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Who wrote the Bible?

<p><em><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/philip-c-almond-176214">Philip C. Almond</a>, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/the-university-of-queensland-805">The University of Queensland</a></em></p> <p>The Bible tells an overall story about the history of the world: creation, fall, redemption and God’s Last Judgement of the living and the dead.</p> <p>The Old Testament (which dates to 300 BCE) begins with the creation of the world and of Adam and Eve, their disobedience to God and their expulsion from the garden of Eden.</p> <p>The New Testament recounts the redemption of humanity brought about by the life, death and resurrection of Jesus. It finishes in the book of Revelation, with the end of history and God’s Last Judgement.</p> <p>During the first 400 years of Christianity, the church took its time deciding on the New Testament. Finally, in 367 CE, authorities confirmed the 27 books that make it up.</p> <p>But who wrote the Bible?</p> <p>Broadly, there are four different theories.</p> <h2>1. God wrote the Bible</h2> <p>All Christians agree the Bible is authoritative. Many see it as the divinely revealed word of God. But there are significant disagreements about what this means.</p> <p>At its most extreme, this is taken to mean the words themselves are divinely inspired – God dictated the Bible to its writers, who were merely God’s musicians playing a divine composition.</p> <p>As early as the second century, the <a href="https://archive.org/details/fathersofchurch0000unse/page/382/mode/2up">Christian philosopher Justin Martyr saw it</a> as only necessary for holy men "to submit their purified persons to the direction of the Holy Spirit, so that this divine plectrum from Heaven, as it were, by using them as a harp or lyre, might reveal to us divine and celestial truths."</p> <p>In other words, God dictated the words to the Biblical secretaries, who wrote everything down exactly.</p> <p>This view continued with the medieval Catholic church. Catholic theologian Thomas Aquinas put it simply in the 13th century: “the author of Holy Writ is God”. He <a href="https://www.ccel.org/ccel/aquinas/summa.FP_Q1_A10.html">qualified this</a> by saying each word in Holy Writ could have several senses – in other words, it could be variously interpreted.</p> <p>The religious reform movement known as Protestantism swept through Europe in the 1500s. <a href="https://www.britannica.com/event/Reformation">A new group of churches formed</a> alongside the existing Catholic and <a href="https://www.britannica.com/topic/Eastern-Orthodoxy">Eastern Orthodox</a> traditions of Christianity.</p> <p>Protestants emphasised the authority of “scripture alone” (“sola scriptura”), meaning the text of the Bible was the supreme authority over the church. This gave greater emphasis to the scriptures and the idea of “divine dictation” got more support.</p> <p>So, for example, <a href="https://babel.hathitrust.org/cgi/pt?id=coo.31924029273996&amp;seq=254">Protestant reformer John Calvin declared</a>: "[we] are fully convinced that the prophets did not speak at their own suggestion, but that, being organs of the Holy Spirit, they only uttered what they had been commissioned from heaven to declare."</p> <figure class="align-left zoomable"><figcaption></figcaption></figure> <p>“Divine dictation” was linked to the idea that the Bible was without error (inerrant) – because the words were dictated by God.</p> <p>Generally, over the first 1,700 years of Christian history, this was assumed, if not argued for. But from the 18th century on, both history and science began to cast doubts on the truth of the Bible. And what had once been taken as fact came to be treated as myth and legend.</p> <p>The impossibility of any sort of error in the scriptures became a doctrine at the forefront of the 20th-century movement known as <a href="https://www.britannica.com/topic/Christian-fundamentalism">fundamentalism</a>. The <a href="https://www.apuritansmind.com/creeds-and-confessions/the-chicago-statement-on-biblical-inerrancy/">Chicago Statement on Biblical Inerrancy in 1978</a> declared: "Being wholly and verbally God-given, Scripture is without error or fault in all its teaching, no less in what it states about God’s acts in creation, about the events of world history, and about its own literary origins under God, than in its witness to God’s saving grace in individual lives."</p> <h2>2. God inspired the writers: conservative</h2> <p>An alternative to the theory of divine dictation is the divine inspiration of the writers. Here, both God and humans collaborated in the writing of the Bible. So, not the words, but the authors were inspired by God.</p> <p>There are two versions of this theory, dating from the <a href="https://www.britannica.com/event/Reformation">Reformation</a>. The conservative version, favoured by Protestantism, was: though the Bible was written by humans, God was a dominant force in the partnership.</p> <p>Protestants believed the sovereignty of God overruled human freedom. But even the Reformers, <a href="https://www.britannica.com/biography/Martin-Luther">Martin Luther</a> and <a href="https://www.britannica.com/biography/John-Calvin">John Calvin</a>, recognised variation within the Biblical stories could be put down to human agency.</p> <p>Catholics were more inclined to recognise human freedom above divine sovereignty. Some flirted with the idea human authorship was at play, with God only intervening to prevent mistakes.</p> <p>For example, in 1625, <a href="https://archive.org/details/catholictheories0000burt/page/46/mode/2up">Jacques Bonfrère said</a> the Holy Spirit acts: “not by dictating or inbreathing, but as one keeps an eye on another while he is writing, to keep him from slipping into errors”.</p> <p>In the early 1620s, the Archbishop of Split, Marcantonio de Dominis, went a little further. He distinguished between those parts of the Bible revealed to the writers by God and those that weren’t. In the latter, he believed, errors could occur.</p> <p>His view was supported some 200 years later by <a href="https://www.britannica.com/biography/Saint-John-Henry-Newman">John Henry Newman</a>, who led the Oxford movement in the Church of England and later became a cardinal (and then a saint) in the Roman Catholic Church.</p> <p>Newman argued the divinely inspired books of the Bible were interspersed with human additions. In other words, the Bible was inspired in matters of faith and morals –  but not, say, in matters of science and history. It was hard, at times, to distinguish this conservative view from “divine dictation”.</p> <h2>3. God inspired the writers: liberal</h2> <p>During the 19th century, in both Protestant and Catholic circles, the conservative theory was being overtaken by a more liberal view. The writers of the Bible were inspired by God, but <a href="https://archive.org/details/catholictheories0000burt/page/186/mode/2up">they were “children of their time”</a>, their writings determined by the cultural contexts in which they wrote.</p> <p>This view, while recognising the special status of the Bible for Christians, allowed for errors. For example, in 1860 <a href="https://archive.org/details/a578549600unknuoft/page/n359/mode/2up?ref=ol&amp;view=theater&amp;q=inspir">the Anglican theologian Benjamin Jowett declared</a>: “any true doctrine of inspiration must conform to all well-ascertained facts of history or of science”.</p> <p>For Jowett, to hold to the truth of the Bible against the discoveries of science or history was to do a disservice to religion. At times, though, it’s difficult to tell the difference between a liberal view of inspiration and there being no meaning to “inspiration” at all.</p> <p>In 1868, a conservative Catholic church pushed back against the more liberal view, declaring God’s direct authorship of the Bible. The Council of the Church known as Vatican 1 <a href="https://www.papalencyclicals.net/councils/ecum20.htm.">declared</a> both the Old and New Testaments were: “written under the inspiration of the holy Spirit, they have God as their author.”</p> <h2>4. People wrote it, with no divine help</h2> <p>Within the most liberal Christian circles, by the end of the 19th century, the notion of the Bible as “divinely inspired” had lost any meaning.</p> <p>Liberal Christians could join their secular colleagues in ignoring questions of the Bible’s historical or scientific accuracy or infallibility. The idea of the Bible as a human production was now accepted. And the question of who wrote it was now comparable to questions about the authorship of any other ancient text.</p> <p>The simple answer to “who wrote the Bible?” became: the authors named in the Bible (for example, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John – the authors of the four Gospels). But the idea of the Bible’s authorship is complex and problematic. (So are historical studies of ancient texts more generally.)</p> <p>This is partly because it’s hard to identify particular authors.</p> <p>The content of the 39 books of the Old Testament is the same as the 24 books of the Jewish <a href="https://www.britannica.com/topic/Hebrew-Bible">Hebrew Bible</a>. Within modern Old Testament studies, it’s now generally accepted that the books were not the production of a single author, but the result of long and changing histories of the stories’ transmission.</p> <p>The question of authorship, then, is not about an individual writer, but multiple authors, editors, scribes and redactors – along with multiple different versions of the texts.</p> <p>It’s much the same with the New Testament. While 13 Letters are attributed to <a href="https://www.britannica.com/biography/Saint-Paul-the-Apostle">Saint Paul</a>, there are doubts about his authorship of seven of them (Ephesians, Colossians, 2 Thessalonians, 1 Timothy, 2 Timothy, Titus, and Hebrews). There are also disputes over the traditional authorship of a number of the remaining Letters. The book of Revelation was traditionally ascribed to Jesus’s disciple John. But it is now generally agreed he was not its author.</p> <p>Traditionally, the authors of the four <a href="https://www.britannica.com/topic/Gospel-New-Testament">Gospels</a> were thought to be the apostles Matthew and John, Mark (the companion of Jesus’s disciple Peter), and Luke (the companion of Paul, who spread Christianity to the Greco-Roman world in the first century). But the anonymously written Gospels weren’t attributed to these figures until the second and third centuries.</p> <p>The dates of the Gospels’ creation also suggests they were not written by eyewitnesses to Jesus’s life. The earliest Gospel, Mark (65-70 CE) was written some 30 years after the death of Jesus (from 29-34 CE). The last Gospel, John (90-100 CE) was written some 60-90 years after the death of Jesus.</p> <p>It’s clear the author of the Gospel of Mark drew on traditions circulating in the early church about the life and teaching of Jesus and brought them together in the form of ancient biography.</p> <p>In turn, the Gospel of Mark served as the principal source for the authors of Matthew and Luke. Each of these authors had access to a common source (known as “Q”) of the sayings of Jesus, along with material unique to each of them.</p> <p>In short, there were many (unknown) authors of the Gospels.</p> <p>Interestingly, another group of texts, known as the <a href="https://www.britannica.com/topic/apocrypha">Apocrypha</a>, were written during the time between the Old and New Testaments (400 BCE to the first century CE). The Catholic Church and the Eastern Orthodox Christian traditions consider them part of the Bible, but Protestant churches don’t consider them authoritative.</p> <h2>Divine or human: why does it matter?</h2> <p>The question of who wrote the Bible matters because the Christian quarter of the world’s population believe the Bible is a not merely a human production.</p> <p>Divinely inspired, it has a transcendent significance. As such, it provides for Christians an ultimate understanding of how the world is, what history means and how human life should be lived.</p> <p>It matters because the Biblical worldview is the hidden (and often not-so-hidden) cause of economic, social and personal practices. It remains, as it has always been, a major source of both peace and conflict.</p> <p>It matters, too, because the Bible remains the most important collection of books in Western civilisation. Regardless of our religious beliefs, it has formed, informed and shaped all of us – whether consciously or unconsciously, for good or ill.<img style="border: none !important; box-shadow: none !important; margin: 0 !important; max-height: 1px !important; max-width: 1px !important; min-height: 1px !important; min-width: 1px !important; opacity: 0 !important; outline: none !important; padding: 0 !important;" src="https://counter.theconversation.com/content/214849/count.gif?distributor=republish-lightbox-basic" alt="The Conversation" width="1" height="1" /></p> <p><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/philip-c-almond-176214"><em>Philip C. Almond</em></a><em>, Emeritus Professor in the History of Religious Thought, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/the-university-of-queensland-805">The University of Queensland</a></em></p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images </em></p> <p><em>This article is republished from <a href="https://theconversation.com">The Conversation</a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the <a href="https://theconversation.com/who-wrote-the-bible-214849">original article</a>.</em></p>

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How I wrote my first novel at 50

<p>Australian author<span> </span><span>Nigel Bartlett</span> is living proof that life really can start at 50 with the launch of his first novel<span> </span><span><em>King of the Road</em></span><em>.</em></p> <p><strong>Q. How long had you wanted to write a novel?</strong><br />I’d held that dream for 28 years. I first voiced it when I was 22 and was working in a job packing books in a warehouse after finishing university. Then my lost dream started raising its head again in my 30s, but I found it a struggle to do anything about it.</p> <p>I still thought writers only wrote when inspiration struck, or when time suddenly appeared in their lives. When I finally listened to how writers worked, and I discovered from doing a course at the Writers’ Studio in Sydney that you need to make writing a discipline, I was finally able to start putting words on paper in a consistent fashion.</p> <p><strong>Q. How did it feel when your first novel was published on your 50th birthday?</strong><br />It was beyond my wildest dreams when Vintage/Random House said they wanted to publish<span> </span><span><em>King of the Road</em></span>. The fact that the book was released on my 50th birthday seemed very significant and was a very happy coincidence.</p> <p>I’ve always found the 'zero' birthdays have heralded big changes giving me a new lease of life each time. Seeing<span> </span><em>King of the Road</em><span> </span>in print was the culmination of a lifelong dream.</p> <p>I’d once thought I couldn’t write a book until I retired and had the time available, so to do it while working full-time and to celebrate that achievement on this big milestone birthday felt wonderful. I celebrated with a book launch! A huge number of people turned up, and Gleebooks in Glebe, Sydney sold 100 copies of <em>King of the Road</em> that afternoon, which felt fantastic. I didn’t need a birthday party after that.</p> <p><strong>Q. Why did you decide to write a crime thriller?</strong><br />Initially, I didn’t decide to write a crime thriller at all. But the novel took that turn when I was halfway through the first draft of what I’d thought would be just a quiet family drama. The story was boring, so I had to make something happen. In every subsequent draft I rewrote the story with "crime fiction" firmly planted on my mind. I threw out more than 50,000 words of that first draft. When the book came out and people were reading it in a week, or just a couple of days, or in some cases in one night flat, and they were telling me they couldn’t put it down, I thought, "It really is a crime thriller."</p> <p><strong>Q. How hard it was to write your novel?</strong><br />At times it felt incredibly hard. Finding time to write was very difficult, having no idea where the story was going in the early and middle stages, being wracked by self-doubt and really just not knowing if the whole enterprise would ever amount to anything – living with all those frustrations and anxieties can feel like a huge burden. Following a dream or passion is such a strange thing. How do you know how far to pursue it before giving up?</p> <p>I decided to keep plodding away and to let go of the eventual result as much as possible. I tried to gain encouragement from listening to other writers speaking about how they worked. I tried to make writing as 'social' as possible (because it's generally so solitary) by joining a writing group, going to writing events, catching up with writer friends and so on, and I tried to ignore negative voices, either from other people or in my own head.</p> <p>My process was to write the first draft from start to finish, not knowing where the story was going or how it would end. For the second draft, when I knew this was a crime story, I wrote a more detailed plot outline and followed that. For the third and fourth drafts, I scratched out certain sections and added in new ones. For the fifth and sixth drafts I tried to make sure I'd left no stone unturned, in terms of making sure everything tied up, all the connections between different events were clear and that any plot holes had been closed.</p> <p><strong>Q. How has it felt getting such a great response?</strong><br />For several weeks I found it hard to get to sleep and kept waking early – I had so much adrenaline. I kept receiving messages and emails from people who loved the book. I took screen shots of them all so that I’d never forget them.</p> <p><em>King of the Road</em><span> </span>ended up being reviewed by every major newspaper in Australia and lots of magazines, and I’m very grateful for all the wonderful words said about it. I feel as if all that time I spent on the book was worthwhile, and that I can actually do that thing I really wasn’t sure I could do – I can write. In many other ways, though, life is no different.</p> <p><strong>Q. How do you look ahead to your next 50 years?</strong><br />Well, I now know that I’m on the right path with being a writer. I no longer have to worry about whether that’s the 'right' thing for me to do. I just have to make sure I can still do it while also making enough of a living to provide for my future.</p> <p>I still have a day job (as a freelance writer and sub-editor for magazines and websites), but I would love to get to the point where I can earn a decent living just from novel-writing.</p> <p><strong>Q. Writing is a sedentary job. How do you take care of yourself?</strong><br />I go to the gym each morning before work, five days a week, and I go for a gentle bike ride every Saturday. Exercise is vital for me – for my mental and physical health, and for how I feel about myself.</p> <p>I also try to eat healthily Monday to Friday, allowing myself to eat what I want on Friday and Saturday evenings. It’s something I’ve learnt works for me – fruit, veg, protein, good carbs, saving refined sugar and fatty foods for weekend treats.</p> <p>I had bladder cancer when I was 40 and am lucky to be alive (it was caught early), so I know how important health is. I place it ahead of all else.</p> <p><strong>Q. What advice would you have for others who have a dream like yours?</strong><br />You have to be pragmatic. I’m not a believer in giving up everything else to follow my dream. I wanted to be a published author and I needed to earn a living and I wanted to be fit and healthy and I wanted to spend time with family and friends. So that all requires balance.</p> <p>If I’d chucked in my job, or locked myself away without seeing anyone, or stopped exercising and eating healthy foods, I would have been penniless, lonely and probably at death’s door.</p> <p>However, you do have to prioritise. I also wanted to be in a choir that I loved, but I gave it up as it took up too much of my spare time. I didn’t want my mental energy to be taken up by work stress, so I now work at a lower level of seniority than I could do.</p> <p>I knew I needed to carve out time in my life for writing, so I say no to social engagements on Sundays. It’s the only way I can find time to write. Is it worth it? For me, yes. I would be seriously annoyed with myself if, when I was on my deathbed, I hadn’t tried as hard as I could to be a published author.</p> <p><strong>Q. How many hours a week do you write?</strong><br />On Sundays I don’t leave the flat until the evening, I switch off the phone and I use a<span> </span><span>program</span><span> </span>that blocks computer access to the internet and email for however long I tell it to. I don’t try to write a set number of words, because sometimes it can be a question of plotting or editing, but there are days when I think, "If I can get to 2,000 words, I’ll be happy." Sometimes I write more, other times I write less. For me, writing a book is a very slow process.</p> <p>I also jot down ideas constantly in a notebook or on my phone, or I go through spells of writing for half an hour a day, which is all the time I can afford during the week. But Sundays are usually my sacred writing days. I also took time off work for a few weeks occasionally when I was working on<span> </span><em>King of the Road</em><span> </span>at the later stages.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en-gb"> <p dir="ltr">It doesn't get better than this: a great review in the <a href="https://twitter.com/dailytelegraph?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@dailytelegraph</a>. Thank you! <a href="http://t.co/ZHkBMdKYpi">pic.twitter.com/ZHkBMdKYpi</a></p> — Nigel Bartlett (@Nigel__Bartlett) <a href="https://twitter.com/Nigel__Bartlett/status/565308641730125825?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">11 February 2015</a></blockquote> <p><strong>Q. What has the highlight been?</strong><br />Seeing glowing reviews appear in<span> </span><em>Spectrum</em><span> </span>(in the<span> </span><em>Sydney Morning Herald</em><span> </span>and the<span> </span><em>Age)</em><span> </span>and<span> </span><em>The Australian </em>were definitely high points! The biggest kick, though, was seeing the first tweet from a total stranger before the book had even gone on sale – a magazine reviewer had seen an early copy and tweeted that she loved it, describing it as "a ripper of a read".</p> <p>That was the first inkling I had that<span> </span><em>King of the Road</em><span> </span>had done what I’d hoped it would: excite readers.</p> <p>I’m now working on my next novel. At this stage it involves some of the characters from<span> </span><em>King of the Road </em>(David, Matty and one of the police officers, Fahd), which is exciting as I love all three of those guys and want to see where they’ll go to next.</p> <p>Have you always wanted to write a book? Join our conversation in the comments below.</p> <p><em>Republished with permission of <span><a href="https://www.wyza.com.au/articles/entertainment/how-i-wrote-my-first-novel-at-50.aspx">Wyza.com.au</a></span>.</em></p>

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The letter Duchess Meghan wrote to her father after her wedding

<p>The Duchess of Sussex wrote a letter asking her father to “stop victimising” her, a new report reveals.</p> <p>Thomas Markle Sr has claimed in numerous media appearances that he has been “frozen out” by the royal family, and that he has no way of contacting his daughter.</p> <p>However, five of Duchess Meghan’s close friends have come forward to deny the allegations in a new interview with <a href="https://people.com/royals/meghan-markle-dad-thomas-markle-letter-after-wedding/"><em>PEOPLE</em></a>.</p> <p>“He knows how to get in touch with her. Her telephone number hasn’t changed,” a friend said. “He’s never called; he’s never texted. It’s super painful, because Meg was always so dutiful.”</p> <p>The 74-year-old skipped his daughter’s wedding on May 19 last year after he was revealed to be staging paparazzi photos ahead of the event. He said he checked himself out from the hospital after suffering from a heart attack so that he could attend the nuptials. However, after the paparazzi arrangement became public, he decided not to go.</p> <p><img style="width: 333.496px; height: 500px; display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7823351/thomasmarkle.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/206d5406ebab4eb0afd2ed5e46421f76" /></p> <p>One of the Duchess’s friends said after the paparazzi photos emerged, Prince Harry and Meghan still focused on getting the bride’s father to London, but to no avail.</p> <p>“Tom wouldn’t take her calls, wouldn’t take Harry’s calls … [Later] Meg heard he had a heart attack and she’s calling and texting, even up to the night before the wedding. It was like, ‘Please pick up. I love you, and I’m scared.’”</p> <p>The friend said the 37-year-old reached out to Thomas via a letter in an attempt to fix their relationship.</p> <p>“She’s like, ‘Dad, I’m so heartbroken. I love you. I have one father. Please stop victimising me through the media so we can repair our relationship’ … He writes her a really long letter in return, and he closes it by requesting a photo op with her.</p> <p>“And she feels like, ‘That’s the opposite of what I’m saying. I’m telling you I don’t want to communicate through the media, and you’re asking me to communicate through the media. Did you hear anything I said?’”</p> <p>The friends also denied the claims made by the Duchess’s estranged half-sister, Samantha Markle, about the royal’s alleged neglect of their father. </p> <p>Samantha, who is Thomas’s daughter from his first marriage, has been critical of the Duchess on social media and interviews, accusing Prince Harry’s wife of being “selfish”, “cruel” and “<a href="https://www.vanityfair.com/style/2018/12/inside-the-meghan-markle-family-breakdown-thomas-samantha-markle">isolating family</a>”.</p> <p>The 53-year-old is planning to release a two-part tell-all memoir this year titled <em>In the Shadows of The Duchess</em>.</p> <p>A friend said Samantha was not a part of the Duchess’s life.</p> <p>“They’ve been made to appear as siblings who were very close and then they had this falling out, and that’s not the truth at all … And then she began this career capitalizing on Meg. Everyone who knows Meg knows that the two of them have no relationship.”</p>

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The decision Princess Diana made about William’s birth that “wrote royal history”

<p>On June 21, 1982, Princess Diana gave birth to the heir to the British throne, Prince William.</p> <p>And now, a biography has touched on the controversial decision Diana made in the lead-up to the delivery – the location she would give birth to her son.</p> <p>Royal insider Katie Nicholl revealed in her book <em style="font-weight: inherit;">The Making of a Royal Romance</em>, that Diana’s decision to give birth to William in a hospital, rather than Buckingham Palace, “wrote royal history”.</p> <p>While Duchess Kate has given birth to all three of her children in the private Lindo Wing of St Mary’s Hospital, prior to Diana, it was tradition to give birth in Buckingham Palace.</p> <p>“Diana had written royal history when on Monday 21 June 1982, the summer solstice, Prince William Arthur Philip Louis of Wales was born in the private Lindo Wing of St Mary’s Hospital," she wrote. </p> <p>“Like generations of royals before him, his father Prince Charles had been delivered in the Belgian Suit at Buckingham Palace, but Diana, as the royal family quickly discovered, wanted to do things differently."</p> <p>Nicholl explained that Diana had a difficult pregnancy and suffered from morning sickness, a possible reason why she pressed to have her first child in a hospital.</p> <p>While Kate followed in Diana’s footsteps, according to <em style="font-weight: inherit;">Vanity Fair</em>, Meghan may opt for a home birth if she doesn’t choose the Lindo Wing.  </p> <p>Once Meghan gives birth to her child with Prince Harry, the first person that must be notified is the Queen.</p> <p>After the family are told of the news, town crier Tony Appleton will announce it to the public.</p> <p>The tradition, which stems from medieval times, involves a billboard with the announcement being placed outside Buckingham Palace. </p>

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Family who wrote scathing obituary about their mother speaks out

<p>The family who wrote a scathing obituary about their late mother which divided the internet have spoken out about why they felt compelled to tell people the “word is a better place without here”.</p> <p>Kathleen Dehmlow passed away on May 31 in Springfield, in the United States, at the age of 80.</p> <p>In an obituary published in the local newspaper, The Redwood Gazette, her family detailed how she “abandoned her children” and ran away with her brother-in-law.</p> <p>“In 1962 she became pregnant by her husband’s brother and moved to California,” it states.<br /> <br /> “She abandoned her children, Gina and Jay who were then raised by her parents in Clements.”<br /> <br /> Announcing her death, the siblings declare Dehmlow “will now face judgement”. </p> <p>“She will not be missed by Gina and Jay, and they understand that this world is a better place without her.”</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Paragraph 1: ok<br />Paragraph 2: ok<br />Paragraph 3: wait<br />Paragraph 4: OH<br />Paragraph 5: *airplane flies overhead with a banner reading WELCOME TO HELL MOM* <a href="https://t.co/ppV45htrda">pic.twitter.com/ppV45htrda</a></p> — Stu (@RandBallsStu) <a href="https://twitter.com/RandBallsStu/status/1003817212283686914?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">June 5, 2018</a></blockquote> <p>Now, her son, Jay, says his sister, Gina, felt the need to write the blistering note about their mother.</p> <p>“They’ll never know what we went through but it helped us [to write this],” he told the Daily Mail.</p> <p>“We wanted to finally get the last word.”</p> <p>Jay said that the obituary was rejected by one Springfield newspaper, before it was published.</p> <p>He also revealed that his friends had no idea what had happened to his family when he was young.</p> <p>“I’ve got calls from buddies who’ve said, ‘We didn’t know she’d left you. We thought she’d died in a car crash or something’,” he said.</p> <p> </p>

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Emotional moment bride reads late father’s letter he wrote for her wedding day

<p><span>Todd Excell lost his battle with cancer on Mother’s Day in 2001 when his daughter Emily was just 8.</span></p> <p><span>Still wanting to be there for Emily, he decided to prepare special letters for each milestone in her life. However, he did not have enough time and instead chose to write a letter to be read out on her wedding day.</span></p> <p><span>Emily married her husband Shakeal Darbey, and during their reception, her father’s letter was read out by her uncle, Peter.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><span><iframe width="500" height="281" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/m6WC83vumOA?feature=oembed" frameborder="0" gesture="media" allowfullscreen=""></iframe><br /></span></p> <p><span>Clutching her new husband’s hands, Emily fights back the tears as she hears her father’s precious words.</span></p> <p><span>Her father wrote, “To my dearest daughter, Emily. You are my heart and soul and always will be.”</span></p> <p><span>He added, “I love you, Emily. I know I would love your new husband. To your new husband, I will be walking with you, too.”</span></p> <p><span>At the end of the letter, Todd added a caution for his daughter’s husband.</span></p> <p><span>“To the new husband... I will not be able to intimidate you or ask you a million questions before you date my daughter, tell you I have a gun under my bed, or ask you why you are interested in dating my daughter, take your licence plate down and the type of car you drive. But what I can do – is haunt you.”</span></p> <p><span>Laughter immediately erupted in the room as the new couple wipe away their tears.</span></p> <p><strong>Her wedding day letter</strong></p> <p><span>“To my dearest daughter Emily.</span></p> <p><span>You are my heart and soul and always will be.</span></p> <p><span>I'm writing this letter for your wedding day to tell you how I will not be there in body but I will be there in spirit.</span></p> <p><span>I remember when you were just starting to walk and what it would be to walk you down the aisle on your wedding day. </span></p> <p><span>Walking is another passage to a new beginning. A wedding day is like a new beginning to a life with another person you love. You will never do anything alone. </span></p> <p><span>You will have a partner to be at your side in good and bad — something I would have loved to have done for you, if I was not dying. You have found someone to be that person for you. You will know the feeling as soon as you say your vows. </span></p> <p><span>You have been my sunshine in my darkest days. I want you to have the best life and love that God can give you. I'm asking you and your husband to treat each other with love and respect. I hope that you have children to love and cherish as I have with you. </span></p> <p><span>My advice for you and your husband is always to say 'I love you' to each other. Even when you get mad at each other or disagree because you still love the other person — it's just the other feelings that get in the way. </span></p> <p><span>Love will hold the marriage together. </span></p> <p><span>The other advice is be yourself and never change, that's why you love each other. </span></p> <p><span>The things you bring only bring out the best in each other. Still have friends and family to go to when problems arise, they will always have an open ear. But always listen to your heart when making decisions. </span></p> <p><span>I love you, Emily. I know I would love your new husband. I will always be there as you walk anywhere. To your new husband, I will be walking with you, too. </span></p> <p><span>Welcome to the family, I love you. </span></p> <p><span>Love, Dad.</span></p> <p><span>P.S.</span></p> <p><span>To the new husband... I will not be able to intimidate you or ask you a million questions before you date my daughter, tell you I have a gun under my bed, or ask you why you are interested in dating my daughter, take your licence plate down and the type of car you drive. But what I can do – is haunt you.</span></p> <p><span>Treat her like a princess and the queen she will be.”</span></p>

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8 things you never knew about “Murder, She Wrote”

<p>From the mid-1980s, Angela Lansbury reigned the small screen as queen of murder mysteries. <em>Murder, She Wrote</em> ran for a whopping 12 seasons, consisting of 264 episodes, and audiences just couldn’t get enough of the small coastal town of Cabot Cove, with its bewilderingly high murder rates. For those of you who never got into the series (or those of you who’ve forgotten), Lansbury played Jessica Fletcher, a retired English teacher and successful author of mystery novels, whose deductive skills helped her solve murders far more effectively than any police team.</p> <p>We all love a good mystery, but today we’re shining a light on <em>Murder, She Wrote</em>, and giving you a slew of things you may never have known about everyone’s favourite amateur detective (or at least <em>my</em> personal favourite; sorry Miss Marple).</p> <p><strong>1. Murderer’s paradise</strong></p> <p>The fictional town of Cabot Cove, Maine, would easily steal the title of “Murder Capital of the World”. <a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/tvandradio/9490511/Murder-She-Wrote-location-named-as-murder-capital-of-world.html" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Research by BBC4</span></strong></a> found that the town averaged 5.3 murders per year, with a population of around 3,560. </p> <p><strong>2. Record-breaker</strong></p> <p>According to Guinness World Records, Jessica Fletcher holds the title of “Most prolific amateur sleuth”, beating out Agatha Christie’s Miss Marple.</p> <p><strong>3. When Jessica met Magnum</strong></p> <p>Who doesn’t love a good TV crossover episode? In the <em>Magnum, P.I.</em> episodes “Novel Connection” and “Magnum on Ice”, Jessica travels to Hawaii to investigate an attempted murder, and then must attempt to clear Magnum’s name when he is accused of murder himself.</p> <p><strong>4. Awards-worthy</strong></p> <p>Just being nominated for an Emmy is an impressive feat, but Lansbury was nominated for 12 Emmys for the series (Outstanding Lead Actress in a Drama Series) – one for each season of the show. The number is a still-standing record, as is her matching record of never having won. She won four Golden Globes, though.</p> <p><strong>5. A different Jessica</strong></p> <p>Jean Stapleton, who audiences may remember as Edith Bunker from <em>All in the Family</em> was originally offered the role of Jessica Fletcher.</p> <p><strong>6. Murder, she committed?</strong></p> <p>A <a href="https://www.theblot.com/tv-conspiracy-theory-angela-lansbury-actually-serial-killer-murder-wrote-7717915" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">popular fan theory</span></strong></a> supposes that Fletcher herself was committing all of the murders in Cabot Cove. Helping the theory along is the fact that even when Jessica travels, she is followed by murder.</p> <p><strong>7. Visit Cabot Cove</strong></p> <p>Despite being set on the east coast of America, in Maine, the series was largely filmed in Mendocino, California. If you want to see visit the “harbour” used during filming, just get on the Backlot Tour at Los Angeles’ Universal Studios.</p> <p><strong>8. One more murder</strong></p> <p>Lansbury has <a href="http://www.digitalspy.com/tv/ustv/news/a835084/angela-lansbury-wants-murder-she-wrote-to-return-for-one-final-special/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">expressed a desire</span></strong></a> to return to television screens as Jessica Fletcher one final time, perhaps for a telemovie like the four aired after the series ended.</p> <p>Which <em>Murder, She Wrote</em> mystery was your favourite? Tell us in the comments below!</p>

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5 authors you didn’t know wrote under pseudonyms

<p>When you’re browsing through a bookstore or library, certain authors seem to jump out. Whether they’re ultra-famous or simply a personal favourite, we’re all guilty of being a little biased towards certain writers. But what if your favourite author has been writing other books under an alias this whole time? Here are just a few of them.</p> <p><strong>1. J.K. Rowling</strong></p> <p>Not only did she shorten her name from Joanne to the gender-ambiguous “J.K.” to attract young boys to read the Harry Potter series (as her publishers feared they wouldn’t want to read the books if they knew a woman had written them), but Rowling crafted another pseudonym. For her crime novels <em>The Cuckoo’s Calling, The Silkworm</em> and <em>Career of Evil</em>, she adopted the pen name “Robert Galbraith” to avoid the hype and expectation that would have accompanied the Rowling name.</p> <p><strong>2. Dean Koontz</strong></p> <p>The prolific thriller author, who has been known to write up to eight books a year, has confessed he’s used at least ten different pen names, including Aaron Wolfe, Brian Coffey, David Axton, Deanna Dwyer and John Hill. The aliases were suggested by his publishers, who warned him against writing different genres all under the same name.</p> <p><strong>3. The Brontë sisters</strong></p> <p>Like many female authors at the time, Charlotte, Emily and Anne Brontë opted for male aliases Currer, Ellis and Acton Bell, respectively. According to Charlotte, “we did not like to declare ourselves women, because – without at that time suspecting that our mode of writing and thinking was not what is called ‘feminine’ – we had a vague impression that authoresses are liable to be looked on with prejudice.”</p> <p><strong>4. Stephen King</strong></p> <p>Undoubtedly one of the most well-known authors in the world, it’s not surprising that King would want to see if the success of his 1974 novel <em>Carrie</em> was down to his writing, or simply the hype surrounding its film adaptation. Also, back in the ‘70s and ‘80s, authors were told not to publish more than one book a year, so as to prevent saturating the market. That’s how Richard Bachman came about – a nom de plume used by King for seven novels, almost eight (1985’s <em>Misery</em>) had he not been exposed.</p> <p><strong>5. Agatha Christie</strong></p> <p>Despite struggling to have the manuscript for her first novel, the <em>Mysterious Affair at Styles</em>, accepted by publishers, Christie stuck with her real name. However, after deciding to branch out into playwriting and the romance genre, she decided to separate her works with a new name – Mary Westmacott. She only managed to write four novels as Mary before her eagle-eyed fans caught on.</p>

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My dad wrote this letter to me from the frontline – I was 18 months old at the time

<p><em><strong>Lynette Flinn, 73, shares a very special letter that her father wrote her when she was just 18 months old whilst he was fighting in New Guinea during World War II. </strong></em> </p> <p>This letter was written to me by my father whilst stationed in New Guinea, around the year 1944. I was only 18 months old when my father wrote this letter to me to explain his decision to become a soldier in case he didn’t return home. He thankfully did, and lived to be 90.</p> <p align="center">***</p> <p>TO MY BABY DAUGHTER:</p> <p>Dearest Lynette</p> <p>The thought has just struck me that you are fast approaching the age when you must be trying to puzzle out why your Dad is not around. I feel that some sort of explanation is due to you, so just in case I am not around in later years to explain personally I am putting my case before you in the hope that you will forgive me not being there with your dear mother to attend to the thousand and one favours that a young lady like you most certainly deserves.</p> <p>When you were quite a tiny baby and lived in a little world all of your own, your Father decided to become a soldier, though to be honest at the time, he wasn't quite sure he was doing the right thing by you and your Mother.</p> <p>But a voice inside kept telling him it was the right and only thing to do.</p> <p>Now after two years of soldiering he finds that the voice told him the truth. For it was on those rare and delightful occasions when he was able to go home to this Baby and her Mother for a few days' leave, that he truly realised how precious are the possessions he is defending, along with thousands of other Fathers, all cogs in the machine which will someday make this world a worthy dwelling place for our daughters. For there are people in the world today who have so far forgotten the teachings of one who said "suffer little children to come unto me" that they must needs make war and attempt to kill, or enslave all those that oppose their ideas. If we had not left our homes to go out to stop them, you would have found yourself in a land ruled by hate and fear instead of inheriting the joys and freedom which are your birthright as an Australian.</p> <p>This is hardly the legacy I would leave my daughter, and so that she will at least be able to enjoy the liberty and privileges that my father passed on to me. I with all the other fathers am far from the sunshine of those we love.</p> <p>God grant that we may soon return, our job well done.</p> <p>Your Loving Dad</p> <p>xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx</p> <p><strong>Related links: </strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2015/12/life-lessons-from-grandparents/"><em>Top 10 life lessons kids learn from grandparents</em></a></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2016/01/5-types-of-grandparents/"><em>There are 5 different types of grandparents – which one are you?</em></a></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2016/01/parents-and-kids-who-look-identical/"><em>10 pics of parents and kids who look identical</em></a></strong></span></p>

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What Queen Elizabeth’s father wrote to her on her wedding day

<p>In commemoration of Queen Elizabeth's 68th wedding anniversary (November 20 for those who missed it), her Majesty's office gifted royalists with a touching letter her father, King George VI, gave to Elizabeth on her wedding day.</p> <p><img width="272" height="294" src="http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/02/24/article-1360124-0D53114C000005DC-128_634x686.jpg" class="irc_mi" style="margin-top: 0px; float: left;"/></p> <p>The emotional note reads: "I was so proud and thrilled at having you so close to me on our long walk in Westminster Abbey. But when I handed your hand to the Archbishop, I felt I had lost something very precious. You were so calm and composed during the service and said your words with such conviction, that I knew everything was all right</p> <p>I have watched you grow up all those years with pride under the skilful direction of Mummy ... who, as you know, is the most marvellous person in the world in my eyes, and I can, I know, always count you, and now Philip, to help us in our work.</p> <p>Your leaving us has left a great blank in our lives, but do remember that your old home is still yours ... and do come back to it as much and as often as possible. I can see that you are sublimely happy with Philip, which is right, but don't forget us is the wish of your ever loving and devoted ... Papa."</p> <p>Four years after King George penned the note to his daughter, he unexpectedly died while Elizabeth was travelling through Kenya with Philip. At just 25, Princess Elizabeth became the Queen of England. And 64 years later, she has the great honour of being Britain's longest reigning monarch, with Prince Philip by her side.</p>

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