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"Too busy marching": Debate rages over fiery Anzac Day post

<p>A man has shared a controversial claim on Twitter about Australia’s relationship to Anzac Day, sparking a fiery debate.</p> <p>Australians and New Zealanders gathered to commemorate the 108th anniversary of the landing of Anzac troops at Gallipoli in World War I on April 25th. Services were held all over both countries to mark the day of remembrance.</p> <p>On May 34th, Brad Turner, who says he is a former Navy submariner and AFP officer, took to Twitter to argue that the values of the annual celebration were “no longer reflected” by Australia.</p> <p>He notably called out Australia’s confrontation with China on behalf of the US.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">Australia is a society that dutifully gets up early every April 25 to gather, Mach & remember our Dead. Speeches are made, politicians speak of sacrifice & honour whilst possessing or embodying neither. That same society that holds paramount ideals of egalitarianism, mateship &… <a href="https://t.co/sbHHbRiYAF">pic.twitter.com/sbHHbRiYAF</a></p> <p>— Brad Turner (@tur14865416) <a href="https://twitter.com/tur14865416/status/1650394428841037826?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">April 24, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p>“Australia is a society that dutifully gets up early every April 25 to gather, march and remember our dead,” he wrote in the post, which has been viewed more than 20,000 times.</p> <p>“Speeches are made, politicians speak of sacrifice and honour whilst possessing or embodying neither. That same society that holds paramount ideals of egalitarianism, mateship and sacrifice is forgotten on the other 364 days of the year.</p> <p>“On those days Australia marches right past veteran suicides, war crimes, illegal wars and widespread inequality and corruption. Is it really a day of remembrance? Or is it theatrics so society can pretend they care about victims of war or our conduct as a country with an aim to feel better about apathy and inaction as a nation towards these things.</p> <p>“We don’t notice any of these things because we are too busy marching. But this time it’s headlong into another pointless American war with China. The things we celebrate about our nation on Anzac Day are sadly no longer reflected in Australia’s actions. They have not been in some time.”</p> <p>Several people online took the same stance as Mr Turner.</p> <p>“I don’t like Anzac Day. It overlooks our follies in joining Britain and US wars. WWII was noble. The rest were con jobs to enrich the industrialists. Our people have all these solemn events only to assuage their ‘je ne c’est quoi’ because they don’t feel any guilt but should,” one wrote.</p> <p>“Our politicians spend more on memorial monuments and museums that they can put their name on a plaque on the wall than they do for the actual veterans who are suffering from PTSD or other ‘souvenirs’ they have brought back from their tours,” another said.</p> <p>“Flag waving patriotism has taken over Anzac Day. We are one step away from parades of military hardware while the populace salute. What should be a reflection on the horrors of war has become it‘s celebration. John Howard did this,” a third added.</p> <p>“Listening to the Labor government yesterday follow in the footsteps of the Coalition, justifying spending billions antagonising China at America’s request is not the ‘lest we forget’ I think about,” a fourth wrote.</p> <p>Others fired back and said Anzac Day was still important.</p> <p>“Mate … it’s about remembering the sacrifice and loss of our mates … lest we forget,” one wrote, adding, “I don’t worry about [politicians] anymore grandstanding on the day. It’s our day not theirs to remember our mates.”</p> <p>Another wrote, “It is tradition. It separates the fluff of ordinary living to reflect on sacrifice not only of the dead, of lives unlived, of the unfathomable grief but also of the living dealing with the trauma and moral injury of tooth and claw war. It is not a celebration which distracts.”</p> <p>“I understand this perspective, but at the same time I ask myself — is there any harm in this form national reflection? I agree there have been some military follies following the absolute necessity of WWII, but would add that there is no guarantee that the next engagement is such,” a third wrote.</p> <p><em>Image credit: Shutterstock</em></p>

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United in grief: William and Harry join mournful march

<p>Prince Harry and Prince William have walked by the side of their grandmother's coffin in a procession through London, as Queen Elizabeth made her final journey from Buckingham Palace to Westminster Hall. </p> <p>The brothers were united in their grief as they joined other senior members of the royal family, who were led by King Charles for the procession to see Queen Elizabeth’s coffin lie in state in parliament.</p> <p>While Prince William wore regimental uniform, Prince Harry, no longer a senior working member of the royal family, was dressed in a dark mourning suit.</p> <p>Also not in uniform was Prince Andrew, who walked alongside sister Princess Anne and brother Prince Edward.</p> <p>As the journey from Buckingham Palace to Westminster Hall began, guns fired every minute at the nearby Hyde Park, as Big Ben tolled in unison. </p> <p>Mourners were lining the streets to catch a glimpse of Her Majesty's coffin, and to be one of the first in line when the official lying in state period begins. </p> <p>As the senior royals followed the procession, Kate, the Princess of Wales, Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex, Queen Consort Camilla and Sophie of Wessex travelled from Buckingham Palace to Westminster by car.</p> <p>The emotional scenes were reminiscent of those at Princess Diana's funeral in 1997, almost 25 years ago to the day, where the young princes again followed in the procession of mourning. </p> <p>“My mother had just died, and I had to walk a long way behind her coffin, surrounded by thousands of people watching me while millions more did on television,” Prince Harry once told royal biographer Angela Levin.</p> <p>“No child should lose their mother at such a young age and then have his grief observed by thousands of people.”</p> <p>In the documentary <em>Diana, My Mother</em>, Prince William said, “I remember just feeling completely numb, disorientated, dizzy."</p> <p>“And you keep asking yourself, ‘Why me?’ All the time, ‘Why? What have I done? Why? Why has this happened to us?’”</p> <p>As Queen Elizabeth now rests in Westminster Hall, four days of lying in state will then begin until the funeral on September 19th. </p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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Your weekly horoscope for March 28th 2022

<p dir="ltr">With a new moon gracing our skies this week, it’s time to focus on new beginnings.</p> <p dir="ltr">The new moon in the sign of Aries is our chance to heal from past traumas and carry a sense of rebirth into our futures. </p> <p dir="ltr">♈ <strong>Aries (March 21st - April 19th)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Your urge for connection this week will be palpable, as you overcome your own insecurities to create lasting relationships. </p> <p dir="ltr">Don’t let yourself be held back by fear, and just take a chance. </p> <p dir="ltr">♉ <strong>Taurus (April 20th - May 20th)</strong></p> <p>Truly committing to your career will bring you a sense of reassurance, success and longevity this week. </p> <p dir="ltr">Don’t let other voices drown you out, as you speak your truth for all to hear. </p> <p dir="ltr">♊ <strong>Gemini (May 21st - June 20th)</strong></p> <p>Expand your interests this week by letting yourself be curious about what lies outside your comfort zone. </p> <p dir="ltr">Divulging your plans for the future will manifest them into reality. </p> <p dir="ltr">♋ <strong>Cancer (June 21st - July 22nd)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Take shared responsibilities seriously this week, as your relationships will flourish in a mutual understanding of the world. </p> <p dir="ltr">Your career will have a cosmic boost if you are open enough to receive it. </p> <p dir="ltr">♌ <strong>Leo (July 23rd - August 22nd)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Think outside your usual boundaries when looking for contentment this week, as you will find peace where you least expect it. </p> <p dir="ltr">Don’t conceal your talents and passions, as you could draw in unexpected opportunities. </p> <p dir="ltr">♍ <strong>Virgo (August 23rd - September 22nd)</strong></p> <p>Give your body and mind a little extra love this week, as indulging in self-care is vital to staying present. </p> <p dir="ltr">Trust your gut when it comes to letting people in, as deep down you know what's best. </p> <p dir="ltr">♎ <strong>Libra (September 23rd - October 22nd)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Your finances will receive an unexpected boost this week, giving you a lesson in self-control and indulgence.</p> <p dir="ltr">In order to get what you want, you need to be proactive. </p> <p dir="ltr">♏ <strong>Scorpio (October 23rd - November 21st)</strong></p> <p>Breaking away from routine will give you a sense of calm this week, as there is contentment to be found in chaos. </p> <p dir="ltr">Innovations will only take place if you take the time to collaborate. </p> <p dir="ltr">♐ <strong>Sagittarius (November 22nd - December 21st)</strong></p> <p>What you say and who you say it to could land you in trouble this week, so read the room before you speak your mind. </p> <p dir="ltr">Channel your energy into being productive, and don’t let the negative thoughts win. </p> <p dir="ltr">♑ <strong>Capricorn (December 22nd - January 20th)</strong></p> <p>Saving your money for something special and meaningful will bring more gratification than being impulsive. </p> <p dir="ltr">Don’t be surprised if you get hit with the urge to change up your daily routines. </p> <p dir="ltr">♒ <strong>Aquarius (January 21st - February 18th)</strong></p> <p>Staying in your lane this week will prove to be a fruitful venture, as you flourish in your niche.</p> <p dir="ltr">You will see your social calendar blossom, as you rely on others to escape.</p> <p dir="ltr">♓ <strong>Pisces (February 19th - March 20th)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Your charm and tenacity will be in your favour this week, as you find yourself succeeding in areas you never thought possible. </p> <p dir="ltr">Use this confidence selflessly, and use your voice to help others be heard. </p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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Your weekly horoscope for March 22nd 2022

<p dir="ltr">As Aries season begins, it's time to channel confidence, chaos and charisma. </p> <p dir="ltr">This fiery sign will help lead you into any situation with your head held high, and an unbeatable power for commanding a room. </p> <p dir="ltr">♈ <strong>Aries (March 21st - April 19th)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">It’s your time to shine, as you feel fully alive in your capacity and determination.</p> <p dir="ltr">Your battle this week will push you to be the best version of yourself, giving you a chance to showcase your perseverance and bravery. </p> <p dir="ltr">♉ <strong>Taurus (April 20th - May 20th)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Breaking from your routine could cause a potentially anxious situation, so stick to the status quo this week. </p> <p dir="ltr">Do your research when faced with a situation that seems too good to be true, because sometimes it is.  </p> <p dir="ltr">♊ <strong>Gemini (May 21st - June 20th)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Your emotions will feel rattled this week, making you feel extra jumpy about current affairs both in your personal life and around the globe. </p> <p dir="ltr">Don’t give away your power to someone who secretly wants you to fail. </p> <p dir="ltr">♋ <strong>Cancer (June 21st - July 22nd)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Keep your cool this week, as you will find yourself particularly susceptible to irritation.</p> <p dir="ltr">Make your opinions and ideals heard, as holding back will only open a door for someone else to succeed instead. </p> <p dir="ltr">♌ <strong>Leo (July 23rd - August 22nd)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Celebrate your achievements this week, as it's important to feel proud of the work you have accomplished. </p> <p dir="ltr">Success can look different to everyone, so bask in the glory of your hard work and don’t let others dim your sparkle. </p> <p dir="ltr">♍ <strong>Virgo (August 23rd - September 22nd)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">An unexpected interference could impact how you run your life, depending on how you react. </p> <p dir="ltr">Be subtle in your approach this week, as disrupting the status quo could throw a major spanner in the works. </p> <p dir="ltr">♎ <strong>Libra (September 23rd - October 22nd)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Wearing your heart on your sleeve could come back to bite you this week, as people pleasing doesn’t always work out. </p> <p dir="ltr">Trust your intuition, as you realise who you can place your unwavering trust in. </p> <p dir="ltr">♏<strong> Scorpio (October 23rd - November 21st)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Home could feel like a battle ground this week, as you work to be heard about your important relationships. </p> <p dir="ltr">When trying to get your point across, it is not always what you say but how you say it. </p> <p dir="ltr">♐ <strong>Sagittarius (November 22nd - December 21st)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Self care is of utmost important this week, as going a million miles an hour is not conducive to work-life balance. </p> <p dir="ltr">Exercise subtlety this week, as your passion could come across a little too brash. </p> <p dir="ltr">♑ <strong>Capricorn (December 22nd - January 20th)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">The urge to splurge on unnecessary purchases this week will be palpable, and a brutal lesson in self control. </p> <p dir="ltr">Giving yourself a stern talking to will be the self-reflection you’ve been putting off. </p> <p dir="ltr">♒ <strong>Aquarius (January 21st - February 18th)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">You will be feeling at odds with your home and family life this week, noticing how every annoyance seems like a big deal. </p> <p dir="ltr">Keep calm and carry on, and don’t sweat the small stuff.</p> <p dir="ltr">♓ <strong>Pisces (February 19th - March 20th)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Be wary of receding into a cocoon of contentment this week, as hiding away from real issues can only stunt your growth. </p> <p dir="ltr">Be confident and unapologetic in your feelings, and don’t let the negative self-talk win. </p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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Your weekly horoscope for March 14th 2022

<p dir="ltr">With a Full Moon in the sign of Virgo coming our way this week, it’s time to listen to your heart and speak your truth. </p> <p dir="ltr">Tuning in to your deepest desires will be a fruitful venture, as the power of the Full Moon works in mysterious ways to bring you what you need in troubled times. </p> <p dir="ltr">♈ <strong>Aries (March 21st - April 19th)</strong></p> <p>It’s time to reevaluate your work-life balance this week, as you seek to feel more fulfilled.</p> <p>Taking time for yourself is vital in succeeding at work, and sometimes taking a step back from professional duties can be good for your soul.</p> <p dir="ltr">♉ <strong>Taurus (April 20th - May 20th)</strong></p> <p>Armed with palpable luck and confidence, take a risk with a romantic prospect this week, as your self-expression will prove to be irresistible. </p> <p dir="ltr">Use your voice, take a leap, and enjoy the ride.</p> <p dir="ltr">♊ <strong>Gemini (May 21st - June 20th)</strong></p> <p>In order to clarify your goals, sometimes you need to put rationality aside and focus on what your heart wants. </p> <p>Letting yourself feel your passions and emotions is a critical step in professional and personal happiness. </p> <p dir="ltr">♋ <strong>Cancer (June 21st - July 22nd)</strong></p> <p>Reassessing your relationships will make you discover who truly deserves your time and energy. </p> <p dir="ltr">Cutting out toxicity is not a bad thing, but a need for survival.</p> <p dir="ltr">♌ <strong>Leo (July 23rd - August 22nd)</strong></p> <p>Take extra time to connect with friends this week, as your thirst for socialisation will prove to be unquenchable.</p> <p dir="ltr">Just remember to check in with yourself along the way, and recognise the need for quiet time. </p> <p dir="ltr">♍ <strong>Virgo (August 23rd - September 22nd)</strong></p> <p>Tapping into your intuition will have you feeling extra emotional and sensitive this week, but not to a disadvantage. </p> <p dir="ltr">Realising what you need to get through, and vocalising it, will pay off in spades. </p> <p dir="ltr">♎ <strong>Libra (September 23rd - October 22nd)</strong></p> <p>In order to manifest your fantasies into reality, you need to rest, recharge, and put things into perspective.</p> <p>Avoid making rash decisions, and preserve your energy for things worth fighting for. </p> <p dir="ltr">♏ <strong>Scorpio (October 23rd - November 21st)</strong></p> <p>When trying to get your point across, be aware of scaring people away by coming off too brash.</p> <p dir="ltr">Commanding the attention of a crowd is an art that needs to be perfected, even if you have to temporarily mask your ruthless bluntness. </p> <p dir="ltr">♐ <strong>Sagittarius (November 22nd - December 21st)</strong></p> <p>Reflect on how you can inject more excitement and adventure in your life, as our need for exploration becomes overwhelming. </p> <p dir="ltr">As your mundane routine has lived its course, making changes to your everyday life will make for a much more exciting day. </p> <p dir="ltr">♑ <strong>Capricorn (December 22nd - January 20th)</strong></p> <p>Avoid making unnecessary career choices this week, as your professionalism outweighs your restlessness. </p> <p dir="ltr">Consider making smaller steps in the right direction to be the best version of yourself, and realise things take time. </p> <p dir="ltr">♒ <strong>Aquarius (January 21st - February 18th)</strong></p> <p>Wearing your heart on your sleeve a bit more than usual will see your closest relationships blossom in this vulnerability. </p> <p dir="ltr">Taking a different approach to your finances will yield unexpectedly positive results.</p> <p dir="ltr">♓ <strong>Pisces (February 19th - March 20th)</strong></p> <p>A surge of personal power will have you striving to succeed this week, even when people try to undercut your wins. </p> <p dir="ltr">Focusing on your own journey and tuning out the noise will see you rising above the rest. </p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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Your weekly horoscope for March 7th 2022

<p dir="ltr">As the Sun aligns with Jupiter in a powerful union, the theme of the week is managing your energy wisely. </p> <p dir="ltr">These two planets radiate generosity and positivity, as well as devoting time to others. </p> <p dir="ltr">However, the fear of overdoing your compassion can be a great threat to your own energy and preservation. </p> <p dir="ltr">♈ <strong>Aries (March 21st - April 19th)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">This week, rely on your instincts rather than logic to help get you through a difficult situation. </p> <p dir="ltr">Use your thoughts and imagination to get creative, and don’t fight the impulses to go a little crazy.</p> <p dir="ltr">♉ <strong>Taurus (April 20th - May 20th)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Talking things through to manifest them into reality can be a valuable tool in learning what you really want. </p> <p dir="ltr">Your career will be best served from you taking the side of the underdog this week, as being underestimated will work in your favour. </p> <p dir="ltr">♊ <strong>Gemini (May 21st - June 20th)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Stretch your boundaries this week, and don’t limit yourself to what you know or what is comfortable. </p> <p dir="ltr">Change will only come from exploring outside your bubble of contentment. </p> <p dir="ltr">♋ <strong>Cancer (June 21st - July 22nd)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Your natural instinct this week will be to go into overdrive and feel the need to play problem solver. </p> <p dir="ltr">Let yourself take a step back and consider if situations beyond your control are worth giving up your energy for. </p> <p dir="ltr">♌ <strong>Leo (July 23rd - August 22nd)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Details of a loose arrangement could come back to bite you if you don’t make your feelings crystal clear. </p> <p dir="ltr">Fighting the urge to be the centre of attention could see new opportunities in your relationships blossom, but only if you can be vulnerable with yourself.</p> <p dir="ltr">♍ <strong>Virgo (August 23rd - September 22nd)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">If a relationship is needing reevaluation, talk to someone rather than about them, and don’t expect them to be a mind reader. </p> <p dir="ltr">Stand your ground in difficult situations, and resist the urge to be creative with the truth to get your own way.</p> <p dir="ltr">♎ <strong>Libra (September 23rd - October 22nd)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Check in with your health this week, and remember that wellness comes from all positive forms of self-care. </p> <p dir="ltr">Showing yourself kindness will reciprocate in the universe, and good things will come your way. </p> <p dir="ltr">♏ <strong>Scorpio (October 23rd - November 21st)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Don’t let yourself get overwhelmed with seemingly impossible tasks, but instead rely on those around you willing to help.</p> <p dir="ltr">Putting your energy into a talent or hobby that brings you joy will be time well spent, as you recharge in a creative way. </p> <p dir="ltr">♐ <strong>Sagittarius (November 22nd - December 21st)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Taking action towards an important change this week is the first step in realising your own power, and bettering yourself in the long run. </p> <p dir="ltr">Surrounding yourself with friends and family will give you the freedom to be unapologetically yourself. </p> <p dir="ltr">♑ <strong>Capricorn (December 22nd - January 20th)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">The cosmos will grant you the power to initiate difficult family conversations this week, that could determine the future of your relationships. </p> <p dir="ltr">A digital detox could help you see the world more clearly, and put things into perspective. </p> <p dir="ltr">♒ <strong>Aquarius (January 21st - February 18th)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">It's a good week to reevaluate your values, taking into account what means the most to you in the world. </p> <p dir="ltr">This self-reflection can be a valuable tool in dropping things that are weighing you down. </p> <p dir="ltr">♓ <strong>Pisces (February 19th - March 20th)</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Your motivation will be to help those around you in need this week, giving in to your caring sensibilities. </p> <p dir="ltr">While your natural instinct is to step up and advocate for others, don’t forget to take the time and check in with yourself as well. </p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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6 of the best March book releases

<p>If you haven’t made a dent in your 2018 reading goal yet, there’s no better time to get started than in March. With great titles from beloved Aussie author Tim Winton, musical genius Andrew Lloyd Webber and fashion icon Iris Apfel, there’s something for everything this month.</p> <p><strong>1. <a href="http://t.dgm-au.com/c/93981/71095/1880?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.booktopia.com.au%2Fthe-shepherd-s-hut-tim-winton%2Fprod9780143786115.html" target="_blank"><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The Shepherd’s Hut</span></em></a> by Tim Winton</strong> </p> <p>A rifle-shot of a novel – crisp, fast, shocking – <em>The Shepherd’s Hut</em> is an urgent masterpiece about solitude, unlikely friendship, and the raw business of survival. </p> <p>Jaxie dreads going home. His mum’s dead. The old man bashes him without mercy, and he wishes he was an orphan. But no one’s ever told Jaxie Clackton to be careful what he wishes for.</p> <p>In one terrible moment his life is stripped to little more than what he can carry and how he can keep himself alive. There’s just one person left in the world who understands him and what he still dares to hope for. But to reach her he’ll have to cross the vast saltlands on a trek that only a dreamer or a fugitive would attempt.</p> <p><em>The Shepherd’s Hut</em> is a searing look at what it takes to keep love and hope alive in a parched and brutal world.</p> <p><strong>2.<em> <a href="http://t.dgm-au.com/c/93981/71095/1880?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.booktopia.com.au%2Fsomebody-i-used-to-know-wendy-mitchell%2Fprod9781408893371.html" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Somebody I Used to Know</span></a></em> by Wendy Mitchell </strong></p> <p>Brave, illuminating and inspiring, <em>Somebody I Used to Know</em> is the first memoir ever written by someone living with dementia.</p> <p>What do you lose when you lose your memories? What do you value when this loss reframes how you've lived, and how you will live in the future? How do you conceive of love when you can no longer recognise those who are supposed to mean the most to you?</p> <p>When she was diagnosed with dementia at the age of fifty-eight, Wendy Mitchell was confronted with the most profound questions about life and identity. All at once, she had to say goodbye to the woman she used to be. Her demanding career in the NHS, her ability to drive, cook and run – the various shades of her independence – were suddenly gone.</p> <p>Philosophical, profoundly moving, insightful and ultimately full of hope, <em>Somebody I Used to Know</em> gets to the very heart of what it means to be human. A phenomenal memoir – the first of its kind – it is both a heart-rending tribute to the woman Wendy once was, and a brave affirmation of the woman dementia has seen her become.</p> <p><strong>3. <a href="http://t.dgm-au.com/c/93981/71095/1880?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.booktopia.com.au%2Firis-apfel-accidental-icon-iris-apfel%2Fprod9780062405081.html" target="_blank"><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Iris Apfel: Accidental Icon</span></em></a> by Iris Apfel</strong> </p> <p>A unique and lavishly illustrated collection of musings, anecdotes, and observations on all matters of life and style, infused with the singular candour, wit, and exuberance of the globally revered 95-year-old fashion icon whose work has been celebrated at the Metropolitan Museum of Art’s Costume Institute and by countless fans worldwide.</p> <p>Now, this self-dubbed geriatric starlet, whose irrepressible authenticity, wit, candour, and infectious energy have earned her nearly a million followers on social media, has created an entertaining, thought-provoking, visually arresting, and inspiring volume – her first book – that captures her unique joie de vivre.</p> <p><strong>4. <a href="http://t.dgm-au.com/c/93981/71095/1880?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.booktopia.com.au%2Fthe-seven-deaths-of-evelyn-hardcastle-stuart-turton%2Fprod9781408889541.html" target="_blank"><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The Seven Deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle</span></em></a> by Stuart Turton </strong></p> <p><em>‘We have work to do,’ he says. ‘I have a puzzle which requires a solution.’</em></p> <p><em>‘I think you’ve mistaken me for someone else,’ I say. ‘I’m just a doctor.’</em></p> <p><em>‘You were a doctor,’ he says. ‘Then a butler, today a playboy, tomorrow a banker. None of them are your real face, or your real personality. Those were stripped</em> <em>from you when you entered Blackheath and they won’t be returned until you leave.’</em></p> <p>Evelyn Hardcastle will die. Every day until Aiden can identify her killer. But every time the day begins again, Aiden wakes in the body of a different person. And some hosts are most helpful than others...</p> <p><strong>5. <a href="http://t.dgm-au.com/c/93981/71095/1880?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.booktopia.com.au%2Funmasked-andrew-lloyd-webber%2Fprod9780008237608.html" target="_blank"><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Unmasked</span></em></a> by Andrew Lloyd Webber</strong> </p> <p>One of the most successful and distinguished artists of our time, Andrew Lloyd Webber has reigned over the musical theatre world for nearly five decades. The winner of numerous awards, including multiple Tonys and an Oscar, Lloyd Webber has enchanted millions worldwide with his music and numerous hit shows, including Jesus Christ Superstar, Evita, Cats, The Phantom of the Opera-Broadway's longest running show-and most recently, School of Rock. In Unmasked, written in his own inimitable, quirky voice, the revered, award-winning composer takes stock of his achievements, the twists of fate and circumstance which brought him both success and disappointment, and the passions that inspire and sustain him.</p> <p><strong>6. <a href="http://t.dgm-au.com/c/93981/71095/1880?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.booktopia.com.au%2Flillian-armfield-leigh-straw%2Fprod9780733638107.html" target="_blank"><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Lillian Armfield</span></em></a> by Leigh Straw</strong> </p> <p>An engaging account of an extraordinary, trailblazing woman – Australia’s first female detective – <em>Lillian Armfield</em> is also the vivid and gripping story of the origins of Sydney’s organised crime underbelly.</p> <p>“Special Constable” Lillian Armfield was policing Sydney’s mean streets during some of the most dramatic years of crime in the city. By the late 1920s, eastern Sydney was the heartland of organised crime and the notorious turf battles known as the Razor Wars, where bloodied bodies were strewn across streets after late-night clashes between rival gangs. </p> <p>At first disapproved of by her male colleagues, and often working solo and undercover, Lillian investigated it all – from runaway girls, opium dens and back-street sly grog shops to drug trafficking, rape and murder. She dealt with the infamous crime figures of the day – Tilly Devine, Kate Leigh, “Botany May” Smith and their associates – who eventually accorded Lillian a grudging respect.</p> <p>Lillian Armfield’s life and achievements were extraordinary. She paved the way for the women of today’s police force and her amazing story is also a compelling chapter in Australian true crime history.</p>

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5 fresh reads to look out for this month

<p>Whether you want to become a whiz in the kitchen, step into someone else’s shoes or simply get lost in a riveting tale, you’ll find it in this month’s new book releases. this month. We’ve picked out our five most-anticipated books to be released this month, and there’s something for everyone.</p> <p><a href="http://t.dgm-au.com/c/93981/71095/1880?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.booktopia.com.au%2Fthe-art-of-discarding-nagisa-tatsumi%2Fprod9781473648210.html"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The Art of Discarding</span></strong></a> by Nagisa Tatsumi</p> <p>If you loved Marie Kondo’s best-selling minimalist bible <a href="http://t.dgm-au.com/c/93981/71095/1880?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.booktopia.com.au%2Fthe-life-changing-magic-of-tidying-marie-kondo%2Fprod9780091955106.html"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying</em></span></strong></a>, you’ll love the book that inspired it even more. Tatsumi’s guide to decluttering sold one million copies in just six months after it was released in 2000, and when you read it, you’ll understand why. A combination of practical advice, techniques and overcoming the guilt of throwing away items that were gifts, this book will inspire you to completely revamp the way you live.</p> <p><a href="http://t.dgm-au.com/c/93981/71095/1880?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.booktopia.com.au%2Fafter-nikki-gemmell%2Fprod9781460753057.html"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">After</span></strong></a> by Nikki Gemmell</p> <p>In October 2015, Nikki Gemmell received the shock of her life – her elderly mother, Elayn, had chosen to end her life. With no farewell note and no warning signs, Nikki and her family were left with endless questions – was she depressed? Angry? Sick? In this heart-wrenching memoir, Nikki delves deep into the parent-child relationship, rethinking everything she thought she knew about life, death, love, family, and how little we really know about those closest to us.</p> <p><a href="http://t.dgm-au.com/c/93981/71095/1880?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.booktopia.com.au%2Fsee-what-i-have-done-sarah-schmidt%2Fprod9780733636882.html"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">See What I Have Done</span></strong></a> by Sarah Schmidt</p> <p>For decades, the world has been fascinated by the case of Lizzie Borden, an American woman famously tried and acquitted of murdering her father and stepfather with an axe in the late 19th century. The murders were never solved, and crime buffs are still searching for answers to this day. In this fictionalised retelling, Sarah Schmidt revisits the horrific events through the eyes of Lizzie’s sister Emma, their housemaid Bridget, the stranger Benjamin and Lizzie herself.</p> <p><a href="http://t.dgm-au.com/c/93981/71095/1880?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.booktopia.com.au%2Fmy-kind-of-food-valli-little%2Fprod9780733335273.html"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">My Kind of Food</span></strong></a> by Valli Little</p> <p>Valli Little is one of Australia’s most popular cooks, and here in this book she shares 100 of her favourite recipes. Known for her creative twists on traditional favourites, her dishes burst with colour, flavour and are sure to be a hit with the whole table. Containing everything from one-pot wonders and slow-cooker classics to tasty cakes and delectable desserts, her recipes are clear, easy-to-follow and will have even the most amateur cooks feeling like a pro.</p> <p><a href="http://t.dgm-au.com/c/93981/71095/1880?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.booktopia.com.au%2Fwar-cry-wilbur-smith%2Fprod9780732298302.html"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">War Cry</span></strong></a> by Wilbur Smith</p> <p>The international bestselling author is set to release his much-anticipated 15th novel in the Courtney series, introducing the newest member of the Courtney family, Saffron. As she enters her teen years, her thirst for knowledge grows and grows until she finally makes the big move to the UK – right before the breakout of WWII. There, she meets and falls in love with the aristocratic Gerhard von Meerbach, a vocal supporter of the Nazi Party – that is, until he befriends a Jewish man. Can the trio escape the conflict unscathed?</p> <p>Tell us in the comments below, what was the last book you read? What did you think about it?</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="/%20http:/www.oversixty.co.nz/entertainment/books/2017/02/quotes-about-books-and-reading/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>20 amazing quotes about books and reading</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/entertainment/books/2017/02/5-creative-ways-to-display-books-in-small-spaces/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>5 creative ways to display books in small spaces</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/entertainment/books/2017/01/long-books-worth-the-read/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>5 long books that are well worth the read</strong></em></span></a></p>

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10 best places in the world to visit in March

<p>Hankering for a holiday but not sure where to visit? If you’re looking for destination that put their best foot forward in March, then look no further. These 10 places are the top travel spots to visit this month.</p> <p>Get your passport ready – these are the top travel spots for March. </p> <p><strong>1. Southern Serengeti, Tanzania</strong></p> <p>This is where Africa’s great migration all begins. From January to March enormous herds of wildebeest and zebra inhabit the plains of the southern Serengeti and more than 400,000 wildebeest calves are born.</p> <p><strong>2. Val Thorens, France</strong></p> <p>The ski season in Europe is long, but if you want guaranteed snow in March (and beyond) your best bet is Val Thorens. The highest resort in Europe, the base sits at 2,300 metres and the slopes reach up to 3,230 metres, and you can ski 600 square kilometres of trails across the interconnected Trois Vallees region.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="498" height="245" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/33775/image__498x245.jpg" alt="Image_ (80)"/></p> <p><strong>3. Canary Islands, Spain </strong></p> <p>This little crop of islands off the coast of north Africa are hugely popular with the Brits, but many Australians have never heard of them. The Canaries are heavenly in March, from the laid back vibe of La Gomera to the sparkling beaches and buzzing bars of Tenerife.</p> <p><strong>4. The Philippines</strong></p> <p>The heat starts to pick up in the Philippines in March at the tail end of the dry season, so it’s perfect for a beach break. And with more than 7,000 islands to choose from, you can spend a very happy holiday hopping between them for swimming, snorkelling, diving and more.</p> <p><strong>5. Kyoto, Japan</strong></p> <p>Kyoto is one of the first places in Japan that the famous cherry blossoms begin to bloom. Around the last week of March the trees will erupt in a riot of pink and white blossoms, transforming the city into one sweet smelling bouquet.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="498" height="245" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/33774/image__498x245.jpg" alt="Image_ (79)"/></p> <p><strong>6. Washington DC, USA</strong></p> <p>Across the other side of the world, the US capital has its own crop of cherry trees given as a gift from Japan in 1912. Because of the unusually warm winter, the 3,000-plus trees are expected to reach peak bloom around mid-March and the city celebrates with a three-week festival.</p> <p><strong>7. Iceland</strong></p> <p>Iceland has a long (long) winter and in March you’ll begin to see the first hints of spring. Days are longer, average temperatures rise to a comparatively balmy 1 degree Celsius and it’s the last month you can reliably catch the Northern Lights. Just pack your thermals.</p> <p><strong>8. Mexico</strong></p> <p>In March, make your way to the Pacific coast of Mexico for warm weather and virtually no rain. Mingle with the rich and famous in Cabo or head to Baja California for excellent whale watching. Keen surfers should try the sleepy beach town of Puerto Escondido, which also has a thriving arts scene.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="498" height="245" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/33776/image__498x245.jpg" alt="Image_ (81)"/></p> <p><strong>9. Morocco</strong></p> <p>Morocco really has it all – bustling souks, ancient ruins, endless deserts and secluded beaches. Days are long, temperatures stay around the mid-20s (though can drop very low at night) and there’s very little rain. You can soak up the fascinating culture and then soak up some sun.</p> <p><strong>10. Vietnam</strong></p> <p>Vietnam can be uncomfortably humid for much of the year. In March, all that seems to vanish overnight and is replaced by dry, sunny days perfect for lazing on the powdery beaches of the south or hiking through the mountains of the north. Plus, as it’s shoulder season, prices are very reasonable.</p> <p>Have you been to any of these incredible places? Share your experience in the comments below.</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/travel/international/2016/10/the-reason-cheap-air-fares-might-be-over/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>The reason cheap air fares might be over</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/travel/international/2016/10/map-shows-airport-wi-fi-passwords/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Clever map shows Wi-Fi passwords from airports around the world</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/travel/international/2016/10/10-things-italian-seniors-do-better-than-everyone/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>10 things Italian seniors do better than everyone</strong></em></span></a><br /><br /></p>

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10 must-visit events around Australia in March

<p>There’s so much to see and do in Australia in the month of March. If you’re stuck for ideas about how to keep entertained, here are 10 of the most exciting events happening across our country this month. </p> <p><strong>1. <a href="https://vamff.com.au/%20"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Virgin Australia Melbourne Fashion Festival</span></a>, Victoria  </strong></p> <p><strong>March 1-19</strong></p> <p>This is your opportunity to rub shoulders with the beautiful people as the world’s fashion elite descend on Melbourne. You can grab tickets to runway shows, listen to panel discussions and forums, and nab some bargains at special shopping events.</p> <p><strong>2. <a href="/%20http:/creativeincentives.com.au/yarn-ramble/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Yarn Ramble</span></a>, Tasmania</strong></p> <p><strong>March 2-9</strong></p> <p>What do you get when you cross knitting with a pub crawl? Tasmania’s very own Yarn Ramble. Members of the local yarn community, like shops, studios and sheep studs, have come together to create a kind of treasure hunt. Ramblers get a</p> <p>“passport” and visit as many of the stops as they want to over the week for workshops, sales, entertainment, activities, prizes and lots of yarny fun.</p> <p><strong>3. <a href="https://www.airshow.com.au/airshow2017/index.asp%20"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Australian International Airshow</span></a>, Victoria  </strong></p> <p><strong>March 3-5</strong></p> <p>Do you feel the need? The need for speed? Some of the world’s most high tech military aircraft will be taking to the skies above Avalon Airport for the country’s most famous airshow. There will also be classic aircraft on display, acrobatic flying demonstrations, military reenactments and lots of happy aviation geeks to chat to.</p> <p><strong>4. <a href="http://sculpturebythesea.com/cottesloe/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Sculpture by the Sea</span></a>, Western Australia </strong></p> <p><strong>March 3-20</strong></p> <p>Perth’s beautiful Cottesloe Beach is home to the Western Australian edition of Sculpture by the Sea, now in its 13th year. Huge works from local and international artists are scattered around the foreshore, creating one of the largest free public events in the state. There are also free artist talks held on the beach every weekend during the festival.</p> <p><strong>5. <a href="http://www.bass.net.au/seasons/adelaide-festival-long-lunch-series/?t=events&amp;y=-1%2C19"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The Riverbank Palais Long Lunch Series</span></a>, South Australia </strong></p> <p><strong>March 4-19</strong></p> <p>South Australia is renowned for its food and wine, and in March the chefs who have shaped the state’s culinary destiny will be popping up in a floating restaurant on Adelaide’s River Torrens. Menus will feature the best local produce and free-flowing wine, making for a delightful dining experience.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"> <img width="498" height="245" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/33771/image__498x245.jpg" alt="Image_ (77)"/></p> <p><strong>6. <a href="http://sydney.tastefestivals.com/#XAlpsB12UEsrCyMW.97"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Taste of Sydney</span></a>, New South Wales</strong></p> <p><strong>March 9-12</strong></p> <p>Head to Sydney’s Centennial Park for four days of foodie fun. There will be more than 100 artisan producers serving up their tastiest wares, as well as cooking demonstrations, masterclasses, pop up bars, wine and cheese matching, and live music. Grab some friends and get ready to indulge.</p> <p><strong>7. <a href="http://www.craftalive.com.au/events/dubbo-nsw/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">CraftAlive Dubbo</span></a>, New South Wales</strong></p> <p><strong>March 10-12</strong></p> <p>Craft lovers, this is the festival for you. The Central West town of Dubbo becomes the centre of the craft world for three days with exhibitors from all over the country showcasing patchwork, scrapbooking, embroidery, jewellery and more. Buy supplies, take a workshop, watch a demonstration or just mingle with other crafty folk.</p> <p><strong>8. <a href="https://www.womadelaide.com.au/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">WOMADELAIDE</span></a> 2017, South Australia</strong></p> <p><strong>March 10-13</strong></p> <p>Now in its 21st year, WOMADELAIDE is one of the country’s favourite outdoor festivals celebrating music, arts and dance. Seven stages are set up in Adelaide’s Botanic Park with performances and workshops from incredible local and international acts, as well as DJs, visual arts, a Taste the World cooking program and The Planet Talks environmental discussions.</p> <p><strong>9. <a href="http://www.worldsciencefestival.com.au/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">World Science Festival</span></a>, Queensland</strong></p> <p><strong>March 22-26</strong></p> <p>For the second year in a row Brisbane will host this innovative festival focusing on Science, Technology, Engineering and Maths (STEM). More than 120,000 visitors attended in 2016 to participate in hands on experiments, street fairs, talks, film screenings and more.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"> <img width="498" height="245" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/33772/image__498x245.jpg" alt="Image_ (78)"/></p> <p><strong>10. <a href="http://www.cmcrocks.com/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">CMC Rocks</span></a>, Queensland</strong></p> <p><strong>March 24-26</strong></p> <p>The biggest stars in country music are coming to Queensland for the 10th anniversary of the CMC Rocks show. Major stars this year include the Dixie Chicks, Little Big Town and Lee Kernaghan, along with plenty of local talent. If you miss out on tickets to the big gig itself, a number of the acts are doing sideshows in the region.</p> <p>Have you been to any of these events? Share your experience with us in the comments below.</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/travel/international/2016/10/10-pretty-australian-panoramic-scenes/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>10 of Australia’s prettiest panoramic scenes</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/travel/international/2016/10/the-view-of-uluru-that-no-one-gets-to-see/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>The view of Uluru that no one gets to see</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/travel/international/2016/09/10-of-the-most-spectacular-islands-in-australia/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>10 of the most spectacular islands in Australia</strong></em></span></a></p>

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10 best places in Australia to visit in March

<p>Feeling like a spur of the moment Aussie escape? Here are 10 of the best places in our country to visit in the month of March.</p> <p><strong>1. Ningaloo Reef, WA</strong></p> <p>In mid March, whale shark season will begin for 2017 and there’s nowhere better in Australia to see them than the Ningaloo Reef in northwestern WA. Boats depart from Exmouth and, once you’ve found the huge fish, you’ll be able to hop overboard and swim with these gentle giants.</p> <p><strong>2. Cairns, Qld</strong></p> <p>March us shoulder season in Far North Queensland as the wet comes to an end and the dry begins. Cairns is lovely this time of year – the surrounding rainforests are lush and green, waterfalls are flowing, the diving is great and the night-time electrical storms are a sight to behold.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"> <img width="498" height="280" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/33728/image__498x280.jpg" alt="Image_ (74)"/></p> <p><strong>3. Victorian Alps, Vic</strong></p> <p>As summer draws to a close, the Victorian Alps begin to unfurl into a riot of rich autumnal reds and oranges. The cycling and bushwalking is spectacular at this time of year and it feels like the landscape is changing every single day.</p> <p><strong>4. Port Stephens, NSW</strong></p> <p>Once school holidays are over, the NSW North Coast is once again an ideal beachside destination. Port Stephens is surrounded by more than 20 golden beaches and you can see frolicking dolphins offshore throughout the year. Hike up to Tomaree Head for the best views.</p> <p><strong>5. Wallaroo, SA</strong></p> <p>A picturesque beachside town on the Yorke Peninsula, Wallaroo sits on the shores of the Spencer Gulf. It becomes quite busy in summer as the beach shacks fill up with holidaymakers, but in March it returns to its sleepy pace. You can even drive along the white sand beaches, a rarity in Australia.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="498" height="280" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/33731/image__498x280.jpg" alt="Image_ (75)"/></p> <p><strong>6. Lady Elliot Island, Qld</strong></p> <p>Sitting around 80 kilometres off the coast of Bundaberg in the southern Great Barrier Reef, Lady Elliot is a low key, eco-friendly island with incredible wildlife. In March you will be right in the middle of hatching season for three species of sea turtles and you can see the tiny creatures make their way down to the ocean.</p> <p><strong>7. Kakadu, NT</strong></p> <p>The Top End of the Northern Territory is defined by the seasons and March brings the end of the wet. Rivers and waterfalls are running, and a third of the Kakadu National Park has become floodplain, yet mornings are clear, sunny and perfect for exploring. Just be prepared for a little humidity.</p> <p><strong>8. Rottnest Island, WA</strong></p> <p>This sandy little island off the coast of Perth is instantly charming. Dotted with more than 60 beaches, cycling tracks and super-cute quokkas, it’s perfect in March with almost no rainfall and no school holidays, making for cheaper prices and quieter travels.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="498" height="280" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/33733/image__498x280.jpg" alt="Image_ (76)"/> </p> <p><strong>9. Lakes Entrance, Vic</strong></p> <p>Australia’s largest network of inland waterways winds its way through this region in Victoria’s Gippsland region. The ocean stays mighty cold in this part of the world, but in March it will be at its peak temperatures and perfect for swimming, surfing and boating.</p> <p><strong>10. Broken Hill, NSW</strong></p> <p>The Silver City is the start of the NSW outback and, while it’s almost unbearably hot in the summer, things are starting to cool down in March. Broken Hill is interesting in itself with a rich mining history, but don’t miss the chance to head further afield and explore some of Australia’s oldest communities.</p> <p>Have you been to any of these beautiful locations? Tell us what you loved about your trip in the comments below.</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/travel/international/2016/10/10-pretty-australian-panoramic-scenes/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>10 of Australia’s prettiest panoramic scenes</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/travel/international/2016/10/the-view-of-uluru-that-no-one-gets-to-see/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>The view of Uluru that no one gets to see</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/travel/international/2016/09/10-of-the-most-spectacular-islands-in-australia/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>10 of the most spectacular islands in Australia</strong></em></span></a></p>

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My 93-year-old WWII veteran dad is being stopped from marching on Anzac Day

<p><em><strong>Gail Riley, from Melbourne, Victoria, writes about her father, a 93-year-old WWII vet from New Zealand, who dreams of marching on Anzac Day in Melbourne with Aussie vets. However, there’s one roadblock stopping her dad’s dream.</strong></em></p> <p>My Dad, Ivan Grbich, is a New Zealand WWII veteran who served as a wireless operator and air gunner in the Royal New Zealand air force. Now at the age of 93, his dearest dream is to march with the Australian WWII veterans in Melbourne on Anzac Day. He wants the experience of sharing the day with Aussie returned soldiers, to stand side by side as they once did, and march with them to honour the loyalty and respect shared by the two countries so many years ago. </p> <p>My father is ready and able to do this, but there is one problem. Three years ago he met and married a now 82-year-old South African lady, who was visiting her daughter in New Zealand at the time. It was a whirlwind romance that surprised everyone. People were sceptical but they have now been married for three years and are still very much in love. They’re two peas in a pod and my Dad would never think to leave her side. Unfortunately, because she has a South African passport, they have struck issues with immigration in obtaining a visitor’s visa for her. Nobody knew how difficult it would be to get a tourist visa, it’s not like she wants to immigrate! They’ve made us jump through hoops with the amount of paperwork needed and yet it seems likely that approval may not come through in time for Dad to realise his dream to march in Melbourne on Anzac day.</p> <p>It would mean so much to him to come to Melbourne and march in the parade with his fellow WWII vets. He is proud and honoured to have served and at this stage of his life, he has become much more reflective of his life and opened up about his time during the war. But while we can listen to his stories, we weren’t there, and he wishes to share his experience with people who understand.</p> <p>He has frequently spoken of the camaraderie between the New Zealand and Australian Forces, both on land and overseas in those turbulent times. He met many Australian men when he was sent to Canada to train at the age of 20, as well as his time spent in the Pacific as part of the No. 3 Bomber Squadron, serving as a radio operator and air gunner in the Pacific. He was stationed in Bougainville doing bombing runs on the invading Japanese, when the Australian army took over occupation from the Americans in 1945. The New Zealanders were reunited with the Australians and from then on, the two forces remained in close contact. Eventually his squadron ended their service in the Pacific encamped with the Australian army at Jacquinot Bay on New Britain. I remember him telling us how the Australian army fed the Kiwis along with their own personnel and would jokingly complain that the cost of feeding the Kiwis was more than what it cost to fight the Japanese. The teasing that was constant between the two forces lightened up the darker side of war and today he still speaks of how important that was to both sides.</p> <p>With less than a week to go to Anzac Day, it seems his dream won’t be fulfilled. It’s such a shame as it might be the last chance he gets to realise this dream. While we can try again next year, a year is a long time and we don’t know what the future holds. We live in hope! </p> <p><em><strong>If you have a story to share please get in touch at <a href="mailto:melody@oversixty.com.au">melody@oversixty.com.au</a>  </strong></em></p> <p><strong>Related links: </strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2015/12/life-lessons-from-grandparents/"><em>Top 10 life lessons kids learn from grandparents</em></a></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2016/01/5-types-of-grandparents/"><em>There are 5 different types of grandparents – which one are you?</em></a></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2016/01/parents-and-kids-who-look-identical/"><em>10 pics of parents and kids who look identical</em></a></strong></span></p>

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