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Is Eurovision finally cool? That depends on your definition – ‘cool theory’ expert explain

<p><em><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/vanessa-brown-142590">Vanessa Brown</a>, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/nottingham-trent-university-1338"><em>Nottingham Trent University</em></a></em></p> <p>With an aesthetic dependent on novelty and spectacle, and a structure that’s both disjointed and drawn-out, Eurovision – for some – cannot fail to fail. In its “failed seriousness” (the phrase writer Susan Sontag <a href="https://www.artandobject.com/news/what-camp-met-tries-define-ineffable">used to describe “camp”</a>), the song contest has all the exaggerated expressiveness that audiences associate with kitsch. So, how could it possibly be cool?</p> <p>I’m interested in viewing the show through the lens of <a href="https://irep.ntu.ac.uk/id/eprint/45239/1/1507168_Brown.pdf">cool theory</a> (which identifies different kinds of cool and breaks those down into core qualities). “Coolness” itself is a <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/14797585.2021.2000837">slippery and controversial term</a> that can mean almost opposing things.</p> <p>For some, “cool” is simply what is fashionable. It can also be a rebellion against what is fashionable. Or an anti-social attitude in which nothing and no one else matters beyond your own stylish persona.</p> <p>Indeed Sam Ryder – the UK’s near-win Eurovision act of 2022 whose high energy performance combined epic, earnest vocals with flowing natural locks, pearly teeth and a bejewelled one-piece – told the Guardian in 2022 that cool is “<a href="https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2022/may/19/cool-is-the-enemy-eurovision-hero-sam-ryder-on-how-he-ditched-his-ego-and-found-his-joy">the enemy</a>”.</p> <p>The profile of Ryder claimed he had no interest in the “detached rock star” exterior. This refers to the sense of unwillingness of “cool” musicians to have their dignity compromised by other people’s rules – an unwillingness to be caught making an effort.</p> <p>But Eurovision is all about effort. A publicised drama of rehearsals and heats, nervous waving and nail biting in the green room – the performers are just generally far too eager. Because whether it’s death metal or pared back electronica, being liked is what these musicians are here for.</p> <figure><iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/RZ0hqX_92zI?wmode=transparent&amp;start=0" width="440" height="260" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe><figcaption><span class="caption">Sam Ryder’s 2022 Eurovision performance.</span></figcaption></figure> <p>On the other hand, it’s hard to imagine the uber-cool 1960s <a href="https://www.loudersound.com/features/krautrock-communism-and-chaos-the-anarchic-story-of-can">krautrock band Can</a> giving two hoots what a jury in Brussels would make of their genre-defining understated rock. Nor the jazz men Miles Davis, Charlie Parker or Lester Young, who set the parameters of cool performance with their sharp, formal attire and <a href="https://www.bloomsbury.com/uk/cool-shades-9780857854643/">refusal to acknowledge the audience</a>.</p> <h2>What kind of ‘cool’ is Eurovision?</h2> <p>Although the performers of Eurovision aren’t detached, the audience can be. Sociologist Janna Michael’s <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1469540513493206?journalCode=joca">2015 study</a> of European urban hipsters revealed that the point of cool is not what is liked, so much as how it is liked. This goes some way to explaining Eurovision’s appeal.</p> <p>Since the 1980s, Eurovision has been presented (certainly in Britain) as something to enjoy in a specifically detached way, through irony. From 1973 to 2008, former commentator Terry Wogan’s flippant narration allowed the audience to collude in a knowing superiority over the event, finding its failed seriousness funny.</p> <p>The cult following of Eurovision among those with a camp sensibility was further endorsed by the appointment of comedian Graham Norton as Wogan’s more obviously camp successor.</p> <p>Do these fans love Eurovision because they enjoy the catharsis of the unabashed release of “bad taste”? Or because they enjoy feeling superior to those people (and nations) who genuinely engage with the drama of the competition? This is a side of <a href="https://www.abebooks.co.uk/9780719066153/Kitsch-Cultural-Politics-Taste-Ruth-0719066158/plp">cool’s ironic detachment that celebrates disdain for others</a>.</p> <p>However, many British fans now speak enthusiastically about the tolerance and openness of Eurovision. As <a href="https://www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/news/showbiz-news/eurovisions-rylan-clark-blown-away-26873868">host Rylan Clark said this year</a>: “Everyone is welcome.” In recent years Eurovision has become more obviously and consciously open to gender diversity and aligned to LGBTQ+ tastes.</p> <p>This was crystallised by bearded Austrian drag queen Conchita’s winning performance in 2014. The <a href="https://metro.co.uk/2023/05/11/eurovision-alesha-dixon-and-hannah-waddingham-turned-into-drag-queens-18770837/">drag makeovers given to all three semi-final hosts this year</a> confirmed the contest’s status as a space which endorses self-creation, individuality and tolerance – all aspects of the cool attitude.</p> <h2>Becoming mainstream</h2> <p>In the past, scholars of the theory of coolness have often focused too heavily on men and masculine, emotionally blank forms of “cool”, with composure and self-possession at their heart. Though this brand of cool is eloquently expressed in jazz, it is also visible in the consummate performer of drag.</p> <p>Thanks to the popularity of shows such as RuPaul’s Drag Race, drag – once enjoyed purely in LGBTQ+ subcultures – is now mainstream entertainment. This is perhaps one reason Eurovision has suddenly become perceived as “cool” <a href="https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2012/06/120607180110.htm">by some</a>. But experiences of exclusion and marginalisation have historically been the conditions in which modern cool has been forged.</p> <p>The very fact that Eurovision has been viewed for decades as a cultural white elephant, a place of almost inconsequential melodrama, gives it the potential to be resurrected as cool.</p> <p>Liking Eurovision was once an anti-mainstream position. This gave the show the potential to become “cool”, through both its exaggeration of qualities seen as undesirable by dominant social tastes, and its willingness to push the boundaries of convention, despite the detractors.</p> <p>The concept of cool is complicated – and it is changing. Indeed, <a href="https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2012/06/120607180110.htm">some recent studies</a> have shown that perception of coolness is connected to activism and pro-social traits. Eurovision may seem like sparkly fluff, but perhaps now more than ever, it is also a vehicle for promoting greater acceptance of other ways of life. It’s all cool.<!-- Below is The Conversation's page counter tag. 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Words you need to know before going on a cruise

<p>If you are about to go on your first cruise, there will be some words that you may have not come across before.</p> <p>To make your holiday as seamless as possible, read up on these definitions.  </p> <p><strong>1. Aft and forward:</strong> The forward is the front of the ship and the aft is the back of the ship. These are important to remember as you will receive directions with these words.</p> <p><strong>2. Bow and stern:</strong> The bow is the front of the ship and the stern is the rear.</p> <p><strong>3. Bridge:</strong> The bridge is the location of the ship where the Captain and senior officers navigate the ship (the control centre).</p> <p><strong>4. Galley:</strong> The galley is a cruise ship’s kitchen. Luxurious and modern cruise ships have multiple restaurants and galleys.</p> <p><strong>5. Gangway:</strong> This is the ramp that allows you to get on and off the cruise ship.</p> <p><strong>6. Lido deck:</strong> This is an Italian word for a public outdoor swimming pool complex. On a cruise, this term refers to the top deck where there is usually a pool, hot tub and open-air bar.</p> <p><strong>7. M.S:</strong> This abbreviation is popular but not everyone knows what it stands for. M.S stands for motor ship.</p> <p><strong>8. Muster station:</strong> This location is important as it is the place where everyone would gather in the event of an emergency and it is where lifeboats would be lowered. On your first day of the cruise you will visit the muster station to become familiar with the location.</p> <p><strong>8. OBC:</strong> These letters can mean different things in various industries but on a cruise ship, it stands for onboard credit.</p> <p><strong>9. Per diem:</strong> This Latin phrase means per day.</p> <p><strong>10. Port/Starboard:</strong> These are the nautical terms for the left and right sides of the ship when you are facing the bow. The left side is the port and the right side is the starboard.</p> <p><strong>11. Purser:</strong> A purser is the ship’s officer in charge of accounts, money, transactions and tickets. If you have any questions regarding your bill, go to the purser’s desk.</p> <p>What are other important cruise words? Let us know in the comments below. </p> <p><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p>

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7 foods to definitely avoid before catching a flight

<p>If you want to be comfortable in the air, avoid chowing down on these foods before you board.</p> <p><strong>1. Burger and fries</strong></p> <p>It can be tempting to grab a last minute Big Mac meal at the airport, but you really should resist. Your body struggles to digest large amounts of saturated fat and salt even at ground level and this becomes much more difficult at 35,000 feet, meaning you’re in for an uncomfortable trip. Saturated fat can also constrict blood flow and increase your risk of deep vein thrombosis (DVT).</p> <p><strong>2. Carbonated beverages</strong></p> <p>Don’t even think about washing that burger down with a nice cold Coke. The bubbles in carbonated beverages, like soft drink, sparkling water or beer, can cause bloating. The air pressure will change during a flight, making these little pockets of air swell and become even more uncomfortable than they are on the ground.</p> <p><strong>3. Garlic</strong></p> <p>This one is more for those in the cabin with you. Eating a meal rich in garlic will give you more than just bad breath. As garlic is absorbed into the blood stream it causes particularly bad body odor that will start to seep from your pores, which will make sitting next to you seriously unpleasant.</p> <p><strong>4. Alcohol</strong></p> <p>While not strictly a food, alcohol should definitely be off your pre-fly snack list. The air inside plane cabins is very dry and causes you to dehydrate. Add to that the dehydrating properties of alcohol and you’re in for one nasty hangover. One drink can help you nod off more quickly, but studies show that too much alcohol actually makes for a disrupted, poor quality sleep.</p> <p><strong>5. Spicy foods</strong></p> <p>Leaving aside the potential for stomach upsets, foods with a lot of chilli in them can play havoc with your body temperature. You don’t want to spend a 14-hour flight boiling hot and running with sweat.</p> <p><strong>6. Gaseous vegetables</strong></p> <p>That means everything from the traditional culprit of beans to cruciferous vegetables like broccoli, cabbage, cauliflower, kale or Brussels sprouts. They will cause gas to build up in your stomach resulting in painful bloating or embarrassing flatulence. Approach with caution.</p> <p><strong>7. Everything</strong></p> <p>Some studies suggest that it is actually better for your body to fast completely for up to 16 hours before a flight. It has been shown to reduce the effects of jet lag by using hunger to manipulate your internal body clock. Even if you don’t want to go to this extreme, it’s a good idea to eat lightly in the hours before a flight to ensure you’ll be as comfortable as possible. And so will your seat mates.</p> <p>Have you ever found yourself in strife on a flight after indulging in a particular food? What do you like to eat before a flight? Let us know in the comments.</p> <p><em>Image: Getty</em></p>

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“Definitely a first”: Duchess Kate leaves new parents stunned in surprise video call

<div class="post_body_wrapper"> <div class="post_body"> <div class="body_text "> <p>Just several hours after welcoming their baby Max into the world, a couple in Britain received a surprise video call from an unexpected royal well-wisher.</p> <p>The Duchess of Cambridge dialled into the Kingston Hospital room of Rebecca Attwood to congratulate the new mum and chatted with her and her partner John Gill over their newborn Max.</p> <p>“Hello! Very nice to meet you,” Kate said. “This is definitely a first, I think. Huge congratulations.”</p> <p>The newborn baby arrived at 10 pm the night before and was sleeping in the crib next to the couple.</p> <p>“My goodness, you must be exhausted,” Kate smiled.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/B_s0yq2lB7d/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/B_s0yq2lB7d/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">🏥 The Duchess of Cambridge has spoken with midwives, health visitors, parents and leading sector experts about the challenges and impact that COVID-19 is having on new and expectant mothers and their families. Click the link in our bio or swipe up in our Story to watch the full film 🎞️ of The Duchess’s conversations, held ahead of the UK’s Maternal Mental Health Awareness Week — which aims to create wider awareness of maternal mental health, and signposts support for parents #MaternalMHmatters</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/kensingtonroyal/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank"> Kensington Palace</a> (@kensingtonroyal) on May 2, 2020 at 2:30pm PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>The new parents were thrilled that Duchess Kate checked in on them.</p> <p>“Having a surprise conversation with the Duchess of Cambridge after two hours' sleep was particularly surreal,” Ms Atwood told The Mail.</p> <p>“The Duchess asked us about having a baby at such an unusual time, and our experience on the maternity ward was that all the midwives made it as normal as possible – apart from the masks.”</p> <p>The Duchess also asked how staff are doing in light of COVID-19 and heard about an increase in the rates of anxiety among new mums.</p> <p>“There are women that have no mental health history that are becoming incredibly anxious because of the situation currently,” a midwife told the Duchess.</p> </div> </div> </div>

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Woman's hilarious fashion fail goes viral: “Definitely something I would do!”

<p>A blogger and mum-to-be has gone viral for her all-too-relatable mistake.</p> <p>Lori Farrell, who is currently expecting a baby girl, shared her fashion fail story on Friday in a self-deprecating Facebook post. Included was a picture of her wearing what appeared to be a striped skirt.</p> <p>She wrote in the caption, "If you feel like a failure today, just know that I wore a car seat cover a friend gave me because I thought it was a skirt."</p> <p><iframe src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Flori.crabtree%2Fposts%2F10100779971009176&amp;width=500" width="500" height="639" style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" allow="encrypted-media"></iframe></p> <p>The post has now gone viral, with more than 36,000 comments and 64,000 shares at the time of writing.</p> <p>Farrell revealed to <em><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.mother.ly/news/viral-mom-wears-car-seat-cover-as-skirt" target="_blank">Motherly</a></em> how she mistook the cover for women's attire. </p> <p>"A friend of mine had given me a huge lot of baby stuff, from clothes to baby carriers to a rocker and blankets, and when I pulled it out I was not sure what it was," said Farrell, who told <em><a href="https://www.huffingtonpost.com.au/entry/car-seat-cover-skirt-mom_l_5c6aca2be4b033a799453532?ec_carp=1966303021225470550">HuffPost</a> </em>that she is expecting her first child in June.</p> <p>"I debated it but washed it anyway then decided because of the way it pulled on the side it must be a maternity skirt."</p> <p>She put on the ambiguous item before she headed to work. At the office, she grew curious and searched the brand, only to find out that the item in question was in fact a<span> "</span>Mom Boss 4-in-1 Multi-Use Cover", which is to be used to cover car seats and shopping carts.</p> <p>Commenters laughed along with Farrell, with some reassuring her that she was working the 'skirt' just fine.</p> <p>"If it makes you feel better, I INTENTIONALLY did this a few times! I think it looks cute!" one wrote.</p> <p>"This is awesome and you look great in it anyhow," another added.</p> <p>"Definitely something I would do!” someone else chimed in.</p> <p>The seat cover brand, Itzy Ritzy, also applauded Farrell’s post as "the best thing we’ve seen maybe ever".</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/Bt6s50oAwvd/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Bt6s50oAwvd/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" target="_blank">Tag a friend this would totally happen to 🙈 Thanks for the best thing we’ve seen maybe ever, @lcrab1! #momboss</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/itzyritzy/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" target="_blank"> Itzy Ritzy 🍋 Chicago IL</a> (@itzyritzy) on Feb 15, 2019 at 1:17pm PST</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Have you ever made a fashion mishap like this? Share with us in the comments.</p>

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How our definition of beauty has changed in the last century

<p><em><strong>Cherine Fahd is a Senior Lecturer of Photography at the School of Design at the University of Technology, Sydney.</strong></em></p> <p>In the early 1900s, international tobacco companies produced cigarette cards both to strengthen soft cigarette packets and to promote their brand. The cards often pictured soldiers, planes, boats or sporting heroes, and smokers were encouraged to collect whole sets.</p> <p>In 1928 Major Drapkin and Co., a tobacco company once based in London, produced a uniquely different set from those described above. A series of 36 exquisitely printed black and white photographs called “National Types of Beauty” portrayed women of various races, who according to the British colonial eye exemplified the beauty of a given country.</p> <p>On the front of each card, a black and white portrait depicted the chosen “beauty”. On the back she was classified according to facial appearance, colouring, class, level of education, and nationality. For example, the Greek beauty was described thus:</p> <p><em>This happy, pleasing picture represents Grecian beauty of the present day. One characteristic is that the nose appears to continue straight down from the forehead.</em></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="500" height="483" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7268577/1_500x483.jpg" alt="1 (89)"/></p> <p>And the Egyptian woman’s photo was labelled:</p> <p><em>This picture typifies the beautiful Egyptian of the better classes; dainty and graceful, with dark hair, delicate features, brown eyes and an olive complexion.</em></p> <p>These descriptions portrayed and classified the women as “exotic” creatures. They existed merely as an organised racial specimen described and depicted according to colonial desires of the era.</p> <p>For instance, the card for Egypt presents a woman who fulfils an exotic and Orientalist fantasy of the Middle East, wearing a harem-style veil that is less fearsome burqa and more Cleveland Street belly dancer. Turkey is equally exotic in the writer and photographer’s imagination:</p> <p><em>One of the most beautiful women in Turkey, Khadidje Hanoum, daughter of a government official, is said to possess every Oriental charm.</em></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="500" height="464" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7268576/2_500x464.jpg" alt="2 (64)"/></p> <p>Persia is represented by a bejewelled and apparently mystical young woman wearing a turban:</p> <p><em>Particularly striking and picturesque is the type of beauty perhaps most characteristic of Persia. In the portrait, the dark arresting eyes are suggestive of the mystic.</em></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="500" height="465" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7268575/3_500x465.jpg" alt="3 (26)"/></p> <p>Another noticeable characteristic of the set is that all the women are “white” or at least fair-skinned. The Australian beauty is represented by the British International Pictures film star, Miss Eve Gray; the name of the South African beauty is ironically Miss Dorothy Black – “black” only in name and not in skin colour.</p> <p>Other than South Africa and Egypt, no other African nations are featured. Whilst India is noticeably omitted from Asia.</p> <p>Whilst appealing as portraits, “National Types of Beauty” highlights photography’s murky history and its complicity in colonial and misogynist agendas. This agenda sought, first and foremost, the domination of people and places that were classified as less civilised and of lesser status. These photographs demonstrate a history of imaging that continues today to make women visibly consumable.</p> <p><strong>Classifying beauty today</strong></p> <p>Paper shortages during the onset of the second world war put an end to the production of cigarette cards in 1940. Yet today women are still classified by their appearance and, thanks to visual media of all kinds, this is done with speed and ease. While cigarette packets are no longer the place to picture Western standards of beauty (they now specialise in picturing the macabre), contemporary beauty pageants are.</p> <p>Television spectaculars like Miss World and Miss Universe continue to classify beauty in terms of race and through the collecting of data that suggest it is scientifically measurable.</p> <p>While the official websites of <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.missworld.com/#/" target="_blank">Miss World</a></strong></span> and <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.missuniverse.com/contestants" target="_blank">Miss Universe</a></strong></span> publish only the age and height of the finalists, their overall body measurements (weight, bra size etc) are readily available on <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://celebrityinside.com/category/body-measurements/model/" target="_blank">celebrity websites</a></strong></span>.</p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.missuniverse.com/" target="_blank">Demi-Leigh Nel-Peters</a></strong></span> from South Africa won last year’s Miss Universe 2017 crown. Nel-Peters, like her Australian counterpart Olivia Rogers among others, presents as a reflection of the prevailing beauty ideals of the West: petite noses, thick lips, “healthy breasts” and slender physiques with long legs.</p> <p>Race comes humorously into question when the Miss Universe contestants parade their national costume. This exercise exaggerates already outdated stereotypes that hinge on the colonial parameters visualised in the 1928 cigarette cards. For example, it is uncanny how “oriental” the national costume is for <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DPGmcBBX0AEJm_q.jpg" target="_blank">Miss Turkey 2017</a></strong></span>.</p> <p>Other cringe-worthy costumes ensured Miss Egypt was Cleopatra, Miss Romania was Dracula’s wife and Miss Australia was the Opera House. Furthermore, many of the women presented themselves with arms outspread like exotic, parading peacocks.</p> <p>Still, it seems not only feminist spectators are questioning this kind of parade and its methods of classifying beauty but the contestants themselves. Recently <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.abc.net.au/news/2017-11-01/miss-peru-pageant-turns-into-violence-against-women-protest/9109566" target="_blank">at the Miss Peru 2017 competition</a></strong></span>, rather than give their body measurements, the women presented the disturbing statistics of violence against women and girls in their country.</p> <p>It was rather powerful to watch as each woman marched to the microphone, in dangerously high heels, to announce their message in aid of a cause.</p> <p><em>Written by Cherine Fahd. Republished with permission of <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/cherine-fahd-344688" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The Conversation</span></strong></a>. Images: Author provided.<img width="1" height="1" src="https://counter.theconversation.com/content/88154/count.gif?distributor=republish-lightbox-advanced" alt="The Conversation"/> </em></p>

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10 Aussie destinations you haven't visited but definitely should

<p>Tick some more unusual Australian destinations off your bucket list.</p> <p><strong>1. Litchfield National Park, NT</strong></p> <p>Nearby Kakadu gets all the press, but Litchfield National Park is one of the Northern Territory’s true hidden gems. Swim in hidden pools, soak under crashing waterfalls, walk through giant termite mounds, climb misty mountains and discover historic pioneer ruins.</p> <p><strong>2. Peninsula Hot Springs, VIC</strong></p> <p>Soak away your troubles in one of Australia’s best natural hot springs on Victoria’s Mornington Peninsula. There are more than 20 individual baths filled with the mineral rich waters, surrounded by forest or rolling fields.</p> <p><strong>3. Wallaman Falls, QLD</strong></p> <p>Australia’s highest permanent single drop waterfall is a sight to behold. Hidden away in the lush Wet Tropics of northern Queensland tumbles over a cliff and falls 268 metres</p> <p><strong>4. Murphy’s Haystacks, SA</strong></p> <p>Some people call Murphy’s Haystacks, in the remote Nullarbor region, Australia’s Stonehenge. These giant wave-like outcrops of ochre granite look like they were placed there by an ancient civilisation, but are actually formed by wind and water over millions of years.</p> <p><strong>5. Willandra Lakes, NSW</strong></p> <p>No, you haven’t arrived on Mars. The Willandra Lakes in the far west of New South Wales look uncannily like the desolate dry landscapes of the red planet. The oldest known humans on the continent, the Mungo people, were also found in this remarkable region.</p> <p><strong>6. Lake Gairdner, SA</strong></p> <p>The third largest salt lake in Australia stretches for more than 160 kilometres. You can walk out onto the hard, brilliantly white surface and see where the lake meets the horizon and bleeds into the sky.</p> <p><strong>7. Totem Pole, TAS</strong></p> <p>Every serious rock climber in the world has heard of ‘the Tote’, a gravity-defying needle-thin column of rock rising 65 metres from the Southern Ocean. If you don’t feel brave (or foolish) enough to climb it, you can take a boat to see it from the base.</p> <p><strong>9. Noosa Everglades, QLD</strong></p> <p>One of only two everglades systems on the planet (the other is in Florida), the Noosa Everglades are a system of mirror-like waterways that wind through pristine, untouched wetlands. Explore by kayak or on foot.</p> <p><strong>9. Port Gregory Pink Lake, WA</strong></p> <p>It’s hard to imagine that nature can produce such a technicolour hue, but Western Australia’s incredible pink lakes are the real deal. This lake at the mouth of the Hutt River on the Mid West Coast ranges from red to lilac to bubblegum, thanks to algae and bacteria in the water.</p> <p><strong>10. Admiral’s Arch, SA</strong></p> <p>Think of the arch as a natural peephole out to the raging Southern Ocean. Sitting on the southwest corner of Kangaroo Island, the arch is covered in stalactites and home to a colony of New Zealand fur seals, who can frequently be seen frolicking in the waves.</p> <p>Have you been to these destinations?</p>

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5 psychological phenomena you’ve never heard of but definitely experienced

<p>You know when you have some kind of mind-blowing moment of a false memory that you share with someone else, or you start to see your new car has been bought by everyone else, too? Well, there’s a term for both of those phenomena.</p> <p><strong>1. The Baader-Meinhof phenomenon</strong></p> <p>This one is also known as a “frequency illusion”, and is used to describe the illusion in which a word or object that has suddenly come to your attention is seemingly everywhere. Did you learn a new word today? You’ll be reading and hearing it everywhere. Did you buy a new car? Every other person on the road owns the same one in the same colour. This is explained by the simple fact that you are temporarily focused on this word or object, so it no longer escapes your notice.</p> <p><strong>2. Jamais vu</strong></p> <p>This French term is the opposite of the more commonly known “déjà vu”, and translates to “never seen”. Basically, this phenomenon is when you are in a situation you recognise in some way, but that still seems completely unfamiliar. The best way to experience this for yourself is to write or say aloud the same word repeatedly – you will soon begin to question the reality of the word itself, despite knowing for certain that it is real.</p> <p><strong>3. The Mandela Effect</strong></p> <p>Have you ever remembered something that wasn’t a real memory? That’s understandable – we can often confuse dreams or fictional stories with real memories. What is unusual is when multiple people falsely recall the same thing. These “collective false memories” range from misremembering the title of the popular picture book series <em>The Berenstain Bears </em>(people will swear that it was BerenstEin), to the believing that Nelson Mandela died in prison in the 1980s (he died at home in 2013).</p> <p><strong>4. Out-group homogeneity effect</strong></p> <p>This is the perception of a person or group of people that “out-group” members are more similar to one another in comparison to those within the “in-group”. Basically, this is a way of explaining why we often view people from different sub-cultures as having a lot of similarities, and why many people view people from different ethnic backgrounds as being alike to their fellows, while their own groups are perceived as diverse.</p> <p><strong>5. The rule of 6 handshakes</strong></p> <p>Sometimes referred to as “six degrees of separation” or “six degrees of Kevin Bacon”, this is the idea that every living thing in the world (though the more popular variation of this phenomenon simply concerns people) are connected to each other through six or fewer degrees of separation. The idea was popularised by the 1990 play (and 1993 film) by John Guare, <em>Six Degrees of Seperatio</em>n.</p> <p>How many of these phenomena have you experienced before? Let us know in the comments below.</p>

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The 6 styles of love explained

<p><strong><em>Rachel Grieve is a senior lecturer in psychology at the University of Tasmania with a PhD in cognitive psychology from the Queensland University of Technology.</em></strong></p> <p>Love is a complex and powerful force, one that plays out in a number of emotional, cognitive and social ways.</p> <p>When we love a person, we feel emotional arousal in their presence. We will also have a set of thoughts (or cognitions) about that person, and our previous experiences can shape our ideas about what we expect in our relationships. For example, if you believe in love at first sight, then you are <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF00998862" target="_blank">more likely to experience it</a></strong></span>.</p> <p>But we use love in many different contexts. You might say that you love your partner, or your family, or your best friend, your job or even your car. Clearly, you’re using the term in different ways that highlight the various dimensions of love.</p> <p>The ancient Greeks described <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Greek_words_for_love" target="_blank">several different types of love</a></span></strong>. Following the Greeks, the sociologist and activist John Alan Lee suggested that there are <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="https://books.google.com.au/books/about/Colours_of_love.html?id=5g4RAQAAIAAJ" target="_blank">six broad styles of love</a></span></strong>.</p> <p>It is good to keep in mind that although these love styles can be thought of as “types”, we are not necessarily <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/014616727700300204" target="_blank">locked into only one</a></span></strong>. We might have a predominant love style, but we will also have some elements of the other styles.</p> <p>Similarly, our love style might change over time based on our experiences and interactions with our partners.</p> <p><strong>1. Eros</strong></p> <p>This style is typically experienced as a romantic, fairytale-type love. Physical beauty is important to this love style. Attraction is intense and immediate (“head over heels”), and the Eros lover feels an <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/0265407510389126" target="_blank">urgent drive</a></strong></span> to deepen the relationship emotionally and physically.</p> <p>Because these individuals love the feeling of being in love, they tend to be serial monogamists, staying in a relationship as long as it feels fresh and compelling, then moving on so they can experience those same feelings again with someone new.</p> <p><strong>2. Storge</strong></p> <p>Storgic types tend to be stable and committed in their relationships. They <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/01463370601036515" target="_blank">value</a></strong></span> companionship, psychological closeness and trust. For these individuals, love relationships can sometimes grow out of friendships, so that love sneaks up on the pair. This love style is enduring, and these individuals are in it for the long haul.</p> <p><strong>3. Ludus</strong></p> <p>People with a ludic style view love as a game that they are playing to win. Often this can be a multiplayer game! Ludic individuals are comfortable with deception and manipulation in their relationships. They tend to be low on commitment and are often emotionally distant.</p> <p>Because ludic individuals are more focused on the short term, they tend to place greater importance on the physical characteristics of their mate than do the other love styles. They are also <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224490009552023" target="_blank">more likely</a></strong></span> to engage in sexual hookups.</p> <p><strong>4. Pragma</strong></p> <p>Practicality rules for this type. Logic is used to determine compatibility and future prospects. This doesn’t mean that these individuals use an emotionless, Spock-like approach to their relationships, rather they a place a <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/01463370601036515" target="_blank">high importance on whether a potential mate</a></strong></span> will be suited to meeting their needs.</p> <p>These needs might be social or financial. Pragmatists might wonder if their prospective partner would be accepted by family and friends, or whether they’re good with money. The might also evaluate their emotional assets; for example, does a would-be partner have the skills to be calm in times of stress?</p> <p><strong>5. Mania</strong></p> <p>This refers to an obsessive love style. These individuals tend to be emotionally dependent and to need fairly constant reassurance in a relationship. Someone with this love style is likely to experience peaks of joy and troughs of sorrow, depending on the extent to which their partner can accommodate their needs.</p> <p>Because of the possessiveness associated with this style, <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0165032714007277" target="_blank">jealousy can be an issue</a></span></strong> for these individuals.</p> <p><strong>6. Agape</strong></p> <p>Agapic individuals are giving and caring, and are centred on their partner’s needs. This is largely a selfless and unconditional love. An agapic partner will love you just as you are. But they will also be particularly appreciative of acts of care and kindness <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/01463370601036515" target="_blank">that they receive back</a></strong></span> from their partner.</p> <p>Perhaps because these individuals are so accepting, they tend to have <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/pere.12112/pdf" target="_blank">very high levels</a></span></strong> of relationship satisfaction.</p> <p><strong>The truth about love</strong></p> <p>The kind of love that we feel towards our significant other is <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.elainehatfield.com/uploads/3/2/2/5/3225640/34._hatfield_1985.pdf" target="_blank">likely to change over time</a></strong></span>. At the start of a relationship we feel anticipation about seeing our partner and we are excited every time we see them.</p> <p>These are the heady feelings we associate with being in love, and are very characteristic of romantic love. But in almost all relationships, these intense emotions are not sustainable, and will fade over months to a couple of years.</p> <p>Those passionate feelings will then be replaced by deeper connection as the people in the partnership grow to truly know each other. This stage is “companionate love” and can last a lifetime (or beyond).</p> <p>Unfortunately, many people do not realise that the evolution from romantic love to companionate love is a normal – and indeed healthy – transition. Because the ardent feelings of adoration subside, sometimes people will think that they have fallen out of love, when in fact the intimacy and closeness of companionate love can be extremely powerful, if only given the chance.</p> <p>This is a shame, as these individuals might never experience the <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.ingentaconnect.com/content/sbp/sbp/2004/00000032/00000002/art00007" target="_blank">life satisfaction that is associated with companionate love</a></strong></span>.</p> <p><em>Written by Rachel Grieve. First appeared on<a href="https://theconversation.com/why-we-become-more-forgetful-with-age-and-what-you-can-do-about-it-70102" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong> The Conversation</strong></span></a>. </em></p> <p><img width="1" height="1" src="https://counter.theconversation.edu.au/content/72664/count.gif?distributor=republish-lightbox-advanced" alt="The Conversation"/></p>

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Your definition of happiness changes with age

<p>What makes you happy at one stage of your life probably won’t make you happy the older you become.</p> <p>Social psychologists Jennifer Aaker, Cassie Mogilner and Sep Kamvar analysed 12 million blog posts (the digital diaries of our time, as they call it) to see how people described their happiness and what makes them happy. They found that the definition of happiness changes over the course of our lives, around every five to 10 years. In fact, the psychologists identified five stages of happiness: discover, pursuit, balance, meaning and savouring. Watch the video above to see Aaker explain it herself, and tell us, do you agree with her theory?</p> <p><em>Video source: <a href="http://futureofstorytelling.org/video/jennifer-aaker-the-happiness-narrative/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Future of StoryTelling</span></a></em></p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/health/mind/2015/11/incredible-benefits-of-mindfulness/"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>7 incredible benefits of mindfulness backed by science</em></span></strong></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/health/mind/2015/11/ageing-changes-happiness/"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>How happiness changes with age</em></span></strong></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/health/mind/2015/11/kindness-leads-to-happiness-research/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>People are happier when they do good</strong></em></span></a></p>

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