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Man makes “cuddle blanket” to hug his gran amid coronavirus pandemic

<p><span>A man in the United Kingdom has shown he will go to great lengths to make sure his loved ones still get their daily dose of happiness despite the strict social distancing measures in place due to coronavirus.</span><br /><br /><span>29-year-old plasterer Antony Cauvin’s came up with an innovative method to maintain social distancing rules by placing a humble shower curtain between him and his granny.</span><br /><br /><span>Antony altered the curtain to have arms so he could still hug his nana without touching her.</span><br /><br /><span>He dubbed his ingenious invention as the “Cuddle Curtain” with his wife posting a video of it in use on Facebook on the weekend.</span><br /><br /><span>Since then the clip has gone viral, with over 68,000 likes.</span><br /><iframe src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/video.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fmiriam.butt.92%2Fvideos%2F10163787073690551%2F&amp;show_text=0&amp;width=267" width="267" height="476" style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" allowfullscreen="true"></iframe> <br /><span>Cauvin explained to Sky News that he first tested the idea with his parents.</span><br /><br /><span>“We giggled about it but thought, “this could actually work”,” he said.</span><br /><br /><span>In the touching video, Cauvin gets to hug his gran Lily for the first time in months.</span><br /><br /><span>Cauvin disinfects the sleeves after every hug and requires that he and his grandma wear gloves for hygiene purposes.</span><br /><br /><span>“We never touched any part of Grannan at all – I’m a believer in social distancing and don’t want to put anyone at risk,” he said.</span><br /><br /><span>“When you’ve known someone all your life, to be able to hug that person again… it brought a tear to everybody’s eye.”</span></p>

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Leaving Neverland doco: Why Michael Jackson’s son Blanket has stopped talking

<div> <div class="replay"> <div class="reply_body body linkify"> <div class="reply_body"> <div class="body_text "> <p>Michael Jackson’s son has stopped talking after <em>Leaving Neverland</em>, the damning documentary on his father, was released last week.</p> <p>According to close family members, the 17-year-old Blanket Jackson, also known as Biji, has stopped speaking following the airing of the HBO documentary, which resurfaced allegations of child sex abuse against his father Michael.</p> <p>The four-hour doco came 10 years after the pop star's death in 2009.</p> <p>“Biji is the most talkative kid at school and he isn’t talking anymore,” Michael’s 45-year-old nephew Taj told the Victoria Derbyshire TV show on Friday. “We’re all worried about him.”</p> <p>Blanket’s godfather Mark Lester also voiced his concern for Michael’s youngest son. </p> <p>“They try and shield him from the outside world, which may be not such a good thing,” Lester told <a href="https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/8595324/michael-jackson-blanket-stopped-talking-leaving-neverland-child-abuse-allegations/"><em>The Su</em><em>n</em></a>. “Shield them from certain things, certainly, but to keep him isolated is not right.”</p> <p>Lester said Blanket’s life today is tightly controlled.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px; display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7824671/mjchildren.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/d0f4b87242c24f148410c8cdfa7fd5c4" /></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><em>Michael Jackson's children, Prince Jackson, Blanket Jackson and Paris Jackson in October 2011</em></p> <p>“The Jackson estate don’t want him to make money for anyone else. He’s an heir to a billion-dollar trust.</p> <p>“They have trust issues, especially with people who may think they want to take advantage of either Blanket, [Blanket’s older siblings] Paris or Prince for their own financial gain.</p> <p>“When you get super-wealthy you become very guarded and very mistrustful of a lot of people. It’s just sad that this money issue would get in the way of them actually being able to have good friends.”</p> <p>Meanwhile, Blanket’s 20-year-old sister Paris has spoken up in the wake of the documentary. </p> <p>“Injustices are frustrating and it’s easy to get worked up,” she wrote on Twitter. </p> <p>“But reacting with a calm mind usually is more logical than acting out of rage.”</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"> <p dir="ltr">i didn’t mean to offend by expressing that titties should be calm, i know injustices are frustrating and it’s easy to get worked up. but reacting with a calm mind usually is more logical than acting out of rage and also.... it feels better to mellow out.</p> — Paris-Michael K. J. (@ParisJackson) <a href="https://twitter.com/ParisJackson/status/1103557775274041344?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 7, 2019</a></blockquote> <p><em>Leaving Neverland</em>, which was released for wide public viewing earlier this month, told the experiences of two men, Wade Robson and James Safechuck, who allege that the pop star sexually abused them when they were children.</p> <p>Last month, the Jackson estate filed a lawsuit against HBO for “[disparaging] Jackson’s legacy by airing a one-sided hit piece against Jackson based exclusively on the false accounts of two proven, serial perjurers.” </p> <p>The lawsuit could see the Jackson estate awarded with US$100 million.</p> <iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/R_Ze8LjzV7Q" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen=""></iframe> <p>Many of Michael’s family members have spoken up in defence of the late singer. In a February interview with <a href="https://www.cbsnews.com/video/michael-jacksons-family-on-leaving-neverland-accusers-its-all-about-money/"><em>CBS</em> </a><em><a href="https://www.cbsnews.com/video/michael-jacksons-family-on-leaving-neverland-accusers-its-all-about-money/">This Morning</a>,</em><span> </span>Taj said he did not find Michael’s “sleepovers” with young boys “odd”.</p> <p>“To the outside world, yes, I think it can be odd,” said Taj. </p> <p>“I mean, I’m not oblivious to what it sounds like. But when you’re actually there in that atmosphere and you’re around it, and you’re watching movies with his kids, it’s very innocent.”</p> <p>Michael’s brother Marlon also refuted the claims made in the doco. </p> <p>“I want them to understand and know that this documentary is not telling truth,” he said. “There has not been not one piece of evidence that corroborates their story.”</p> <p>Have you watched the<span> </span><em>Leaving Neverland</em><span> </span>documentary? Share your thoughts with us in the comments below.</p> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div>

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The therapeutic benefits of heavy blankets

<p>Have you ever curled up with a thick, heavy blanket and felt a near-instant sense of relief? Perhaps it's been your duvet you've hidden under after a particularly bad day at work, or a quilt you pull out of the closet specifically for wrapping around you during weekend hot chocolates during winter. </p> <p>There's some research that explains why heavy or even weighted blankets are beneficial for sleep and overall mental health. They're an often-used tool by occupational therapists – especially with children – but can be incorporated in anybody's home to help you relax and encourage feelings of calm.</p> <p><strong>Deep pressure touch stimulation</strong></p> <p>The science behind why heavy blankets work is called deep pressure touch stimulation (DPTS). While from a clinical occupational therapy standpoint it has been found that light touch on a person's body can increase tension or alert the system, the opposite can be said for heavy touch. This therapy involves firm pressure, holding, stoking, petting (e.g. of animals).</p> <p>Most of us would have actually received a form of DPTS when we were babies by way of swaddling, which is the practice of wrapping a child tightly in a blanket to restrict movement. This, in turn, can make a baby feel safe and secure, and may help them sleep.</p> <p>The pressure from DPTS works to relax your nervous system, hence being useful for sleep and those that struggling with the symptoms of anxiety at night. Pressure on the body helps generate serotonin which then converts to melatonin, the chemical that tells your system it’s time to rest.</p> <p><strong>Heavy vs. weighted blankets</strong></p> <p>There is actually a difference between a heavy blanket and a weighted blanket, the latter which is usually used in a clinical setting.</p> <p>A heavy blanket may simply be one with a high down or wool content. Think one of those very expensive down duvet inners (they run up to about $900) or, conversely, one of your grandma's ultra-thick war-era woollen blankets.</p> <p>A weighted blanket, available online or <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=svqiyDlJmus&amp;feature=youtu.be" target="_blank">you can sew your own</a></strong></span>, has pellets sewn into quilted pockets to evenly distribute weight. To receive the benefits of a heavy or weighted blanket, it's suggested you seek something that weighs between six and 12 kilograms – generally you want it to be about 10 per cent of your body weight.</p> <p><strong>Are weighted blankets really suitable for children?</strong></p> <p>A review of research by the <em>Journal of Child and Adolescent Psychopharmacology</em> found that weighted blankets can benefit children with behavioural or sensory processing disorders. Children with ADHD and disorders on the autism spectrum have seen detectable levels of calming during DPTS.</p> <p>If you have a neurotypical child, however, they may still benefit. The reports are primarily anecdotal (rather than scientific) but heavy blankets weighing 5-10 per cent of a child's body weight can provide better sleep.</p> <p><strong>Is it safe?</strong></p> <p>According to a paper published in Occupational Therapy and Mental Health, a 12-kilogram blanket when used lying down is safe by all vital sign metrics. This study also found that electrodermal activity (the variation of electrical characteristics on the skin) is reduced by 33 per cent, while 63 percent of users report lower anxiety levels and 78 per cent preferred the blanket as a "calming modality". Other studies have found similar results.</p> <p><strong>Do they really work?</strong></p> <p>However, weighted blankets can't be considered revolutionary from insomnia and anxiety sufferers. The company Gravity, which raised US$3 million <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1620645203/gravity-the-weighted-blanket-for-sleep-stress-and/description" target="_blank">on its Kickstarter page</a></strong></span> to manufacture its weighted blanket, got into hot water last week after making statements about the benefits of the product that fell out of line with health claims policies.</p> <p>The website, <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.statnews.com/2017/05/12/gravity-blanket-anxiety-fda/" target="_blank">which has since been changed</a></strong></span>, claimed "the science behind Gravity reveals that it can be used to treat a variety of ailments, including insomnia, post-traumatic stress disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, as well as circumstantial stress and prolonged anxiety." </p> <p>This, of course, is an overstatement and blankets have not been shown in studies to "treat" any of these problems, but rather just aid in their symptoms for some people.</p> <p><em>Written by Lee Suckling. First appeared on <a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Stuff.co.nz</span></strong></a>.</em></p>

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World’s largest crochet blanket made by thousands of women in India

<p>More than 2000 women from 14 different countries came together for six months to create the world’s largest crochet blanket.</p> <p>Based in India, the all-female team produced an 11,148-square-metre bedspread – that’s roughly about the size of one-and-a-half football fields.</p> <p>Chennai-based project initiator Subashri Natarajan said the blankets had since been donated to the needy.</p> <p><img width="391" height="261" src="http://www.abc.net.au/news/image/7135984-3x2-700x467.jpg" alt="Indian kids with crochet blankets" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"/></p> <p>"Our ultimate goal of our mission to donate to NGOs has been fulfilled with the help of our Tamilnadu police department," she said in a Facebook post.</p> <p>"We have donated all our 8,034 blankets to needy people."</p> <p>The group, called Mother India's Crochet Queens, was officially awarded the title on Sunday.</p> <p>The team beat the previous record of a 3,377-square-metre blanket made by a South African group.</p> <p><strong>Related links: </strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/home-garden/2015/12/clever-ways-to-use-salt-at-home/">12 clever ways to use salt around the house</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/home-garden/2015/12/stains-never-to-clean-with-water/">4 stains you shouldn’t use water to clean</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/home-garden/2015/12/household-tricks-from-the-1900s-2/">More great vintage household tricks from the 1900s</a></em></strong></span></p>

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