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Aussie author of "Puberty Blues" dies at 64

<p dir="ltr">Gabrielle Carey, co-author of the iconic novel <em>Puberty Blues</em>, has passed away at 64. </p> <p dir="ltr">The news was reportedly broken by Carey’s old friend and co-writer Kathy Lette, who was the other half of the creative powerhouse that brought<em> Puberty Blues </em>to life. </p> <p dir="ltr">In a post to social media, Lette shared a throwback picture of the pair in their younger years, and wrote, “I’m deeply saddened by the tragic news about my old friend Gabrielle Carey. </p> <p dir="ltr">“I have such happy memories of our teenage years. They were halcyon, heady days full of love, laughter and adventure.</p> <p dir="ltr">“We made some mischief and broke some barriers by writing <em>Puberty Blues</em> – our raw, earthy take on the brutal treatment of young women in the Australian surfing scene which is sadly, still so relevant. </p> <p dir="ltr">“My heartfelt condolences to her family and friends.”</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">I’m deeply saddened by the tragic news about my old friend Gabrielle Carey. I have such happy memories of our teenage years. They were halcyon, heady days full of love, laughter and adventure. 1/2 🧵 <a href="https://t.co/2wZZiRf1hd">pic.twitter.com/2wZZiRf1hd</a></p> <p>— Kathy Lette (@KathyLette) <a href="https://twitter.com/KathyLette/status/1654136967636959234?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">May 4, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p dir="ltr">The groundbreaking book they penned together,  which went on to be adapted as both a movie and a hit TV series, was a candid - then-controversial - story of two teenage girls growing up in Sydney’s Sutherland Shire. </p> <p dir="ltr">It pushed boundaries, captivated young audiences while tackling themes many did not expect for said target audience, and is regarded by many as being the first Australian teenage novel to be written by teens.</p> <p dir="ltr">From <em>Puberty Blues</em>, Carey went on to publish memoirs and nonfiction works, with another of her books - her 1984 <em>Just Us</em>, which covered her relationship with rapist and prisoner Terry Haley, who she married while he was imprisoned - also made into a telemovie in 1986. </p> <p dir="ltr">No suspicious circumstances surrounded her death, according to <em>The Australian</em>, though the tragic news comes just months after she wrote about her father’s suicide in <em>The Sydney Morning Herald</em>. </p> <p dir="ltr">At the time, Carey had revealed she was afraid of reaching 64, as that was when he too had passed on.</p> <p dir="ltr">“It was only decades later, when my father died from suicide on the very day he turned 64, that I became terrified of that number,” she wrote. “If I have inherited my father’s disposition for depression, did that mean I would also end up in an early grave?</p> <p dir="ltr">Carey’s early passing is one that has hit her friends and her fans hard, with many joining Lette in sharing their grief and their condolences on social media. </p> <p dir="ltr">“Farewell dear Gabrielle. You were a sister in the cause of mental illness, its impact &amp; our children. I’m enriched for having known you,” one supporter wrote. “Thank you.”</p> <p dir="ltr">“Writer - Reader - Intellectual - Joycean (fanatical) - Elizabeth von Arnim devotee - Avid Gardener - Rose Petal Jam Maker - Football Follower - Kayaker - Yogi - Joker - Irrepressible Spirit - Hobbit - Underground Writer - My Friend,” friend and fellow writer Yumna Kassab wrote. “I will always miss you.”</p> <p dir="ltr">“So sorry for your loss,” one fan said in response to Lette’s tweet. “You have no idea how much as a girl growing up in a coastal town with a surfing scene I understood <em>Puberty Blues</em>. I saw it every day. You &amp; Gabrielle laid it all bare &amp; made girls stand up for themselves. Thank you”.</p> <p dir="ltr">“My deepest condolences Kathy,” another offered. “The two of you wrote something so treasured by Gen X girls. It was our ‘how to say no guide’. Our Teen handbook. But it still let us live our lives &amp; learn as we went. RIP Gabrielle Carey.”</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Images: Facebook</em></p>

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James Dean to star in new movie 64 years after his death

<p><span>James Dean is set to star in an upcoming Vietnam War film, 64 years after his death.</span></p> <p><span>Last week, Magic City Films announced that they will be casting the late Hollywood icon for their upcoming movie <em>Finding Jack </em>through computer-generated imagery (CGI).</span></p> <p><span>Directors Anton Ernst and Tati Golykh told <em><a href="https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/afm-james-dean-reborn-cgi-vietnam-war-action-drama-1252703">The Hollywood Reporter</a></em> they obtained the rights to use Dean’s image from the actor’s family. Dean will play a secondary lead character named Rogan.</span></p> <p><span>The announcement sparked backlash from fans and industry figures.</span></p> <p><span>Actor Chris Evans called the decision “awful”, saying, “Maybe we can get a computer to paint us a new Picasso. Or write a couple new John Lennon tunes. The complete lack of understanding here is shameful.”</span></p> <p><span>Actress Zelda Williams, whose late Robin Williams restricted exploitation of his image for 25 years following his death, expressed her concern on Twitter. “I have talked to friends about this for YEARS and no one ever believed me that the industry would stoop this low once tech got better,” she wrote.</span></p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"> <p dir="ltr">I have talked to friends about this for YEARS and no one ever believed me that the industry would stoop this low once tech got better. Publicity stunt or not, this is puppeteering the dead for their ‘clout’ alone and it sets such an awful precedent for the future of performance. <a href="https://t.co/elS1BrbDGv">https://t.co/elS1BrbDGv</a></p> — Zelda Williams (@zeldawilliams) <a href="https://twitter.com/zeldawilliams/status/1192141551171854338?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">November 6, 2019</a></blockquote> <p><span>“Publicity stunt or not, this is puppeteering the dead for their ‘clout’ alone and it sets such an awful precedent for the future of performance.”</span></p> <p><span>Ernst said Dean’s estate has been “supportive” of the film. “I think they would have wanted their family member’s legacy to live on,” Ernst told <em><a href="https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/director-new-james-dean-movie-speaks-backlash-stars-casting-1253232">The Hollywood Reporter</a></em>. “That’s what we’ve done here as well. We’ve brought a whole new generation of filmgoers to be aware of James Dean.”</span></p> <p><span>Ernst said he was “saddened” and “confused” by the negative reaction to the news. “We never intended for this to be a marketing gimmick.”</span></p> <p><span>Visual effects companies Imagine Engine and MOI Worldwide will be working on a full-body CGI of Dean based on archival footage and photographs, while another actor will voice Dean’s character.</span></p> <p><span>The movie is expected to be released in November 2020.</span></p>

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Australian tennis legend passes away aged 64

<p>Former Australian Davis Cup tennis star Peter McNamara has died aged 64.</p> <p>“Macca,” who reached a career-high number seven in the world in 1983, left a memorable mark when he beat two all-time greats Jimmy Connors and Ivan Lendl to win two of his five singles titles.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.39400921658984px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7828812/eacpdumueaiyi11-3.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/8fca7dad11f949949a1e0a3f6767101c" /></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><em>Peter McNamara, 2014. </em></p> <p>However, what the tennis star was perhaps most highly regarded for was his doubles partnership with Paul McNamee – the duo went on to win Wimbledon twice in 1980 and 1982 as well as the Australian Open in 1979.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Hard to believe that after 50 years of friendship Macca is gone... you lived life to the full mate and will be missed by your loved ones and many more...a toast to the great times mate <a href="https://t.co/0RVbCD6ZRd">pic.twitter.com/0RVbCD6ZRd</a></p> — Paul McNamee (@PaulFMcNamee) <a href="https://twitter.com/PaulFMcNamee/status/1153066090760511490?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">July 21, 2019</a></blockquote> <p>Melbourne-born McNamara retired in 1987 and enjoyed a successful coaching career.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">So saddened to wake up to the news of Peter McNamara’s passing overnight. A great player, great coach that improved every player he worked with, and gun of a person. Big hugs to his family, friends and of course, his great mate <a href="https://twitter.com/PaulFMcNamee?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@PaulFMcNamee</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/RIPMacca?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#RIPMacca</a> 😔 <a href="https://t.co/CeFBai2jYI">pic.twitter.com/CeFBai2jYI</a></p> — Darren Cahill (@darren_cahill) <a href="https://twitter.com/darren_cahill/status/1153063153724354560?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">July 21, 2019</a></blockquote> <p>He coached Mark Philippoussis and guided Grigor Dimitrov in his formative years. More recently, he coached Matt Ebden and Wang Qiang.</p> <p>Until February, McNamara worked with Qiang and helped her to reach the world’s top 20 in their four-year partnership.</p> <p>The Aussie legend died peacefully at his home in Germany on Saturday night after a long and brave battle with prostate cancer.</p> <p>David Law, commentator and long-time friend of the tennis star and coach said McNamara went on to compete in exhibition matches and coach throughout his illness without many people ever knowing about his personal health issues.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">So sad to wake up &amp; hear the news of Peter McNamara’s passing 😢 he was always one of the coaches I could sit down with on tour &amp; be able to have a great chat with. Mostly about life &amp; our kids. I will never forgot him telling me to live my life &amp; be happy with who I am <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/RIPMacca?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#RIPMacca</a></p> — Casey Dellacqua OLY (@caseydellacqua) <a href="https://twitter.com/caseydellacqua/status/1153042613152337920?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">July 21, 2019</a></blockquote> <p>McNamara is survived by his wife Petra, his children and grandchildren.</p> <p>The tennis world took to social media to voice their love and admiration of the late tennis legend.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">When you represent Australia.. you get the chance of meeting so many good people. One of them was Australian tennis legend Peter McNamara. Ripper bloke and will sadly be missed. <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/RIPMacca?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#RIPMacca</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/tennis?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#tennis</a> 😪</p> — Dean Jones (@ProfDeano) <a href="https://twitter.com/ProfDeano/status/1153074719203233795?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">July 21, 2019</a></blockquote> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Peter McNamara was one of the greats, a great person. He gave his all to everything he did, respected life &amp; always had a smile &amp; time for you. He’s someone you wanted to be in the trenches with. He fought in silence and now he can rest peacefully . <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/RIPMacca?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#RIPMacca</a></p> — roger rasheed (@roger_rasheed) <a href="https://twitter.com/roger_rasheed/status/1153038830552772608?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">July 21, 2019</a></blockquote> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">One of the greats 🇦🇺 🙏<a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/RIPMacca?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#RIPMacca</a> <a href="https://t.co/iYJvS3qDBq">pic.twitter.com/iYJvS3qDBq</a></p> — TennisAustralia (@TennisAustralia) <a href="https://twitter.com/TennisAustralia/status/1153078863129264128?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">July 21, 2019</a></blockquote>

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Meet the 64-year-old winner of Swiss alpine MasterChef

<p>New Zealand travel writer Justine Tyerman meets Iris Riatsch, the winner of Landfrauenküche, the Swiss alpine version of MasterChef, who shares the recipe for her famous nut tart.</p> <p>High in the lush green meadows of the beautiful Engadine, I met a famous chef and television star. I was visiting an organic farm in Vnà, a tiny alpine village of 50 people near the town of Scuol in the Swiss canton of Graubünden.</p> <p>The farmer, Fadri Riatsch, showed us around his impressive farming operation, where his cows and pigs are treated like royalty, after which we sampled a delicious array of richly flavoursome alpine cheese and salami made from his cows’ milk and meat, and locally-brewed beer.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="500" height="333" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7264900/image-3_500x333.jpg" alt="Image 3 (1)"/></p> <p style="text-align: center;" align="center"><em>Vnà is a tiny alpine village near Scuol in the Lower Engadine in the Swiss canton of Graubünden. Image credit: Justine Tyerman</em></p> <p>Fadri then introduced us to his mother, Iris Riatsch, who was helping his wife Daniela to serve the food. Iris just happened to be the winner of the Swiss Rural Woman of the Decade, a hugely popular MasterChef-type television show featuring country women and their recipes.</p> <p>Iris was a delightful, modest lady of 64 who radiated warmth and good health. She spoke little English but our guide explained that she had won the annual competition many times and this year took the top prize at the 10th anniversary of the show.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="498" height="245" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7264901/image-1_498x245.jpg" alt="Justine 1 - Hero"/></p> <p align="center"><em>Fadri’s richly flavoursome alpine cheese and salami, and locally-brewed beer. Image credit: Justine Tyerman</em></p> <p>Ten episodes of the show were filmed in her own kitchen in Vnà so she has become accustomed to working under pressure in front of television cameras.</p> <p>Originally from Zurich, Iris has lived at Vnà for 40 years and has a very close bond with the land. She keeps a large organic garden and attributes her success in the competition to the relationship she has with all the ingredients she uses in her recipes.</p> <p>“It’s very important for me to know where the food and flavours come from — I grow all the vegetables and herbs I use in my recipes here in my own garden,” she says standing amid huge cabbages, potatoes, leeks, peas, brussel sprouts, carrots, spinach, artichokes and herbs.</p> <p>The meat and dairy products she uses come from Fadri’s farm and the venison from her husband Domenic’s hunting expeditions.</p> <p>Iris loves to cook but keeping the Engadine recipes alive is the main motivation for entering the competition. Many are traditional recipes she learned from her mother-in-law.</p> <p>Her winning entry was a venison schnitzel dish with juniper berry sauce followed by a nut tart which has become quite famous.</p> <p>Switzerland’s second biggest supermarket chain is promoting Iris’s recipes and her nut tart is marketed under her own name as ‘Iris Engadinerli’.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="498" height="280" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7264902/image-4_498x280.jpg" alt="Image 4"/></p> <p align="center"><em>The main course in Iris's winning entry was a venison schnitzel dish with juniper berry sauce. Image credit: Justine Tyerman</em></p> <p>Michelin-star chefs are now lining up to learn from her.</p> <p>Mother of four and grandmother of nine, Iris leads a busy life.</p> <p>She runs cooking classes for children and teenagers so that she can pass on the Engadine recipes to the next generation.</p> <p>Like most Swiss, Iris likes hiking so she combines two of her loves in one, cooking for hikers in one of the local alpine huts.</p> <p>She rents out a small holiday flat under her house, a former cheese factory, to travellers who want to get back to nature and experience a week helping out on an organic farm.</p> <p>And she’s an accomplished artist with a studio at her house. She sees food as an art form — ‘creating art on a plate’.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="498" height="280" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7264903/justine-image-two_498x280.jpg" alt="Justine Image Two"/></p> <p align="center"><em>‘Iris Engadinerli’ served with eggnog parfait, fresh berries, peppermint and lavender ice cream. Image credit: Justine Tyerman.</em></p> <p><strong>‘Iris Engadinerli’</strong></p> <p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Ingredients</span>:</strong></p> <p><em>For the Engadinerli:</em></p> <ul> <li>150g butter</li> <li>150g sugar</li> <li>1 egg</li> <li>1 pinch of salt</li> <li>300g flour</li> </ul> <p><em>For the filling:</em></p> <ul> <li>300g sugar</li> <li>1 tablespoons water</li> <li>20mls cream</li> <li>250g of walnuts</li> <li>2 tablespoons grated almonds</li> <li>1 tablespoons honey</li> </ul> <p><em>For the berry compote:</em></p> <ul> <li>2 tablespoons liquid honey</li> <li>2 tablespoons orange juice</li> <li>1 vanilla pod</li> <li>400g fresh berries</li> </ul> <p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Method:</span></strong></p> <p><em>For the Engadinerli:</em></p> <ol> <li>Preheat the oven to 180 °C. Cover a flat baking tray with baking paper.</li> <li>Cream the butter and sugar, beat in the egg and mix with the flour and a pinch of salt. Put the dough in a cool place for at least one hour. Form into a thin rectangular shape on the baking sheet, no more than 1cm thick.</li> <li>For the filling, melt the sugar over a gentle heat, stir in a tablespoon of water. Remove the pan from the heat. Carefully add cream, nuts and honey and stir until smooth. Let cool down.</li> <li>Spread the filling on the pastry and bake in a preheated oven for 30 minutes at 180 degrees. The tart should be baked nice and light brown. Cut into rectangles when it is still warm.</li> </ol> <p><em>For the berry compote:</em></p> <p>5. For the berries, mix honey, orange juice and vanilla in a bowl. Carefully mix together with the berries. Cover and allow to rest for 30 minutes. Then warm gently in a pan carefully. Do not boil. You want the berries to retain their beautiful shape.</p> <p>* Serve the engadinerli with warm berry compote.</p> <p><em>Justine Tyerman travelled courtesy of Switzerland Tourism <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.myswitzerland.com/" target="_blank">www.MySwitzerland.com</a></strong></span> and stayed at the Belvédère Hotel in Scuol. <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.belvedere-scuol.ch/" target="_blank">www.belvedere-scuol.ch</a></strong></span></em></p> <p><em>Switzerland Tourism: <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.myswitzerland.com/" target="_blank">www.MySwitzerland.com</a></strong></span></em></p> <p><em>Swiss Travel Pass: <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.myswitzerland.com/rail" target="_blank">www.MySwitzerland.com/rail</a></strong></span></em></p> <p><em>Swiss International Airlines: <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.swiss.com/ch/en" target="_blank">www.swiss.com/ch/en</a></strong></span></em></p>

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How this 64-year-old single woman was scammed out of $100,000

<div class="replay"> <div class="reply_body body linkify"> <div class="reply_body"> <div class="body_text "> <p>A 64-year-old Queensland woman is urging single people to learn from her mistakes after she was swindled out of $100,000 thanks to a sophisticated online scammer.</p> <p>In 2015, Patricia Meister received a Facebook friend request from a handsome, middle-aged Italian businessman named Carlos. She was instantly charmed and the two quickly struck up a relationship.</p> <p>“I’d never been on dating websites, and I only used Facebook for business,” she told <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4999858/Patricia-Meister-scammed-100-000-man-Facebook.html" target="_blank"><em><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Daily Mail Australia</span></strong></em></a>. “So when I got the friend request, I thought it couldn't do any harm, can it?”</p> <p>She added, “I guess at the time, I was going through a period in my life where I felt isolated. I’d been single for a while and I’d never been on dating sites. We started chatting. He was charming, smart and educated. He was very good with English and he was very romantic. I was very much in love with him at one stage.”</p> <p>Carlos, who claimed he was living and working as an interior designer in Brisbane, told Patricia he was of Italian and Scottish heritage.</p> <p>Their romance continued to blossom and they finally decided to start talking over the phone. “When I first spoke to him, I heard his voice but he had a different accent to what I’d expected,” Patricia recalled.</p> <p>“I remember thinking, ‘What is that accent?’ I wasn’t familiar with his accent at the time, but thinking about it now, he was definitely African... He was Nigerian.”</p> <p>Despite her initial doubts, Patricia was too deeply in love to identify the red flags. Eight weeks into their relationship, however, “Carlos” asked to borrow $600 because his credit card wouldn’t work while in Malaysia for his job.</p> <p>“It didn’t feel right but I thought, ‘Well, it’s not a huge amount of money to lose.’ It wasn’t a huge request so I did a wire transfer to him. A part of me thought it was wrong so I questioned him, saying, ‘You’re a businessman, your credit card should work...’ His story didn’t add up.”</p> <p>Then, while trying to return home to Brisbane, “Carlos” claimed his goods had been held up in Malaysian customs.” The first amount I sent him was $7,000,” Patricia explained. “When he went to get the money, he told me he needed another $7,000.”</p> <p>She continued, “Everything he said was backed up by ‘documents’ – and there was always a lawyer in the background when we spoke over the phone. When he tried to pay me back, he said his bank couldn't do the large international transfer so he arranged for a courier to deliver the cash instead.”</p> <p>Patricia continued to send “Carlos” money until his goods had finally been released. But the “fees” didn’t stop there. She was conned out of a total of $100,000.</p> <p>“I got a phone call from someone saying Carlos and his lawyer had been in a serious car accident so they needed money for medical expenses. My stomach dropped to my shoes. I knew at that point, I’d been scammed.”</p> <p>The police could do nothing for her. Now, she’s joined a support group for women in similar situations, and for her, the scariest part was that she never thought she’d become one of “those women”.</p> <p>“I used to hear about the TV stars who were scammed and remembered thinking, ‘How can you send money to someone like that?’” she recalled.</p> <p>“I think I was sort of aware but I had no idea these things could be so complex or how well developed they are. It’s a worldwide business, it’s very difficult to catch them because they’re sitting behind a computer.</p> <p>“People think you’re stupid but they're not walking in our shoes. It’s not a matter of being stupid. Even the most intelligent, educated women are getting scammed.</p> <p>“I know I’ll never get my money back but all you can do is raise awareness. There’s a lot of lonely people out there, the dating websites are riddled with scammers.”</p> <p><em>Image credit: Patricia Meister.</em></p> </div> </div> </div> </div>

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64-year-old grandma becomes internet beauty icon

<p>Scottish grandma Sandra Boylan has become an instant internet sensation, after posting a video parodying beauty tip vloggers for her 64th birthday.</p> <p>Among her suggestions, Sandra says “older ladies” should consider using Sellotape to achieve an instant facelift, use hats to deal with a bad hair day and claimed she rubs lipstick on her cheeks as part of her daily beauty routine.</p> <p><img width="500" height="558" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/29246/sandra-boylan-in-text_500x558.jpg" alt="Sandra -boylan -in -text" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"/></p> <p><em>Image credit: Facebook / Sandra Boylan</em></p> <p>The humorous clips poking fun at the beauty tips video has well and truly gone viral, having already been viewed more than 600,000 times.</p> <p>Sandra told Daily Mail, “'I just did it for a laugh and for my family and friends, as I am always doing silly things. My family love it – they expect that of me.”</p> <p>You can see the whole video above. There’s a bit of a language warning that comes with this one though! Don’t you just love Sandra and her attitude?</p> <p><em>Video credit: YouTube / Sandra Boylan</em></p> <p><strong>Related links: </strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/news/news/2016/10/7-foods-to-lower-blood-pressure/"><strong>7 things to eat or avoid to lower your blood pressure</strong></a></em></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/2016/10/dorrie-jacobson-on-body-issues-and-intimacy/"><strong>How body image issues hold you back from intimacy</strong></a></em></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/lifestyle/home-garden/2016/10/the-healthiest-leanest-ways-to-cook/"><strong>5 of the healthiest, leanest ways to cook</strong></a></em></span></p>

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I became an author at 64

<p><em><strong>Pat Simmons, 69, is a writer of poems, short stories, flash fiction and articles. Her work has been published in anthologies and children’s magazines and she has won writer competitions in Australia and the UK.</strong></em></p> <p>I’ve always loved writing but it wasn’t until my 64th year that I decided to start taking myself seriously as a writer. I suppose the main reason I hadn’t pursued writing before, like many people, was that it was essential to earn a living and be in stable employment. Raising our beautiful children the best way we knew how, having a roof over our heads, and paying our bills were essentials for my husband and myself. I always wrote little bits and pieces and kept the dream alive.</p> <p>But in 2010, I felt the time was right. One of the things I love about growing older is that I don’t worry too much about what other people think and, to use an old cliché, there’s nothing to fear but fear itself. I think my late husband would’ve been disappointed in me if I hadn’t created a new life for myself after he passed away and I would’ve been disappointed in myself.</p> <p>So I knew I really wanted to write for children, but I had no idea how to get started. At the time, I was still working full time running a large out of school hours’ care centre. Fortunately for me, one of the “mums” whose children were in my care, had a similar ambition and we started chatting about our passion one day. She introduced me to a wonderful online newsletter called <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.buzzwordsmagazine.com/" target="_blank">Buzz Words</a></strong></span>. Buzz Words contains details of upcoming events, writing opportunities, competitions, author interviews and much more. It is a great resource for those who want to write for children. She and I have remained close friends and she is now a successful writer and also runs a wonderful website called <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.creativekidstales.com.au/" target="_blank">Creative Kids Tales</a>.</strong></span></p> <p>Entering competitions seemed like a great way to get started. Competitions have strict guidelines, they often have a theme, a word count and a closing date. Just the discipline I needed! I love writing poetry so I began entering poetry competitions. I couldn’t believe my luck when I won a UK competition and my poem appeared in an anthology and the book cover was designed around my poem.</p> <p>This gave me confidence and I started to attend writers’ festivals and events. I also joined the Children’s Book Council of Australia. Writer events such as conferences and festivals are wonderful, as well-known authors and illustrators share their knowledge and their journeys to publication which is always inspirational and motivational.</p> <p>As well as writing short stories and poetry for children, I also write flash fiction for adults and belong to a 52 Week Flash Fiction Challenge on Facebook. And I love writing for the Over60 website!</p> <p>Since my retirement in 2013 I’ve also joined a writers’ group. We meet fortnightly to critique each other’s work and chat of course!</p> <p>This year a dream came true for me when a picture book text I submitted was accepted for publication in 2017.</p> <p>Six years on, I feel very “grown up” as I now have <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.patsimmonswriter.com.au/" target="_blank">my very own website</a>.</strong></span></p> <p>Remember, it’s never too late to change or take on new challenges. I doubt that I’ll ever be a famous author but do I care? No! Ok I probably won’t take up sumo wrestling or kickboxing either but they’re not my thing! We live in a country where there are so many opportunities for all of us. Let’s make the best of them.</p> <p>It’s never too late to follow your passion. Enjoy the journey.</p> <p>Have you chased a dream later in life? Share your experience in the comments below. </p> <p><em><strong>If you have a story to share please get in touch at <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="mailto:melody@oversixty.com.au">melody@oversixty.com.au</a></span></strong></em></p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/retirement-life/2016/08/my-new-life-as-a-homeless-yet-happy-house-and-pet-sitter/">My new life as a homeless-yet-happy house and pet sitter</a></strong></em></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/retirement-life/2016/08/the-joys-of-living-in-a-tiny-home/">The joys of living in a tiny home</a></strong></em></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/retirement-life/2016/05/3-questions-to-ask-before-coming-out-of-retirement/">3 questions to ask before coming out of retirement</a></strong></em></span></p>

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Couple celebrate 64 years with photoshoot

<p>For their 64th wedding anniversary, a 95-year-old Wang Lijin put together a stylish photoshoot for his wife, Huang.</p> <p>The trendy twosome met in 1952, when he engaged her to make him a suit and quickly fell in love with her.</p> <p>During a speech that Wang gave at the family event, he tearfully thanked his "wife, mother of their children and grandmother of their grandchildren" for all the years of love they shared through thick and thin.</p> <p>Their photoshoot is styled to celebrate their story and their unwavering connection-while showing them dressed to the nine of course.</p> <p>According to Chinese media outlets, the couple's pictures were later placed on billboards on shopping malls across cities in Hebei, with a tagline hailing them as models for everlasting love. Scroll through the gallery above to see all the romantic images.</p> <p>What creative gift have you given to or received from a love one? Let us know on the comments below.</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="/lifestyle/beauty-style/2016/05/granny-models-by-eli-driu-for-never-alone-association/"><em>Grannies become models to prove beauty has no limits</em></a></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="/lifestyle/beauty-style/2016/05/coat-with-in-built-heating/"><em>The winter coat with in-built heating</em></a></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="/lifestyle/beauty-style/2016/05/home-remedies-for-split-ends/"><em>4 home remedies for split ends</em></a></strong></span></p>

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7-year-old boy and 64-year-old man talk about life

<p>In a heartwarming video, a boy and a man – 57 years apart in age – have come together to answer each other’s life questions.</p> <p>The seven-year-old boy, Sean, and 64-year-old man, Des, discuss life, love and ageing. It’s funny, sweet and occasionally sad, but there are also plenty of serious moment, with Des imparting his words of wisdom to the young lad, saying: “Do the things you like doing that make you feel good, because when you're happy yourself, everybody else is happy.”</p> <p>Not to be outdone, the seven-year-old boy concludes the video with this gem of advice: “Act normal. Don’t be silly. Don’t bully lots of people.”</p> <p>Watch the video above for intergenerational conversation that shows young and old have a lot to teach each other. </p> <p><strong>Related links: </strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2015/12/cheap-school-holiday-activities/">30 cheap – or free – holiday activities to do with grandkids</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2015/12/vintage-beach-photos/">Vintage beach photos to get you in the summer mood</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2015/12/lazy-animals-pictures/">The laziest animals ever</a></em></strong></span></p>

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Boom-packer: 64-year-old grandma backpacks around Europe

<p>I’m sure there are many baby boomers out there who remember backpacking in your younger years. With a rucksack on our back and little money in the pocket, backpacking is about exploring cities in faraway places and sleeping in questionable beds. Fast-forward a few decades and it’s safe to say most of us prefer more luxurious holiday travel plans. However, backpacking has changed a lot since those days – it’s much safer and cleaner – meaning everyone, even over-60s, can (and should) do it! In fact, this is becoming a trend and one that has already been coined, “boom-packing”.</p> <p>Just ask Over60 community member, Judi Bradshaw, 64, from Parmelia, Western Australia who found the whole experience “amazing, fun, exhausting and exhilarating”.</p> <p>Judi and her daughter went on a whirlwind European trip for four weeks – and yes, they backpacked the whole way!</p> <p>“Backpacking was my plan from the start as I don't like planned structured holidays,” Judi tells Over60. “I’m a bit of a wing it girl through life anyway so to me it was about the freedom to stay or move when it suited us.”</p> <p>With only carry-on luggage in tow, the only thing the mother-daughter duo booked was flights into Paris and the first two nights’ accommodation. From Paris to Barcelona to Berlin, Judi and her daughter travelled with ease.</p> <p>“Backpackers accommodation was fantastic but we did book private rooms where we had our own bathroom,” explains Judi.  “Laundry facilities in all accommodation was always available hence the carry-on luggage.”</p> <p>Judi wasn’t worried or even phased about not having anything booked in advance. “Computers are available for use at all accommodation to book travel and accommodation in the next country to visit,” she explains, “but we mainly used our phones to book anything, all from the comfort of our room.”</p> <p>And what a comfortable and easy experience the trip was. “Tours were always available through reception in accommodation,” Judi says, continuing, “although in Rome we bought a 24-hour pass on a hop on hop off open top double decker bus which took us to all the sites we wanted to see like the Colosseum.”</p> <p>It’s not to say backpacking didn’t come with challenges but Judi always saw the positive side of things.</p> <p>“We encountered our only hiccup when our Athens to Rome flight was cancelled. We got there in the end via Bulgaria which was another country on the passport!” says Judi, continuing, “some people might not like the uncertainty of nothing planned, but if you can retain a sense of humour and can think on your feet it's a fantastic way to travel. Look for the solution not the problem.”</p> <p>Although Judi was determined to travel light the whole trip she had to admit defeat in the beautiful Greek island of Santorini.</p> <p>“We spent six nights in this idyllic part of the world and while this was our relaxation time we did manage to get off the sun lounges for a day for a boat ride to climb an active volcano then on to visit Ora for the sunset and overlooking the postcard buildings,” she smiles. “We conceded defeat here and bought a suitcase because the shopping was great as were the people – and the food too.”</p> <p>After the four weeks came to a close, it was clear that Judi had a trip of a lifetime.</p> <p>“I still look back in amazement – travelling with my daughter, the fantastic places we saw, the adventures we had, the people that we met, the laughs we had along the way, the appreciation of life and history I could share with her on our visit to the concentration camp [in Berlin],” recalls Judi.</p> <p>“A reward in life you cannot buy, just a life experience,” she simply states.</p> <p>For any Over60s members concerned about whether they can keep up backpacking, Judi advises not to let health worries get in the way of life’s many possibilities.</p> <p>“I do have quite bad osteoporosis but never let it get in the way of life,” explains Judi, whose positive attitude sees the best of the backpacker lifestyle. “It’s just a condition that you have to be aware of… exercise is must so lots of walking up and down stairs at train stations was good and a lot of walking and sightseeing,” the traveller says, continuing, “Health issues, I'll worry about when I get old”.</p> <p>If there’s one thing Judi takes away from this experience – apart from the amazing memories with her beloved daughter – it that she wants all over-60s to consider giving backpacking a go. “In our travels we only saw one other couple close to my age backpacking,” she smiles. “Backpacking was an amazing experience and would love to see more people my age out there doing this. I would do it again in a heartbeat.” </p>

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