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Stranger’s “kind” act for a struggling single mum

<p dir="ltr">A struggling single mother has been moved to tears by a stranger’s random act of kindness while doing her grocery shopping. </p> <p dir="ltr">The mother, hailing from Ipswich in Queensland, was doing her shopping ahead of the school term starting up as she paced the aisles mentally tallying the cost of her groceries to not go over her strict budget. </p> <p dir="ltr">As she continued to add carefully selected items to her trolley, a young girl approached her with a gift. </p> <p dir="ltr">The girl handed her a $50 note saying it was a gift from her mother, in a random act of kindness that left her “shaking and crying”. </p> <p dir="ltr">“I had the most incredible thing happen to me today. I'm in Woolies Riverlink in Ipswich QLD getting a few things for back to school and I'm adding my shopping up on my calculator and checking the price of EVERYTHING,” the mum wrote in a Facebook post. </p> <p dir="ltr">“Next, a lovely little girl came up to me handing me a $50 and said 'My mummy wants to give you a gift', I said 'Thank you, have the wrong person, honey'.”</p> <p dir="ltr">The young girl assured the woman she was the person her mum wanted to give the $50 to and ran off before she could say anything else.  </p> <p dir="ltr">“I looked up at her mum shaking and in tears and she gave me a nod and a thumbs up,” the woman said. </p> <p dir="ltr">“She had no idea just how much I needed this right now. Her kindness meant the world to me.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Many applauded the stranger’s generosity as more families are feeling the pressure with sky-rocketing costs of living, with like-minded budgeting mothers sharing how they were touched by the sweet story. </p> <p dir="ltr">“Made me cry this lovely Sunday morning. Always gives hope to know there are some really wonderful people out there,” one person said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“There are some truly wonderful people in the world! You don't have to give someone $50 to make their day - any small kind gesture can change the course of someone's life,” a second agreed.</p> <p dir="ltr">“There are some absolute angels out there for sure!” said another. </p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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Police officers give homeless man a makeover

<p>A homeless man named Bobby from City of Rome, New York had a very unlikely experience with a group of police officers.</p> <p>Police officer Aaron Page was on duty making rounds when he met Bobby on the streets.</p> <p>Bobby opened up to officer Page and explained that he had been going through a difficult time and how he really wanted to have a shower and get a haircut.</p> <p>Officer Page told Bobby to come to the police station the next morning. Page recruited a few more officers, Sargent Frank Fragapane, Jeff Buckley and George Gebo, to help collect donated clothing and hair clippers.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="499" height="665" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/36085/bobby-2_499x665.jpg" alt="Bobby 2"/></p> <p>The officers gave Bobby a complete makeover by helping him shave, cutting his hair and giving him some clean clothes. The makeover was a huge success and Bobby looks great.</p> <p>The officers shared the makeover photos on the City of Rome NY Police Department page and many users were astounded by Bobby’s transformation.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="499" height="665" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/36084/after-pic-bobby_499x665.jpg" alt="After Pic Bobby"/></p> <p>"After some interaction with a man down on his luck, Bobby, said he'd love a haircut and warm shower. Through the efforts of Officer Page, we were able to make that happen. This morning we provided Bobby with a haircut, a shave, a shower and a whole new wardrobe of donated clothing. Bobby left looking like a whole new person and couldn't thank us enough,” the post's caption said.</p> <p>One of the officers explained the importance of helping those in your community and the impact an act of kindness can have.</p> <p>"Officer Page spearheaded the idea on this one, and it was a great way to help someone who needed a hand," one of the officers wrote on Facebook. "We're always trying to come up with new ideas how to help and give back to our community."</p>

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The simple trick to boost your mood in minutes

<p>What do you usually do to cheer yourself up on a rainy day? Most of us tend to call a friend or loved one, put on their favourite movie or perhaps hit the salty snack cupboard. However, new research <a href="http://psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/2016-19956-001/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">published in the journal Emotion</span> </strong></a>last week suggests that indulgent activities such as these do little to nothing to boost our mood.</p> <p>The research found that giving to others or practicing acts of kindness is the best way to improve our mood and overall wellbeing.</p> <p>The study involved 473 volunteers who were separated into four groups. Each group had to complete different tasks over a six-week period. The researchers found that participants who performed acts of kindness, whether those acts were for the world or specific people, were more likely to report feeling happy or experience an improvement in mood than those who did the self-focused and neutral behaviour.</p> <p>Dr. Katherine Nelson, assistant professor of psychology at the University of the South in Sewanee, Tennessee, and lead author of the study, said “I was not surprised that prosocial behaviour led people to feel greater positive emotions, and in turn, greater flourishing”.</p> <p>“I think this is important because people are often encouraged to ‘treat themselves’ as a way to feel good, yet our findings suggest that the best way to feel happy is to treat someone else instead.”</p> <p>Previous studies have shown that acts of kindness may not only boost your mental health, but also your physical well-being. For instance, separate research suggests that being altruistic can lower your blood pressure and reduce stress.</p> <p>Performing acts of kindness can also activate the release of dopamine, a feel-good neurotransmitter, in the brain — and it can lead to us feeling like we’re serving something larger than the self.</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/health/mind/2016/04/10-signs-youre-too-self-critical/"><em>10 signs you’re too self-critical</em></a></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/health/mind/2016/04/simple-ways-to-ease-anxiety/"><em>5 simple ways to ease anxiety</em></a></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/health/mind/2016/04/why-we-should-let-go-of-the-pursuit-of-perfect/"><em>Why we should let go of the pursuit of perfect</em></a></strong></span></p>

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