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Grandma banned from babysitting after ignoring daughter's simple request

<p>A new mum has banned her own mother from babysitting duties, after she blatantly refused to follow a few basic safety instructions. </p> <p>The young mum took to Reddit to share her plight, after moving back home so she could save up to buy a house, which at the time her mum "very enthusiastically agreed to".</p> <p>But, after a few months of living together again, the 23-year-old mum has had more things added onto her plate, as she's constantly worried about her own mum not following her instructions when it comes to her son, who was born in September. </p> <p>She said that her mum has been "constantly checking to see if he has teeth" or pushing them to "stop feeding him milk", or even trying to "give him really complicated food" like candy yams.</p> <p>And whenever she expresses her concerns, her mum nonchalantly responds with: "I did with you and you survived". </p> <p>It reached a peak when her mother gave her baby boy some water, which according to The World Health Organisation, children under six months should not be drinking anything else other than breast milk or formula. </p> <p>This is because babies stomachs are very small and their kidneys are still developing, so they are unable to process water in the same way adults do, plus it puts them at risk of water intoxication and nutrition loss.</p> <p>The grandmother blatantly ignored her daughter's request and gave her grandson water anyways responding with, "See, he's fine. He isn't dead."</p> <p>That was the young mum's breaking point and she immediately took her baby away. </p> <p>"She will no longer be watching the baby alone since she is constantly overstepping my boundaries and doing everything I ask her to not do," she wrote. </p> <p>But she said that things are complicated since they're living together and now her mother isn't speaking to her because she made her "feel like a bad parent and grandparent."</p> <p>The young mum questioned whether she was the bad guy in this scenario, but other Reddit users were quick to defend her for setting her boundaries. </p> <p>"One would hope for a *little* bit more for their kid than "not dead"," one wrote. </p> <p>"This is an incredibly low standard for her to be proud of maintaining",  another added. </p> <p><em>Image: Getty</em></p>

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10 signs of an ulcer you should never ignore

<p><strong>What is a stomach ulcer?</strong></p> <p>Peptic ulcers are painful sores that line the stomach – and they affect about millions people per year. Normally the stomach has a protective layer that keeps the acidic juices in the stomach from getting to sensitive tissue and causing an ulcer. However, some people are at risk of developing stomach ulcers, most often due to long-term use of NSAIDs, the class of pain reliever that includes ibuprofen or aspirin, or an infection with a type of bacteria called H. pylori. The good news is that treatment can help many ulcers to heal.</p> <p>Here are the signs of an ulcer you shouldn’t ignore.</p> <p><strong>You have pain specifically in your upper abdomen </strong></p> <p>One of the most common ulcer symptoms is severe pain in the upper abdomen, according to gastroenterology specialist Dr Neil Sengupta. Ulcers can develop anywhere in the upper digestive tract, he says but we often think about those occurring in the stomach or small intestine, where we feel pain. </p> <p>This ulcer pain usually occurs when your stomach is empty and can come and go for as long as several months, according to the National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases.</p> <p><strong>You feel nauseous </strong></p> <p>One of the other tell-tale ulcer symptoms is feeling nauseous, says Dr Sengupta. Many patients report that having a little food in your stomach can help ulcer symptoms subside.</p> <p><strong>You've had unexplained vomiting </strong></p> <p>From time to time, nausea brought on by ulcers may become so intense that it could actually cause you to vomit. If that happens, stay away from medications like ibuprofen and aspirin. According to Dr Sengupta, these over-the-counter pain medications actually put you at a higher risk of developing ulcers – or make your current ulcers worse.</p> <p><strong>You bleed when you use the toilet </strong></p> <p>Blood coming from the gastrointestinal tract can signal a variety of underlying health issues. Still, Dr Sengupta says when this bleeding is combined with upper abdominal pain, he’s “highly suspicious” that it’s one of the signs of an ulcer. Many patients notice this blood either when vomiting, or when using the bathroom, as their stools may appear black. </p> <p>If you notice this blood, along with nausea and pain in the stomach or chest, Dr Sengupta says doctors will often perform a blood test and an upper endoscopy – where they use a camera to look into the stomach itself – to check if an ulcer is the culprit. Blood in your stool can also be caused by haemorrhoids, or be a symptom of bowel cancer, so it’s a good idea to get checked out by your doctor.</p> <p><strong>You have chest pain</strong></p> <p>Some patients with ulcers describe chest pain, a term called ‘non-cardiac chest pain’, which refers to pain in the area that’s not caused by a heart attack or heart disease, according to the American College of Gastroenterology. The discomfort is commonly caused by a gastrointestinal problem, though it can also stem from stress or anxiety.</p> <p><strong>You're more bloated than usual </strong></p> <p>If you notice your stomach feeling particularly bloated, it may be more serious than a little bit of gas – it could be one of the signs of an ulcer. Of course, bloating can also be caused simply by eating something your body doesn’t agree with, but when combined with these other symptoms, it’s worth checking out.</p> <p><strong>Your appetite went MIA (missing in action) </strong></p> <p>Another less common, but possible, ulcer symptom is weight loss. You may notice your appetite is off, and stomach discomfort makes it hard to eat. This drop in food intake, combined with occasional vomiting, may lead to unexpected weight loss.</p> <p><strong>You're feeling weirdly hungry </strong></p> <p>You’d think that an ulcer would kill your appetite, but some people feel this burning or gnawing sensation in their stomach weirdly as hunger. The pain may briefly stop after you’ve had something to eat.</p> <p><strong>You've had back pain</strong></p> <p>You might associate ulcers with the stomach and small intestine, but believe it or not, some people report that the pain travels into their upper or mid-back. If that happens, it can make your symptoms all the more confusing.</p> <p><strong>You keep burping </strong></p> <p>Belching is a less common symptom of an ulcer, but your doctor might be suspicious if it’s accompanied by the other symptoms on this list. Talk to your doctor if you’ve been burping more than usual; ulcer or not, it can be a disruptive symptom and your doctor will want to figure out the cause.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> <p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://www.readersdigest.co.nz/healthsmart/10-signs-of-an-ulcer-you-should-never-ignore?pages=1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Reader's Digest</a>. </em></p>

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Silent signs of acid reflux you might be ignoring

<p><strong>Sore throat or hoarseness </strong></p> <p>A sore throat that doesn’t go away and isn’t accompanied by typical cold symptoms (like a runny nose) may in fact be a symptom of acid reflux. “Your throat feels sore because a little bit of acid is coming up from the oesophagus and irritating the throat,” says gastroenterologist Dr Gina Sam. </p> <p>Unexplained hoarseness may be caused by stomach acid moving up to your larynx, or voice box, and tends to be more noticeable in the mornings when it’s had all night to travel while you were lying down.</p> <p><strong>Persistent cough or wheezing </strong></p> <p>“Wheezing or a cough that mimics asthma or bronchitis can be caused by acid reflux moving from the stomach to the lungs,” says Dr Evan Dellon, from the Center for Esophageal Diseases and Swallowing. </p> <p>On the other hand, wheezers and coughers can sometimes make themselves more prone to reflux because these actions put pressure on the belly and push stomach acid upwards.</p> <p><strong>You're having dental problems </strong></p> <p>If you’re a dedicated brusher and flosser but your dentist is still filling cavities and tells you your tooth enamel is eroding or notices discolouration, acid reflux may be to blame. </p> <p>“Even a small amount of acid reflux making its way up from the oesophagus to your throat or mouth while lying down can impact tooth enamel,” says Dr Dellon.</p> <p><strong>Ringing in your ears</strong></p> <p>If your ears always ring (a condition known as tinnitus), especially after a meal, it may be caused by reflux getting into the sinuses and even the interior of the ear, says Dr Sam. </p> <p>“A lot of patients see their ENT to get consults about sinus pain and ear ringing, but it’s often acid reflux,” she says.</p> <p><strong>You have trouble swallowing </strong></p> <p>Food getting stuck when you swallow, liquid that just won’t go down, or the sensation that something is stuck in your throat could all be signs of acid reflux, says Dr Sam. Chronic reflux can irritate the throat, and scar tissue can develop in the oesophagus and narrow it. </p> <p>See your doctor if you have difficulty swallowing, as this can also be a symptom of other more serious conditions.</p> <p><strong>Nasal congestion </strong></p> <p>Nasal congestion that comes and goes may be caused by acid reflux. “If you’ve tried cutting down on reflux-producing foods and eating late at night and the symptom doesn’t go away, it’s probably just congestion,” says Dr Sam. </p> <p>“But if it goes away and comes back, and then goes away again, it’s probably acid reflux.”</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> <p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://www.readersdigest.co.nz/healthsmart/silent-signs-of-acid-reflux-you-might-be-ignoring" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Reader's Digest</a>. </em></p>

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13 signs of cancer men are likely to ignore

<h2>Difficulty urinating</h2> <p>If it’s consistently difficult to urinate, or there’s blood in your urine or semen, or if you experience unexplained erectile dysfunction, see your doctor; these could be symptoms of prostate cancer. “Unfortunately, there aren’t noticeable symptoms of prostate cancer until the aggressive stages,” says gastroenterologist Dr Moshe Shike. Dr Shike says he frequently sees patients who ignore these symptoms for up to six months before they seek help, but the sooner you check out your symptoms, the better.</p> <h2>Testicular changes</h2> <p>Just as women should be familiar with how their breasts look and feel, men should pay attention to their testicles. If you notice changes in size (to one or both), if they feel swollen or extra heavy, or if you feel a lump, these symptoms could indicate testicular cancer, says Dr Maurie Markman, an oncologist. Testicular cancer is most common in young and middle-aged men.</p> <p> </p> <div> </div> <p> </p> <h2>Noticeable skin changes</h2> <p>Men over 50 are more likely to die from skin cancer than women in the same age group; young men have a higher probability of developing deadly melanoma (the most serious skin cancer) than any other cancer, according to the Skin Cancer Foundation. It’s easy to miss the early warning signs of cancer in men, says Dr Richard Wender, a cancer specialist. “Many people think freckles, moles, or a darker age spot is just like the others they’ve had,” he explains. If you notice a mole getting darker, larger, or becoming raised, get it checked. With melanoma, spots are often irregularly shaped (not round), significantly darker in colour, or even two distinctly different colours within one spot, he says. “Melanoma is far less common than other skin cancers, but has the potential to be more deadly,” says Dr Wender. “However, many melanomas have a long period where they’re not invasive and easy to cure, as long as they’re caught early.”</p> <h2>Sores or pain in your mouth</h2> <p>A cold sore that heals is probably nothing to worry about, nor is a toothache that goes away after a trip to the dentist. But if you notice sores that don’t heal, pain that sticks around, white or red patches on the gums or tongue, and any swelling or numbness of the jaw, it could be a sign of some mouth cancers. Men who smoke or use chewing tobacco have an increased risk of developing mouth cancer, says Dr Markman. “More men smoke than women. Smokers and users of chewing tobacco need to be far more concerned with sores in their mouth that do not heal quickly, compared to non-smokers,” he says.</p> <h2>Chronic coughing</h2> <p>A cough that lasts three weeks or more – without other symptoms, such as a cold or allergies – could be an early symptom of lung cancer. Leukaemia can also lead to bronchitis-like symptoms. “If it’s different than your regular cough and if it persists, or you cough up a little blood, that’s significant,” says Dr Markman. Some lung cancer patients report chest pain that extends up into the shoulder or down the arm.</p> <h2>Blood in your stool</h2> <p>It could be haemorrhoids or something benign – but it could also be a symptom of colon cancer. Routine screening typically starts at age 50, but cases are becoming more common in younger adults, which is why it’s important to see a doctor for any suspicious symptoms. “It’s easy to dismiss it as haemorrhoids or constipation, and if the problem comes and goes, people reassure themselves that nothing’s wrong, especially younger people,” says Dr Wender. “But blood in a bowel movement is never normal, so get it checked out.”</p> <h2>Stomach pain or nausea</h2> <p>Everyday digestive distress is rarely cancer ­– but you should see a doctor if you notice persistent stomach cramps or are starting to feel nauseated all the time. It could be something as simple as an ulcer, but it could also signal leukaemia or oesophageal, liver, pancreatic, or colorectal cancer.</p> <h2>Frequent fevers or infections</h2> <p>If you’re usually healthy but notice yourself getting sick or feverish more frequently, it could be an early sign of leukaemia. This blood cancer triggers the body to produce abnormal white blood cells, which weakens the body’s infection-fighting abilities. Be on the lookout for flu-like symptoms that don’t go away.</p> <h2>Difficulty swallowing</h2> <p>A sore throat that persists for a few weeks and gets worse could be a symptom of throat or stomach cancer, as well as an early sign of lung cancer.</p> <h2>Excessive bruising</h2> <p>A random bruise is probably nothing to worry about. However, if you start to notice bruises popping up all the time, especially in places you wouldn’t normally get them, like your hands or fingers, see a doctor. Unusual bruising can be a symptom of leukaemia, according to Cancer Treatment Centers of America. Over time, leukaemia impairs the blood’s ability to carry oxygen and clot.</p> <h2>Unexplained weight loss</h2> <p>“If you have less appetite when you usually have a good appetite, and there’s no big life event or problems happening to cause that, get it checked out,” says Dr Markman. Losing weight can be a side effect of many different cancers such as oesophageal, pancreatic, liver, and colon, but it’s an especially common symptom of leukaemia or lymphoma, says Dr Wender.</p> <h2>Persistent fatigue</h2> <p>Everyone has low-energy days. However, if you feel tired every day for more than a month, or experience shortness of breath when you didn’t before, see a doctor, says Dr Wender. Leukaemia and lymphoma commonly cause persistent fatigue. “Most of the time it won’t be cancer, but get it checked because you never know,” he says.</p> <h2>Chronic headaches</h2> <p>If you’re not prone to migraines and never get headaches, but suddenly find yourself popping pain meds all the time, it could be a sign of a brain tumour, which causes pain by pressing on nerves.</p> <p><em>Image credit: Shutterstock</em></p> <p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://www.readersdigest.co.nz/healthsmart/13-signs-of-cancer-men-are-likely-to-ignore" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Reader's Digest</a>.</em></p>

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Won’t somebody please think of the children? Their agency is ignored in the moral panic around drag storytime

<p><a href="https://www.news.com.au/national/victoria/politics/protesters-clash-over-drag-story-time-event-at-melbourne-council-meeting/news-story/f8671b4047b59f9fc27d8ffee803c9f8">Protesters derailed</a> a Monash City Council meeting on Wednesday, demanding the cancellation of a sold-out drag storytime event at Oakleigh Library in Melbourne’s south-east. </p> <p>This is just the latest in a string of drag performances for children throughout Victoria being cancelled or postponed in response to protest. </p> <p>The central message of these campaigns (accompanied by varying levels of vitriol) is the same: “let our kids be kids”, “protect our children” and “hands off our kids”, while simultaneously labelling performers and supporters of the events “paedophiles”. </p> <p>This is part of a global backlash. Similar protests and cancellations have happened in <a href="https://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/unhinged-conspiracy-theorists-auckland-drag-queen-targeted-in-avondale-library-protest-speaks-out/TE6BFUOXVJC6VFYMU4VAUAERTQ/">New Zealand</a>, the <a href="https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-london-64610724">United Kingdom</a> and the <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jan/21/anti-drag-show-laws-bans-republican-states">United States</a>. </p> <p>The argument in support of drag emphasises the impact on the performers at the centre of these events and queer community, arguing that the cancellation of these events is a form of <a href="https://fortune.com/2023/03/02/drag-queens-tennessee-law-minors/">discrimination and a contravention of human rights</a>.</p> <p>But the debate so far overlooks the agency and rights of the events’ intended audiences: children and young people.</p> <h2>Children as citizens</h2> <p>Calls to “protect the children” from drag performers and trans people assume children are, in fact, in need of safeguarding. </p> <p>Such messaging is rooted in a tendency for Western societies to reduce childhood to an <a href="https://www.cambridge.org/au/academic/subjects/sociology/sociology-general-interest/importance-being-innocent-why-we-worry-about-children?format=PB&amp;isbn=9780521146975">idyllic innocence</a>, which positions children as “in need of protection” and amplifies their constant vulnerability. </p> <p>Children’s vulnerability played a critical role in motivating the adoption of the United Nations’ <a href="https://www.ohchr.org/en/instruments-mechanisms/instruments/convention-rights-child">Convention on the Rights of the Child</a> in 1989.</p> <p>Since the adoption of the charter, new laws and policies have been established in Australia to criminalise forced marriage, to remove children from detention and to change the Family Law Act to better protect the rights of children. </p> <p>The charter details children’s need for safeguarding and special care. But it also confirms the evolving capacity of children to assert their rights as cultural citizens and their need for freedom of thought and expression.</p> <h2>The power of drag and imaginative play</h2> <p>Drag as a form of creative, physical and spiritual expression has existed within theatre and cultural performance <a href="https://www.grunge.com/1243587/drag-shows-older-realize-real-history/">for millennia</a>.</p> <p>Drag and queer performance studies have given rise to understandings of gender as an everyday performance: from the clothes we pick out, to the products we gravitate towards in supermarkets, to our repeated physical and vocal gestures. </p> <p>Drag pokes fun at the gender binary and, in doing so, it aims to blur the boundaries and expose the artificiality of gender roles.</p> <p>While the success of television shows like <em>RuPaul’s Drag Race</em> have established drag as something more accessible and relatable for a range of audiences, the visibility of queerness that comes with drag – especially when moving outside designated queer spaces – is an apparent step too far.</p> <p>But the way drag asks us to question the socially constructed nature of gender offers children a vision of self-determination. You can do what you want to do, you can be who you want to be.</p> <p>The potentiality within the play of drag engages the power of children’s imaginations today to conceive better tomorrows. </p> <p>Philosopher David Harvey refers to moments of “<a href="https://academic.oup.com/book/40603">free play</a>” as fertile ways of exploring and expressing a vast range of ideas, of taking on power structures and social practices, and imagining new possibilities for how we structure and support community. </p> <h2>The insights of the child</h2> <p>In post-plebiscite Australia, the success of targeted campaigns against drag-themed events for children exposes certain conditions around what are “acceptable” encounters of queer expression for children. </p> <p>The all-too-familiar campaign messages that swirled around the marriage debate – “protect the sanctity of marriage”, “protect families” – are rearing up again with only a minor rhetorical shift. </p> <p>The more obvious difference now is that the messages have been co-opted by extreme groups who are targeting individuals and threatening violence. </p> <p>The drag storytime event at the centre of the protests at Monash City Council remains scheduled to take place at Oakleigh Library on May 19. At the time of writing, an online petition to cancel the event has 820 supporters, while another in support of the event has over 3,300 signatures. </p> <p>Perhaps, then, the social temperature is not as heated towards drag performers as recent cancellations suggest. Instead, a minority of vocal and visible dissenters are dictating the rights and freedoms of the majority.</p> <p>The image of a drag performer in relation to a child elicits violent responses for some because it is an image of progress and change and of queer acceptance and love set against a long history of homophobia and transphobia in this country. </p> <p>But there are two figures in this image and one has been kept silent. </p> <p>In debating rights and agency, perhaps it’s time to ask and be guided by the insights of the child.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> <p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://theconversation.com/wont-somebody-please-think-of-the-children-their-agency-is-ignored-in-the-moral-panic-around-drag-storytime-204182" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Conversation</a>. </em></p>

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5 pieces of relationship advice you really should ignore

<p>They say that excellent advice from an experienced professional is one of the keys to a long and happy relationship. Unfortunately, there’s a big difference between an “experienced professional” and something that you may have read between the pages of a magazine. When it comes to your relationship, trusting someone who knows your individual situation intimately is key. Disregarding other information can actually end up being for the best. Here are 5 pieces of relationship advice it’s best to ignore.</p> <p><strong>1. Never go to bed angry</strong></p> <p>We all get angry and sometimes we fight at night. Often, our fights can be agitated by other factors that make the original argument seem even worse. Tiredness is one of the most common aggravating factors. It makes no sense then to stay up and duel it out when you’re both ready to sleep. It’s much better to hit pause on the argument and resume in the morning when you’re both well rested. You may even find that much of the fight has gone out of the both after a good nights sleep.</p> <p><strong>2. Marriage counseling will save your marriage</strong></p> <p>While marriage counseling can be a relationship saver, both couples need to be completely committed to the process for it to work effectively. If one partner has no interest and has been forced to counseling by the other, the process is unlikely to be successful.</p> <p><strong>3. Be completely transparent about your feelings</strong></p> <p>Sharing your feelings isn’t so much the issue as the way you phrase how you share your feelings. Sometimes “Sharing your feelings” is code for laying blame and this will only create conflict and hurt. Using sentences like “I’m angry with you”, or “You’ve hurt my feelings” just create defensiveness and hurt. Instead try something like “I’m hurt by what you said and I’d like to understand why you said it and work towards fixing the issue”. You’re much more likely to resolve conflict this way.</p> <p><strong>4. Once you get married, you can forget about sex</strong></p> <p>This is a blanket statement that is useful for absolutely no one. All couples and relationships are different and a statement like this does nothing to honour that fact.</p> <p><strong>5. Your partner should be your soul mate</strong></p> <p>The problem with the concept of a “soul mate” is that it often implies that relationships don’t take any work and that with the right person everything is simply effortless. A great relationship isn’t effortless and can take work. It’s normal to experience disconnected moments in our relationship. By buying into the soul mate idea, these moments of discontentment can lead us to worry that perhaps we aren’t with our soul mate or that we’ve married the wrong person. Accepting that your mate has become your soul mate over time is the healthiest way to approach this issue.</p> <p>What’s the best piece of relationship advice you’ve been given? Share it in the comments below.</p> <p><em>Image: Getty</em></p>

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Stress and burnout should never be ignored

<p>Every day it seems we learn of another suicide. Given that every 40 seconds someone in the world takes their own life, it's not surprising our news feeds – however you get them – are full of bad news. Recently reading about a Brisbane gastroenterologist and father-of-four committing suicide shows what we have known for a long time: It can strike from the shadows at any time and at anyone.</p> <p>In my experience, there are a number of reasons people commit suicide. Mental illness, depression and burnout can all affect the brain's electrical circuits, which can result in making irrational decisions. An Antarctic storm rages in your head and you can never imagine the sun shining again. But the sun can come out again – if you seek help, get treatment and treat the causes.</p> <p>One of the main causes can be an excessive workload and a lack of sleep. In my view, other causes of suicide include the loss of a relationship, a business, health and, sometimes, social status.</p> <p>The wife of the Brisbane doctor wrote an open email stating that she didn't want his suicide to be a secret. The family photos of him with his four children made you feel some of their pain and horror.</p> <p>Despite the fact both his parents were psychiatrists, he was surrounded by doctors (and was a doctor himself), he still took his own life. His wife writes, although no one had seen it coming, they knew he had been working a lot. She described a very rough weekend of call-outs, and how he had missed his son's birthday party. From reading the article, it suggests the doctor was extremely burnt out and had some financial problems at his practice.</p> <p>Burnout is when the brain becomes so exhausted, the mind can't take it anymore. You can lose faith in yourself, and everything can become a lot harder. It's the feeling you get when you have no time to do the things you enjoy, feel constantly under pressure, and do not even have the time to properly rest. Self-doubt can rage like an Antarctic storm and is just as frightening if you have never experienced either.</p> <p>Doctors and vets have alarmingly high suicide rates, for a number of reasons. Being up constantly in the middle of the night, being so emotionally involved with patients and their lives and death, then having to run a business during the day with financial pressures all take their toll.</p> <p>The mantra that we need to look after ourselves before we can look after others, has never been truer. We all need help when depression and burnout strike from the shadows. They are just as fatal as heart attacks and cancer, but just as treatable if you have the tools and support to do so.</p> <p>What seems insurmountable in the dead of night can be solved. There are no problems, only solutions. Accountants can help with the finances; psychologists and doctors with the mind and the brain. Family and friends can offer the reassurance and support needed to navigate through the storm.</p> <p>Like any storm, it will pass – the wind will drop and the sun will shine again. People can't help if you don't tell them. The first step is to ask for help. We would all rather help than read about another tragic case that could have been prevented and the ongoing hurt it can cause.</p> <p><em>Written by Dr Tom Mulholland. First appeared on <a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Stuff.co.nz</span></strong></a>.</em></p> <p><em>Image: Getty</em></p>

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12 silent signs of skin cancer you’re probably ignoring

<p><strong>Subtle signs of skin cancer you shouldn’t ignore</strong></p> <p>When the weather gets warmer and daylight hours longer, people are more likely to spend time outdoors in the sun. This also means there’s an increased risk for skin cancer. Australia has one of the highest rates of skin cancer in the world, according to cancer.org.au, which account for around 80% of all newly diagnosed cancers. Although common, it’s also the most preventable and curable cancer if caught early. It’s recommended that you do monthly self-check exams from head to toe to look at moles and any other abnormalities on the skin. But aside from monitoring spots throughout your body, there are other subtle signs of skin cancer you may be ignoring.</p> <p>We asked dermatologists to tell us what skin cancer symptoms people might miss.</p> <p><strong>Skin growths or moles that aren’t brown or black</strong></p> <p>While you might focus on brown or dark moles when you think of skin cancer, there are actually several types of skin growths to keep an eye on. The major types of skin cancer are basal cell carcinoma (BCC), squamous cell carcinoma (SCC) and melanoma. Both BCC and SCC are known as non-melanoma skin cancer or keratinocyte cancers, says Cancer Council Australia.</p> <ul> <li>BCC is the most common type of skin cancer. It often has no symptoms and tends to grow slowly without spreading to other parts of the body. Symptoms include a pearly lump or a scaly dry area.</li> <li>SCC is the second most common form of skin cancer. Symptoms may include thickened red, scaly spots; rapidly growing lump; looks like a sore that has not healed; and may be tender to touch.</li> <li>Melanoma is the rarest but the deadliest form of skin cancer. Often melanoma has no symptoms, however, the first sign is generally a change in an existing mole or the appearance of a new spot. Melanoma is projected to be the third most common cancer diagnosed in Australia, which along with New Zealand has the world’s highest incidence rate for melanoma.</li> </ul> <p>The tricky part is recognising trouble, says surgical and cosmetic dermatologist Dr Adele Haimovic. Some melanoma moles can actually be skin-coloured or pink – they’re known as amelanotic melanomas. This kind of melanoma is a challenge to recognise because we’re inclined to think it’s just a harmless bump. That’s why it’s important to have regular skin checks by a dermatologist to look at any skin growths or abnormalities.</p> <p><strong>Shaving nicks</strong></p> <p>If you find yourself bleeding after shaving, it may not be due to clumsiness: “Basal cell carcinoma and squamous cell carcinoma can bleed after shaving or other minor trauma, and sometimes spontaneously bleed with no known inciting event,” says Dr Haimovic. “This is because skin cancer leaves the skin more fragile than healthy skin.” If you find yourself bleeding in the same spot, get it checked out.</p> <p><strong>Your family tree</strong></p> <p>Having a first-degree relative with melanoma approximately doubles an individual’s risk of developing melanoma, according to the Royal Australian College of General Practitioners (RACGP). Having relatives who have multiple melanomas or who are diagnosed at a younger age further increases the risk of developing melanoma.</p> <p><strong>A pimple that doesn’t go away</strong></p> <p>“Basal cell carcinoma may look like a translucent, skin-coloured or pink pimple that does not resolve or recurs in the same spot,” says Dr Haimovic. Usually, pimples go away on their own in two to three weeks; if one sticks around longer than that, it should be evaluated by a dermatologist.</p> <p><strong>A dark band on your nail</strong></p> <p>If you notice a fairly defined, dark vertical line on your fingernail or toenail, you might think you banged the nail. Take a closer look: “If the band has multiple different shades of brown and black, that is a concern. Also, if the width of the band is greater than three millimetres, that is another concerning feature,” says dermatologist Dr Steven Wang. Although there are other causes (such as an injury), a dark vertical line can sometimes be a sign of a melanoma, so make sure to ask your doctor to take a look.</p> <p><strong>One of your moles is not like the others</strong></p> <p>“A reddish- or light-brown-coloured mole in a sea of dark moles is what dermatologists call ‘the ugly duckling sign,’” says Dr Wang. Basically, one of the moles doesn’t belong in the group or doesn’t look like the others, so it could be a sign of melanoma. If you have a dominant mole pattern on your back and it’s disrupted by a darker, larger mole, it could be an ugly duckling sign. Another example: You have two patterns of small and dark moles on your back, but there’s a smaller, pale mole. The only way to confirm if this is a malignant melanoma is to have it checked by a dermatologist.</p> <p><strong>You’ve had PUVA treatments</strong></p> <p>Psoralen and UV-light treatments (PUVA) are a type of ultraviolet radiation treatment for severe skin conditions such as psoriasis and dermatitis. A previous study published in the Journal of the American Academy of Dermatology found an increased risk of malignant melanomas 15 years after a patient’s first PUVA treatment. In fact, patients who have had 250 or more treatments have five times the risk of people who have never had PUVA.</p> <p><strong>You’ve had an HPV infection</strong></p> <p>There are many forms of human papillomavirus (HPV), with some increasing the risk of cervical cancers. But other kinds of HPV (there are more than 100 in this family of viruses) can cause warts on the skin, often the hands or feet.</p> <p>It’s thought that these skin wart-causing viruses may also increase the risk of non-melanoma skin cancers. In a 2012 study published in the American Journal of Epidemiology, the participants with antibodies against certain types of HPV had a higher risk of developing non-melanoma skin cancer.</p> <p><strong>Your immune system is weak</strong></p> <p>People with weakened immune systems because of disease or certain types of treatment can have a higher risk of skin cancer. HIV/AIDS and lymphoma patients may have an elevated risk, according to the American Cancer Society. This is also true of people who get chemotherapy or other medications that suppress immunity.</p> <p><strong>You have the XP gene</strong></p> <p>Xeroderma pigmentosum (XP) is a rare inherited disorder. According to the Genetics Home Reference, it’s estimated that about one in one million people have it. People with the disorder have an extreme sensitivity to ultraviolet rays from the sun. The gene limits the skin cells’ ability to repair damage to their DNA. According to the American Cancer Society, people with XP have a high risk of developing melanoma and other skin cancers when they are young – when the condition usually reveals itself – especially on the eyes and sun-exposed areas.</p> <p><strong>You work with industrial chemicals</strong></p> <p>People who work in the fields growing produce, in steel and iron foundries, or in coal and aluminium production plants have a higher risk of skin cancer, according to a 2014 study published in BioMed Research International. Also at risk are people who work with industrial carcinogens. These include arsenic – used in pesticides – and polycyclic aromatic hydrocarbons – which are in raw paraffin, creosote, chimney soot, asphalt, shale oil, tar and pitch, and even diesel-engine exhaust fumes.</p> <p><strong>You already had skin cancer</strong></p> <p>Just because you’ve had a squamous cell carcinoma or another type of skin cancer removed doesn’t mean you can relax – if anything, you should be more concerned. SCC recurrence is relatively common on the ears, nose and lips; it typically occurs during the first two years following surgery. In fact, having any type of skin cancer makes it more likely that you will develop another type of skin cancer. “During your regular skin check, your dermatologist will examine old scars to make sure there is no evidence of the cancer returning,” says Dr Haimovic.</p> <p><strong>Stay vigilant</strong></p> <p>Dermatologists recommend that you do a monthly self-check of your moles and any other skin abnormalities to help catch trouble early. This will help you keep tabs on any changes. Be on the lookout for moles or lesions that change in colour (including fading), shape or size, or if you’re experiencing pain, itching or bleeding in these areas, Dr Wang advises.</p> <p>If you do have a growth, use the guideline called ABCDE to evaluate it. That stands for:</p> <ul> <li>Asymmetry (melanomas are less likely to be symmetrical),</li> <li>Border (melanoma borders tend to be uneven),</li> <li>Colour (multiple colours aren’t good),</li> <li>Diameter (if it’s the size of pencil eraser or bigger, that’s a red flag), and</li> <li>Evolving (a change in size or behaviour, such as bleeding, itching, or crusting).</li> </ul> <p>The good news is that although skin cancer is a common form of cancer, if detected early it is usually curable.</p> <p><em><span id="docs-internal-guid-c59a899b-7fff-2066-ec88-9d358f744e6a">Written by Lisa Marie Conklin. This article first appeared in <a href="https://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/conditions/cancer/12-silent-signs-of-skin-cancer-youre-probably-ignoring" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Reader’s Digest</a>. 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15 foods you can ignore the best-before date on

<p dir="ltr">Ignoring the best before date on some items could save you thousands each year, new research has revealed.</p> <p dir="ltr"> While it seems sensible to pay attention to best before labels, you could accidentally be throwing out food that’s perfectly good to eat, according to a food waste movement started in the UK.</p> <p dir="ltr">Too Good To Go has urged shoppers not to rely on best before dates and use by labels in order to tell whether or not food is good enough to eat.</p> <p dir="ltr">It also said Australian consumers throw away around 3.1 million tonnes of food per year which on average costs households between $2000 to $2500 per year, Oz Harvest says.</p> <p dir="ltr">But Too Good To Go, which according to its website is set to launch in Australia soon, says that as long as an item looks, tastes and smells OK, you can probably use it past the best before date.</p> <p dir="ltr">Common items that are safe to eat if they pass this three-step test include eggs, milk and cheese.</p> <p dir="ltr">Frozen food, dried pasta and bread are also likely to remain edible after the best before date has passed.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>What is a best before date?</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">The best before date is related to quality and there is no harm in eating items that have gone past “best” if they have been stored correctly, like at the right fridge temperature.</p> <p dir="ltr">This is different from the use-by date, which is very important in the safety of food.</p> <p dir="ltr">You can eat food right up to the use-by date but not after, according to <a href="https://www.foodstandards.gov.au/consumer/labelling/dates/Pages/default.aspx">Foods Standards Australia New Zealand</a>.</p> <p dir="ltr">Even if it looks, smells and tastes OK, food after its use-by date can still contain unseen bacteria that can make you ill.</p> <p dir="ltr">Many people don’t understand the difference between the two labels.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Reducing food waste is a win-win solution,” Jamie Crummie, co-founder of Too Good To Go told <a href="https://www.thesun.co.uk/money/17743721/foods-ignore-best-before-dates-save-money/">The Sun</a>.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Not only do you reduce its harmful impact on the environment, but you save money in the process too.</p> <p dir="ltr">“In the midst of a cost-of-living crisis, reducing our food waste is a really simple and easy thing that everyone can do to reduce their food costs, all the while knowing you’re doing something great for the planet too.”</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Which products can I eat past the best before date?</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">With food prices rising, household finances are under pressure for millions of Australians.</p> <p dir="ltr">Official data says groceries have risen by 4.2% between December 2019 and December 2021, excluding tobacco and alcohol.</p> <p dir="ltr">That’s a touch slower than overall consumer price inflation which has gone up 4.39% in total over two years.</p> <p dir="ltr">But overall, Australians are reporting feeling like their grocery bills have gone up far, far more than the official figures.</p> <p dir="ltr">Avoiding throwing out food that’s still good could help you save some much-needed cash.</p> <p dir="ltr">Of course, the exact amount you can save depends on how much you usually chuck out and which items you can rescue before they are binned.</p> <p dir="ltr">Here’s what you can eat:</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Milk</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Milk is the fifth most wasted food and drink product in Australia, after potatoes, bread, bananas and lettuce according to Aus Food News.</p> <p dir="ltr">With the average cost of a liter of milk currently $1.72, that’s millions of dollars down the drain too. It’s easy to tell if milk has gone off as it can go lumpy, smell funky, or taste sour.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Bread</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">If you store your bread in the fridge you can use it for up to two weeks past the best before date.</p> <p dir="ltr">Bread that has gone a little hard will still be great for toast, Too Good To Go says.</p> <p dir="ltr">Bread sold in long-life packaging like pittas can last for considerably longer too – potentially months.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Eggs</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Millions of eggs are thrown out every year.</p> <p dir="ltr">Keep them in the fridge and this could increase usability by as much as three weeks after the best before date.</p> <p dir="ltr">An easy test to see if an egg is good to eat is putting it in a bowl of water – if it sinks it’s fine to eat, if it floats then it’s not.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Hard cheese</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Hard cheeses like cheddar are perfectly good to eat after the best before date.</p> <p dir="ltr">You can cut any surface mould off of hard cheeses and eat the rest safely if it’s free from mould.</p> <p dir="ltr">But this is not recommended for soft dairy products like goats cheese.</p> <p dir="ltr">According to Too Good To Go, spores from mould often pass through soft cheese quite quickly.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Yoghurt</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">While the texture and taste of yoghurt may change as time goes on, the acidic nature of the product means bad bacteria are kept at bay almost indefinitely.</p> <p dir="ltr">This is particularly true if the yoghurt is unopened, and has been stored correctly.</p> <p dir="ltr">It means as long as it passes the look, smell and taste test you can eat it several weeks after the best before date.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Canned food</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">We’ve all had cans of food lurking for too long in our cupboards at some point and the good news is that they’re safe to eat years after the best before date.</p> <p dir="ltr">That’s because of the extremely high heat process products go through when being canned that kills bacteria and sterilises the contents.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Frozen food</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">When you leave food in the freezer the quality deteriorates over time, but it’s still safe to use.</p> <p dir="ltr">It’s generally recommended to eat most freezer foods within three to six months if you want them at their best.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Dried pasta</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Dried pasta can last up to three years after the best before date.</p> <p dir="ltr">You just need to make sure that it’s been stored in an airtight container for that time</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>White rice</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">White rice can last for years too, if kept in an airtight container.</p> <p dir="ltr">It can become stale as the starch naturally crystallises, but it’s safe to eat.</p> <p dir="ltr">But you want to look out for rice weevils, which can appear in flour too.</p> <p dir="ltr">If you spot these, don’t eat it – throw it away.</p> <p dir="ltr">This only applies to white rice though, not brown, as it is refined and the preservatives keep it good for longer.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Biscuits</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Unopened biscuits can be eaten weeks after the best before date and up to six months, according to Wrap.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Honey</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Honey can last for a very long time, according to To Good To Go, even when it crystallises.</p> <p dir="ltr">It’s safe to eat and there’s a simple trick to get the consistency back – just place the jar or bottle into a bowl of boiling water.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Soy sauce</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">This cooking essential will last years after the best before date if it’s kept sealed.</p> <p dir="ltr">That’s because it contains a lot of salt, which acts as a preservative.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Vinegar</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Vinegar is used as a preservative, to make other foods last longer like pickles and eggs.</p> <p dir="ltr">So the condiment will last well past its best before date.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Sugar</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">Sugar can last indefinitely, the food waste organisation says, just keep it in an airtight container.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Bicarbonate of soda</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">If you took up baking during lockdown but didn’t take it up as a full time hobby, you can still dig out and use up an old tub of bicarb.</p> <p dir="ltr">It’s safe to use years after the best before, though be warned that it can lose some of its power as a raising agent.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-cf6c8024-7fff-1a39-557d-d870898fd8f6"></span></p> <p dir="ltr">It’s also still good to use as a cleaning agent around the house.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Getty</em></p>

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8 sneaky female heart attack symptoms women might be ignoring

<p><strong>Women aren't men</strong></p><p>There’s a big disconnect between what women think a heart attack would feel like – excruciating chest pain – and what it often does feel like. “Other than the reproductive system, the cardiovascular system has the most differences between genders,” says Professor Jean McSweeney, PhD, RN. So it’s to be expected that female heart attack symptoms – while sometimes shared with men in a general sense – can also be experienced differently. After all, “we have much smaller vessels in our heart,” says Dr McSweeney, who was among the first to zero in on women’s heart attack symptoms in a 2003 study, published in the journal <em>Circulation</em>. “And we’re constructed differently.”</p><p>When a woman’s main arteries are blocked, she’ll often experience a constellation of signs, including chest pain, pressure or tightness, along with multiple non-chest symptoms, says Judith Hilevi Lichtman, PhD, department chair and associate professor of epidemiology at the Yale School of Public Health. What’s more, not every woman experiences the same symptoms, and the symptoms don’t necessarily happen all at once. We spoke with experts and female heart-attack survivors about what some of those symptoms might be and what they feel like. Here are eight that surprised us most.</p><p><strong>A strange-feeling arm</strong></p><p>“I felt like my arm was asleep,” says Tara Robinson, a school counsellor, who, incredibly, survived three heart attacks in one week at the age of 40. For the first two, the feeling would emerge for a couple of minutes and then go away. By the time she arrived at the hospital, the symptoms were gone and she was sent back home without treatment. “I thought maybe I was working out too hard at the gym or I slept on my arm wrong,” she says. By the time the third heart attack struck, that feeling was much more intense and persistent – and impossible to ignore.</p><p>Another heart attack survivor, Lilly Rocha, described her arm as feeling “sore.” In fact, she felt general soreness in her entire upper left side, along with her jaw and chest. At the time, she was 37 and a corporate vice president who organised international events; she’d jet-set from country to country on a regular basis – so she attributed the soreness to the stress of travel. It wasn’t until a co-worker (who had himself experienced a heart attack) insisted on taking her to a hospital did she realise the shocking truth: She’d just had a heart attack.</p><p><strong>A really sore jaw</strong></p><p>Along with arm issues, fatigue and shortness of breath, jaw problems often emerge months before an attack and then intensify during the actual event. Robinson described it as “like the way your mouth feels after you’ve come home from the dentist and the Novocaine hasn’t quite worn off.” As with the arm, the jaw also acts up because of what doctors call “referred” pain, explains Suzanne Steinbaum, DO, attending cardiologist and the director of Women’s Cardiovascular Prevention, Health, and Wellness at The Mount Sinai Hospital in New York City and author of Suzanne Steinbaum’s Heart Book: <em>Every Woman’s Guide to a Heart-Healthy Life</em>. “That pain comes from the heart,” she says. Dr McSweeney recalls a patient who first complained about her jaw to her dentist and was given treatment for TMJ. When that didn’t help, her wisdom tooth was removed. Of course, the pain only got worse – until she ended up in the hospital with a heart attack and was finally properly treated.</p><p><strong>Nausea and vomiting</strong></p><p>In a 2018 <em>Circulation </em>study that examined women and men who experienced a heart attack before age 55, two-thirds of women said they’d experienced epigastric (upper-abdominal) issues, such as indigestion, nausea, or stomach pain, notes Dr Lichtman, the article’s lead author. Only half the men reported similar problems. As Robinson describes that day she was rushed to the hospital with her third heart attack: “I wanted to vomit so badly.” After treatment, she adopted lifestyle changes that included eating a heart-healthy diet. She now helps lead other patients in living healthier.</p><p><strong>Shortness of breath</strong></p><p>This can catch you by surprise while you’re in the middle of running a meeting at work, doing household chores, or even lying down. An early symptom of a heart condition can be the need to prop yourself up in bed in order to breathe better. “You feel out of breath because when your arteries are blocked, there is not enough oxygen being delivered throughout the body,” explains Dr Steinbaum. “If the heart has been damaged or a heart attack is happening, the heart may not have the ability to push the blood forward and this can cause fluid to back up into the lungs.”</p><p><strong>Extreme fatigue</strong></p><p>“Women tend to dismiss heart attack symptoms because we are used to feeling uncomfortable on a monthly basis,” says Dr Steinbaum. “The key to knowing when to get checked is to assess whether the things you do every day and are normal for you suddenly become difficult or you get symptoms while trying to do them.” Robinson remembers having to crawl back to her bedroom after cleaning her shower; she felt weak and wanted to take a nap.</p><p>Dr McSweeney tells of one patient who reported being so tired that she could only make one side of the bed. She needed to rest before making the other. “It’s not this pronounced in every woman,” says Dr McSweeney. But if the fatigue gets progressively worse, or you don’t feel better after you’ve slept, you should see your doctor.</p><p>When Rocha was hit with episodes of extreme fatigue, she blamed it on her hectic travel schedule. By the time she arrived at the hospital, where she waited a long time to be seen – no one suspected she was having a heart attack – the fatigue and feelings on the left side of her body became so overwhelming that she couldn’t move or talk. “I felt like I was going to pass out,” she says. Fortunately, she received treatment before it was too late. She now owns her own company in order to have control over her work-life balance.</p><p><strong>Upper-back pain</strong></p><p>Robinson reports that her back problem was the only symptom she’d describe as actually painful. “It felt as if it was behind my heart,” she says. Other women have described it as a sharp pain between the shoulder blades, which intensified at the time of the heart attack.</p><p><strong>An odd feeling in the chest</strong></p><p>Women don’t necessarily describe it as “chest pain” – much less a “Call an ambulance!” kind of pain. “They may call it ‘chest tightness’ or ‘chest pressure,’” says Dr Lichtman, who adds that women may not associate their symptoms with a heart attack because they’re experiencing other symptoms unrelated to the chest, like fatigue or muscle pain. Rocha felt a “strong tingling sensation – almost like electricity was shooting out of my chest.” It would come and go, she recalls, and in the beginning would last two or three minutes at a time. About six months before her heart attack, she went to her primary care physician (who was also her ob-gyn) because she was convinced she had breast cancer. The doctor did a breast exam, found nothing, and sent her home. Rocha eventually noticed that her entire left side – chest, jaw, and arm – just felt “weird.”</p><p><strong>Flu-like symptoms</strong></p><p>“Women might say, ‘I’m so tired. I must have a virus,’” says Dr Steinbaum. They might convince themselves that all they have are flu symptoms, many of which resemble the conditions above, including body aches, fatigue and nausea. But if the sensations seem different or more intense than anything you’ve felt before, get it checked out. While they may turn out not to be symptoms of a heart condition or precursors to a heart attack, you’re better off not ruling out the possibility – even if you’re under 55 and especially if you have a family history of early-onset heart disease. If you have even the slightest thought that you might be having a heart attack, call an ambulance.</p><p><strong>Wear Red Day is Feb 14, Valentine’s Day, but <a href="https://www.heartresearch.com.au/redfeb/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Heart Research Australia</a> is raising awareness for the whole month of February (aka RedFeb). Getting involved is as simple as wearing red and donating. #wearredanddonate</strong></p><p><em><span id="docs-internal-guid-b17a06eb-7fff-dd09-11c8-ce867b3d8400">Written by Joanne Chen. This article first appeared in <a href="https://www.readersdigest.co.nz/healthsmart/conditions/heart-blood-pressure/8-sneaky-female-heart-attack-symptoms-women-might-be-ignoring" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Reader’s Digest</a>. 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8 bipolar symptoms you might be ignoring

<p><strong>What is bipolar disorder?</strong></p> <p><span>There are two commonly diagnosed types of bipolar disorder, a mental illness characterised by mood swings from emotional highs to lows. People with bipolar I have depression alternating with severely elevated mood, or mania. Bipolar II is much more common, and is marked by less severe manic symptoms, called hypomania. Since the characteristics of bipolar disorder exist along a spectrum ranging from non-existent to extreme, and because good or bad moods can be a result of temporary events or circumstances rather than a mental illness, diagnosis of bipolar disorder can be difficult. These signs will reveal if you’re going through a phase or revealing bipolar symptoms.</span></p> <p><strong>You're downright depressed</strong></p> <p><span>A bipolar person in a depressive state will have the same symptoms as someone who has only depression. “They have the same problems with energy, appetite, sleep, and focus as others who have ‘plain old depression,’” psychiatrist, Dr Don Malone, tells </span><em>Health</em><span>. The period of mania, or elevated mood, that follows the depression is what differentiates a bipolar diagnosis. It’s important to discuss fluctuations in mood with your therapist because the treatment for depression will be different from bipolar disorder treatment. “Antidepressants can be downright dangerous in people with bipolar because they can send them into mania,” says Dr Malone. Signs of depression include: feeling sad or hopeless for long periods of time, withdrawal from family or friends, lack of interest in activities you used to enjoy, significant changes in appetite, lack of energy, slow speech, problems concentrating, and preoccupation with death.</span></p> <p><strong>You can't sleep</strong></p> <p><span>It’s common to have periods of insomnia due to stress or anticipation of something exciting on the horizon. But someone in a manic phase of bipolar disorder will require significantly less sleep than usual (sometimes none at all) for days at a time – and still feel energised. During a depressive phase, a person may sleep for longer than usual. Professor of psychiatry, Dr Carrie Bearden, tells </span><em>Health</em><span> that staying on a regular sleep schedule is one of the first things she recommends for bipolar patients.</span></p> <p><strong>You're in a great mood - a really, really great mood!</strong></p> <p><span>Who wouldn’t love to be in a great mood? And why would anyone see that as a sign of mental illness? “These phases of the disorder may actually be enjoyable to the individual because they allow for increased productivity and creativity that they normally might not experience,” says psychiatrist, Dr Smitha Murthy. But if the mood elevation is extreme, there is no apparent cause for it, it lasts for a week or longer, or it appears in combination with other symptoms, it may be one of your bipolar symptoms. Hypomania, characteristic of bipolar II, may be even harder to differentiate from a generally good mood because the symptoms are milder. Look for a combination of elevated mood with other bipolar symptoms, especially in a repetitive cycle that alternates with depression.</span></p> <p><strong>You get distracted easily</strong></p> <p><span>Trouble concentrating, a tendency to jump from task to task, or being generally unable to finish projects may be attributed to flightiness, stress, or other factors. But if you’re so distracted that you’re unable to get anything done, and it’s interfering with your work or relationships, you might be showing bipolar symptoms, says Dr Murthy.</span></p> <p><strong>You're unusually irritable</strong></p> <p><span>“This is one of the trickiest symptoms to recognise since it’s a natural reaction to frustration or unfairness,” says Dr James Phelps. Getting upset that someone cut you off on the highway, for example, is pretty normal. “Anger out of proportion to the situation, rising too fast, getting out of control, lasting for hours, and shifting from one person to another, would differentiate the behaviour as a possible bipolar symptom,” he says.</span></p> <p><strong>You talk - and think - fast</strong></p> <p><span>A “chatty Cathy” is not abnormal, says Dr Phelps. “But talking so fast that others can’t keep up or understand – especially in phases with other bipolar symptoms, may be hypomania,” he adds. Someone in a manic state may not even let another person get a word in. This type of rapid speech is especially concerning if a person doesn’t speak this way typically. Similarly, racing thoughts or ideas that come so quickly that others – and even you yourself – may not be able to keep up may be indicative of mania.</span></p> <p><strong>You're extremely confident - but don't make good decisions</strong></p> <p><span>Normally, high self-esteem is a good thing. In a person with bipolar disorder, excessive confidence could lead to poor decisions. “They feel grandiose and don’t consider consequences; everything sounds good to them,” Dr Malone told Health. This may lead to taking risks and engaging in erratic behaviour you ordinarily wouldn’t attempt, like having an affair or spending thousands of dollars you can’t afford to spend.</span></p> <p><strong>Drug and alcohol use</strong></p> <p><span>“People with bipolar disorder have a higher than average rate of a co-occurring substance or alcohol use,” says Dr Murthy. They may try to calm themselves with alcohol or drugs during a manic phase, or use them to cheer up during a depression.</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Written by Ilisa Cohen. This article first appeared in </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.readersdigest.co.nz/healthsmart/8-bipolar-symptoms-you-might-be-ignoring" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Reader’s Digest</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. For more of what you love from the world’s best-loved magazine, </span><a rel="noopener" href="http://readersdigest.innovations.co.nz/c/readersdigestemailsubscribe?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=articles&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;keycode=WRA87V" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">here’s our best subscription offer.</span></a></em></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: Getty Images</span></em></p> <p><img style="width: 100px !important; height: 100px !important;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7820640/1.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/f30947086c8e47b89cb076eb5bb9b3e2" /></p>

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How the travel industry still ignores people with disabilities

<p>As restrictions are gradually lifted, travelling abroad will be a high priority for many people. But for a disabled person, getting away on holiday can seem like a distant dream – with or without a pandemic.</p> <p>People with disabilities are still subjected to systematic discrimination when it comes to travel. They face barriers that non-disabled people do not, which can prevent them from going on holiday – or at least drastically limit their choice about where to go and what to do.</p> <p>Even before COVID-19, <a href="https://www.visitbritain.org/new-accessible-tourism-market-research">one survey</a> found that 52% of adults with a disability in the UK had not taken a holiday anywhere in the previous 12 months.</p> <p>The reasons are well known. Disabled people are often deprived of key three things: good information, appropriate facilities and positive attitudes from other people.</p> <p>To this end, many countries, <a href="https://www.gov.uk/guidance/equality-act-2010-guidance">including the UK</a>, have introduced specific legislation to address these inequalities. The United Nations’ <a href="https://www.ohchr.org/EN/ProfessionalInterest/Pages/RightsOfDisabledPersons.aspx">Declaration on the Rights of People with Disabilities</a> asserts the rights of disabled people to participate in cultural life, leisure, recreation and sports.</p> <p>You might expect this kind of political action means disabled people have equal access to travel. But when <a href="https://www.researchgate.net/publication/353520748_Strategic_approaches_to_accessible_ecotourism_Small_steps_the_domino_effect_and_paving_paradise">I interviewed</a> disabled travellers and people who work in ecotourism – in the UK, US, Australia, Canada and Sweden – it became apparent that many holiday providers fail to value their disabled customers.</p> <p>There are some for example, who merely aim to comply with regulations. They do not think there is a sufficient market for disabled guests, so they only made practical changes – such as investing in ramps – if the law strictly demanded it.</p> <p>One disabled traveller told how he mentioned to an ecolodge manager: “You just need to fix a couple of things in the room and it’ll be good.”</p> <p>The manager replied: “Why should we bother? We don’t make enough money out of you guys to really justify it.”</p> <p>Other business owners found such changes expensive to implement, but were motivated by keeping up with “good practice”. For this group, being disability-friendly made good business sense – but their efforts were often incomplete, only featuring in certain parts of the site for example, or for one particular kind of disability.</p> <p>As one study participant noted: “Instead of having the whole place accessible, mobility-wise, we just make sure at least two of the units and the main public areas are. That’s an alternative that seems to have worked.”</p> <p>It may seem odd that ecotourism – a form of tourism that values ethics and sustainability – does not appear to be leading the industry in tearing down barriers to disabled travel.</p> <p>But <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/09669582.2021.1951278">recent research</a> found that even businesses with the highest level of ecotourism accreditation did little to accommodate the needs of disabled guests.</p> <h2>Universal travel</h2> <p>With respect to information, only 2% of the websites in that study – which focused on Australia – had a detailed information pack for disabled people to download. And while some businesses considered themselves to be disability-friendly, facilities tended to only consider wheelchair access.</p> <p>Even then, only 40% of all the websites provided any information to wheelchair users, while 6% mentioned visual disabilities and 8% referred to hearing loss. When it came to intellectual disabilities, only 8% even mentioned them.</p> <p>Almost all of the websites failed to extend simply courtesies, such as using captions (known as alternative text) to explain to people with visual disabilities what is depicted in a photograph, or subtitling video material to help people with hearing disabilities. A quarter of the businesses required disabled people to contact them ahead of the visit to enquire about suitable facilities.</p> <p><img src="https://images.theconversation.com/files/413637/original/file-20210728-19-ry5ucm.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;fit=clip" alt="Tourist looking at pine forest." /><span class="attribution"></span></p> <p>Thankfully, there are also operators who believe ensuring that disabled people have an equal quality of experience to non-disabled people is an essential condition of being in business.</p> <p>This kind of approach needs to spread more widely. Disabled people will only truly have a right to a holiday when tourism businesses start to invest in adaptations for them. This means making provisions not only for wheelchair users but for all disability groups.</p> <p>It also means adapting business practices, updating websites and training staff to be able to serve their disabled guests appropriately and sensitively.</p> <p>It is estimated that there are around a billion disabled people across the world, representing around 15% of the world’s population. If the tourism industry is not willing to ensure these guests are treated as equals, that should make everyone uncomfortable. If society wants to see travel as a human right, it should be a right for everyone.<!-- Below is The Conversation's page counter tag. 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5 lockdown symptoms you can’t ignore

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The COVID-19 pandemic has seen the world go into various states of lockdown to reduce the spread of the virulent disease.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But, the long-term restrictions, border closures, and continued stay-at-home orders have seen everyone become prone to lockdown fatigue, as well as mental and physical exhaustion.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">According to a survey the </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/people/people-and-communities/household-impacts-covid-19-survey/latest-release" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Australian Bureau of Statistics</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> conducted in June this year, 20 percent of Australians are experiencing psychological distress at the moment, with respondents reporting feelings of nervousness, fatigue, hopelessness, and depression.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“We are in an abnormal situation where these symptoms will commonly arise,” says Dr Andrew Thompson, a registered doctor at InstantScripts.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“If these problems aren’t addressed, however, it can lead to the emergence of more sinister issues, which can be more difficult to manage or resolve.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">To help identify these problems and treat them before they worsen, Dr Thompson has shared the four most common physical and mental symptoms currently experienced by people in lockdown.</span></p> <p><strong>1. Headaches</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">No matter what additional stress you’re dealing with during lockdown - whether that’s working, studying, homeschooling or having lost your job - headaches are a common side effect.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“This can be the result of additional stress and anxiety, as well as neck or shoulder pain and eye strain from increased screen use and a lack of an ergonomic remote working set up,” Dr Thompson explains.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Luckily these aches and pains can be dealt with by adjusting your daily routine just a little. Dr Thompson recommends taking breaks away from screens, taking time to be outside, and drinking enough water during the day.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Mindfulness and meditation techniques can also help alleviate stress. There are plenty of free online resources and videos to help you practice these techniques,” he adds.</span></p> <p><strong>2. Poor sleep and feeling tired all the time</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Not getting to sleep? Or sleeping in later than usual? </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The switch to staying home all the time can lead us to throwing our routines out the window, but Dr Thompson stresses that keeping a routine is just important now as it was before the pandemic.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“It is important to maintain regular sleep and wake times and aim for eight hours of quality sleep each night,” Dr Thompson says.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Establishing a relaxing routine before bed is also important to help induce sleep and ensure you wake up feeling refreshed and energised.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He suggests limiting screen time before bed and even replacing it with a good book or meditation.</span></p> <p><strong>3. Anxious and mentally strained</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">On top of feeling stressed and an out-of-balance sleep routine, you might be feeling anxious and mentally exhausted.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you suddenly develop symptoms of a mental health disorder you don’t already have, you might be experiencing ‘adjustment disorder’. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The best way of combating these feelings is finding someone to talk to, such as a doctor, psychologist, or another medical professional who can point you in the right direction.</span></p> <p><strong>4. Mood swings</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Feeling moody, angry, or frustrated?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Another surprisingly common symptom during lockdown, feeling frustrated and angry is natural, normal, and healthy.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The trouble can come if this anger is bottled up, so talking out your feelings with someone and doing something productive to channel your frustrations are two ways of letting them out.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Staying in touch with friends and family, switching off the news for a bit, and enjoying the outdoors can help too.</span></p> <p><strong>5. Feeling unmotivated</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Finding it hard to stay motivated with exercising or any other task is another common experience for those in lockdown. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Unless it starts affecting your physical and mental health, taking things more easily shouldn’t be a cause for concern.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you are worried though, Dr Thompson recommends maintaining a regular routine and finding some way to stay active - even if it’s just a short walk each day.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“It is easy to become sedentary when we’re in lockdown but the positive benefits of physical activity on our overall health, and especially our mental health, can’t be overstated,” he says.</span></p>

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Prince Charles is "immensely sensitive" and ignoring Prince Harry

<p>Princess Diana's former voice coach, Stewart Pearce, has claimed the reason Prince Charles has had a hard time with Prince Harry's parenting criticisms is that Prince Charles is "immensely sensitive".</p> <p>Pearce revealed to US Weekly that the future king of England is a "very very shy man".</p> <p>“Prince Charles is a very, very shy man, a very sensitive and delicate man, but we see his public personality, but in private, he’s immensely sensitive,” he said.</p> <p>“When we’re sensitive, if we’re dealing with very strong, combustible emotion on the outside of us,” people tend to go into fight or flight.</p> <p>For example, when Princess Diana accused him of having an affair with Camilla Parker Bowles, “what he did was to shrink back and as a result of that became aloof,” Pearce explained. “Well, that doesn’t heal the challenge that’s taking place.”</p> <p>Pearce said that when reports broke about Prince Harry and Meghan being "troubled" by the 'lapse of contact", Pearce wasn't surprised as "that's what Charles does".</p> <p>“He can’t deal with it because of his sensitivity, so he hides. And what Harry’s trying to do is to heal that. Not out of umbrage, not out of anger or revenge or criticism or accusation…I felt that he was just somebody saying, ‘This is the way that it is, and this is why we want to make change.’”</p> <p>The comments that Pearce is referring to were made by Prince Harry on his Apple TV+ series with Oprah The Me You Can't See.</p> <p>“My father used to say to me when I was younger, he used to say to [Prince] William and I, ‘Well, it was like that for me, so it’s gonna be like that for you.’" he said.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/B2bL_xMgwoL/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="13"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/B2bL_xMgwoL/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Clarence House (@clarencehouse)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p>"That doesn’t make sense. Just because you suffered, it doesn’t mean that your kids have to suffer. In fact, quite the opposite. If you suffered, do everything you can to make sure that whatever experiences, negative experiences that you had, you can make it right for your kids.”</p> <p>The conversation was said to leave Prince Charles "quite devastated" according to an insider who told <a href="https://www.vanityfair.com/style/2021/05/all-charles-has-wanted-is-for-harry-to-be-happy-can-this-father-son-relationship-ever-heal"><em>Vanity Fair.</em></a></p> <p>“He is such a gentle man and a dedicated father first and foremost. Knowing him, he’ll be feeling wretched and will take no joy or happiness in what’s going on within the family. But he will also want to seek a reconciliation. He is not vindictive at all, and he wants to make peace with Harry.”</p>

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If you can read this headline, you can read a novel. Here’s how to ignore your phone and just do it

<p>Public anxiety about the capacity of digital-age children and young adults to read anything longer than a screen grab has come to feel like moral panic. But there is plenty of evidence to suggest we must take such unease seriously.</p> <p>In 2016, the US National Endowment for the Arts reported the <a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2016/09/07/the-long-steady-decline-of-literary-reading/">proportion of American adults</a> who read at least one novel in 2015 had dropped to 43.1% from 56.9% in 1982.</p> <p>In 2018, a <a href="https://theconversation.com/why-it-matters-that-teens-are-reading-less-99281">US academic reported</a> that in 1980, 60% of 18-year-old school students read a book, newspaper or magazine every day that wasn’t assigned for school. By 2016, the number had plummeted to 16%.</p> <p>Those same 12th graders reported spending “six hours a day texting, on social media and online”.</p> <p>American literacy expert and neuroscientist Maryanne Wolf describes the threat screen reading poses to our capacity for “the slower cognitive processes such as critical thinking, personal reflection, imagination, and empathy that are all part of deep reading”.</p> <p>She <a href="https://www.scribd.com/document/386632978/Excerpt-from-Reader-Come-Home-by-Maryanne-Wolf">asks</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>Will the mix of continuously stimulating distractions of children’s attention and immediate access to multiple sources of information give young readers less incentive either to build their own storehouses of knowledge or to think critically for themselves?</p> </blockquote> <p>But rather than taking up defensive positions on either side of the digital-analogue reading divide, Wolf encourages us to embrace both. As parents and teachers we can help our children develop a <a href="https://now.tufts.edu/articles/slow-down-reader">bi-literate reading brain</a>. There are several ways we can do this.</p> <p><strong>Reading pathways</strong></p> <p>Reading is a learned skill that <a href="https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/71cf/5d3dd4a5037003f0bca787874f2d68077cf9.pdf">requires the development</a> of particular neural networks. And different reading platforms encourage the development of different aspects of those networks.</p> <p>Screen-reading children, immersed from toddlerhood in the pleasures and instant gratification of skimming, clicking and linking, develop cognitive skills that make them adept power browsers, good at the useful ability to scan for information and analyse data.</p> <p>But Wolf suggests this kind of reading “can short-circuit the development of the slower, more cognitively demanding comprehension processes that go into the formation of deep reading and deep thinking.”</p> <p>Unless the cognitive skills required for deep reading are similarly developed and nurtured, new generations of readers – distracted by the ready availability of digital information – may not learn to venture beyond the shallows of the reading experience.</p> <p><a href="https://images.theconversation.com/files/309816/original/file-20200114-103966-4rr4lz.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=1000&amp;fit=clip"><img src="https://images.theconversation.com/files/309816/original/file-20200114-103966-4rr4lz.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;fit=clip" alt="" /></a> <span class="caption">We can help children gain a love of reading on paper from an early age.</span> <span class="attribution"><span class="source">from shutterstock.com</span></span></p> <p>Along with others concerned with early childhood education Wolf advises encouraging paper literacy from infancy. She doesn’t recommend forbidding devices. Instead we should regularly turn them off and make the time and space to read books on paper with children.</p> <p>We can model our own reading practices by setting aside our own smart phones to lose ourselves in a book.</p> <p>But how can secondary and tertiary teachers help inexperienced readers? The problem is likely to be aliteracy, meaning students can read but they choose not to because they don’t see it to be important for learning. And because they haven’t read much, it’s hard work. The problem can seem intractable. But it can be done.</p> <p><strong>Turn off the phone and read</strong></p> <p>My first venture into helping tertiary students read better was a 2011-2013 <a href="https://ltr.edu.au/resources/CG10_1566_Kennedy_Toolkit_2013.pdf">cross-university government-funded project</a> that set out to foster what we termed “reading resilience”. We found if students were persuaded to prioritise reading as they did a test or an essay, they would invest the time to get into the zone that is the other world of the text.</p> <p>We complemented complex texts with a guide that encouraged students to think critically as they read and to keep going when the language seemed impenetrable, the narrative incomprehensible (or dull) and the length endless. Or when the siren call of the smart phone became irresistible.</p> <p>They experimented with switching off their devices for blocks of two hours while they simply read. And they did read.</p> <p>Students prioritised this difficult work because we rewarded pre-class reading with marks. Some classes uploaded one-page, carefully argued responses; others answered complex feedback-rich quizzes.</p> <p><a href="https://images.theconversation.com/files/309826/original/file-20200114-103982-1pgksj5.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=1000&amp;fit=clip"><img src="https://images.theconversation.com/files/309826/original/file-20200114-103982-1pgksj5.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;fit=clip" alt="" /></a> <span class="caption">Can you ignore your phone for two hours and keep reading?</span> <span class="attribution"><span class="source">from shutterstock.com</span></span></p> <p>I surveyed a large first-year introduction to literary studies at the University of Queensland in 2013 before testing a version of the same “reading resilience” course in 2014. The rise in reading rates was exponential.</p> <p>The number of students who completed all ten primary texts (including the poem Beowulf and Toni Morrison’s Beloved) more than tripled, and the number who completed the ten accompanying secondary texts (selected chapters from an <a href="http://site.iugaza.edu.ps/ahabeeb/files/2012/02/An_Introduction_to_Literature__Criticism_and_Theory.pdf">introduction to literary theory and criticism</a>) went up by more than six times.</p> <p>Reported student satisfaction for this course from 2008 to 2012 had ranged between 64% and 75%. Once reading resilience was introduced, many complained about the reading load yet the level of overall satisfaction jumped to 86%.</p> <p><strong>We can all do it</strong></p> <p>It’s not just readers raised in a digital-age who have difficulty with long-form text. Have you have lost the skill of deep reading? Are you finding it increasingly difficult to stay with, say, a literary novel? You are not alone.</p> <p>Wolf, who despite having two degrees in literature, confesses to the shocking discovery that <a href="https://www.theverge.com/2018/8/27/17787916/reader-come-home-maryanne-wolf-neuroscience-brain-changes">recently she found herself</a> struggling to stick with a beloved Herman Hesse novel.</p> <p>We too can switch off our devices and set aside a space and time to revitalise the neural pathways that once made us immersive readers.</p> <p>As Wolf <a href="https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/71cf/5d3dd4a5037003f0bca787874f2d68077cf9.pdf?_ga=2.263432204.1683872892.1573681450-1249221942.1573681450">argues</a>, the skills of “deep reading” that involve “slower, more time-consuming cognitive processes […] are vital for contemplative life”. Deep readers are likely to be more thoughtful members of the community at a time when good citizenship may never have been more important.<!-- Below is The Conversation's page counter tag. 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"Hits you like a jolt": Politician shares warning signs she ignored before heartbreaking diagnosis

<p>New Zealand’s minister for Emergency Management made a stark confession just weeks after addressing the nation in the face of a major tsunami and earthquake threat.</p> <p>Not many saw or knew of Kiri Allen’s personal struggles, that is until she revealed she had been diagnosed with stage 3 cervical cancer in a raw and emotional Facebook post.</p> <p>Addressing her 20,000 followers, the politician admitted that just a day before the earthquakes, her doctors told her they had found a 3cm growth.</p> <p>"I found myself managing the earthquakes early morning, then headed to the hospital for another ultra sound at about 8am, just before the large evacuation notice. Poor timing," she wrote.</p> <p>"This was a longer ultra-scan then the previous day and they took a number of smears and biopsies as well. They found the growth was approximately 6cm but likely benign."</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7840579/kiri-allen-4.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/6ff79e4478cd48929338659687ef0e07" /></p> <p>The Labor MP said she’d had a consistent pain in her back, stomach and legs that concerned her to begin with.</p> <p>"I put it down to lots of driving, working long hours and the general stress of campaigns etc - so, I got my partner to give me a few mirimiri and forgot about it," she wrote.</p> <p>"Earlier this year, I realised I was finding it hard to sit for a lengthy period of time. Always in a bit of pain. I started running to try and move the lower back area a little bit. Nothing seemed to take the pain away. In late January I started menstruating and it didn't stop."</p> <p>The politician admitted to taking a "see no evil, hear no evil" approach to pap smears.</p> <p>"In hindsight, there were lots of opportunities to go touch base with a doctor. But I didn't. I put it down to work, and was on the go, and 'that stuff usually sorts itself out'," she wrote.</p> <p>However, after Allen revealed her situation to Ayesha Verrall, a colleague, friend and doctor, about whether the bleeding was "a little odd", she was hit with a serious reality check.</p> <p>"She asked a few more questions and I told her about the pain. She urged me, pleaded with me, 'Kiri, please, please, please prioritise this and go to the doctor tomorrow'.</p> <p>“She made some recommendations and the next day I found myself having an ultrasound'," Allan wrote.</p> <p>Allan said a week later, she received a call telling her that the pap smear had shown an abnormal result and she required a colposcopy.</p> <p>"It sounded OK, my cousin had had one and it was just a precautionary thing I thought. I told my family and they called the Dr to ask a few questions. She was amazing and took my family's call to explain the process," Allan wrote.</p> <p>She found out a few days later the lifechanging news.</p> <p>"I called back, going down the escalator stairs and the sound was rubbish. I skirted off to a corner to take the call properly, expecting good news," Allan wrote.</p> <p>"However, my kind doctor, who had been so incredible and taken calls from my family in the evenings, called to say the colposcopy had revealed I had cervical cancer.</p> <p>"The 'C' word hits you like a jolt I had never experienced. I gripped the wall in the airport."</p> <p>Allan told readers that she had confided in her parents over the phone while on the way to an event.</p> <p>"I lost it. In the car. On the way to the event. Huia's intuition kicked in, cancelling the event while I fell apart in the car. I was dropped at my parents place," Allan wrote.</p> <p>She spent the night surrounded by family and her partner, crying and watching TV.</p> <p>Allan said she cried telling New Zealand Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern about her diagnosis.</p> <p>"Her words were profound. I'll always have so much respect for the way she's dealt with me over this past couple of weeks or so. A text away – always," Allan wrote.</p> <p>Ardern said she was left "gutted" by Allan's news, but was “also so heartened by the character, the person that Kiri is.</p> <p>"Right from the outset, she's shown a level of determination to focus on her health and wellbeing. But to ultimately come back and be a part of the team again.</p> <p>"Our focus now, as her colleagues and friends, are to make sure she looks after herself first and foremost, and that we're here ready and waiting when she's able to return."</p> <p>Allan revealed that she would be taking medical leave to focus on her health.</p> <p>"I've told a few folks by now, and often the question is, 'is there anything I can do?' My answer now is yes," Allan wrote.</p> <p>"Please, please, please - encourage your sisters, your mothers, your daughters, your friends - please #SmearYourMea - it may save your life - and we need you right here."</p>

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Non-smoking mum reveals symptom she ignored that turned out to be cancer

<div class="post_body_wrapper"> <div class="post_body"> <div class="body_text redactor-styles redactor-in"> <p>A Brisbane mum's lung cancer symptoms were masked by her pregnancy for months and almost was diagnosed too late.</p> <p>However, she's warning other mums to not make the same mistakes she did and get tested early.</p> <p>Samantha Bladwell thought something was wrong as she was 30 weeks pregnant but figured it was to do with the baby.</p> <p>She would be short of breath in weird situations, such as walking up a hill or giving a presentation at work and had decided to take herself to her GP.</p> <p>Her GP wasn't convinced but sent her off for tests anyway.</p> <p>After a CT scan, a biopsy and conversations with specialists, she was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer, which was in her spine, her brain and both of her lungs.</p> <p>“It was very surreal, and all a bit of a blur,” she told <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.kidspot.com.au/parenting/real-life/reader-stories/i-thought-i-was-rundown-and-pregnant-but-the-truth-was-so-much-scarier/news-story/c8e65317b91a044635f6e93ea65c3073" target="_blank" class="editor-rtflink">Kidspot.</a></p> <p>“People assume if you’ve got lung cancer, you smoke, so it’s your fault. I’ve never smoked a cigarette in my life,” she said.</p> <p>‘The truth is anyone with lungs can get lung cancer. No-one deserves to have lung cancer, it’s horrible.”</p> <p>She's now urging other mums to get tested as she initially blamed her shortness of breath on the expected baby.</p> <p>The mother-of-two is now undergoing target therapy which works to specifically kill cancer-causing cells.</p> <p><em>Photo credits: Kidspot</em></p> </div> </div> </div>

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"Major incident" declared as thousands ignore advice to stay away

<div class="post_body_wrapper"> <div class="post_body"> <div class="body_text "> <p>Officials in southern England have declared a "major incident" after thousands of beach-goers flocked to local beaches.</p> <p>Bournemouth and Sandbanks in Dorset were hit hard as crowds came to enjoy the hottest day of the year so far and ignored advice to stay away from the area.</p> <p>By Thursday morning, more than 40 tonnes of waste had been removed from the coastline.</p> <p>Council leader Vikki Slade said she was "absolutely appalled" by the scenes.</p> <p>"The irresponsible behaviour and actions of so many people is just shocking and our services are stretched to the absolute hilt trying to keep everyone safe," said Slade in the statement. </p> <p>"We have had no choice now but to declare a major incident and initiate an emergency response."</p> <p>As the UK is slowly easing its coronavirus restrictions, groups of up to six people are allowed to meet up outside.</p> <p>However, people are taking the newly eased up restrictions too far as people were found camping illegally overnight.</p> <p>Slade compared the scenes to a public holiday.</p> <p>"We are not in a position to welcome visitors in these numbers now or to deal with the full range of problems associated with managing volumes of people like this," said Slade. "PLEASE do not come. We are not able to welcome you yet."</p> <p>Assistant Chief Constable Sam de Reya of Dorset Police said that people should stay away from the area.</p> <p>"We are also reliant on people taking personal responsibility and strongly advise members of the public to think twice before heading to the area," she said.</p> <p>"Clearly we are still in a public health crisis and such a significant volume of people heading to one area places a further strain on emergency services resources."</p> </div> </div> </div>

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Furious neighbours unleash on backpacking revellers ignoring COVID-19 rules

<p>Backpackers in a Bondi unit block continue to ignore social distancing rules put in place by COVID-19 by holding house parties just days after they were filmed drinking in their backyard until the early morning by angry neighbours.</p> <p>Australia is currently in stage three lockdown, which means that people are unable to leave their homes unless it is necessary (going to work or school, buying essentials, seeking medical care or exercising).</p> <p>Indoor and outdoor gatherings have been restricted to two people as part of further efforts to stop the spread of coronavirus, which is why neighbours are furious at the parties being held by the backpackers.</p> <p>The video of more than a dozen partygoers crammed into a backyard at the block of flats outraged many who are abiding by strict social distancing orders.</p> <p>The two neighbouring buildings are separated by only a few metres, which means sound travels easily.</p> <p>In footage taken just before 3pm, residents were heard yelling at their neighbours asking them to turn down their music.</p> <p>One neighbour confided in<span> </span><em><a rel="noopener noreferrer" href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8199343/Spanish-backpackers-Bondi-party-house-filmed-blasting-music-coronavirus-lockdown.html" target="_blank">The Daily Mail</a></em><span> </span>that things haven’t gotten any better between the neighbours.</p> <p>“The photos that were shared last week, that was of a calm party, but it's gotten a lot of attention because everyone is trying to do the right thing at the minute,” she said.</p> <p>“I've lived here for about 11 years now and over the past 18 months it's just gotten way worse.”</p> <p>“I yelled out at them today because they were blasting music, but it doesn't do much at all most of the time, they'll be back partying in a few days.”</p> <p>The woman wishes to remain anonymous and says she calls police at least once a week about the neighbours.</p> <p>“It's worse at the minute because people are working from home and I know one girl said she was in a work meeting and was asked: ‘What's all that noise?’”</p> <p>However, one resident of the party block argues that the group are being vilified unfairly.</p> <p>“I think that (last week's party) was blown out of proportion. What you'll actually find is these places are really big and hold eight people each, so it seems like there's a lot of people partying but they're all residents,” she said.</p> <p>“It's not like there were people coming from all over Bondi, it was just a mix of people in the apartments.</p> <p>“There are signs up about noise but that's from New Year's Eve. I mean there can be a lot of noise, but I think it's not as bad as it's made out to be.”</p>

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Facts the world ignored: Quaden Bayles' real age

<p>False claims against Quaden Bayles’ age have caused the internet to revolt against the young nine-year-old, as supporters rush to his defence and provide “proof” of his real age.</p> <p>The young Australian boy who lives with a condition called achondroplasia dwarfism, captivated the world after his mother shared a heartbreaking video showing the impact of bullying and how it pushed her precious boy to have suicidal thoughts.</p> <p>Yarraka Bayles, who has been an outspoken advocate for indigenous issues and dwarfism, shared the video of her son Quaden to her Facebook on Wednesday, after picking him up from school “in hysterics”.</p> <p>The clip went viral quickly as it depicted a distraught nine-year-old in tears, saying he wanted “to die” due to the bullying he receives at school.</p> <p>People across the world, <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.oversixty.com.au/news/news/you-ve-got-a-friend-in-me-hugh-jackman-sends-heartwarming-message-to-nine-year-old-quaden-bayles" target="_blank">including celebrities like Hugh Jackman</a>, rushed to his aid to offer immense support for Quaden.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7834731/quaden-bayles-4.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/fc34a5e1a2f7487aaba565ca2e548858" /></p> <p>A GoFundMe page to send Quaden to Disneyland has raised over $US466,512 ($A706,306).</p> <p>It was stated any remaining funds after covering the cost of Quaden's flights, hotel, tickets and food would be donated to charity.</p> <p>However, just hours after the video was uploaded and reached people across the world, a rumour depicting Quaden as a liar was set alight and caught on like wildfire.</p> <p>The false claims seem to have originated from a post on Facebook which went on to circulate on Twitter and Instagram claiming the boy’s plight was a scam.</p> <p>“Just so you know he scammed everybody … he’s 18, has plenty of money and yeah everyone fell for it,” the person wrote.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7834732/quaden-bayles.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/f2529b13d0d04fc28bceb7857d4c06f9" /></p> <p>The “proof” provided by the Facebook user offered up included posts from his supposed 18th birthday.</p> <p>People rushed to his defence, but the post could not be stopped even when Quaden’s mother took to Facebook to share a post by a woman who said she had “known Quaden since before this s**t blew up”.</p> <p>“Ima (sic) say this once and that’s that. I’ve know about Quaden since before this s**t blew up. Yes, he’s 9! Dwarfism is not a joke, is he a model or actor?</p> <p>“ … so are a lot of kids … That doesn’t mean s**t!”</p> <p>Numerous social media users have also jumped to the boy’s defence, and shamed the people spreading rumour about Quaden, saying there is plenty of “proof” against it.</p> <p>Interestingly enough, the viral footage of Quaden is not the first the world has seen of him. For many years, the nine-year-old has appeared on news programs and TV documentaries showcasing his family and the way they live.</p> <p>A video from 2015 shows a four-year-old Quaden appearing with his mum on<span> </span><em>Studio 10<span> </span></em>to raise awareness for dwarfism.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">It is so weird and wrong to even need to prove this but for anyone who still believes the ridiculous conspiracy theory Quaden Bayles is an adult, here he is on <a href="https://twitter.com/Studio10au?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@Studio10au</a> in 2015, aged four. NB No front teeth. We will blow this open next week: <a href="https://t.co/kgSLoHsh1c">https://t.co/kgSLoHsh1c</a></p> — Joe Hildebrand (@Joe_Hildebrand) <a href="https://twitter.com/Joe_Hildebrand/status/1231117032671727617?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 22, 2020</a></blockquote> <p>That same year Quaden is also seen on an episode of the SBS show<span> </span><em>Living Black</em>, which covered the issues affecting people in the Aboriginal community.</p> <p>The episode is about him preparing to have surgery on his brain and spine. During the show he is once again described as a four-year-old boy.</p> <p>Despite rumours showing him as an 18-year-old posing at his alleged birthday party, closer looks at the photographs shows it was snapped of him at a birthday party of a friend named Garlen.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7834728/quaden-bayles-1.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/f685b42df53e47fabfa4d3195c951b51" /></p> <p>A printed-out photo of Quaden posing with a group of older boys has the words, “Garlen’s 18th birthday” written underneath it.</p> <p>Those who doubted the youngster also took a hit at his online presence and the fact he had a talent profile made for him that lists him as an actor, extra, model and influencer.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7834729/quaden-bayles-2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/219ff6f772ed4b06a91ce45ce2d8bc5a" /></p> <p>Though some have said his past experiences in these fields prove he is older than he says, his profile appears to prove the exact opposite.</p> <p>In his biography on the website, it states he is eight years old, though it is unclear when this was last updated.</p> <p>Another form of “proof” people gave to paint Quaden as a person lying about his age is a photograph showing Ms Bayles and her son each holding a glass of what looks to be wine, but turns out is <em>Appletiser</em>– a sparkling apple juice.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7834730/quaden-bayles-3.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/f6cefa111ec94f70909c7021d4f8f8c4" /></p> <p>If you need Lifeline support, phone the 24/7 service on 13 11 14.</p>

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