs/" target="_blank"><em>Women’s Health</em></a>. “The cleanser that drips down your body is enough to remove most of the dirt and sweat that accumulates during the day.”</p>

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Health check: Do cold showers cool you down?

<p>It’s normal to feel hot, sweaty and uncomfortable in warm weather, but what’s the best way to cool down? To answer this question, we first need to look at how the body maintains stable internal (core) temperature.</p> <p>We feel uncomfortable at hot environmental (ambient) temperatures because our bodies are striving to maintain a constant core temperature. When the ambient temperature is too high, we engage in reflexive (things our nervous system does without us realising) and behavioural (things we do) adaptations to try to cool ourselves. The discomfort we feel is the motivation for the behavioural adjustments. Many of us just want to jump in a cold shower. So will this help to cool us down?</p> <p>From the physiological perspective, core temperature is what our body is regulating. Small changes in core temperature can quickly lead to illness (such as heat exhaustion, fever and heat stroke). We are not consciously aware of our core body temperature. Although the body has sensors that monitor core body temperature, our perception of temperature comes exclusively from skin temperature sensors (temperature receptors). These allow us to sense if we are cold, comfortable or hot.</p> <p>Human biology is remarkable; we maintain a relatively stable core body temperature over a wide range of ambient temperatures. For instance, core body temperature only differs by 0.5⁰C over a wide ambient temperature range (as wide as <a href="http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs00484-013-0673-8">12-48⁰C</a>). The body’s ability to restrict core temperature to such a tight range means reflexes to control core temperature need to occur before there is an actual change in core temperature.</p> <p>Controlling blood flow to the skin is an important way of controlling internal body temperature. The circulatory system moves blood around the body; it also transports heat around the body, so changing where the blood flows allows the body to determine where the heat goes. With reduced blood flow to the skin, heat is conserved in the body, and with increased blood flow to skin, heat is lost to the environment.</p> <p>In cold environments, there is almost no blood flow to the skin to keep all the heat in (which is why we get frostbite). This is why, when we’re very cold, our skin is pallid and pale. At hot ambient temperatures, skin blood flow can increase to as much as seven litres per minute to try to expel all the heat through the skin. This is <a href="http://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJMra011089">a 23-fold increase</a> to normal, and about 35% of the total volume of blood volume pumped from the heart. This is why, when we’re hot, we can appear flushed.</p> <p>The exquisite control of blood flow to the skin means there is an optimum ambient temperature (known as thermoneutral), where the body does not engage in any regulatory activity to maintain core temperature. This occurs when the skin blood flow is <a href="http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1566070216300029">about 300mL a minute</a>.</p> <p>Other mechanisms for temperature control are quite different. In cold environments, the body increases heat generation to <a href="http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1566070216300157">maintain core temperature</a>. One method is to move the muscles to heat them up (shivering thermogenesis); another is to speed up metabolism to produce more heat (non-shivering thermogenesis).</p> <p>In hot environments, when air temperature is higher than skin temperature (above roughly 33⁰C), heat loss only takes place with sweating. When sweat evaporates off our skin, it <a href="http://physics.stackexchange.com/questions/255016/evaporation-of-water">has a cooling effect</a>. Sweating, or wet skin, can increase the amount of heat lost from the body by as much as <a href="http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/0013935167900023">ten times</a>.</p> <p>Given free range, animals will spend most of their time in a <a href="http://jap.physiology.org/content/92/6/2667">thermoneutral environment</a>, where they are most comfortable (the comfort zone). Humans are most comfortable (thermoneutral) <a href="http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/0013935167900023">at an ambient temperature of about 28⁰C</a> (and a skin temperature of 29-33⁰C). The further we are away from that temperature (either cold or warm), the more uncomfortable we feel.</p> <p><strong>The verdict</strong></p> <p>Our bodies respond more to changes in skin temperature <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2290547/">than core temperature</a>. So, if we cool part of the body (for instance with a cold sponge, or cold shower), skin blood flow decreases and <a href="https://www.jstage.jst.go.jp/article/physiolsci/57/4/57_4_241/_article">skin temperature falls</a>.</p> <p>Here we “feel” cooler because cold water causes cold temperature receptor activation in the skin. We may also feel more comfortable, as our skin temperature enters the comfort zone. But because there is less blood flowing to the skin, we’ll actually keep more heat inside, thus leading to an unintended overall increase in core temperature.</p> <p>A cold shower to “cool off” might seem a good immediate choice. We feel cooler because of the combination of the cold water and the decreased blood flow to the skin, but in fact our core will get warmer because of reduced heat loss from the body without skin blood flow. Some minutes later, we feel hot again. But a warm sensation on the skin will lead to increased blood flow to the skin, increasing heat loss from the body.</p> <p>So, keeping cool in summer will be more effective with a warm shower (water temperature about 33⁰C) rather than a cold shower (water temperature 20-25⁰C). It will seem warm initially but after a few minutes will provide better comfort in the long term.</p> <p><em>Written by Yossi Rathner, Joshua Luke Ameliorate and Mark Schier. Republished with permission of </em><a href="https://theconversation.com/health-check-do-cold-showers-cool-you-down-71004"><em>The Conversation</em></a><em>.</em></p>

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You’ll never believe the extreme cost of Duchess Meghan’s New York baby shower

<p>Duchess Meghan arrived in New York City to see her friends and celebrate that her first child with husband Prince Harry is due soon with a star-studded $300,000 (NZD$ 437,445) baby shower</p> <p>With 15 of her closest friends around her, the Duchess was sure to have enjoyed herself, especially considering her co-hosts Amal Clooney (George Clooney's wife) and Serena Williams were picking up the bill.</p> <p>The baby shower was held at the Mark Hotel, where guests stayed in the $75,000-a-night (NZD$ 109,361) Grand Penthouse Suite. This astonishing cost makes it the most expensive hotel room in the USA.</p> <p>The cost of Duchess Meghan’s baby shower is an extremely high number, coming in at a staggering $300,000 (NZD$ 437,445). Here is how much everything cost: </p> <ul> <li>The Mark Hotel Grand Penthouse Suite: US$150,000 (<span>NZD</span>$ 218,722)</li> <li>Five nights in a one-bedroom suite at the Mark Hotel: US$9,982.05 (<span>NZD</span>$ 14,555)</li> <li>Dinner for five at the Polo Bar: US$420 (<span>NZD</span>$ 612)</li> <li>Two Royal Protection officers: US$86,316 (<span>NZD</span>$ 125,861)</li> <li>Flights from London to NYC: US$26,202 (<span>NZD</span>$ 38,206)</li> <li>17 Away carry-on suitcases: US$3,825 (<span>NZD</span>$ 5,577)</li> <li>Harpist: US$625 (<span>NZD</span>$ 909)</li> <li>Roses: US$400 (<span>NZD</span>$ 583)</li> <li>Lunch: US$78 approx. (<span>NZD</span>$ 113)</li> <li>Afternoon tea: US$25 approx. (<span>NZD</span>$ 26)</li> <li>Mandarin tree: US$140 approx. (<span>NZD</span>$ 204)</li> <li>Trek bicycle: US$609.99 approx. (<span>NZD</span>$ 888)</li> <li>Cotton candy machine: US$199.99 (<span>NZD</span>$ 290)</li> <li>Total cost: US<span>$279.201.98 (NZD$ 407,116)</span></li> </ul> <p>Along with human rights lawyer Amal Clooney and tennis legend Serena Williams, the star-studded event was attended designer Misha Nonoo, stylist Jessica Mulroney, former <em>Suits</em><span> </span>co-star Abigail Spencer, Oprah Winfrey's best friend and TV anchor Gayle King, and makeup artist Daniel Martin.</p> <p>However, many are interested in whether or not the baby shower breaks royal protocol. Royal correspondent and commentator James Brookes <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2019-02-20/meghan-duchess-of-sussex-nyc-baby-shower-royal-protocol/10831004" target="_blank">told the ABC </a>that the reporting around whether or not Duchess Meghan breaks royal protocol is unfounded.</p> <p>"There's been a lot of talk, particularly in digital versions of the British press, of her breaking so-called 'protocol'," he said.</p> <p>"A lot of it is rubbish. The 'shutting her own car door' is a good example – many times, the Royals have someone there to open their car door for them and they're straight out and into greeting people, but if there's nobody there to shut it and it's in the way, they'll close it themselves," he explained.</p> <p>"Remember, they are human, after all. Meghan's putting her own stamp on her Royal role.”</p> <p>Scroll through the gallery to see the star studded baby shower.</p> <p>Do you think the baby shower breaks royal protocol? Let us know in the comments.</p>

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Mum-to-be cancels baby shower after family mocks unique name

<p>An angry mum-to-be has decided to cancel her baby shower after she discovered her friends and family were mocking the name she has chosen for her unborn son behind her back.</p> <p>The post, which was originally posted on Facebook, has been shared to a forum on Reddit and shows the woman going on a furious rant about her family’s behaviour.</p> <p>She calls out those who are questioning her sanity for wanting to name her son Squire Sebastian Senator.</p> <p>The rant starts off with an explanation as to why the event has been cancelled.</p> <p><img style="width: 0px; height: 0px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7822379/skf5qmmcuw221.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/9923d418a247406cbcd6d7a654f5a301" /></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><em>Photo: </em><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/insanepeoplefacebook/comments/a43e0k/woman_cancels_babyshower_over_name/"><em>Reddit</em><em> </em></a></p> <p>“It brings me pain to have to tell you this, but I am cancelling the event. I will text you soon if you’re invited to my smaller, more inclusive party. At least here no one will judge me,” she said.</p> <p>“Why? Why am I doing this?</p> <p>“Because ya’ll have been talking sh*t about my unborn baby. AN UNBORN CHILD. How can you judge an unborn child? What is wrong with you?”</p> <p>She then went on to accuse her family and friends of spreading rumours about her because the name isn’t according to their taste.</p> <p>“No, I am not crazy. No, I am not mentally unstable. No, I was not drunk when I named my child,” she said. “His name is Squire Sebastian Senator. That is that.”</p> <p>The name, which according to the expectant mother is inspired by family history, is expected to be said in full. No nicknames allowed.</p> <p>“You cannot force me to change his name. This is the name I was meant to give him.</p> <p>“No this is not his full name. Squire Sebastian Senator is only his first name. This is how it will be. He will not be allowed to have a nickname, he is to be called by his full and complete first name.”</p> <p>Clearly taken aback by her family’s “judgemental” actions, the woman went on to further explain her reasoning behind the unique name.</p> <p>“We come from a long line of both squires and senators,” she said. “If you look back in our family tree, the survival of this clan is literally rooted in squiredom. We are all related to senators too.</p> <p>“This name conveys power. It conveys wealth. It conveys success.”</p> <p>“My baby’s name WILL be a revolution,” she went on to say. “It will push people to question everything.”</p> <p>The enraged mother also revealed that she will instead be having an intimate baby shower, which is “more inclusive” with those who support her reasoning behind the name.</p> <p>“F**k you all. Fake ass family,” she wrote. “You won’t get to be a part of my baby’s life and it’s all because you had to judge him.”</p> <p>Do you think the mum-to-be has a right to be furious? Let us know in the comments below.</p>

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'A daily shower isn't necessary': Bathing every day could increase your risk of infections warn experts

<p>Bathing every day could increase people's risk of infections, experts warn.</p> <p>According to infectious-disease expert Dr Elaine Larson from Columbia University, showering too often can reduce skin hydration, causing it to become dry and cracked, and allowing germs to enter.</p> <p>Most people bathe because they believe it reduces their risk of illness, she added, however, it does little more than remove body odour.</p> <p>Dr C Brandon Mitchell, assistant professor of dermatology at George Washington University, adds washing excessively strips the skin of its natural oils, which can disrupt 'good' bacteria that supports people's immune systems.</p> <p>“A daily shower isn’t necessary,” he added, saying that bathing just once or twice a week is usually sufficient for most.</p> <p>Dr Mitchell told <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://time.com/4259559/shower-soap-hygiene/?xid=time_socialflow_twitter&amp;utm_campaign=time&amp;utm_source=twitter.com&amp;utm_medium=social" target="_blank">TIME</a></strong></span>: “Your body is naturally a well-oiled machine. I think most people over-bathe.”</p> <p>Dr Mitchell also recommends people do not lather their entire bodies with soap but to focus on smelly areas.</p> <p>For people who are worried about their risk of illness, Dr Larson said people should focus on washing their hands frequently, as well as cleaning their clothes, which collect dead skin cells.</p>

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