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Hard to watch! Paralympic champion given the worst gifts ever

<p>A Spanish Paralympic cyclist has been given the worst trophy gifts in history, with his calm and collected reaction making waves online. </p> <p>Ricardo Ten Argiles was last week crowned world champion in three separate events at the 2023 UCI World Championships in Glasgow, Scotland.</p> <p>During the post race ceremonies, he was presented with two gold medals, along with two very surprising gifts from the event's major sponsor: international watch company Tissot.</p> <p>The 47-year-old was gifted not one, but TWO watches in a fancy display case, despite having both his arms amputated at the forearm. </p> <p>A video of Ten keeping a straight face while being handed one of the watches has started to spread across the internet with more than 800,000 views.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">Not a very well thought gift. <a href="https://t.co/hRhaTfnGsE">pic.twitter.com/hRhaTfnGsE</a></p> <p>— Cycling out of context (@OutOfCycling) <a href="https://twitter.com/OutOfCycling/status/1691136594747469836?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">August 14, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p>One video shows Ten standing on the podium and exchanging some friendly words with an official as he holds the watch case tightly between his arms. </p> <p>Understandably, the mortifying moment has been met with outrage and black humour. </p> <p>The athlete himself has been laughing off the incident and has embraced the way his social media pages have exploded with comments.</p> <p>Many of the comments suggested that Ten regift the expensive watches at Christmas, while others wondered how officials at the event could've let the awkward gifts happen. </p> <p>Despite the outrage from fans, Ten responded to one news story about the “tactless blunder” by writing on Twitter, “I am very happy to have won two TISSOTs, one for each arm, but above all for what it means for Paralympic cycling, total inclusion of the sport at the highest level”.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Twitter</em></p>

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“Cruel disease”: Bruce Willis given heartbreaking new diagnosis

<p>In a devastating statement on Instagram, Bruce Willis’ family have shared an update on his health, announcing that the actor has been diagnosed with frontotemporal dementia.</p> <p>Bruce’s wife, Emma Heming Willis, shared a picture of Bruce smiling on a beach, with a caption that provided their supporters news of the development in his health battle, and explained that his condition has gotten worse since his aphasia diagnosis in 2022. The same post was shared by Bruce’s ex-wife, Demi Moore, and daughter Rumer. </p> <p>On behalf of herself and the “Ladies of Willis/Moore”, Emma wrote, “our family wanted to start by expressing our deepest gratitude for the incredible outpouring of love, support and wonderful stories we have all received since sharing Bruce’s original diagnosis. </p> <p>“In the spirit of that, we wanted to give you an update about our beloved husband, father and friend since we now have a deeper understanding of what he is experiencing.</p> <p>“Since we announced Bruce’s diagnosis of aphasia in spring 2022, Bruce’s condition has progressed and we now have a more specific diagnosis: frontotemporal dementia (known as FTD). Unfortunately, challenges with communication are just one symptom of the disease Bruce faces. While this is painful, it is a relief to finally have a clear diagnosis.”</p> <p>In their full statement, the family explained that FTD is a “cruel disease” that is largely unheard of, although it is the most common form of dementia for individuals under the age of 60. Symptoms, which can worsen over time, include a loss of motor skills - from having trouble walking to muscle spasms. </p> <p>“Today there are no treatments for the disease,” the family wrote, “a reality that we hope can change in the years ahead. As Bruce’s condition advances, we hope that any media attention can be focused on shining a light on this disease that needs far more awareness and research.”  </p> <p>“Bruce always believed in using his voice in the world to help others, and to raise awareness about important issues both publicly and privately. We know in our hearts that – if he could today -- he would want to respond by bringing global attention and a connectedness with those who are also dealing with this debilitating disease and how it impacts so many individuals and their families.”</p> <p>The statement - from the hearts of Bruce’s wife, ex-wife, and five daughters - concluded with a plea for fans to go out and educate themselves on the disease, and to support the mission to help others, whether or not they had any experience with FTD themselves. </p> <p>“Bruce has always found joy in life – and has helped everyone he knows to do the same,” they finished. “It has meant the world to see that sense of care echoed back to him and to all of us. We have been so moved by the love you have all shared for our dear husband, father, and friend during this difficult time. Your continued compassion, understanding, and respect will enable us to help Bruce live as full a life as possible.”</p> <p>In response to the news, fans and fellow Hollywood stars came to share their love and support for the actor, as well as his loved ones as they all come to terms with the new diagnosis. </p> <blockquote class="instagram-media" style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/Cou_gFCPvjB/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"> </div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <div style="padding: 12.5% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;"> <div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: 8px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: auto;"> <div style="width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;"> </div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Cou_gFCPvjB/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A post shared by Emma Heming Willis (@emmahemingwillis)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p>“Thank you for sharing this with us. Sending Bruce and all the families love,” wrote American actress Rita Wilson. </p> <p>“I do understand, I lost my father from this disease,” a supporter shared. “I have to say- we kept finding gifts in the darkness and came out his death with a deeper love and an abundance of appreciation for life because though dementia is awful, we didn’t let it define him or us. We met him where he was hour by hour, minutes by minutes and learned so much him and ourselves. Sending all our love and light.”</p> <p>Surprisingly, a fuzzy cat even dropped by to send its love to the family, telling them “I send you all my love Bruce, Emma, Demi, Rumer, Scout, Tallulah, Mabel, and Evelyn.”</p> <p>And as one fan on Twitter said, “Thanks to the Willis family for sharing his diagnosis, it helps raise awareness of FTD. To his and other families with a loved one with FTD, stay strong. Keep fighting. We are all here for each other.”</p> <p><em>Image: Instagram</em></p>

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Aged care residents given 10 weeks to find a new home

<p dir="ltr">Older Australians living in aged care have been forced out of their homes, after it was decided that the only facility in their small town would be shut down.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em><a href="https://9now.nine.com.au/a-current-affair/elderly-aussie-residents-face-being-forced-out-of-nsw-aged-care-facility/78205e17-fc8a-4372-bb23-09aa081f538c" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A Current Affair</a></em> reported that the owners of Anglian Care, the only facility in the northern NSW town of Bulahdelah, gave families of residents ten weeks to find their loved ones a new place to live.</p> <p dir="ltr">The decision has angered the community, with local resident Rod telling the program that losing “40 staff” and “40 local jobs in a small community” will be devastating.</p> <p dir="ltr">Norma Hughes, a resident of the Cedar Wharf Lodge, told <em>A Current Affair</em> that she never imagined she would be asked to leave on the eve of her 90th birthday.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I was going to finish my days here but that’s not happening anymore,” she said.</p> <p dir="ltr">Her son Neil and daughter-in-law Lyn were also angered by the situation.</p> <p dir="ltr">“The staff found out that day, I think I was the only one there that wasn’t in tears, they were all crying going ‘damn, what’s going on?’” Neil said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“It was pretty sad for them; for everybody in a sense.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Bob, another resident, passed away at the age of 99 shortly after his family was interviewed by <em>A Current Affair</em>. </p> <p dir="ltr">His son-in-law, Kevin Carter, said the stress of being evicted was a heavy weight for him in his final days.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Ninety-nine is a lot of age and how do you accommodate meeting the new nurse and staff? It’s quite frightening,” Mr Carter said.</p> <p dir="ltr">Bulahdelah’s nursing home has been in operation since 1991, and the decision to close its doors came after the church reviewed its 11 aged care homes and found it wasn’t viable to continue operating.</p> <p dir="ltr">The church said in a statement this was because the Federal Government wasn’t offering any long-term funding for small regional services like the one in Bulahdelah.</p> <p dir="ltr">Though the closest facility is half an hour away, many residents will be forced to travel an hour away to Taree, meaning their loved ones will have to embark on two-hour round trips to visit them.</p> <p dir="ltr">Rod told<em> A Current Affair</em> that a solution could arise through a “stay of execution”, but that he didn’t have his hopes up that Anglican Care and the bishop would change their minds.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Potentially it could be saved … but they’re not flexible, they’ve made their decision and they won’t listen,” he said.</p> <p dir="ltr">Now it seems the only hope for elderly Austraions in towns like Bulahdelah could come after the looming federal election, if the next leaders decide to funnel money into these areas.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-d61e29f4-7fff-18c9-8fed-bbeab0d53b76"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Images: A Current Affair</em></p>

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Bambi-obsessed mother given the ultimate surprise

<p>A woman has shared the heart-warming moment she gave her ill mother the ultimate surprise while she was in palliative care. </p><p>In a post to the popular Facebook group <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/515507852491119?multi_permalinks=940210780020822&amp;hoisted_section_header_type=recently_seen" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Kindness Pandemic</a>, Lisa McDonald said she and her sister have been caring for their sick mother, who is a life-long fan of deer and the Disney film <em>Bambi</em>. </p><p>Lisa and her sister came up with the idea for a real-life Bambi to visit her in her palliative care homes and got in touch with a couple how owned a mobile petting farm. </p><p>The couple, Chris and Simone, travelled two and a half hours to Melbourne in order to surprise Lisa's mother with the adorable fawn, coincidentally called Bambi. </p><p>Lisa shared the tear-jerking video of her mother meeting Bambi, and becoming instantly besotted with the animal. </p><p></p><p>"She has Bambi statues everywhere, she is wearing a Bambi T-shirt in her bed and will be cremated in one too," Lisa wrote. </p><p>"My sister and I and the rest of the family that are supporting us are also wearing Bambi T-shirts... we are calling them our nursing uniforms."</p><p>Lisa contacted Simone and Chris after finding their business and arranged for them to bring Bambi to her mother's bedside the following day. </p><p>"However unfortunately mum deteriorated quickly today and Simone and Chris didn't hesitate... they drove two and a half hours to bring Bambi to meet mum," Lisa said.</p><p>"Out of pure love and kindness. I cannot thank them enough for what they have done for my mum and my family."</p><p>Lisa's post to the Facebook has been flooded with well-wishes after receiving over 17,000 likes. </p><p>"Brought me to tears. What a special and touching moment. Absolutely beautiful people to drive all that way for your mum to experience something so magical before she passes," one woman wrote.  </p><p>"This is so beautiful. She would have absolutely loved this so much. You can see it in her eyes how much joy it brought to her. Bless them, and bless you and your beautiful Mum," another said.</p><p>"I have tears streaming down my face. What a beautiful thing for you to arrange and have happen for your mum!!! She has certainly raised two beautiful daughters with such dedication," a third person said. </p><p><em>Image credits: Facebook - The Kindness Pandemic</em></p>

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Mum outraged after nine-year-old daughter given alcohol at a sleepover

<p dir="ltr">A British mum has taken to the internet to vent her frustrations after her daughter was given alcohol at a sleepover without her permission.</p> <p dir="ltr">Susan wrote on the Netmums forum about a birthday sleepover her nine-year-old daughter attended for a friend’s 10th birthday. She wrote, "My daughter attended a 10th birthday sleepover with five girls (mix of nine and 10 year old's) from school. I'm very friendly with all the mums. They had a great time and my daughter came back exhausted but in good spirits.</p> <p dir="ltr">“During the day she told me bits and bobs of what they got up to and it all sounded lovely until she mentioned that she tried a snowball (Advocaat and lemonade) and I'm furious.</p> <p dir="ltr">"At home she's had the odd sip of bucks fizz (champagne and orange juice) with me and my husband, but the mum has given my child (and other children) some alcohol without my permission. Worst of all my daughter thought it was her fault and got [very] upset."</p> <p dir="ltr">The post attracted a lot of attention, with most commenters agreeing that Susan was right to be angry, with some even calling it child abuse and urging her to call the police or child protective services. One commenter wrote, "I agree that this was not on at all! At the very least, if she was planning on letting them try the snowball she should have checked with the parents first that it was OK."</p> <p dir="ltr">Another mum shared her own experience in a similar situation, saying, "I'd also be absolutely livid. I've been there with my 14-year-old daughter. If there's alcohol involved the parents' permission should be obtained. I'd not be letting my child near that house again as trust would be completely shattered."</p> <p dir="ltr">Others said they couldn’t see the issue as she had given her daughter alcohol in her own home, with one commenter saying, "I think if she is allowed a bucks fizz at home then a little snowball is not really that bad? You need to talk to your daughter about drinking alcohol and what is allowed and what isn't.”</p> <p dir="ltr">In the UK, it is against the law to give children alcohol at home if they are under the age of five. That means that on private premises like homes, children aged five to 16 are allowed to consume alcohol, although<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.drinkaware.co.uk/facts/alcohol-and-the-law/the-law-on-alcohol-and-under-18s" target="_blank">Drinkaware</a><span> </span>and the Chief Medical Officers advise against it.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: hobo_018</em></p>

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The world is a safer place”: Couzens given UK’s most severe sentence

<p><strong>Warning: This story contains graphic content which may disturb some readers.</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Wayne Couzens, the former policeman responsible for the kidnapping, rape, and murder of 33-year-old English woman Sarah Everard has been sentenced to life behind bars, with no chance of parole. Lord Justice Fulford handed down a whole life order, the most severe sentence in the UK, on Thursday, describing Everard’s murder as “devastating” and “tragic”, and Everard herself as an "intelligent, resourceful, talented and much-loved young woman".</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Lord Fulford said, "First and foremost, Sarah Everard was a wholly blameless victim of a grotesquely executed series of offences that culminated in her death and the disposal of her body.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Lord Fulford went on to Couzens’ actions in kidnapping Sarah, by using his position as a police officer to provide him with a pretext for stopping and questioning her. “I have not the slightest doubt that the defendant used his position as a police officer to coerce her on a wholly false pretext into the car he had hired for this purpose. It is most likely that he suggested to Sarah Everard that she had breached the restrictions on movement that were being enforced during that stage of the pandemic.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sarah was walking home from a friend’s house in south London on March 3 when Couzens pulled over his rental vehicle and stopped her. Couzens then falsely arrested her for breaching COVID-19 restrictions and handcuffed her before putting her in the car.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Couzens proceeded to rape and strangle Sarah before burning her body and clothes in an old refrigerator on land he owned before dumping her body. She was found in Ashford, Kent, roughly 100km south-east of London, a week later, following a dedicated search. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sarah’s family released a statement following the sentencing, saying, "We are very pleased that Wayne Couzens has received a full life sentence and will spend the rest of his life in jail. Couzens held a position of trust as a police officer and we are outraged and sickened that he abused this trust in order to lure Sarah to her death. The world is a safer place with him imprisoned."</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;"><img style="width: 500px; height: 328.2710280373832px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7844538/screen-shot-2021-10-01-at-91204-am.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/25e57405cf404a3fb800b60cf3229b05" /></span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Her family had previously </span><a href="https://oversixty.com.au/news/news/i-can-never-forgive-you-sarah-everard-s-parents-face-her-killer-in-court"><span style="font-weight: 400;">shared victim impact statements with the court</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, with Sarah’s mother Susan, expressing profound grief, saying, "Sarah died in horrendous circumstances. I am tormented at the thought of what she endured. In her last hours she was faced with brutality and terror, alone with someone intent on doing her harm. The thought of it is unbearable – I am haunted by the horror of it."</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sarah’s father Jeremy said he would never forgive Couzens for what he did to her. "The horrendous murder of my daughter, Sarah, is in my mind all the time and will be for the rest of my life. Sarah was handcuffed and unable to defend herself. This preys on my mind all the time. I can never forgive you for what you have done, for taking Sarah away from us."</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In handing down the sentence, Lord Fulford said of Couzens, “Notwithstanding your guilty pleas, therefore, I have seen no evidence of genuine contrition on your part as opposed to evident self-pity and attempts by you to avoid or minimize the proper consequences of what you have done.”</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: Metropolitan Police</span></em></p>

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Prince William reveals the worst gift he's given Kate Middleton

<div class="post_body_wrapper"> <div class="post_body"> <div class="body_text "> <p>Prince William has revealed the worst gift he's ever given Kate Middleton in a new podcast.</p> <p>He appeared on <em>BBC Radio Five Live's That Peter Crouch Podcast</em>, and explained just how bad the gift was.</p> <p>"That was early on in the courtship that was. I wrapped them. They were really nice," William said, according to <a rel="noopener" href="https://people.com/royals/prince-william-shares-curry-snacks-and-beers-to-talk-soccer-and-mental-health-see-the-picture/" target="_blank" class="_e75a791d-denali-editor-page-rtflink"><em>People</em></a>. </p> <p>"I was trying to convince myself about it. I was like, ‘But these are really amazing, look how far you can see!’ </p> <p>"She was looking at me going, ‘They’re binoculars, what’s going on?’ It didn’t go well. Honestly, I have no idea why I bought her a pair of binoculars."</p> <p>Luckily, the pair seemed to work things out as they got married and have three beautiful children.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CBrAw7GFOv6/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CBrAw7GFOv6/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Duke and Duchess of Cambridge (@kensingtonroyal)</a> on Jun 20, 2020 at 2:30pm PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Despite being members of the royal family, the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge have had to adjust to the challenges of homeschooling during the coronavirus pandemic.</p> <p>Prince William admitted that it hasn't been easy.</p> <p>"My patience is a lot shorter than I thought it was... and my wife has a lot of patience."</p> <p>He joked about his lack of math knowledge as he tried to help out his children with their homework.</p> <p>"I was a bit embarrassed about my maths knowledge—I can’t do Year 2 Maths!"</p> </div> </div> </div>

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Has Duchess Meghan already given birth to the royal baby?

<p>The Duke and Duchess of Sussex are known for breaking royal traditions and taking a modern approach to royal life – and supporters are not surprised in the slightest that Baby Sussex might just be another way the couple shows just how different they are to the rest of their family.</p> <p>Unlike their in-laws, the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge, the soon-to-be parents have opted to not share introduce their new baby to the public on the steps of the hospital.</p> <p>Instead, they are keeping their first moments with their new child private – which begs the simple question: Have the Duke and Duchess already welcomed Baby Sussex?</p> <p>Prince Harry has not been seen since the official Instagram page for the royal family announced they would not be indulging in a public royal baby photo call, which was on April 11.</p> <p>The<span> </span><span>@s</span>ussexroyal Instagram page has also dropped a small hint that perhaps the special arrival has already entered the world.</p> <p>The latest post signs off a special message, which says: “On behalf of The Duke and Duchess (and Baby Sussex), we thank you so much.”</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BwR0wNFB1KI/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BwR0wNFB1KI/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" target="_blank">Just one week ago, The Duke and Duchess of Sussex asked that you kindly consider supporting various organisations around the world in lieu of sending gifts for the upcoming arrival of their first born. Not only did many of you lend your support, you took action. Their Royal Highnesses wanted you to know the impact of your support – the direct effect your donation, energy, and action made! YOU chose to be part of the collective good, and you have made a real difference. Whether a $5 donation, £1000 contribution, offering to volunteer, or spreading the word – you’ve played your part. And on behalf of The Duke and Duchess (and Baby Sussex), we thank you so much. YOUR IMPACT: @thelunchboxfund will now be able to provide a minimum of 100,000 additional hot nutritionally fortified meals to children in dire need across South Africa @littlevillagehq received donations from all over the world (from UAE to Hong Kong and the US), they’ve increased their monthly donors, had a surge in volunteer applications, and re-energized their hard working team of 200+ staff and volunteers @wellchild can now provide 300+ additional hours of specialist care by a Well Child Nurse for a child with serious health needs, allowing families to stay together at home vs in hospital @Baby2Baby have received over 5,000 products to disperse to children in need, including cribs, books, backpacks, diapers and have received monetary donations from around the globe - from Guadalajara to Italy. You made this happen. Thank you.</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/sussexroyal/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" target="_blank"> The Duke and Duchess of Sussex</a> (@sussexroyal) on Apr 15, 2019 at 6:51am PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Royal fans have caused a storm among social media, many wondering whether the royal couple’s first child has already been born based off these words.</p> <p>“Have they had the baby yet?!” one person commented beneath the post.</p> <p>“Who else saw the notification and rushed over to see if this was a birth announcement,” another comment read.</p> <p>Meanwhile on Twitter, others speculated the baby is safe and sound in the arms of their mother.</p> <p>“Meghan and Harry probably have already had that baby. They chilling,” one tweet read.</p> <p>The rumours, however, have been well and truly alive for the last week, since Buckingham Palace announced the royal couple’s decision to avoid the cameras.</p> <p>“Their Royal Highnesses have taken a personal decision to keep the plans around the arrival of their baby private,” a statement read.</p> <p>“The Duke and Duchess look forward to sharing the exciting news with everyone once they have had an opportunity to celebrate privately as a new family.”</p>

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The one thing Prince Harry has given up for his pregnant wife

<p>Prince Harry has given up his love of alcohol by not consuming the beverage for the last three months, all to support his wife, the Duchess of Sussex.</p> <p>The royal, who was known for his wild antics and his partying ways, reportedly stopped drinking alcohol the moment he discovered Meghan was pregnant.</p> <p>Speaking to <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/7502079/prince-harry-gives-up-alcohol-support-meghan-pregnancy/" target="_blank"><em>The Sun</em></a>, a royal insider claimed, “Meghan obviously cannot drink during her pregnancy and Harry wants to be there to support here.</p> <p>“When they are in London, they have been spending more nights in together as he cannot go out drinking with friends like he used to.”</p> <p>The last time the famous couple were spotted drinking was in July, at an event in Dublin where they shared a glass of champagne together. The Duke and Duchess also caused a few whispers when they chose to skip Princess Eugenie’s wedding reception, an occasion where the alcohol was being served by the dozen.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/Bo_QEK5nLor/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Bo_QEK5nLor/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" target="_blank">Established in 1916, @TarongaZoo is Australia's oldest zoological park – their commitment to conservation science has culminated in the development of the Taronga Institute of Science and Learning, whose work in forensic science has helped put controls in place to reduce illegal wildlife laundering. The new Institute, which will offer never-before seen learning opportunities for Australian students, was opened by The Duke and Duchess of Sussex today. #RoyalVisitAustralia #Australia #Sydney</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/kensingtonroyal/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" target="_blank"> Kensington Palace</a> (@kensingtonroyal) on Oct 16, 2018 at 2:04am PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><span>Taking to social media on Monday, Kensington Palace made the official announcement that the Duke and Duchess of Sussex are expecting their first child together, with the baby news causing a frenzy worldwide.</span></p> <p>The post, which was shared via Twitter and Instagram, shows a photo of the happy couple and was released a few short hours after the pair landed in Sydney for their two-week tour and to host the Invictus Games.</p> <p>In his younger days, Prince Harry was infamous for going rogue as he learnt to adjust to life in the spotlight. A tabloid regular, the young royal was often photographed stumbling drunk out of bars and night clubs.</p> <p>In 2012, images of a naked Prince Harry were released to the public, after he was spotted at a Las Vegas hotel drinking heavily.</p> <p>But it’s safe to say that his rowdy partying lifestyle is now behind him, as he prioritises his royal duties and his devotion to be a good husband and an even better father above anything else.</p> <p>Meghan has previously spoken about her love for alcohol and a glass of wine, revealing in a 2015 interview, “It’s delicious and I enjoy it.”</p> <p>Before adding, “Do the things you enjoy within reason. Know your body and what works for you and you’ll be fine.”</p> <p>The Duchess also previously touched on her health and diet mantra in an interview with Best Health, where she admitted that she never wanted to feel “deprived” of the things she enjoys, because once you start placing restrictions on yourself, you start to “binge”.</p> <p>Instead, she believes in balance as she encourages “lifestyle eating”, not dieting.</p>

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Duchess Kate reveals the unique nickname Prince Harry has given her

<p>The royal family really are just like us, with each member of the family having a special nickname of their own. With Queen Elizabeth being known as “Lilibeth”, Duchess Meghan as “Meg” and Duchess Camilla as “GaGa”, the tradition of nicknames has now extended to Duchess Kate.</p> <p>Speaking to <em><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=839&amp;v=nDKGAPppxwU" target="_blank">BBC Radio One</a></em>, it was revealed that Prince Harry likes to call Duchess Kate, “Cath” – a short form of her full name Catherine.</p> <p>Presenter Scott Mills asked, “That really confused me because everyone else calls you Kate – all the press call you Kate. Is this a thing just in the family?”</p> <p>“I’m not sure, actually,” said the Duchess. “I’m not that familiar with it, I have to say. But I’ll answer to most things, to be honest.”</p> <p>The Duchess has previously revealed her childhood nickname: Squeak – a name that she shared with her pet hamster.</p> <p>Speaking to the children at St Andrew’s School in Pangbourne, Berkshire in 2012, she mentioned that, “There was one called Pip and one called Squeak because my sister was called Pippa and I was Squeak.”</p> <p>Though in her later years, the Duchess was known to prefer the name Catherine when being referred to, a name that Prince William still calls her by.</p> <p>Do you have a special nickname? Let us know in the comments below.</p>

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Royal wedding guests given seven pages of rules to follow

<p>All major events come with logistical issues that need to be solved, and a royal wedding is no different.</p> <p>To avoid any hiccups on May 19, when Prince Harry and Meghan Markle tie the knot, their guests have been sent a seven-page “critical guidance” booking, reported the <em><a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-5695351/The-army-help-Meghan-look-best-big-day-strict-dos-donts-list.html" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Mail</strong></span></a>.</em></p> <p>In the book, guests are advised on how to best enjoy the day and are informed that cameras and gifts are banned.</p> <p>On the day of the wedding, guests must meet at the Windsor Farm Shop, roughly 5km from the venue, and they will then go through security checks and be asked to show identification.</p> <p>Once they pass the checks, they will be ushered onto coaches to travel to Windsor Castle.</p> <p>Items such as cameras, bulky bags and phones have been banned from the royal ceremony and reception.</p> <p>The couple have asked for charity donations if guests wish to gift them with a present for their wedding. However, for those who are still hoping to give the royal couple a tangible present, they have been warned that gifts are not allowed to be brought in with guests.</p> <p>"It should be noted that gifts cannot be brought to St George's Chapel or the Reception that follows at Windsor Castle.</p> <p>"Guests are advised to seek further guidance on delivery arrangements for any gifts to Kensington Palace."</p> <p>In the wedding invitation, the dress code was already communicated to guests, who must wear dress uniform, morning coat or lounge suit for men, and day dress and hat for women.</p> <p>The “critical guidance” book also says that guests should not wear medals or swords when they go to accessorise their outfit.</p> <p>Guests have also been warned that the toilet facilities will be unavailable during the wedding ceremony.</p> <p>“Guests are advised that there are very limited toilet facilities in St George’s Chapel, but these are available for guests’ use between 9 am and 11 am at which point this facility will become restricted for the duration of the service.”</p> <p>Have you ever attended a wedding with strict guest rules you had to follow? Tell us in the comments below. </p>

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The strangest gifts the royals have been given

<p>If you thought you received some odd gifts for Christmas, they’re nothing compared to what the royals have been given in the past 12 months.</p> <p>Gift giving is quite common practice when any member of the royal family makes a public appearance – but it’s not just flowers and chocolates.</p> <p>In fact, there are entire reports written up about who received what, from whom, and on what occasion.</p> <p>Young Prince George received clothes such as a waistcoat and shorts, toys including a hobbyhorse and Tintin figures – even a dream catcher.</p> <p>Princess Charlotte was gifted a hobbyhorse too, as well as a toy pram, lollipops and a hair bow. Books and soft toys were the most common gifts for the smallest royals.</p> <p>Duchess Kate was given figurines and an oven glove, along with a tea service and a traditional German cake known as bamkuch.</p> <p>Prince William received gifts from the full spectrum, all the way from felt gnomes (two of them) to a replica cavalry sabre. As a couple, Kate and William received a framed Polish coat of arms as well as some commemorative coins.</p> <p>Far from filling their own homes with all of these gifts, many are given to charities that could make use of them, while others are stored. Certain gifts are taken into the royal’s home, so perhaps Kate and William sat down to tea with some German cake while the kids rolled by on their hobbyhorses. We can only wonder what happened to the felt gnomes!</p> <p>What’s the strangest present you’ve ever received? We would love to hear your story in the comments.</p>

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Prince Harry has been given Prince Philip’s old job

<p>Prince Harry has been given his grandfather, the Duke of Edinburgh’s role as Captain General to the Royal Marines.</p> <p>Prince Philip, 96, joined his grandson for a ceremony at Buckingham Palace after the Queen appointed Harry to the role.</p> <p>Philip held the title of Captain General for 64 years after replacing King George VI on June 2, 1953.</p> <p>He had given up his military service, which included serving as a naval officer in World War II, when Elizabeth ascended to the throne in 1952.</p> <p><img width="505" height="379" src="https://cdn.newsapi.com.au/image/v1/9ba1361b1b1a6981c2e486f01f737bab?width=650" class="tge-imagecaption_img" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"/></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><em>Prince Harry and Prince Philip during their visit to the Field of Remembrance at Westminster Abbey in 2016. </em></p> <p>Harry, who studied at the Royal Military Academy Sandhurst, has served in the Armed Forces for a decade and been on two tours of duty in Afghanistan.</p> <p>“The Queen has been pleased to give her formal approval to the appointment of His Royal Highness Prince Henry of Wales as Captain General Royal Marines,” Buckingham Palace said in a statement.</p> <p>It was a rare public appearance by Philip, who retired from public life in August after serving more than 65 years supporting the Queen in her role as head of state.</p> <p>Since his retirement, the prince has spent most of his time at Wood Farm, a cottage on the grounds of the Queen’s Sandringham estate.</p>

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Meghan Markle set to be given one of Princess Diana’s most treasured possessions

<p><span>On Monday, the Queen and Prince Philip celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary and now that the milestone celebration is over, royal experts are expecting the official announcement of Prince Harry’s engagement to Meghan Markle at any moment.</span></p> <p><span>The 36-year-old actress has reportedly started her relocation to London from Toronto – and was seen shopping in London this week – and Prince Harry has a very precious gift waiting for Meghan.</span></p> <p><span>According to </span><em><span>Express</span></em><span>, Prince Harry is planning to give his long-time girlfriend the watch that belonged to his late mother, Princess Diana.</span></p> <p><span>The 18-carat yellow gold Cartier Tank Francaise watch was given to Diana by her father Edward Spencer.</span></p> <p><span>After their mother’s tragic passing, William and Harry requested Diana’s watch and sapphire engagement ring for safekeeping.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><span><img width="498" height="415" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7264639/2_498x415.jpg" alt="2 (32)"/></span></p> <p><span>The royal brothers decided that whoever proposed first would receive the stunning engagement ring, which is why William gave it to the Duchess of Cambridge.</span></p> <p><span>The watch will no doubt be a hit with Meghan who bought herself the “two-tone” version when </span><em><span>Suits</span></em><span> was given a third season.</span></p> <p><span>“I totally splurged. I had it engraved on the back ‘To MM From MM’ and I plan to give it to my daughter one day,” she said at the time.</span></p> <p><span>On-set insiders recently confirmed to </span><em><span>Us Weekly</span></em><span> that Meghan Markle and Patrick J. Adams will be leaving the hit legal drama.</span></p> <p><span>“Patrick was always leaving the show. He made his mind up a while ago. Patrick wants to pursue other things and he's realised his time at </span><em><span>Suits</span></em><span> has come to an end," an insider said.</span></p> <p><span>Before adding, “It will make it an easy break for Meghan to leave as well.”</span></p> <p><span>Another insider also told </span><em><span>The Sun</span></em><span> that Meghan has already relocated her two dogs, Guy the Beagle and Bogart the Labrador-Shepherd.</span></p> <p><span>“She is very close to those two dogs. She lets them sleep on her bed and they eat only the highest quality organic food," the insider said.</span></p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media"> <div style="padding: 8px;"> <div style="background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 50.0% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;"> <div style="background: url(data:image/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5/p8/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;"></div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BIdaq2tAGue/" target="_blank">Nap time before night shoots for @suits_usa with my Guy #adoptdontshop #snuggles #myguy</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by Meghan Markle (@meghanmarkle) on Jul 29, 2016 at 1:58pm PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p style="text-align: center;"><span> </span></p> <p><span>“She bought them Union flag dog jumpers to keep them warm when they were puppies," they added.</span></p> <p><span>“She misses them when she is away and will even get someone to FaceTime her with them.”</span></p>

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Why Princess Charlotte's future children won't be given royal titles

<p>They both have official royal titles but while Prince George’s future children will also have royal status, Prince Charlotte’s children are unlikely to become princes or princesses.</p> <p>“Royal titles are inherited through sons, so if Princess Charlotte has children they would not automatically inherit the titles HRH, Prince, or Princess,” Lucy Hume, associate director of etiquette experts Debrett's, explained to <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.townandcountrymag.com/society/tradition/a12775724/british-princess-royal-title-meaning/" target="_blank">Town &amp; Country</a>.</strong></span></p> <p>This is the case with the Queen’s daughter Princess Anne's children Zara Tindall and Peter Phillips, who do not have HRH status, while Prince Andrew's daughters, Princesses Beatrice and Eugenie, do.</p> <p>However, there’s always exceptions to the rule as seen with Prince Edward and Sophie Wessex's children Lady Louise and James, Viscount Severn.</p> <p>Ms Hume explained: “The monarch may offer to bestow a royal title upon his or her daughter's children.</p> <p>“For Peter and Zara Phillips, the Queen offered to give them a royal title when they were born, but Princess Anne and Captain Phillips opted to decline this offer.”</p> <p>Although Charlotte’s future children won’t automatically inherit a royal title, Prince William and Kate’s daughter won’t be overtaken in the line of success, even if the new baby is a boy.</p> <p>A law change in 2013 before the birth of George means that male members of the royal family are no longer given preference.  </p>

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Some of the worst parenting advice ever given

<p>When someone we know has a baby, it can be difficult to resist the urge to offer sagely advice and helpful hints. When the new parents are our own children, however, the advice is often sought out, or expected. We’re sure you all have a bevvy of excellent tips for bringing up healthy, respectful, open-minded children, but here are some reminders that not <em>all</em> parenting advice is worth sharing.</p> <p><strong>1. Angry milk causes colic</strong></p> <p>A married pair of doctors warned, with sagely know-how, that a mother who breastfed her baby while she was angry would give her baby colic. The same pair (the Sadlers, in case you want to look them up), decided that a mother would run completely dry of milk if she succumbed to “worry, grief, or nagging.” So, basically, be a happy mother at all times or you’ll make your child sick and then cause them to starve.</p> <p><strong>2. High-rise baby cages</strong></p> <p>The Chelsea Baby Club were responsible for these <a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2010/10/old-weird-tech-baby-cage-edition/63819/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>terrifying contraptions</strong></span></a>, which sought to remedy the cramped conditions of 1930s London. If you don’t have room for your child to play outside, just hang them out the window in a cage. Yep, everything’s fine here.</p> <p><strong>3. Who’s a lardy baby? <em>You are!</em></strong></p> <p>Newborn babies who came into the world at the start of the 20th century were in for a special treat: a head-to-toe slavering in lard. Parents were often told to cover their newborn in butter, olive-oil, or lard and not to wash them for two weeks. You know – to make sure their juices were well and truly sealed in.</p> <p><strong>4. Lefties are wrongies</strong></p> <p>Well into the 20th century, many experts, including psychologists, advocated for parents to re-train their left-handed children to be right-handed instead. The theory was that being left-handed was a decision made by “defiant” personalities. <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22332811" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Studies</span></strong></a> showed that children who were forced to use their right hands often developed a stutter.<a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22332811)"><br /></a></p> <p><strong>5. Mummy’s little socialist</strong></p> <p>A paediatrician named Walter W. Sackett Jr. published a book in 1962, <em>Bringing Up Babies</em>, in which he alluded to the unpatriotic nature of parents who did not enforce a rigid schedule upon their babies. This <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2012/11/bad_baby_advice_a_history.html" target="_blank"><em>paediatrician</em></a></strong></span> advised new parents to never feed their child at night, no matter the age of the baby. The reason he gave? Giving in to a child’s every whim would sow “the seeds of socialism”.<a href="http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2012/11/bad_baby_advice_a_history.html)"><br /></a></p> <p><strong>6. “Shh, darling, have some opium”</strong></p> <p>During the 19th century, young children and babies were often given opium as a treatment for both asthma and restlessness. Some children were even lucky enough to be given <a href="http://io9.com/5896669/when-opium-was-for-newborns-and-bayer-sold-heroin" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>opium cough drops</strong></span></a> – made just for youngsters.<a href="http://io9.com/5896669/when-opium-was-for-newborns-and-bayer-sold-heroin)"><br /></a></p> <p>What’s the worst parenting advice you ever received? Share it with us in the comments below!</p>

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Given up on dating? Then you need to read this!

<p>Getting back into the dating game later in life can be a challenge, no doubt about it. When you continually put yourself out there only to be met with disappointment, it can be exhausting, disheartening and drive anyone to declare, “I give up!” It’s become so common that a phrase was coined: dating fatigue, which is defined as the result of continuing dating, over time, with perceived lack of success in finding a high quality partner. So if you’re suffering from “dating fatigue” and feeling discouraged from all the less-than-compatible fish in the sea, here are five tips to beat it.</p> <p><strong>Ease the pressure</strong></p> <p>If you turn up to every date with high expectations then the pressure is sure to mount. It’s not that you shouldn’t have high standards but don’t pin hope, dreams and expectations on one date. A date is just a date. It’s a meet-up with someone who you may or may not get along with. If you don’t expect to find the one at every date it will be much less stressful and exhausting. Just aim to have fun. If it turns out badly, then leave and have a laugh when retelling the stories to friend. If it turns out well, all the better.</p> <p><strong>Balance your perspective</strong></p> <p>The realities of dating, whether the traditional way or online dating, is that you will meet your fair share of bad eggs and have a few awful dates. People lie, people have less-than-good intentions and, well, with some people you simply won’t have any connection at all. Don’t take it as a sign or a reflection on you. Finding someone you have a connection with is difficult and sometimes you will have to sift through all the bad apples first. Prepare yourself for some disappointment and it won’t hit so hard, but when these moments happen, move pass them swiftly. There are good apples out there. Maintain a balance perspective and you should feel more control in the dating process.</p> <p><strong>Take some time for yourself</strong></p> <p>You know that saying “dating is a marathon, not a sprint”? If it’s a marathon then you need to make sure you take care of yourself. If dating is making you stressed, anxious or worried, then take a break! Schedule some freeze days (one week or two week blocks work) and stop all dating-related activities on these days. Don’t look at your online profile and stop chatting or texting. This is time for you to refuel and re-energise. Once you’ve spent a bit of “me time” next time you have a date, you’ll feel refreshed and enthusiastic.</p> <p><strong>Try other things</strong></p> <p>The dating game is just one way to find love. Open yourself up to new things that aren’t specific to looking for love and you might be surprise what follows. Volunteer, find a course to study, try meeting up with a hobby group and you’ll meet loads of new people. Friendship is the foundation of any good relationship so look for more friends. Who knows what might eventuate?</p> <p><strong>Don’t give up</strong></p> <p>If you are truly happy being single then that’s great – of course, you don’t need a partner to make you happy in life. But if you’re giving up because you’ve had several bad dates and it just seems too difficult to persist, then don’t! You aren’t going to find someone if you stop trying and if you do want to find a companion then resolve to not to give up. It doesn’t mean you can’t take a hiatus from dating but know that you’re coming back. You won’t find someone if you’re not open to the possibility so believe in the best about yourself and believe that someone great is looking too. </p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/relationships/2016/08/ways-to-be-happier-and-why-your-relationship-depends-on-it/"><em>25 ways to be happier (and why your relationship depends on it)</em></a></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/relationships/2016/08/how-to-tell-people-about-your-divorce/"><em>How to tell people about your divorce</em></a></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/relationships/2016/08/why-some-people-take-breakups-harder-than-others/"><em>Why some people take breakups harder than others</em></a></strong></span></p>

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Shocking number of dying patients given unnecessary treatment

<p>A review into end-of-life care by the University of New South Wales has examined doctors, patients and families from 10 countries around the world, has found a startlingly high number of terminally ill people are being given unnecessary treatment.</p> <p>Data was analysed from 1.2 million patients worldwide, and found that more than a third of dying patients were being given needless and “excessive” treatments which had no impact on their prognosis.</p> <p>The researchers behind the report believe the over-use of treatment comes from families desperate to do more for their loved one and hoping for a miracle. However, far from lengthening the patients’ lives, these treatments have been labelled “invasive and potentially harmful”. Among these include those with incurable cancer, a third of whom were subjected to chemotherapy in the final six weeks of life.</p> <p>Sadly, it also appears this trend is spreading to those with Do Not Resuscitate orders, a quarter of whom were in fact resuscitated.</p> <p>Dr Magnolia Cardona-Morrell of the Simpson Centre for Health Services Research told <a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2016/06/27/dying-patients-given-needless-treatment-major-study-finds/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The Telegraph</span></strong></a> that media-exaggerated reports of advancements in medical science are giving patients and their families “unrealistic” expectations as to what can really be done for them. “It is not unusual for family members to refuse to accept the fact that their loved one is naturally dying of old age and its associated complications and so they pressure doctors to attempt heroic interventions.”</p> <p>Cardona-Morrell believes that in lieu of false hope and striving for unattainable cures, the conversation needs to shift more towards the acceptance and inevitability of death. “As a community we must also stop shying away from the topic of death,” she said. “Start a discussion now with your elderly loves ones about their end of life care preferences before they become too ill to have that conversation.”</p> <p>What do you think about these findings? Share your thoughts with us in the comments below.</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="/health/caring/2016/07/i-want-the-choice-to-die-with-dignity/"><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">I want the choice to die with dignity</span></em></strong></a></p> <p><a href="/health/caring/2016/06/caring-for-someone-with-a-terminal-illness/"><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Caring for someone with a terminal illness</span></em></strong></a></p> <p><a href="/health/caring/2016/06/stigma-keeping-cancer-patients-from-palliative-care/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Cancer patients are not getting palliative care due to stigma</strong></em></span></a></p>

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