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Become a master record keeper

<p>Whether you want to brush up your admin skills for your current job, seek new employment, or you’re simply keen to further your knowledge and become the master of your own personal admin, understanding the process of record keeping can be very rewarding. Take Over60 community member, Di Rieger, for example.</p> <p>“During my time [working and volunteering] I assisted with customer service, collection and data entry of statistics, brochure management, information research, ticket and retail sales, preparation of the volunteer roster, writing applications for grant funding and writing award submissions,” Di explains.</p> <p>From working in libraries to volunteering, her experience in research and administration tasks instilled her with the knowledge and know-how to start researching the genealogy of her family. An experience, which she says, changed her life.</p> <p>“Would you believe that while doing an Internet search for my husband’s great grandfather I found information that I did not already have – his parent’s birth and death dates and places, his siblings and all of their birth dates and places and quite a lot more information. One of my cousins had never seen a photograph of [our relative] Thomas Oscar Miller that I found. She is thrilled that I am able to send her a digital copy of the photo.”</p> <p>Whether you want to get a little more organised at home or take on a research project, learning the art of record keeping is a skill that is transferable to many fields. Here are some basic tips and tricks that will help get your personal affairs in order.</p> <p><em><strong>4 tips to become the master of your personal records</strong></em></p> <p><strong>1. Divide and conquer</strong></p> <p>Nearly all of your admin and financial papers can be divided into three categories: records that you need to keep only for the calendar year or less, papers that you need to save for several years, and papers that you should hang onto indefinitely.</p> <p>For example, you don’t really need to hang onto all of your ATM-withdrawal receipts, deposit slips or credit-card receipts do you? Once you’ve crosschecked receipts with your bank statement, you can throw them away.</p> <p>While it’s a good idea to keep receipts for major purchases, it isn’t necessary to hold onto sales receipts for minor purchases after you've satisfactorily used the item a few times or the warranty has expired.</p> <p>Shortly after the end of the calendar year, you should be able to throw out a slew of additional paper, including your monthly credit card and or other bank statements, utility bills (if they are not needed for business deductions), and monthly or quarterly reports for the previous year.</p> <p><strong>2. Paper place</strong></p> <p>Designate a place – a desk, corner or room – as the place where you deal with paperwork. If you don’t have the space for this, a drawer, cabinet, or closet where you can store bills and current records, situated near a table on which you can write, will do. Stationery items such as manila folders will come in handy for filing the papers, as will a file cabinet or cardboard box to hold the records. Keep your will, birth and marriage certificates, insurance policies, property deeds, and other permanent records in a safe but accessible place near your other financial documents, so you and your heirs will always be able to get to them quickly, if they need to.</p> <p><strong>3. Organised systems</strong></p> <p>Having a plan for how you process all records is key. A rudimentary filing system will do. The simplest method is to sort everything into categories – for example, tax related, financial or house. Each area should have it’s own folder or drawer. Then, when you sit down to either pay your bills or gather information, you'll have all the paperwork you need in one spot.</p> <p><strong>4. Stay in front</strong></p> <p>Once you have a system in place, you’ll want to make sure you stay on top of things and don’t have a backlog of unsorted paperwork. Set aside a half an hour a day to sift through old papers, perhaps while watching the news or listening to music.
You'll be amazed at the difference a little organisation makes.</p> <p><em>Image credit: Shutterstock</em></p>

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How to tell if your date is a keeper?

<p><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.johnaiken.com.au/" target="_blank">John Aiken</a></span>, is an RSVP dating and relationship expert, as seen on Channel Nine’s series Married At First Sight. He is a best-selling author, regularly appears on radio and in magazines, runs a private practice in Sydney, and is a sought after speaker.</em></strong></p> <p>One of the keys to getting a good relationship is knowing when to commit to someone or when let them go and move on. Being clear as to whether or not your date has got long-term potential. It’s not a problem if you’re just looking for a casual encounter, but if you want something with substance, then you must be a good judge of this.</p> <p>So how do you tell if your date is a keeper?</p> <p>There are 6 tell-tale signs that your date is worth hanging onto long term:<br /> <br /> <strong>1. Reliable and trustworthy</strong><br /> This is one of the most significant signs that you’ve got a keeper on your hands! If your date is someone who is honest and walks the walk, follows through with promises and is reliable, then hold on tight! Relationships can go through many challenges, and you need a firm foundation of trust to get you through these tough times.<br /> <br /> <strong>2. Same relationship expectations</strong><br /> Don’t go any further with this date if they’re not on the same page with you in terms of commitment and expectations. If you want to get serious and they just want to play and have some fun, then it’s not going to work. You want someone who is comfortable with long-term relationships and is excited about having a future with you.<br /> <br /><strong> 3. Romantic feelings</strong><br /> You know you’re onto a good thing when your date is able to express positive feelings for you. They don’t need to go over the top too early on, but you want to get a sense that they are keen on you and have strong romantic feelings. These will only get more intense the more time you spend together. <br /> <br /> <strong>4. Strong sexual chemistry</strong><br /> It’s ideal if you feel a strong sexual chemistry with this person. If you’re going to have a long-term relationship with them, then you want to feel sparks, attraction, lust and desire. And if you’ve already slept together, then there also needs to be a strong sexual compatibility. <br /> <br /> <strong>5. Good communicator</strong><br /> It’s absolutely vital that your date is a great communicator. Someone who can bring up issues softly, say sorry, see both sides to an argument, and move on from conflict. They need to be able to make you feel special and appreciated with compliments and expressions of gratitude, as well as ask you questions and take an interest. And finally, it’s always great when they can socialize with any of your friends and family and be comfortable working a room.<br /> <br /><strong> 6. Quality friendships</strong><br /> You are who you mix with, and if your new date has quality friends then this is a great sign of long-term potential. After all, these are the people that are important in their life, and likely be the ones that you’re going to spend plenty of time with moving forward. So a great social network is something to get really excited about!</p> <p><em>Written by John Aiken. First appeared on <a href="http://www.datehub.com.au/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>datehub.com.au.</strong></span></a> </em></p>

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