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Competitors put their best paw forward on the final day of Crufts

<p>Over 19,000 dogs from across the globe made their way to the NEC in Birmingham for four days of competition, each hoping to go home with the Crufts Best In Show trophy tucked between their paws. </p> <p>Over the course of the prestigious event - which began in 1891 - the dogs undergo intense grooming sessions, demonstrate their agility, show off their obedience skill, and more. </p> <p>And this year, a four-year-old Orca made history, becoming the first dog of her breed to take the top honour. </p> <p>Orca is a lagotta romagnolo, a breed that The Kennel Club describes as being “lively and affectionate”, as well as boasting an impressive and “unique talent” for hunting truffles with their heightened sense of smell.  </p> <p>Orca’s human handler, otherwise known as Javier Gonzalez Mendikote, had to drive for 25 hours to get the pair to the show, though it seems every minute of the trip was worth it - to both of them. </p> <p>Of their reception back home, Javier felt strongly that they would be pleased, stating that he was “sure we will have a huge party.”</p> <p>One that it seems Orca will be more than happy about - like, it seems, all things in her life - with the audience informed that she “never stops wagging” her tail. </p> <p>As Ante Lucin, one of Orca’s owners, put it, “she is a little superstar, but this is beyond all expectations. I was crying too much watching from the seats, it was very emotional. </p> <p>“Orca is everything you could ever want in a dog, she is happy and healthy.”</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">What a winner! Orca the Lagotto Romagnolo is your 2023 <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/Crufts?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#Crufts</a> Best in Show!🐶🏆💚 <a href="https://t.co/oVldA3oR3Y">pic.twitter.com/oVldA3oR3Y</a></p> <p>— Crufts (@Crufts) <a href="https://twitter.com/Crufts/status/1635022538312138753?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 12, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p>Javier went on to stress his belief that Orca’s win is “really important” for her breed, especially as it increases in popularity across both the UK and the US. </p> <p>Although Orca was crowned Best In Show, her success wasn’t limited to that one award. The curly-coated canine also won in the gundog group - one of seven categories in the 2023 competition, this one evaluating dogs that were originally trained in finding live game. </p> <p>An honourable mention, of course, goes to the Channel 4 People’s Vote winner - an Irish wolfhound called Paris, whose owner is Chris Amoo, lead singer of The Real Thing. </p> <p>The show’s manager, Vanessa McAlpine, was pleased with the year’s events, declaring it to be “triumphant”.</p> <p>“Congratulations to Orca, who helped end this year’s competition on a real high, taking the coveted best in show award alongside her handler, Javier,” she said. “The pair were very deserving winners and it was clear to see their strong relationship together in the ring.” </p> <p><em>Images: Getty </em></p>

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How to use reminiscing as a way of moving your health forward

<p>Whenever people think about moving their health forward, it’s not uncommon for them to do so by thinking about how physically active they are. And that’s good! Thinking seriously about the level and frequency of physical activity is worthwhile because it’s hugely important for healthy ageing.</p> <p>But sometimes people struggle to find forms of physical activity that they really enjoy and feel excited about pursuing. They might have the will but lack the ideas.</p> <p>Then, when people are a bit older, the issue becomes more physical. Again, they might have the will, but there might be challenges posed by injury or illness.   </p> <p>The more I’ve researched the science of physical activity and healthy ageing, the more convinced I’ve become that memory has an important part to play in enhancing our physical and mental health. Let me explain…</p> <p><strong>Our physical activities stay with us</strong></p> <p>It has long been known that some of our strongest and most positive memories are those related to sport and recreation experiences. Why? Because they tend to be multi-sensory in nature – involving sight, sound, and touch – which gives them a stronger memory trace. They also tend to be linked to exciting activities and events, which make them easier to retrieve.  </p> <p>Recently, health care professionals have been able to make good use of such memories, especially for people living with dementia. As dementia affects short-term memory more than long-term memory, it is still possible to recall and relive experiences that are long past…particularly sports-based memories.</p> <p><strong>Back to the footy</strong></p> <p>The power of such memories was recently studied for 16 older adults living with dementia. The researchers wanted to know if recalling and reliving past sporting experiences could positively impact residents’ quality of life and social functioning.</p> <p>It was found they could. Over 3 weeks, the residents met twice a week (for 60-minutes) to recall and share memoires of supporting their local football team. As a result of sharing their stories, the residents became more animated, spoke more fluently, showed more engaged social behaviours, and reported an improved quality of life.    </p> <p>Whilst further research is being conducted, reminiscence therapy appears to be a simple, cost-effective way to enhance the life experience of older adults.</p> <p><strong>Looking backwards to look forwards</strong></p> <p>Reminiscing on the past can be helpful in other ways too. Think about people in their 30s, 40s and 50s who are finding it difficult to establish a regular pattern of physical activity and exercise. This is a common problem, a part of which can be identifying enjoyable forms of physical activity…things people will feel motivated to do. </p> <p>Here’s where reminiscence can also prove to be useful. I recently interviewed five adults in their 40s and 50s about their return to physical activity and exercise. In each case, many of their happiest and most vivid memories involved the physical pursuits of their youth. As it turned out, these early experiences were also important for inspiring an improvement in their health through an increase in physically activity. </p> <p>This makes personal memories a great place to start. Thinking back to earlier times and the things we used to love doing. But not just thinking about it…doing things that help to bring those experiences to life a bit. Finding old photos, watching videos, looking at memorabilia, and/or meeting up and talking to old teammates and friends.</p> <p><strong>Reminiscence as a pathway to better health </strong></p> <p>Reminiscing in this way has the potential to inspire health change. It can help to generate ideas about how we might get moving and keep moving. Whilst that might involve doing something ‘old’ (a physical pursuit we’ve enjoyed in the past), it might also involve doing something we’ve never, ever tried before (and always wanted to try).</p> <p>Using our ability to remember and reminisce is helpful for motivation. By generating some inspiration from within ourselves, it can provide a natural source of energy that helps us out of bed in the morning and get us out the door, without needing to think about it too much!   </p> <p><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2022/06/spence-book.jpg" alt="" width="1280" height="720" /></p> <p><em>Image: Supplied</em></p> <p><em><span lang="EN-US">Dr Gordon Spence, author of Get Moving. Keep Moving, is a highly sought-after speaker, coach, educator and author who helps clients to live well and perform well. A psychologist and exercise scientist, Gordon’s areas of expertise are sustainable performance and healthy ageing, with a particular interest in people returning to exercise in mid-life. For more information visit </span><a href="http://www.healthyageingproject.com/"><span lang="EN-US">www.healthyageingproject.com</span></a></em></p> <p><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p>

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The state removal of Māori children from their families is a wound that won’t heal – but there is a way forward

<p>Too many New Zealand children are born into a state of crisis, as two recent and damning reports have shown.</p> <p>The <a href="https://whanauora.nz/assets/6f126cc001/ORANGA-TAMARIKI-REVIEW-REPORT.pdf">Māori Inquiry into Oranga Tamariki</a> (Ministry for Children) was one of five inquiries launched after a media <a href="https://www.newsroom.co.nz/investigations/2019/06/11/629363/nzs-own-taken-generation">investigation</a> into the attempted “uplift” of a newborn baby from its mother at a maternity ward in May 2019. The inquiry report stated:</p> <p><em>The event … not only sparked national outrage from Māori, but disclosed a controversial and decades old state policy and practice that has had devastating intergenerational impacts that have left our communities with deep emotional scars.</em></p> <p>Another <a href="https://www.occ.org.nz/assets/Uploads/TKTM-JUNE2020-Final.pdf">report</a> from the Office of the Children’s Commissioner details the experiences of Māori mothers of newborns involved with Oranga Tamariki. Children’s Commissioner Judge Andrew Becroft wrote:</p> <p><em>These personal stories … are a silent testimony to the long-term inequities that Māori have suffered under Aotearoa New Zealand’s care and protection system.</em></p> <p>Oranga Tamariki chief executive Grainne Moss <a href="https://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/news/article.cfm?c_id=1&amp;objectid=12337954">hit back</a> by saying the children’s commissioner’s report was ignoring the interests of babies.</p> <p>Today Newsroom launches a harrowing new video story by investigations editor Melanie Reid into the attempted ‘uplift’ of a newborn baby from its mother by Oranga Tamariki. Full video available here: <a href="https://t.co/u66NY18Rw1">https://bit.ly/2XEIgNo </a></p> <p>The current storm rages, in part, around the protection of children and their rights. With the <a href="https://www.abuseincare.org.nz/">Royal Commission of Inquiry into Historical Abuse in State Care</a> due to deliver its own interim report this year, we need to ask: what are those rights, and might a better understanding of them provide a way out of this impasse?</p> <p><strong>Children’s rights are linked to parents’ rights</strong></p> <p>Part of the answer can be found in the <a href="https://www.ohchr.org/en/professionalinterest/pages/crc.aspx">UN Convention on the Rights of the Child 1989</a>. Aotearoa-New Zealand accepted this treaty in 1993 and it informs the work of the <a href="http://www.legislation.govt.nz/act/public/2003/0121/latest/DLM230435.html">children’s commissioner</a>. For tamariki Māori, the convention is important because it was the first global human rights treaty to refer to the rights of indigenous children.</p> <p>Perhaps controversially, the convention <a href="https://www.ohchr.org/en/professionalinterest/pages/crc.aspx">requires</a> states to respect parents’ rights and responsibilities – and, where relevant, the extended family or community. This counters a common criticism that by focusing on children’s rights we diminish the rights of parents and families.</p> <p>As far as possible, children have the <a href="https://www.ohchr.org/en/professionalinterest/pages/crc.aspx">right</a> to know and be cared for by their parents. It is parents who have the <a href="https://www.ohchr.org/en/professionalinterest/pages/crc.aspx">primary responsibility</a> for the upbringing and development of their children.</p> <p>The convention also <a href="https://www.ohchr.org/en/professionalinterest/pages/crc.aspx">states</a> that the family is “the fundamental group of society” and the child <a href="https://www.ohchr.org/en/professionalinterest/pages/crc.aspx">should grow up in a family environment</a>. Cultural values are <a href="https://www.ohchr.org/en/professionalinterest/pages/crc.aspx">important</a> for “the protection and harmonious development of the child”.</p> <p>Most importantly in the current debate, the convention provides clear guidance on the removal of children from their families:</p> <ul> <li><a href="https://www.ohchr.org/en/professionalinterest/pages/crc.aspx">involuntary separation</a> is to be avoided, unless it is in the child’s best interests</li> <li>states must protect the child from <a href="https://www.ohchr.org/en/professionalinterest/pages/crc.aspx">all forms of violence, abuse or neglect</a></li> <li>where children must be placed into care, the child’s <a href="https://www.ohchr.org/en/professionalinterest/pages/crc.aspx">ethnic and cultural background</a> must be considered</li> <li>as indigenous children, tamariki Māori themselves must have access to <a href="https://www2.ohchr.org/english/bodies/crc/docs/CRC.GC.C.11.pdf">culturally appropriate services</a>.</li> </ul> <p>Each of these considerations is subject to <a href="http://docstore.ohchr.org/SelfServices/FilesHandler.ashx?enc=6QkG1d%2fPPRiCAqhKb7yhsiQql8gX5Zxh0cQqSRzx6Zd2%2fQRsDnCTcaruSeZhPr2vUevjbn6t6GSi1fheVp%2bj5HTLU2Ub%2fPZZtQWn0jExFVnWuhiBbqgAj0dWBoFGbK0c">four guiding principles</a>:</p> <ul> <li>the convention <a href="http://docstore.ohchr.org/SelfServices/FilesHandler.ashx?enc=6QkG1d%2fPPRiCAqhKb7yhsiQql8gX5Zxh0cQqSRzx6Zd2%2fQRsDnCTcaruSeZhPr2vUevjbn6t6GSi1fheVp%2bj5HTLU2Ub%2fPZZtQWn0jExFVnWuhiBbqgAj0dWBoFGbK0c">prohibits discrimination</a> of any kind, a provision that is <a href="https://www2.ohchr.org/english/bodies/crc/docs/CRC.GC.C.11.pdf">particularly</a> important in the current debate</li> <li>the <a href="http://docstore.ohchr.org/SelfServices/FilesHandler.ashx?enc=6QkG1d%2fPPRiCAqhKb7yhsiQql8gX5Zxh0cQqSRzx6Zd2%2fQRsDnCTcaruSeZhPr2vUevjbn6t6GSi1fheVp%2bj5HTLU2Ub%2fPZZtQWn0jExFVnWuhiBbqgAj0dWBoFGbK0c">best interests of the child</a> should govern all decisions relating to children – for indigenous children, this must take into account their <a href="https://www2.ohchr.org/english/bodies/crc/docs/CRC.GC.C.11.pdf">collective cultural rights</a></li> <li>the child has the <a href="http://docstore.ohchr.org/SelfServices/FilesHandler.ashx?enc=6QkG1d%2fPPRiCAqhKb7yhsiQql8gX5Zxh0cQqSRzx6Zd2%2fQRsDnCTcaruSeZhPr2vUevjbn6t6GSi1fheVp%2bj5HTLU2Ub%2fPZZtQWn0jExFVnWuhiBbqgAj0dWBoFGbK0c">right to life</a> and states must do all that they can to ensure the <a href="http://docstore.ohchr.org/SelfServices/FilesHandler.ashx?enc=6QkG1d%2fPPRiCAqhKb7yhsiQql8gX5Zxh0cQqSRzx6Zd2%2fQRsDnCTcaruSeZhPr2vUevjbn6t6GSi1fheVp%2bj5HTLU2Ub%2fPZZtQWn0jExFVnWuhiBbqgAj0dWBoFGbK0c">survival and development</a> of the child – for indigenous children, this means their <a href="https://www2.ohchr.org/english/bodies/crc/docs/CRC.GC.C.11.pdf">high mortality rates</a> must be addressed and culturally appropriate material assistance and support programs <a href="https://www2.ohchr.org/english/bodies/crc/docs/CRC.GC.C.11.pdf">provided</a> to parents and others</li> <li>the child has a <a href="http://docstore.ohchr.org/SelfServices/FilesHandler.ashx?enc=6QkG1d%2fPPRiCAqhKb7yhsiQql8gX5Zxh0cQqSRzx6Zd2%2fQRsDnCTcaruSeZhPr2vUevjbn6t6GSi1fheVp%2bj5HTLU2Ub%2fPZZtQWn0jExFVnWuhiBbqgAj0dWBoFGbK0c">right to be heard</a> in all proceedings affecting them. They have an individual right to express their opinion, and children as a societal group must be heard. The state must design <a href="https://www2.ohchr.org/english/bodies/crc/docs/CRC.GC.C.11.pdf">special strategies</a> to ensure the voices of indigenous children are heard.</li> </ul> <p>This report shares consistent and heart-breaking whānau experiences, supported by data and historical analysis, showing there are deep systemic issues facing the statutory care and protection system. Read the full report: <a href="https://t.co/jwPmgYHBYU">https://www.occ.org.nz/publications/reports/te-kuku-o-te-manawa/ …</a></p> <p><strong>The forcible removal of children is covered by the UN</strong></p> <p>Alongside the children’s rights convention lies the <a href="https://www.un.org/development/desa/indigenouspeoples/wp-content/uploads/sites/19/2018/11/UNDRIP_E_web.pdf">United Nations Declaration on the Rights of Indigenous Peoples 2007</a>, which Aotearoa-New Zealand endorsed in 2010. This specifically recognises the rights of indigenous families and communities to retain <a href="https://www.un.org/development/desa/indigenouspeoples/wp-content/uploads/sites/19/2018/11/UNDRIP_E_web.pdf">shared responsibility</a> for the upbringing and well-being of their children. The exercise of that responsibility is to be consistent with the rights of the child.</p> <p>The declaration also prohibits the <a href="https://www.un.org/development/desa/indigenouspeoples/wp-content/uploads/sites/19/2018/11/UNDRIP_E_web.pdf">forcible removal</a> of children from one group to another. While this has tended to relate to historic state policies to remove indigenous children from their communities, it clearly resonates with recent events.</p> <p>The declaration also states that the <a href="https://www.un.org/development/desa/indigenouspeoples/wp-content/uploads/sites/19/2018/11/UNDRIP_E_web.pdf">economic and social conditions of children</a> must be improved. Notably, states must protect children from all forms of <a href="https://www.un.org/development/desa/indigenouspeoples/wp-content/uploads/sites/19/2018/11/UNDRIP_E_web.pdf">violence and discrimination</a>. These considerations overlap with the declaration’s wider objectives, such as the <a href="https://www.un.org/development/desa/indigenouspeoples/wp-content/uploads/sites/19/2018/11/UNDRIP_E_web.pdf">right to self-determination</a>, the <a href="https://www.un.org/development/desa/indigenouspeoples/wp-content/uploads/sites/19/2018/11/UNDRIP_E_web.pdf">right to self-government</a> and the importance of <a href="https://www.un.org/development/desa/indigenouspeoples/wp-content/uploads/sites/19/2018/11/UNDRIP_E_web.pdf">free, prior and informed consent</a> on matters that affect indigenous people.</p> <p>At the heart of these documents is a simple message: children have rights. The best interests of the child must inform any decision that affects those rights. And the decision must be made in an impartial and transparent manner.</p> <p>Future reports will inevitably catalogue further violations of children’s rights. Identifying these violations is one thing; strategies to ensure they do not happen again are another. The Convention on the Rights of the Child and the Declaration on the Rights of Indigenous Peoples must play a central role.</p> <p><em>Written by Claire Breen. Republished with permission of <a href="https://theconversation.com/the-state-removal-of-maori-children-from-their-families-is-a-wound-that-wont-heal-but-there-is-a-way-forward-140243">The Conversation</a>. </em></p> <p><em> </em></p>

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Why looking forward to things is good for your mental health

<p><em><strong>Nigel Holt is a Professor of Psychology at Aberystwyth University.</strong></em></p> <p>Moving from a city to the beautiful Welsh countryside a few years ago made me acutely aware of the seasons and how they change. Most recently signs of spring have appeared in my garden over here on the Ceredigion coast. This mindfulness and awareness of the environment is difficult to explain to those whose comparable experience is confined to the bus stop and a park.</p> <p>Up until my relocation from town to country my own experience was as theirs perhaps is – a nostalgia for seasons and winters that once were. Nostalgia is not something I am comfortable with. Pining for the past will not bring it back, but my new experience of anticipation of seasons has provided a more positive approach to change that can be harnessed elsewhere. In fact, research shows it may even be useful <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0022103114002066?via%3Dihub" target="_blank">for our wellbeing</a></strong></span>.</p> <p>Nostalgia is a yearning, a feeling that the past was reliably better than perhaps it was, even in the simplest of ways. For example, that the theme tunes of our youth were so much better than those on TV today. Cognitive psychology <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://theconversation.com/the-psychological-benefits-and-trappings-of-nostalgia-77766" target="_blank">teaches us of biases</a></strong></span> in our information processing. One of these is <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.psychologicalscience.org/news/releases/i-knew-it-all-along-didnt-i-understanding-hindsight-bias.html" target="_blank">hindsight bias</a></strong></span>, rose-tinted spectacles through which we view the past. The psychology is clear: our belief of what once was is heavily influenced by the narratives surrounding the memories, some of which we have never actually had, and yet we still experience a nostalgia for them.</p> <p>Anticipation, on the other hand, is an expectation of what might be, and is in many ways the inverse of nostalgia. For me, the anticipation of spring is a wonderful feeling, heralded by buds and early flowering jasmine in my garden. Anticipation is part of the fun – or much of the fun if the research is to be believed.</p> <p><strong>Looking forward</strong></p> <p>This enjoyment of the wait <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/e18d/03bea3c8dabf24205d138de5d612c56bd23a.pdf" target="_blank">does depend on</a></strong></span> what it is we are waiting for. Obviously, anticipating root canal surgery is not going to be terribly enjoyable, but anticipating events has been shown <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.businessinsider.com/anticipating-experiences-happiness-2014-8?IR=T" target="_blank">to be more enjoyable</a></strong></span> than anticipating material goods, such as a new phone. This explains why buying theatre tickets for the summer, making restaurant reservations for next Christmas, or booking a flight some months ahead can give us a feeling of positivity.</p> <p>Anticipation, savouring the wait, developing the potential of a forthcoming event like this sits within an area of research collectively known as “<span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.psychologistworld.com/emotion/psychology-of-happiness-positive-affect" target="_blank">the psychology of happiness</a></strong></span>”. You may have seen apps that countdown to holidays or other big events, designed to provide a sense of anticipation. Well, <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17500652" target="_blank">research has shown</a></strong></span> that anticipation is such a strong feeling, people are <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.psychologies.co.uk/self/life-lab-experiment-mind-2.html" target="_blank">happier in the anticipation</a></strong></span> of a holiday than in remembering the actual experience. It is anticipation that is generating this happiness, this improved feeling of wellbeing.</p> <p><strong>Fear and dread</strong></p> <p>However, fear of the unknown <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/debunking-myths-the-mind/201101/anticipatory-anxiety-the-suffering-and-solutions" target="_blank">can damage</a></strong></span> the anticipatory benefit a forthcoming event may have on our wellbeing. The anticipation of failure when we have placed such great importance on something – like a perfect holiday turning out to be a worst nightmare – can overwhelm the positive impact it may have. But by developing the anticipatory experiences – the planning, knowing where we will eat, how we will travel, the history of the place we will visit – then we can counter any of these concerns. For me at least, the resulting feeling of wellbeing also appears to offset some of the anxieties that jobs and events in the news seem to bring.</p> <p>But this <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/dont-delay/200906/anticipating-ones-troubles-the-elusive-benefits-negative-expectations" target="_blank">anticipation of failure</a></strong></span> is not the same as dreading something. The negative anxiousness that some have over Brexit, for example, is different from an anticipation of it. Planning for Brexit, in whatever format it may come, can actually help offset the downward emotional spiral many of us have found ourselves in recently.</p> <p>Planning for the change, carefully working out what might be, and <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/201101/the-science-success-the-if-then-solution" target="_blank">how we will cope</a></strong></span> develops the anticipation and so can generate some feelings of wellbeing. The trick is to try not to let those who seem intent on bursting your anticipation bubble get their way. The summer theatre tickets are pinned to the cork board, the festival passes are on their way.</p> <p>It should be noted that the benefits of anticipation can be felt without such expense. Plan a night in with a loved one or your family. Order a takeaway and pick a film to watch together. Plan it carefully, anticipate it, savour the excitement and feel the benefits to your wellbeing. Give yourself things to look forward to and the world will seem a brighter place.</p> <p><em>Written by Nigel Holt. Republished with permission of <a href="http://theconversation.com/The%20Conversation" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>The Conversation</strong></span></a>. </em></p>

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How to move forward from grief

<p>Doing the research for my book on coping with grief, I forced myself to read countless articles from one of the field's snappily titled academic journals, <em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.tandfonline.com/loi/udst20" target="_blank">Death Studies</a></strong></span></em>. Hour after hour of reading about bereavement threatened at times to drown me. But, occasionally, I'd stumble upon an article that made all the hanging out with the Grim Reaper worth it.</p> <p>My favourite theoretical paper from <em>Death Studies</em> suggests that a healthy way to approach bereavement is to <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/07481187.2012.738767?src=recsys&amp;journalCode=udst20" target="_blank">oscillate back and forth</a></strong></span>, at times facing up to our grief while at others, avoiding thinking about it by immersing ourselves in distracting activities.</p> <p>Oscillating between approach and withdrawal allows us to recover from grief's hefty emotional toll.</p> <p>Reading this suddenly made sense of my life: how one day I could dive right in, fully experiencing and exploring the pain and the torrid emotions, but on other days, I'd run a mile – sometimes literally – rather than think about it.</p> <p><strong>Take a breather</strong></p> <p>Grieving is so exhausting we cannot keep it up without finding some form of distraction, such as activities or friends, that afford us a little relief. Provided that denial is not extreme or persistent, intermittently burying our heads in the sand is OK.</p> <p>Learning that this process of oscillation is necessary for "optimal adjustment over time" was immensely reassuring for me.</p> <p>"Coping is embedded in everyday life experience, which involves taking time off from grieving, as when watching an engrossing TV programme, reading, talking with friends about some other topic or sleeping," explain the researchers, making their article a rarity in academic journals, not usually known for advocating television-watching.</p> <p>A friend, Claire, another mother who lost a daughter, described this process as like dipping her toe in the water.</p> <p>"Some days I can get my whole foot in, other days it [the pain] is just too much," she explains.</p> <p><strong>Set your egg timer</strong></p> <p>In many ways this applies to everyday existence, too. People suffering from depression often find themselves stuck in an ongoing internal dialogue known as rumination – thoughts churn over and over in their minds as they endeavour to make sense of an earlier conversation or explain frustrating events.</p> <p>When rumination is short-lived it can be useful, helping us to organise our thoughts, work out what went wrong and how we can avoid similar situations. But when we ruminate intensely, covering the same ground over and over, it is detrimental; the human brain also needs rest from this. So, if this sounds like you, put a timer on for a minute, allow yourself that time to mull the matter over and, once the minute's up, find a distracting activity to engage in, something that will occupy your attention fully.</p> <p><strong>Get engaged</strong></p> <p>Whether it's grief, depression or just surviving the trials and tribulations of life, finding activities helps break the grip of negative thoughts, at least temporarily. But if you're struggling to find your way off the couch, take a leaf out of my friend Claire's book.</p> <p>When grief threatens to overwhelm her, she turns her attention to cleaning the teaspoon drawer.</p> <p>"It may sound odd but I tell myself… OK, you've cried now, you need to get up and do something.</p> <p>"I have come to realise that by giving myself permission to be sad and grieve, but also giving myself a reason to take me out of grief – even if all I'm doing is cleaning the crumbs from the teaspoon drawer – I've moved, and the movement switches my emotions from despondency to a purpose again."</p> <p>Approach and withdraw, approach and withdraw...Whatever it is you're dealing with, make sure you give yourself time to recover.</p> <p><em>Written by Lucy Hone. First appeared on <a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Stuff.co.nz</span></strong></a>.</em></p>

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The many reasons why you should look forward to retirement

<p>A few years ago, my mother had a bit of a crisis in the lead-up to her retirement. She struggled with her self-worth, perceived value to society and fears of boredom.</p> <p>She's not alone in her worry. The literature suggests retirees may experience the loss of identity, usefulness, sense of purpose and social relationships around work. For some people, retirement is also associated with reduced income, social exclusion and physical and mental deterioration.</p> <p>Retirement wasn't all doom and gloom for Mum. Within months of retirement, she was busy with piano practice, dance classes, choir rehearsals, painting and reading. Today she wonders how she survived decades of working. She is one of many who reap benefits from retirement.</p> <p>Our recent study, published in the American Journal of Preventive Medicine, followed 27,257 working Australian adults for more than three years. During this time, more than 3000 retired.</p> <p>After controlling for various confounding factors, we found those who retired were more likely to enjoy a healthier lifestyle than their counterparts who remained in the workforce.</p> <p><strong>What else did we find?</strong></p> <p>During the study period, retirees increased their physical activity by 94 minutes per week, compared with 32 minutes among non-retirees. Retirees also became less sedentary, with a reduction of 67 minutes of sitting per day, compared with 27 minutes among non-retirees.</p> <p>Retirees were also more likely to get a healthy amount of sleep. They gained 11 minutes of sleep per night while the non-retirees lost four minutes.</p> <p>Finally, half of the female smokers quit smoking after retirement, a cessation rate twice as high as working female smokers.</p> <p>Overall, our findings weren't a surprise. Several prior studies from North America and Europe found retirement was associated with more physical activity in leisure time. This is likely because retirement reduces common barriers to physical activity, such as lack of time, low energy and competing priorities.</p> <p>The reduction in sedentary time following retirement that we noted could be explained by a reduction in occupational sitting and commuting. Most office jobs involve prolonged sitting. A previous study among office, call centre and customer service employees, for instance, found an average of 77 per cent of their work time was spent in uninterrupted sitting.</p> <p>There is evidence that certain types of employees, such as those in skilled occupations, sit even more than others. This may explain why, in our study, those with higher educational attainment, people who lived in urban areas and those who worked full-time experienced the most reduction in total sitting time.</p> <p>Our finding about sleep duration is in line with a previous French study, which found people had less sleep disturbances after they retired. The mechanisms for the change are unknown, but we hypothesise that it might be due to the removal of work demands and stress, and having more time.</p> <p>Our study is the first to find that female retirees are more likely to quit smoking. Explanations may include reduced occupational stress and disposable income after retirement. Perhaps retirement also prompted smokers to rethink their lifestyles.</p> <p>The behavioural changes we observed among retirees are not trivial; they have profound effects on health and longevity. Positive lifestyle changes following retirement may therefore lead to better health down the track.</p> <p><strong>Not everyone benefits equally</strong></p> <p>Retirement doesn't benefit everyone equally. Our study showed those who retired before 65, those who worked full-time prior to retirement and those who retired voluntarily benefited more from retirement in terms of lifestyle improvement.</p> <p>This is consistent with previous research, which suggests the lifestyle changes associated with retirement transition differed by various factors, such as reasons for retirement, and pre-retirement lifestyles and circumstances.</p> <p>So retirement may not automatically lead to better health, but it presents an opportunity to engineer a healthier lifestyle.</p> <p><strong>Window of opportunity for lifestyle changes</strong></p> <p>We live in a rapidly ageing society. Globally, the number of people aged 60 years and above is expected to increase from 900 million in 2015 to two billion in 2050. In Australia, 15 per cent of the population is aged above 65 years and 40 per cent of people aged 45 years and over are retired. The health and well-being of retirees therefore plays a critical role in the health of our society.</p> <p>Retirement is a unique opportunity to interrupt previous routines and establish new habits. A number of intervention programs have been found to promote healthy lifestyles among adults around retirement age. These use various strategies from professional counselling to in-home and computer-based programs.</p> <p>Other interventions have offered an explicit social role, such as foster grandparents, mentors and volunteer works. These are promising options for health promotion among retirees, though the evidence is not yet robust.</p> <p><strong>What can you do?</strong></p> <p>Here are a few suggestions for those who are retiring soon.</p> <p><strong>1. Embrace retirement.</strong> Rather than thinking about retirement as the end of a working life, consider it as the start of life after work with new freedom, opportunities and identities.</p> <p><strong>2. Prepare for retirement ahead of time.</strong> Plan with key concepts such as health, leisure and enjoyment in mind. Pick up new hobbies, discover new passions, or reconnect with your old interests.</p> <p><strong>3. Find a new role that makes your life meaningful</strong>, whether it is a grandparent, teacher, volunteer or community organiser. Discover new identities within society, make new friends and stay connected.</p> <p>If you're not retiring in the near future, don't wait until retirement to live a healthy, enjoyable and fulfilling life. Eat well, be active, get healthy amounts of sleep and find time in your busy life to savour the moment – even just for a few minutes a day.</p> <p><em>Written by Melody Ding. First appeared on <a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Stuff.co.nz</span></strong></a>. </em></p>

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Aussie man pays it forward by giving away spare cash

<p>It's Christmas time and for most that means receiving presents, but for some, it’s all about giving…</p> <p>While finishing off some last minute Christmas shopping in tropical north Queensland, Drew Brauer decided to “pay it forward,” giving his leftover money to the next person in line, hoping his gesture would create a “holiday chain reaction.”</p> <p>The 28-year-old musician had been shopping for Christmas presents and when he was at the counter, he suddenly felt the urge to do something positive for someone else who could possibly in return, do the same for another.</p> <p>Brauer decided to tell the cashier serving him to use the change to help the lady behind hi who was with her children.</p> <p>“As the cashier was taking my money, I gave him the extra and told him to give it to whoever was next in line,” he said.</p> <p>Although his action of giving away $20 could be seen as somewhat small, it touched not only the recipient of his gift and the staff, but a lot of people on social media, who were inspired to give back in a variety of ways this holiday season.</p> <p>A small holiday miracle with a big and hopefully continuing impact.</p> <p><strong>Related Links:</strong></p> <p><em><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/news/news/2015/12/over60-christmas-tree-gallery-part-5/">The Over60 Christmas tree gallery IV</a></strong></em></p> <p><em><strong> <a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/news/news/2015/12/over60-christmas-tree-gallery-part-6/">The Over60 Christmas tree gallery VI</a></strong></em></p> <p><em><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2015/11/funny-things-grandkids-say-part-4/">The funniest things grandkids kids say</a></strong></em></p>

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