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“I am not a villain”: Woman refuses to switch plane seats for a family

<p dir="ltr">A woman from the US has defended her decision to not move from her first class plane seat so a family could sit together. </p> <p dir="ltr">In a series of now-viral videos, Maresa Friedman detailed her awkward experience on a recent Delta airlines flight, in which she was asked to move to a different seat. </p> <p dir="ltr">Maresa said a family of three wanted her to move from her allocated seat so they could all sit closer together. </p> <p dir="ltr">After specifically booking her chosen seat in first class, Maresa politely declined their request. </p> <p dir="ltr">"I am not a villain for not moving from the seat in first class I paid full fare for," Friedman, a mother-of-two, captured her clip on TikTok. "I am also a mum so it's called PLANNING AHEAD."</p> <p dir="ltr">In a series of follow up videos, the frequent traveller said it wasn’t fair to be expected to move just so the family could sit together, especially when they hadn’t planned their seats ahead of time. </p> <p dir="ltr">She also suggested the family should’ve moved to economy class if they all wanted to sit in the same row. </p> <p dir="ltr">"If the airline bumps you or moves you or whatever, totally fair, so the suggestion I gave was basically like, ‘Oh if all of you want to sit in together, in a row, since first class is two seats and two seats, I'm sure you could ask the people behind you, I think they would be super pumped to sit [in first class] so that the three of you could be together'," Friedman said.</p> <p dir="ltr">"To which, of course, I just got 'the look'. The flight attendant just looked at me like… 'That was a good suggestion'."</p> <p dir="ltr">Friedman said the family shot her "side eyes" and "death stares" for the duration of the flight because of her refusal to move.</p> <p dir="ltr">"It didn't stop this mom from [giving me] side eye, I was getting looked at, she was talking about me," she added.</p> <p dir="ltr">"If you book with the airline, because this has happened to us as a family of four who travels together, they will group your reservation together. So, the only time that you might be separated is if you miss a flight or a connection."</p> <p dir="ltr">She then offered a piece of advice to fellow travellers who insist on asking people to switch seats: purchase travel insurance.</p> <p dir="ltr">"Things like travel insurance will not only prevent problems like this, you can actually use travel insurance to file claims to get many back or rebook on another carrier," she added. "So again, all preventable."</p> <p dir="ltr">After sharing her series of videos, Maresa was flooded with comments from people who claimed she was being unfair, to which she doubled down on her position by claiming it’s not her responsibility to “accommodate '' other travellers. </p> <p dir="ltr">"Before you come for me, I have two kids, so I have been there, even in the early stages and I would buy my baby a seat next to me, but when you book with the airlines, you have to tell them to book your reservations together and that you're travelling with a minor," she continued.</p> <p dir="ltr">Friedman added, "And by the way, the few times that I did switch seats in my lifetime, it was horrific, never again."</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: TikTok</em></p>

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Women discover after 55 years that they were switched at birth

<p>Two women are suing the hospital where they were both born in 1964, after they discovered they were switched at birth.</p> <p>Jill Lopez and Tina Ennis, both 57, discovered the mix-up at the hands of the Oklahoma hospital after learning the truth from an at-home DNA test through Ancestry.com.</p> <p>The women were both born at Duncan Physicians and Surgeons Hospital on May 18th 1964, but somehow claim they were each handed off to the other's biological parents.</p> <p>Jill and Tina went 55 years without knowing the truth, until Tina sent her DNA off to Ancestry.com and received confusing results.</p> <p>With the help of her daughter and extensive internet research, Tina tracked down Jill, who took her own DNA test and confirmed that she is the actual biological daughter of Ennis' mother, Kathryn Jones.</p> <p>The two women are now suing the hospital they were switched in for recklessness and negligent infliction of emotional distress.</p> <p>Both families had no idea about the devastating mix-up until recently, and are now left struggling with the revelation.</p> <p>Kathryn Jones said one of the worst parts of the discovery was realising her grandchildren were not biologically hers either.</p> <p>"It was like somebody had ripped out a part of my heart,' Jones said. 'I just couldn't deal with it."</p> <p>Since the news broke, Jill has been spending time with her biological mother, leaving Tina heartbroken when she realised her biological parents, Joyce and John, had both passed away.</p> <p>"Jill got to be with my real parents, and now she gets to be with my parents I grew up with," Tina said.</p> <p>"I didn’t know what to think about it at first, but the more I think about it, it makes me really sad."</p> <p>Together with Kathryn Jones, Tina and Jill have filed their suit against the hospital, who are fighting back.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Facebook</em></p>

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Red Cross nurse accused of switching vaccines for salt solution

<p><span>Northern German authorities are contacting thousands of people and informing them to get another COVID-19 jab after an investigation uncovered that a Red Cross nurse may have injected them with a saline solution.</span><br /><br /><span>The nurse has been suspected of injecting salt solution into people's arms instead of a real dose at a vaccination centre in Friesland, a district near the North Sea Coast.</span><br /><br /><span>"I am totally shocked by this episode," Sven Ambrosy, a local councillor, said on Facebook.</span><br /><br /><span>Local authorities are in the process of contacting over 8,600 residents who may have been affected.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height:281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7836313/vaccine.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/1e3453d989304150b35c9bbfb0e97893" /></p> <p><em>Image: Shutterstock</em><br /><br /><span>Saline solution is harmless, however many people who got vaccinated in Germany in March and April are elderly people at high risk of catching the deadly viral disease.</span><br /><br /><span>Sadly, the time frame that a majority of elderly people received the jab, coincides with when the nurse is suspected to have switched the vaccines.</span><br /><br /><span>Police investigator Peter Beer, told German media that there is "a reasonable suspicion of danger".</span><br /><br /><span>The nurse, who remains anonymous for now, made it clear on social media that she was sceptical of vaccines in social media posts, police investigators said.</span></p>

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Five things for over-65s to consider when switching to a plant-based diet

<p>There are plenty of reasons people switch to a plant-based diet, including ethical and environmental reasons. However, a growing number of people are shunning meat for health reasons. Evidence shows that plant-based diets may help support the immune system, lower the risk of heart disease and stroke, and may be good for overall health.</p> <p>While a well-planned plant-based diet can support healthy living in people of all ages, our nutritional needs change with different life stages, so people over the age of 65 may need to take more care when opting for a plant-based diet. They may have specific nutritional needs and may need certain nutrients, vitamins and minerals to stay healthy.</p> <p>Here are some things over-65s may want to consider when switching to a plant-based diet:</p> <p><strong>1. Eat enough protein</strong><br />Older adults need more protein compared to the general adult population in order to preserve lean body mass, body function and good health. While most adults only need around 0.75g of protein per kilogram of body weight a day, it’s recommended that healthy older adults should increase their daily protein intake to 1.0-1.2g per kilogram of body weight. This is even higher for older adults who are malnourished or have a severe illness, as these conditions trigger a hypermetabolic state, where the body needs more energy and protein to function.</p> <p>To ensure adequate protein intake, make sure meals and snacks contain plant-based proteins, such as chickpeas, tofu, black-eyed beans, kidney beans, lentils, quinoa, wild rice, nuts and seeds, nut butters and soya alternatives to milk and yoghurt. Eggs and dairy products are also good protein sources if you’re including these in your diet.</p> <p><strong>2. Include calcium and vitamin D</strong><br />Calcium and vitamin D both play an important role in maintaining good bone health, which is extremely important in older age as osteoporosis and associated fractures are a major cause of bone-related diseases and mortality in older adults.</p> <p>Most adults need 700mg of calcium per day. However, women past the menopause and men over 55 should have 1200mg of calcium per day. There’s a wide range of non-dairy food products that contain calcium for those who are plant-based, including calcium fortified soya milk and almond milk, calcium fortified cereals, pitta bread, chapatti and white bread.</p> <p>For those who include fish in their diet, fish such as whitebait, and sardines and pilchards (with bones) contain good amounts of calcium per serving.</p> <p>Older adults are also recommended to get 10 micrograms (mcg) of vitamin D daily. Not only is vitamin D important for bone health, it’s also one of the nutrients involved in supporting the immune system and helping it to function properly. Older adults are more vulnerable to deficiency as they may have less sunlight exposure, and their skin is less able to synthesise vitamin D.</p> <p>Mushrooms grown in sunlight, fortified spreads, breakfast cereals, and dairy alternatives are all good sources of vitamin D.</p> <p>Having said this, it’s hard to get vitamin D from diet alone, so a supplement of 10mcg a day (especially in the winter for those who may not get outside often), is recommended. It’s worth noting that some vitamin D supplements aren’t suitable for vegans, as they may be derived from an animal source, so vitamin D2 and lichen-derived vitamin D3 may be used instead.</p> <p><strong>3. Get your vitamin B12</strong><br />Vitamin B12 is essential for making red blood cells, keeping the nervous system healthy, and providing energy. Older adults need 1.5 micrograms of vitamin B12 per day, similar to younger adults. But many older people may be at risk of vitamin B12 deficiency, affecting an estimated one in twenty people aged 65 to 74 and one in ten people over 75.</p> <p>Those who don’t eat meat, fish or eggs may not be getting enough vitamin B12, as it’s found abundantly in animal-based food sources. Some plant-based sources of vitamin B12 include fortified breakfast cereals, yeast extracts (like Marmite), soya yoghurts, and non-dairy milks. People may consider taking a Vitamin B12 supplement. Taking 2mg or less a day of vitamin B12 in supplements is unlikely to cause any harm. However, they should consult their doctor or registered dietitian first.</p> <p><strong>4. Eat iron-rich foods</strong><br />Low iron intake can be an issue for those who don’t have a varied diet, especially for men aged 65 and over living in residential care homes and women over 85.</p> <p>Iron is essential for making red blood cells, which carry oxygen around the body. It’s also essential for physical performance, wound healing, supporting the immune system, cognitive development and function and thyroid metabolism. Older adults need 8.7mg of iron a day.</p> <p>Foods containing vitamin C – such as citrus fruits – may help the body absorb iron better. Alexandra Anschiz/ Shutterstock<br />Plant sources include wholegrains, green leafy vegetables like spinach, seeds, pulses and dried fruits. Since iron in plant foods is absorbed less efficiently compared to iron in animal proteins, having vitamin C-rich foods like citrus fruits, green pepper and broccoli can help iron be better absorbed.</p> <p><strong>5. Make every bite count</strong><br />Some people find their appetite decreases as they get older. This can be caused by difficulties with chewing and swallowing, constipation, acute illness, impaired taste, vision and smell. But reduced appetite can contribute to unintentional weight loss and nutritional deficiencies. It’s therefore important to find ways to get adequate nutrition in every meal, especially when plant-based, such as:</p> <ul> <li>Including protein in each meal.</li> <li>Eat small meals and snacks in between throughout the day.</li> <li>Include plant-based milks (such as soya, almond, or coconut milk) in your tea, coffee or smoothie.</li> <li>Add olive, vegetable or sunflower oil to your favourite meals.</li> <li>Mix plant creams or vegan cheese in mashed potatoes, soups and stews.</li> <li>Add nut butters to bread, dairy-free yoghurt and smoothies.</li> </ul> <p>No matter your age, switching to a plant-based diet may have many health benefits if planned properly. Consulting with a registered dietitian before making the switch may help you develop the best plant-based diet tailored to your specific needs.</p> <p><em>Written by Taibat Ibitoye. This article first appeared on <a href="https://theconversation.com/vegetarian-and-vegan-diet-five-things-for-over-65s-to-consider-when-switching-to-a-plant-based-diet-144088">The Conversation</a>.</em></p>

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4 things you should consider before switching credit cards

<p><span>Thinking about changing your credit card? Our lifestyle and how we use our money can change throughout the years, so it’s always good to re-evaluate your spending habits from time to time and check if your card still fits the bill. </span></p> <p><span>Here are the four things you should consider before switching to another credit card.</span></p> <p><strong><span>1. Annual fees</span></strong></p> <p><span>The annual fee is not always a deal-breaker – in general, the higher the annual fee is, the more rewards and features the credit card offers. However, if you don’t use your credit card often, you are unlikely to get value out of it as the annual fee cancels out the benefits.</span></p> <p><span>Some cards will also waive annual fees if you spend a certain amount in a year. But if you are not a big, regular spender, a zero-dollar annual fee card might be what you are looking for. </span></p> <p><strong><span>2. Interest rates</span></strong></p> <p><span>Not everyone can pay their bill in full every month – and this is where interest rates matter. Your ability to repay debts may be significantly influenced by the interest rates of your credit card. You may end up getting stuck in a cycle if your card is charging interest rates faster than you can pay off the bills. </span></p> <p><span>When this occurs, you might want to find a balance transfer credit card with a low or zero per cent interest rate for a limited period. You can then move your debt from the old card to the new one, save on interest and focus on getting on top of your balance. </span></p> <p><strong><span>3. Foreign transaction fees</span></strong></p> <p><span>When you are travelling overseas, having a credit card can give you a peace of mind – it makes transactions possible even if you don’t have cash at hand. This convenience comes at the cost of foreign or international transaction fees.</span></p> <p><span>You don’t even have to be abroad to be hit with these fees – if you are shopping online and the merchant happens to be out of the country, the card can still charge you to cover the currency conversion. Most banks and credit providers generally charge between 2 to 3.5 per cent on any purchases being made under these circumstances.</span></p> <p><span>Frequent travellers and shoppers can cut costs by opting for cards that have no foreign currency exchange fees. Many of these cards will also offer other travel benefits, including low to no ATM withdrawal fees.</span></p> <p><strong><span>4. Rewards</span></strong></p> <p><span>You may be a good customer, with regular spending and on-time payments. However, if the rewards that you were promised upon signing up still turn out to be elusive, it might be time to find a new card.</span></p> <p><span>Rewards might take the form of travel miles, points, cash-back, gift vouchers, special offers and more. While these benefits might sound tempting, you most likely have to spend a significant amount on the card to be able to access them. Rewards credit cards also generally come with higher interest rates.</span></p> <p><span>Are you thinking of finding a new credit card? Let us know in the comments.</span></p>

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Digital detox holidays – could you switch off on your next trip?

<p>You would think that being constantly attached to your laptop, tablet or smartphone would make you more connected, more organised and more efficient, right? Wrong. Studies show that this kind of never ending connectivity results in your brain paying partial continuous attention, placing you in a heightened state of stress. You might think you’re getting more done by multitasking, but it’s likely that you’re just getting faster and sloppier. People find that it is harder to concentrate on conversations or to stay focused on a book, tasks that once seemed easy. And if you’re constantly checking your work email or looking at what your friends are doing on Facebook it’s hard to allow yourself to mentally “get away”, even though you’re physically removed.</p> <p>The solution could be a digital detox – no phone, no internet, no exceptions. You will need to look a little harder to find a holiday destination that has avoided the world wide web, but your brain will thank you for it.</p> <p><strong>St Vincent and the Grenadines</strong></p> <p>This Caribbean nation was one of the first pioneers of the digital detox. Visitors hand over their smartphones and other gadgets on arrival and are given a printed guidebook with suggestions for ways to spend your time. You’re even briefed before you begin your holiday on how to handle any tech-related panic and a life coach is available with advice on how to avoid letting technology rule your life.</p> <p><strong>Six Senses Soneva Fushi</strong></p> <p>The ultra luxe Six Senses chain has a “no news, no shoes” policy and encourages guest to embrace the slow life movement. Soneva Fushi is a private atoll in the Maldives that is effectively in its own black hole, so you’ve no choice but to switch off completely. But when you’re lying under the stars in your own private outdoor cinema, you probably won’t miss it so much.</p> <p><strong>Shambhala Ranch, California </strong><em>(pictured above)</em></p> <p>This secluded ranch is tucked away in the California hills and hosts just 14 guests at a time. It regularly runs three-day digital detox retreats throughout the year where tweeting and texting are replaced by yoga, hiking, meditation, arts and crafts, journaling or just relaxing in a hot tub. It’s a chance to get in touch with your inner hippy – there’s even a little tree hugging (yes, actual hugging) if you feel up for it.</p> <p><strong>The Westin, Dublin</strong></p> <p>Of course you can get phone and internet access in the heart of the Irish capital, so this one might take a bit more willpower. The hotel offers a digital detox package that includes a safe to lock away your gadgets, a detox survival kit, breakfast in bed and an in-room massage. Tuck yourself up for a few nights and switch off from the outside world. Or do things the old fashioned way and connect with real people over a few pints of Guinness.</p> <p><em>Image credit: Facebook</em></p> <p> </p>

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