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13 stylist-approved tricks for having the shiniest hair ever

<p><strong>Rinse with cold water</strong></p> <p>Perhaps you’ve heard that cold water helps constrict pores. Well, it has a similar effect on your hair. According to stylist, Stefani Padilla, cold water seals and smooths the hair cuticle, locking in moisture and adding shine. After using shampoo and conditioner, finish with a blast of cold water.</p> <p><strong>Give gloss a try (at the salon)</strong></p> <p>At your salon appointment, ask your stylist for a gloss treatment. “A clear gloss, with a little gold colour in it, delivers the ultimate shine,” says colourist, Will Francis. “I like to leave it on for at least ten minutes.” The way the light reflects off hair post-gloss makes it look super lustrous.</p> <p><strong>Minimise heat styling</strong></p> <p>Heat styling can wear away hair’s cuticles, so it becomes dry, frizzy and breakage-prone. Padilla advises giving your hairdryer and flat iron a rest in favour of air-drying, at least a day or two a week.</p> <p><strong>Invest in an ionic hairdryer</strong></p> <p>Of course, there will be occasions when you want a bouncy blow-dry. So it’s important to invest in the right type of tool – specifically an ionic blow-dryer, which dries the hair faster than alternatives and helps reduce static. One major blow-dry mistake that may be sabotaging your style? Ignoring the nozzle attachment. It’s there for a reason and that’s namely to smooth strands and enhance shine.</p> <p><strong>Blow-dry like a pro</strong></p> <p>Remember, it’s not just about the tool, but how you use it. Be sure to hold the hairdryer a few centimetres away from your head to moderate heat damage. “Always blow dry from root to end – in the direction of the cuticle,” says celebrity colourist, Michael Canalé. “Keep the brush moving while doing so. The continuous, fluid motion smooths and flattens the cuticle, resulting in shiny hair.”</p> <p><strong>Opt for protective products</strong></p> <p>When it comes to heat-styling, you already know that protecting your tresses is a must. But what you might not realise is that pollution and UV rays also damage hair. The right formula can shield against heat and environmental damage.  A nourishing oil “is great because it protects hair from thermal stress, UV, colour fade and environmental aggressors. I always use it on my clients,” says Francis.</p> <p><strong>Slather on some oil</strong></p> <p>Restore radiance with a nourishing oil. Use it as a weekly treatment (massage into scalp and strands) or smooth a few drops daily on the ends to enhance hydration and sheen. Padilla recommends using a lightweight oil, like a nutrient-rich jojoba oil infused with shine-boosting rosemary, protective Ayahuasca plant essence, and moisturising vitamin E.</p> <p><strong>Up your omega intake</strong></p> <p>Certain nutrients are shown to improve hair health – chief among them omega-3 and omega-6 fatty acids. “Your body needs these to produce lustrous locks, from the inside out,” says Padilla. Load up on fish, like mackerel and sardines. Don’t love seafood? Consider a fish oil capsule. Other omega-rich foods include walnuts, flaxseeds (and oil), avocado and tofu.</p> <p><strong>Shampoo less frequently </strong></p> <p>You’ve certainly heard this before, but it bears repeating… stylists are begging you to stop shampooing your hair every day. Washing less actually preserves shine by allowing natural oils to do their job, according to Francis. Try to limit cleansing to two or three times a week, and make sure you know how to properly wash your hair.</p> <p><strong>Use a clarifying shampoo - in moderation</strong></p> <p>Clarifying hair is important to avoid build up, which can deplete the shine. Want squeaky clean strands? Consider adding a clarifying shampoo into your rotation once a month (but not weekly as it can dry out your tresses). When it comes to picking the right formula, Padilla recommends steering clear of chemicals and sulphates, which can strip the hair as well as open the cuticle. “The key to shine is to keep cuticle closed and protected,” she says.</p> <p><strong>DIY an apple cider vinegar rinse</strong></p> <p>Another in-shower, shine-booster is a weekly apple cider vinegar rinse – it’s basically a DIY version of a clarifying shampoo. Combine two tablespoons apple cider vinegar with one cup water. After shampooing, saturate strands. Rinse thoroughly, and follow with conditioner on the ends only. “The citric acid in the apple cider vinegar dissolves root build up and any other follicle-clogging bacteria that dulls the hair,” explains Canalé.</p> <p><strong>Try a weekly treatment</strong></p> <p>Topical hydration is so important to maintain hair’s natural gleam. “I suggest my clients use a treatment or mask once a week, as a self-care ritual to heal and preserve hair health,” says Padilla. To use, simply massage into the scalp and pull through dry hair. For maximum hydration, keep it on overnight and wash out in the morning. The natural oils in these formulas lock in moisture and make hair shiny.</p> <p><strong>Brush daily</strong></p> <p>Channel your inner Marcia Brady. Well, not quite. While you don’t need to brush your strands 100 times, Padilla does suggest daily brushing. “Brushing pulls natural oils from the scalp down into the hair, which acts as a natural moisturiser,” she says. Be sure to choose a brush with natural or boar bristles, which are a gentler and less damaging alternative to metal and synthetic.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> <p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://www.readersdigest.co.nz/healthsmart/beauty/13-stylist-approved-tricks-for-having-the-shiniest-hair-ever?pages=1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Reader's Digest</a>. </em></p>

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Guide to getting approval for renovations

<p>Home renovations can be fun, exciting and even life changing, but before you get carried away with the romance of it, it’s important to be aware of the red tape.</p> <p>We’re going to take a look at some of the essential legal boxes you need to tix when renovating. While doing so may seem like a bit of a nuisance during the renovation process, it will ensure that you don’t waste your money (and risk your safety).</p> <p><strong>Council approval</strong></p> <p>Depending on where you live, the nature of your lodgings and the type of renovations you have planned, you may require some form of council approval.</p> <p>Your best bet here is to contact your local council ahead of time and check what your requirements are. You may need a planning permit if your renovation requires building alterations and you may need a surveyor to confirm the plans meet regulations.</p> <p><strong>Meeting requirements</strong></p> <p>If you’re taking a gung-ho approach to the renovations and planning to manage the project yourself, rather than hiring a registered builder, you’ll need to make sure you obtain the correct building permits and ensure the work is up to required standards. </p> <p><strong>Hiring licensed tradespeople</strong></p> <p>It’s generally recommended that you only used licensed building practitioners and tradespeople. Builders, architects and engineers must meet certain obligations to maintain their accreditation, which ensure their work and your home are protected.</p> <p>Make sure you ask for references, check for a current license and insurance policy and even consider a simple contract describing the work and any warranty.</p> <p><strong>Additional hazards you may have to deal with</strong></p> <ul> <li>Termites can be a big problem and undo months of hard work on renovations and building projects. If you’re concerned about termites affecting your project, it’s advisable to contact your local council and find out if your area has a documented termite problem. From here they can advise you on how best to protect your renovations from infestation.</li> <li>Many homes may contain asbestos building products, and if you think yours does you’re obliged to get a check from a reputable assessor. If they find asbestos, make sure you hire a licensed removalist to ensure you get rid of it safely.</li> </ul> <p><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p>

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15 cruise tips approved by the Over60 community

<p>There’s nothing better than a cruise, but it can be difficult to know what to expect. Here are 15 of the best cruising tips from the Over60 community. Don’t step onboard any cruise ship without reading this advice first.</p> <p>1. Pam Holland says when you’re on a cruise by yourself it’s important to be careful which cabin you choose: “It's not much fun on a balcony if you travel solo. Much better to take a cheaper room and use the seats/lounges up on deck and watch the sea.”</p> <p>2. Grace Boland reckons the solution to the post-cruise blues is to, “Just book another one! It’s river cruises for me. Booking my fourth. Don’t like the monster ships now. River cruise ships have spoilt me forever. Magnificent!”</p> <p>3. Jane Fisher advises on the hidden costs of cruise ships, especially when it comes to drinks, saying, “This is especially important if you travel on any American cruise lines, the prices for alcohol are in US dollars, so your nightly glass of wine ends up being quite expensive.”</p> <p>4. Nils Gustafsson has some good advice regarding shore excursions: “The most expensive part of your trip is your cruise tours, so book them with the locals when you arrive in each port. They’ll be half the price and less crowded as well.</p> <p>5. Sandra Woodhouse recommends two items every cruiser should pack, “Two essentials to take on a cruise, an e-reader and a pack of playing cards. Both perfect when the weather is not.”</p> <p>6. Rosemary Miles says, “There's a lot to be said for only booking with a well-known, large cruise company. There are a number who have been around for years and are well established.”</p> <p>7. Jac Haines says, “Take out travel insurance as soon as you start paying deposits. Talk to a person and have them highlight in the contract where you are covered for deposits and everything else right down to political turmoil and mother nature.”</p> <p>8. Diane Green is an advocate of the cabin balcony room, saying: “I always like a balcony room. That is my space. I don't have to share with loads of others. When we cruised through Fiordland, New Zealand, up on deck was like being in a sardine can. I retreated to my balcony, sat in reasonable comfort and had a great view.”</p> <p>9. Marion Johnson on the other hand, prefers interior cabins, “We prefer interior. Less noise from the hallways. Yes, we have a clock night light but don't take the battery LED lights any more. After all there are lights in the room. We sometimes leave the television on with no sound on the cam station if we want to be up for a new port.”</p> <p>10. Dianne Barnett has some good packing advice, saying, “When traveling with a partner, always have a photo copy of your passport, Medicare, private health card etc. in each other’s suitcase as well as your own.”</p> <p>11. Kerrie Sanderson has some important advice on how you should treat cabin crew: “Treat them with respect. Unfortunately, too many passengers treat the staff as servants. One cruise I was on a gentleman sent his boiled eggs back 11 times then ended up throwing them on the floor (I would have pushed his face into them) you just can't please some people.”</p> <p>12. Judy Kanizay says, “Go prepared and travel smart! Hard to avoid the coughs, colds, tummy bugs but careful preparation can give relief, save grief and money. A local pharmacy can be helpful. A must in my luggage are jar of Vicks plus bottle of apple cider vinegar.”</p> <p>13. Antoinette Devlin says, “As far as I'm concerned, cruising is the only way to holiday. Not mentioned in the tips is that if you book very early, you can pay the cruise off weekly or monthly. My sister and i have done that and in 2 weeks we start a cruise around Australia for 30 wonderful days. We've paid it of monthly for a year and a half. There's so much you can chose from and it doesn't have to cost money. Things like trivia, listening to music at night etc.”</p> <p>14. Jannah Foley recommends a trip to Egypt, “I have done this trip twice! It is highly recommended and very affordable. Also, very safe. Egyptians are very hospitable and friendly. I was in Egypt last year and it just gets better every time I go there... and I have been there several times!”</p> <p>15. Margrit Cameron says, “Cabins are always a bit on the tight side but who cares when all the classy entertainments, the food, the beautiful ocean and the numerous comfy public areas and cafes and bars will keep us happy.”</p> <p>What are your tips for cruising?</p> <p><em><strong>Have you arranged your travel insurance yet? Tailor your cover to your needs and save money by not paying for things you don’t need. <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="https://elevate.agatravelinsurance.com.au/oversixty?utm_source=over60&utm_medium=content&utm_content=link1&utm_campaign=travel-insurance">To arrange a quote, click here</a>.</span> For more information about Over60 Travel Insurance, call 1800 622 966.</strong></em></p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/travel/cruising/2017/01/6-things-to-try-when-it-rains-on-your-cruise/">6 things to try when it’s raining on your cruise</a></strong></em></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/travel/cruising/2017/01/carnival-vista-new-home-docked-in-miami/">World’s most impressive cruise ship to get a new home</a></strong></em></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/travel/cruising/2017/01/clever-ways-to-skip-the-queue-on-a-cruise/">6 clever ways to skip the queue on a cruise</a></strong></em></span></p> <p> </p>

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Court 'approves' young boy's appeal to adopt teddies

<p dir="ltr">The Family Court of Western Australia has granted a seven-year-old boy approval to adopt several teddy bears, in a gesture described as “humanity at its best”.</p> <p dir="ltr">After writing a letter to the court, the young boy received a sweet yet official-looking response, complete with a reference to the fictitious International Teddy Act of 1908 and a description of the adoptees as “a hug of teddy’s”.</p> <p dir="ltr">“In the matter of Mr Denham, Baby Denham, Brown Bear, Bamboo, Special Teddy Jnr and Tiny,” the unofficial court order <a href="https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/good-news/family-court-gives-sevenyearold-boy-approval-to-adopt-teddies-in-heartwarming-letter-exchange/news-story/acbf28abee7da98ed1c794731b61b71c" target="_blank" rel="noopener">read</a>.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Before a Teddy in Chambers.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Application having being [sic] made under the International Teddy Act 1908 for an adoption order in relation to a hug of teddy’s known as Mr Denham, Baby Denham, Brown Bear, Bamboo, Special Teddy Jnr and Tiny who reside in … Western Australia.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-5f5054de-7fff-d49d-536f-2198a04ea272"></span></p> <p dir="ltr">“It is ordered that the said Mr Denham, Baby Denham, Brown Bear, Bamboo, Special Teddy Jnr and Tiny be adopted by (the boy) to be treated lovingly as child and teddies.”</p> <p dir="ltr"><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2022/02/court-teddy-adoption.jpg" alt="" width="1024" height="768" /></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>The Family Court’s order was shared on social media. Image: Twitter</em></p> <p dir="ltr">A photo of the court order was shared on social media by the boy’s uncle, Dr Stephen Bright, prompting dozens of responses.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Not sure how many similar requests they get, but this seemed to go above and beyond. Thank you,” he wrote on the since-deleted post.</p> <p dir="ltr">Many shared how the story brought a “tear to the eye”.</p> <p dir="ltr">“That is absolutely adorable, your nephew must be so happy! Such a beautiful, yet simple gesture, definitely put a smile on my face and a tear to the eye,” one person shared.</p> <p dir="ltr">In a follow-up post, Dr Bright <a href="https://mobile.twitter.com/stephenjbright/status/1495448183614283778" target="_blank" rel="noopener">said</a>: “I don’t usually post personal stuff on Twitter, though I’m glad I did share this as it seems to have touched so many people. It’s nice to be able to pay it forward.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Some dubbed the gesture as an example of “humanity at its best”, while others shared their well wishes for the boy and his teddies.</p> <p dir="ltr">“It’s lovely. These warm and kind actions show humanity at its best. We need this in our lives,” one person wrote.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Sometimes it’s good to start my day with a happy cry. Thank you for sharing,” another said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“This reminds me to have faith in humanity, both in adults and the next generation. My best to your nephew, his teddies and family.”</p> <p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-9734c2ee-7fff-03b7-c31e-38f825ebb98e"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p>

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New booster vaccine approved in Australia

<p dir="ltr">An additional vaccine has been <a href="https://www.9news.com.au/national/astrazeneca-booster-shots-provisionally-approved-australia-therapeutic-goods-administration/cb666fd3-dff2-4603-8a56-663b7ad0b225" target="_blank" rel="noopener">granted provisional approval</a> to be used as a booster shot by the Therapeutic Goods Administration (TGA).</p><p dir="ltr">The TGA announced that a vaccine produced by AstraZeneca, called Vaxzevria, could be administered to individuals over the age of 18 who are yet to receive their third, ‘booster’ dose of a COVID-19 vaccine.</p><p dir="ltr">However, the TGA continues to recommend that Australians choose Moderna or Pfizer over the newly-approved jab.</p><p dir="ltr">“The third (booster) dose may be given if clinically indicated with reference to official guidance regarding the use of a heterologous third dose (e.g. mRNA vaccine),” it said in a statement.</p><p dir="ltr">“This means that the decision to receive Vaxzevria as a booster must be made in consultation with a medical professional.”</p><p dir="ltr">Dr Vinod Balasubramaniam, a virologist from Monash University’s Jeffrey Cheah School of Medicine and Health Sciences in Malaysia, said the addition of a third vaccine is particularly important as the world battles the Omicron variant.</p><p dir="ltr">“It’s important to increase the vaccine portfolio in the fight against COVID-19, in particular against the current highly contagious Omicron variant, a multi-pronged approach is definitely needed for us to win the war,” he <a href="https://www.scimex.org/newsfeed/expert-reaction-tga-provisionally-approves-astrazeneca-boosters-for-ages-18" target="_blank" rel="noopener">said</a>.</p><p dir="ltr">“Diversifying the vaccine portfolio in including AstraZeneca vaccines as part of the booster dose regimen is important, especially when used as a mix-and-match for individuals who experienced adverse reactions with their primary vaccinations with other types of vaccines.”</p><p dir="ltr">Dr Andy Files, a senior research fellow at the Menzies Institute for Medical Research within the University of Tasmania, agreed and noted that the mix-and-match approach has been proved as an effective way of protecting people from the virus.</p><p dir="ltr">“From a basic immunology perspective, swapping vaccines should help to focus the immune response on the SARS-CoV-2 spike protein encoded in the vaccines, rather than the other components of the vaccine, thus providing the intended boost in protection against the coronavirus,” he explained.</p><p dir="ltr">“The AstraZeneca booster will be most useful for people that had strong side effects to the mRNA vaccines or have histories of myocarditis or pericarditis.”</p><p><span id="docs-internal-guid-7a08a62b-7fff-6267-485c-f7fb04a89364"></span></p><p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p>

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Newly approved Alzheimer’s drug raises serious concerns

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">United States health officials have approved the first new drug to treat Alzheimer’s in twenty years.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But independent advisors and some Alzheimer’s experts have said the approval comes without enough evidence that the drug can help patients with the brain-destroying disease.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Food and Drug Administration said it approved the drug, aducanumab, based on results that its benefits for Alzheimer’s patients were “reasonably likely”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Aducanuman, which will go by the brand name Aduhelmm, is produced by American biotechnology company Biogen and is to be administered as a monthly infusion.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As the first approved treatment to directly attack the disease process of Alzheimer’s instead of just treating the symptoms like anxiety and insomnia, the drug is intended to slow the cognitive decline in those with mild memory and thinking problems.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The drug is thought to reduce harmful clumps of plaque in the brain in order to slow the progression of the deadly disease.</span></p> <p><strong>Why this matters</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">With the approval of the treatment despite limited evidence that it works, experts are concerned it could set a precedent for the approval of future experimental therapies that only show incremental benefits.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Currently only five medications have been approved by the FDA for patients with Alzheimer’s, though these only delay cognitive decline for several months.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As a result, patient advocacy groups lobbied for approval to expand the number of treatments available of Aduhelm, with other more-promising candidates likely to be three to four years away from potential approval.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But, the FDA advisory committee, as well as an independent think tank and several prominent experts - including Alzheimer’s doctors who were involved in clinical trials of the drug - have said the evidence raises doubts about its effectiveness. Concerns have also been raised about the small benefits being outweighed by the risk of swelling or bleeding in the brain that occurred during the trials.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The risk of bleeding is also heightened for those with the APOE4 gene, which is associated with late-onset Alzheimer’s.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Caleb Alexander, an FDA advisor who recommended against the drug’s approval, said he was “surprised and disappointed”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“The FDA gets the respect that it does because it has regulatory standards that are based on firm evidence. In this case, I think they gave the product a pass,” said Dr Alexander, a medical researcher at John Hopkins University.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Dr Patrizia Cavazzoni, the FDA’s director of the Centre for Drug Evaluation and Research wrote on the agency’s website: “The data included in the applicant’s submission were highly complex and left residual uncertainties regarding clinical benefit,” </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But, she said the agency had approved the drug through a program called accelerated approval, which is designed to provide earlier access to therapies for diseases with few treatments, “and where there is an expectation of clinical benefit despite some residual uncertainty regarding the benefit.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Dr Cavazzoni also told reporters: “The data supports patients and caregivers having the choice to use this drug.”</span></p> <p><strong>What happens next</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though approved, the FDA has required the drug manufacturer to conduct a follow-up study to confirm the benefits. If this study fails to show the drug's effectiveness, the FDA can - but isn’t required to - withdraw the drug from the market.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Biogen has said it aims to complete the follow-up trial by 2030.</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: Getty Images</span></em></p>

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Scientists issue warning after Russia approves world first COVID vaccine

<p>Russia on Tuesday became the first country to approve a coronavirus vaccine, a move that was met with international skepticism because the shots have only been tested on a dozen people.</p> <p>President Vladimir Putin announced the Health Ministry’s approval and said one of his two adult daughters already was inoculated.</p> <p>He said the vaccine has gone through the required tests and proven to provide lasting immunity to the coronavirus, despite Russian authorities offering zero proof to back those claims.</p> <p>“I know it has proven efficient and forms a stable immunity,” Putin said. “We must be grateful to those who made that first step very important for our country and the entire world.”</p> <p>However, scientists in Russia and around the world have issued a warning, saying that speeding up the vaccine process before final-stage testing could have implications.</p> <p>Vaccines must go through a Phase 3 trial - which involves tens of thousands of people and can take months - and is the only way to prove if an experimental vaccine is safe and works.</p> <p>To compare, vaccines entering final-stage testing in the US require studies of 30,000 people each.</p> <p>“Fast-tracked approval will not make Russia the leader in the race, it will just expose consumers of the vaccine to unnecessary danger,” said Russia’s Association of Clinical Trials Organisations as they urge the government to postpone the approval process until advanced trials are conducted.</p> <p>While Russian officials have said large-scale production of the vaccine wasn’t scheduled until September, Deputy Prime Minister Tatyana Golikova said vaccination of doctors could start as early as this month.</p> <p>Mass vaccination may begin as early as October.</p> <p>“We expect tens of thousands of volunteers to be vaccinated within the next months,” Kirill Dmitriev, chief executive of the Russian Direct Investment Fund that bankrolled the vaccine, told reporters.</p> <p>The vaccine developed by the Gamaleya Institute in Moscow with assistance from Russia’s Defense Ministry uses a different virus called adenovirus.</p> <p>It has been modified to contain the genes for the “spike” protein that coats the coronavirus, as a way to prime the body to recognise if a real COVID-19 infection comes along.</p> <p>The technology is similar to vaccines being developed by China’s CanSino Biologics and Britain’s Oxford University, but unlike those companies, scientists in Russia have not published any scientific information about how the vaccine has performed.</p>

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Why Queen Mother did not approve of “dangerous progressive” Prince Philip

<p><span>It is hard to believe for those who may not be knowledgeable on the royal family all the way back to the early days of Queen Elizabeth’s life, however it is no secret the royal’s mother did not approve of the “dangerous progressive” Prince Philip.</span><br /><br /><span>A new documentary has brought up old wounds, and specifically touches on the atmosphere of the royal family when then-Princess Elizabeth announced she would be marrying Prince Philip.</span><br /><br /><span>The Queen Mother, who was Queen Consort to King George VI at the time, was worried her daughter was setting out to marry the wrong kind of man when she brought her to-be husband home.</span><br /><br /><span>Philip was not exactly the upstanding British husband the Queen Mother pictured for her Elizabeth, as he came from German heritage and had loose connections to the Nazi Party.</span><br /><br /><span>This isn't to say Philip was a Nazi himself; he only has connections through his sisters, who still lived in Germany.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7837074/queen-mother-prince-philip.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/b3c3f98eac2e4a1cb5f726bc36d63ffd" /><br /><br /><span>However it still caused concern and according to the documentary The Private Lives of the Windsor’s, the Queen Mother’s dislike for Philip went beyond frivolous gossip.</span><br /><br /><span>It claims she was used to having all her daughter's attention and didn't like having to compete with Philip for Elizabeth's time and affection.</span><br /><br /><span>"The Queen Mother viewed him as rather an enemy and in fact one would see those early years as being a tug-of-war and a tussle for the ear of the Queen," historian and biographer Professor Jane Ridley said.</span><br /><br /><span>She also supposedly disliked that Philip, who was an "outsider", was being brought into the family as he challenged her "authority" as family matriarch.</span><br /><br /><span>Philip's more "progressive" ideas only became more obtrusive to the Queen Mother when her daughter took the throne, as she was very much a true-to-form traditionalist.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7837072/queen-mother-prince-philip-2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/5a500599bad941ec9cabbdbefd061a9a" /><br /><br /><span>They regularly butted heads in the early years of Elizabeth's reign, and even clashed over how future king Prince Charles should be raised.</span><br /><br /><span>While the Queen Mother pusher for him to be nurtured and treated with gentle care, Philip wanted to turn his first born son into a proper man.</span><br /><br /><span>The Queen Mother's frustrations weren't reserved for her son-in-law exclusively though and when Prince Elizabeth was crowned queen in 1953 - it was a difficult and forced transition without enough preparation.</span><br /><br /><span>Due to Her Majesty’s sudden death, the Queen Mother could not enjoy the same family dynamic that she had held for many years.</span><br /><br /><span>Royal biographer Christopher Warwick explains: "She felt they'd been cut off in her prime, she loved the position of being Queen and suddenly all that was taken from her.</span><br /><br /><span>"The Queen mother minded very much being Queen mother, and she was jealous of her daughter having become Queen."</span></p>

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8 expert-approved home remedies for back pain

<p>Back pain is one of the most common complaints that bring patients into doctors’ offices. Although you should always see a doctor if your pain is severe, there are ways to relieve back pain at home.</p> <p><strong>Home remedies for back pain: cold</strong></p> <p>Icing is key when you are experiencing lower back soreness and/or pain, shares Dr Jennifer L. Solomon. “It is also critical post-exercise to reduce inflammation and promote pain control.”  If you are experiencing radiating pain into the lower extremities, continue to ice the lower back rather than the legs, she says.</p> <p><strong>Home remedies for back pain: heat</strong></p> <p>Heat should be your go-to after a weekend warrior move gone wrong, such as over-aggressive mulching in your garden or an injury from moving furniture, says orthopaedic spine surgeon, Dr Justin J. Park. “Strains and pulls respond better to heat.” Heat helps to ease the strained muscle and reduce tension and can help to increase range of motion and reduce pain.  Don’t let the heating pad get too hot and don’t use it for more than an hour or so at a time.</p> <p><strong>Home remedies for back pain: over-the-counter medications</strong></p> <p>Other back pain remedies that work fast are over-the-counter pain medication, Dr Park says.  Paracetamol, or acetaminophen, is really not recommended for muscular strains and sprains. If you’ve hurt your back, the best remedy is a non-steroidal anti-inflammatory medication, or NSAID. Common NSAIDs include Advil (ibuprofen) and Aleve (naproxen). These medications help to stem the tide of the blood flow to the area to reduce pain. By keeping inflammation low, your pain is decreased, and you are better able to move.</p> <p><strong>Home remedies for back pain: rest</strong></p> <p>Rest is vital when you are trying to relieve back pain naturally. “We aren’t talking about bed rest though,” Dr Park says. Take two or three days off from your usual activities such as going to the gym, which could make the pain worse and lead to further injury of the musculature of the back.  But gentle stretching and light walking should be okay, he adds. In fact, exercise is thought to be beneficial in terms of preventing and relieving chronic low back pain. For example, a 2018 review of randomised controlled trials, which was published in the <em>American Journal of Epidemiology</em>, found that people who exercised had a 33 per cent lower risk of back pain than those who did not. And in people who did get lower back pain, exercise reduced the severity and disability associated with it. The researchers recommended strengthening with either stretching or aerobic exercise 2 to 3 days per week.</p> <p><strong>Home remedies for back pain: muscle creams and patches</strong></p> <p>Another way to cure back pain at home is to use muscle creams and patches. Many different companies make these products. The medication in the patch or cream works to “confuse” the nerve endings in your back muscles. By making them feel hot or cold, they are distracted from the pain of the muscle tissue. In addition, the heat from these patches goes a long way toward soothing the muscles that have been strained or sprained. Large patches are probably more convenient, but creams may work better if your muscles are strained higher up on the back, to the side, or over a large area.</p> <p><strong>Home remedies for back pain: try a rub</strong></p> <p>There are a host of over-the-counter and prescription pain relieving gels, Dr Park says.  “Over-the-counter rubs provide relief, and prescription strength anti-inflammatory creams are great for people who can’t tolerate taking them by mouth,” he says. Ask a loved one to massage the cream into your back if you can’t reach the sore spot.</p> <p><strong>Home remedies for back pain: know when to call in the doctor</strong></p> <p>Self-treating with home remedies for back pain makes sense to a point, says Dr Park. “Give it a week or two but if after a few weeks, your pain is not getting better, getting worse or is severe at night, see a doctor to find out what else may help.”</p> <p><em>Written by Lynda Lampert. This article first appeared in </em><em><a href="https://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/conditions/back/8-expert-approved-home-remedies-for-back-pain?slide=all">Reader’s Digest.</a> For more of what you love from the world’s best-loved magazine, </em><a href="http://readersdigest.innovations.com.au/c/readersdigestemailsubscribe?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=articles&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;keycode=WRA87V"><em>here’s our best subscription offer.</em></a><span><em> , </em></span><a href="http://readersdigest.innovations.co.nz/c/readersdigestemailsubscribe?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=articles&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;keycode=WRN93V"><em>here’s our best subscription offer.</em></a></p>

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Highest seal of approval: The Queen awards Duchess Kate with significant honour

<p>The Duchess of Cambridge has been bestowed with the highest honour as a gift from the Queen.</p> <p>The 37-year-old has been made a Dame Grand Cross of the Royal Victorian Order, which is the highest rank equivalent of a Knight, according to <em><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/8966354/kate-middleton-dame-grand-cross-of-the-royal-victorian-order-queen/" target="_blank">The Sun</a>.</em></p> <p>The mother-of-three received the special title on her eighth wedding anniversary to Prince William on April 29.</p> <p>Her Majesty gifted the Duchess of Cornwall the same title on the seventh anniversary of her and Prince Charles' wedding.</p> <p>Awards in the Royal Victorian Order are bestowed personally by the Queen as a recognition for their services to the Sovereign.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet tw-align-center" data-lang="en-gb"> <p dir="ltr">The Queen has been pleased to make the following appointment to the Royal Victorian Order. <a href="https://t.co/34sJOY8WYt">https://t.co/34sJOY8WYt</a></p> — The Royal Family (@RoyalFamily) <a href="https://twitter.com/RoyalFamily/status/1122904013534638080?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">29 April 2019</a></blockquote> <p>It is said that the Duchess shares a special relationship with her grandmother-in-law, and this award further seals that theory as her work as a member of the royal family has been officially acknowledged.</p> <p>Kate will join the likes of the Duchess of Cornwall, Princess Anne, the Countess of Wessex and the Duchess of Gloucester who have also been given the title.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BvMcaxsFldO/" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BvMcaxsFldO/" target="_blank">Today The Queen, accompanied by The Duchess of Cambridge, visited King's College London to officially open Bush House, the latest education and learning facilities on the Strand Campus. The Queen and The Duchess viewed a robotics demonstration — including robotic surgery — and a demo showing how sensors made from textiles can measure useful information about the body. They also visited King’s virtual trading floor at the Entrepreneurship Institute, which supports entrepreneurial thinking, skills and experiences among Kings’ students, staff and alumni. 📷PA/Royal Communications</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/kensingtonroyal/" target="_blank"> Kensington Palace</a> (@kensingtonroyal) on Mar 19, 2019 at 8:10am PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>The Duke of Edinburgh, Prince Philip, was appointed the order in 2017 and Prince Harry was officially named Knight Commander of the order in 2015.</p> <p><em>Majesty Magazine</em> reported that the ceremony will take place this week, on Friday May 3, at Windsor Castle.</p> <p>After being bestowed with the honour, Kate will wear a blue sash at her next public appearance while also having the letters GCVO after her name.</p>

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Seal of approval: The Queen invites Meghan to attend royal event – without Prince Harry

<p>The Duchess of Sussex is set to complete her first royal engagement without her husband Prince Harry, but she will instead be at the right-hand side of a different royal companion – the Queen.</p> <p>The royal pair are departing for Cheshire today and they will travel on the luxury Royal Train overnight, reported <a href="https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/6522302/meghan-markle-sleepover-royal-train-queen/" target="_blank"><em><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The Sun</span></strong></em></a>.</p> <p>The luxury Royal Train has nine carriages and Meghan will sleep in one of the ensuite bedrooms and dine with the Queen in her 12-seater dining room.</p> <p>The trip is a huge honour for Meghan and reportedly even Prince Harry, Prince William and Kate have not yet ridden on board the Royal Train.</p> <p>Generally, a train ride from London to Cheshire only takes around two hours, however, the Queen’s train moves at a much slower pace</p> <p>The Queen opts to take the Royal Train to official engagements when she wants to make the long-distance journey overnight, rather than waking up early in the morning.</p> <p>Meghan’s day with the Queen will consist of watching her officially open the Mersey Gateway Bridge in Widnes and the Storyhouse cultural centre in Chester.</p> <p>The pair will then watch a performance by a dance company called Fallen Angels, which exists for recovering addicts.</p> <p>The royals will then enjoy a medley of songs from the Storyhouse’s latest production A Little Night Music and then, watch local schoolkids perform songs with actors from Swallows and Amazons.</p> <p>Meghan’s bonding with Her Royal Majesty will be concluded with a lunch outing to Chester Town Hall.</p> <p>Described as “Buckingham Palace on wheels”, the Royal Train was launched in 1842 during Queen Victoria’s reign as she disliked travelling by coach.</p> <p>The royal family use the train for extended holidays around the country and it is fitted with a full kitchen staff who cook meals to the standard of the royal palaces.</p> <p>The Queen’s private quarters are 75ft long and is decorated with a plush carpet, paintings of Scottish landscapes and air suspension to avoid a rocky ride.</p> <p>There is a roster of 150 special drivers who are allowed to take control of the Royal Train.</p>

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What to do when you don’t approve of your child’s partner

<p>Sometimes, families are extremely lucky, and are able to welcome new members in the form of our children’s romantic partners enthusiastically and joyfully. At other times, our children can introduce their partners, and it turns out that they’re less than ideal – in the eyes of us, the parents, that is. So what do you do when your child makes their choice, and you don’t approve?</p> <p><strong>First thing’s first</strong></p> <p>It’s important to figure out what is at the root of your disapproval. If, for example, your disapproval is to do with your child’s sexual orientation rather than the individual they love, then the issue runs deeper than one article can explore. It’s important for you to communicate with your child that you love them, but that you’re having a difficult time processing their sexuality. If it’s an issue you can’t adequately handle on your own, or by talking with your family, then perhaps seeking professional counselling is a good idea.</p> <p><strong>Swallow your prejudices</strong></p> <p>If you don’t approve of your child’s partner because of their ethnicity, religion, gender, occupation, or political beliefs, this is an issue, like the above, that you will need to confront on your own terms. It can be difficult to admit these kinds of prejudices – especially when they’re unconsciously held. But when you realise that they’re there, take heart that you’ve found a flaw, and take steps to enlighten your worldview. Once you do so, you should be able to embrace your new family member with open arms.</p> <p><strong>Have a calm conversation</strong></p> <p>If you have other concerns about your child’s partner (perhaps the partner doesn’t treat them well, or has a drinking problem), then it’s a good idea to have a calm, private conversation with your child. Yelling will achieve nothing other than a sore throat and hurt feelings. Tell them about your feelings and concerns, and try to engage with them in a discussion to find out what future they see for their current relationship. Simply speaking with your child about their relationship may help you accept it; it can be confusing to understand what makes other people happy, and why, but if you can manage it, this is a great way forward.</p> <p>Try not to draw a line in the sand. This will not end well for anyone. If, for whatever reason, you are unable to get on board with your daughter’s partner, giving her an ultimatum will get you nowhere. You may think your familial love is strong, but romantic love has been consuming humanity through time immemorial, so your trump card may not be as powerful as you thought.</p> <p><strong>Get to know the partner</strong></p> <p>It may be a frustrating thing for you to do, but you should at least make some kind of effort to know your child’s partner better. You might just discover that the things you disapprove of are simply their own shyness obscuring their better qualities. Meeting parents can be intimidating – especially if your child admires you – so helping the partner relax around you could soothe a lot of your concerns.</p> <p><strong>At the end of the day</strong></p> <p>This is a problem that you have – not your child. They’ve made their choice, and interfering could result in you being cut out of their life. You may have to make peace with the relationship, and see where it takes them. Then again, your child may one day change their mind – but don’t hold your breath.</p> <p>How do you react when your child brings home someone of whom you do not approve?</p>

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5 over-60 approved cruises

<p>To save you the horror of being stuck on a cruise that isn’t right for you, we found out five cruise lines the Over60 community love.</p> <p><strong>1. Norwegian Pearl (Norwegian Cruise Line)</strong></p> <p>“We sailed from Vancouver on the Norwegian Pearl. Having used this line previously we knew it would be perfect. There was a full commentary broadcast throughout the ship, which really helped in seeing things we would otherwise have missed. Sailing through the inside passage was speculator! Huge chunks of ice breaking off and crashing into the ocean. Majestic peaks jutting out of the mountains for miles and miles. Not many bears, as we travelled early in the season. The sight of whales brought lots of excited gasps and astonishment at watching these gracefully huge creatures leaping out of the ocean. Also, we saw some flying fish travelling next to our boat! Juneau was a great experience. We rode the cable car up the mountain. This gave us an awesome view of the small fishing village and it was snowing, so that provided a picturesque postcard picture.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="445" height="272" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/34817/barabara7_445x272.jpg" alt="Barabara7 (1)"/></p> <p>We then spent an entertaining afternoon at the Red Dog Saloon. This "old time" Saloon provided refreshments (giant crab legs) as well as having a "character" who sang "old time" songs and his jokes were fabulous! We did a bus tour showing native museums with their artefacts from way back and of course, we spent time looking for bears. We sailed back to Seattle which gave us the chance to visit another city.” <strong>– Barbara Holmes</strong></p> <p><strong>2. Rhapsody of the Seas (Royal Caribbean International)</strong></p> <p>“We boarded in Seattle. It was absolutely wonderful. We stopped off everywhere and saw lots of snow and huge lumps of ice as we slowly made our way to the big glaciers. The second part of the cruise left from Astoria, Oregon, USA. Returning was just as wonderful. We returned all the way to Sydney, stopping at islands everywhere, including Hawaii. In Hawaii, we went to the Arizona memorial and the best part for me was seeing the lava flowing from the volcano at midnight as it hit the sea. The flames went up high in the air. The next morning all the railings and everywhere on the ship was covered with grey ash. They spent the rest of the journey cleaning the ship. The last stop was Fiji. It was a trip of a lifetime, it was three cruises all joined into one for us but a lot of new people got on and off at different places.”<strong> – Lorraine Tate</strong></p> <p><strong>3. Viking Saga Cruise (Holland America)</strong></p> <p>“We left from Copenhagen and over 15 days we visited Bergen in Norway, Shetland Islands and Faroe Islands. We went to Iceland, Greenland, St John's in Newfoundland, Halifax in Nova Scotia and finally sailed into New York past the Statue of Liberty, very early on the last morning of the cruise. The absolute highlight was Prince Christian Sound in Greenland where we sailed amongst huge icebergs and saw glaciers with icebergs calving from them. It was nature at its best and so close!</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="465" height="347" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/34818/narelle_465x347.jpg" alt="Narelle (1)"/></p> <p>If the weather is clear the Northern Lights are visible but we only had a glimpse before the fog rolled in. We aren't huge cruise fans but enjoyed every minute of this one right down to the cooking demonstration by the Captain who was a bit of a comedian. He was cooking a Dutch Apple Tart. Someone asked what made it different to any other Apple Tart and his response was, 'Well I'm Dutch aren't I?' Some of his answers in a Q&amp;A session for passengers were very funny also. It was a great experience with some wonderful ports of call in remote and urban locations. It is one holiday I would gladly do again.”  <strong>– Narelle Carlson</strong></p> <p><strong>4. Celebrity Millennium cruise (Celebrity Cruises)</strong></p> <p>“Alaska had always been on our to do list so when the chance came we took it. It was part of a back to back Celebrity Millennium cruise. As it was early spring there was still ice and snow around, though the weather was beautiful. The scenery was just breath taking, being able to walk to see a glacier &amp; waterfall, icebergs, whales, sea otters and bald eagles. The air was so crisp and clean, the colours Alaska was just so much more than we could have imagined. We would love to go again maybe later in the summer/autumn to see the change in colours. The forests, small towns, their customs just to walk around in were amazing. The people were friendly and each port of call gave us a wonderful send off. It was just so much more than we ever expected it certainly didn’t disappoint. We want to go again.” <strong>–  John and Margie Barnes-Mayman</strong></p> <p><strong>5. Oceania Marina (Oceania cruises)</strong></p> <p>“Our cruise started in Barcelona where we boarded the Oceania Marina which is an absolutely amazing cruise ship. Our next stop was Marseille then to Monte Carlo. This was the highlight of our trip.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="496" height="279" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/34819/teresina_496x279.jpg" alt="Teresina (1)"/></p> <p>Then we went on to Italy and went to Cinque Terre and Livorno where we went to see the Tower of Pisa. Next was Sardegna where we went to Costa Smeralda, followed by Trapani in Sicily then on to Valletta in Malta back to Sicily seeing Catania. Then we sailed to Sorrento and finally finished in Civitavecchia in Rome. For the majority of the cities we did our own touring mainly on the hop on hop off buses. The service and ambience on the ship was amazing.”<strong> – Teresina Riitano</strong></p> <p>Share your favourite cruise experience in the comments below.</p>

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5 James Bond-approved style tricks

<p>Indeed, manners make the man, and so does the way he presents himself.</p> <p>The true gentleman applies the same calculated elegance to his appearance as he does to his demeanor. This doesn’t involve spending oodles of money on expensive suits and pocket watches, but quite the opposite.</p> <p>These five top tips outline the cardinal rules for dressing to look like a gentleman, and they’re so simple that they’ll apply to the average Australian’s wardrobe:</p> <p><strong>1. Match your belt to your shoes</strong></p> <p>This principal rule is as central to men’s style now as it was to your father. Always wear a set that is matching in both colour and material if possible.</p> <p><strong>2. Wear matching pocket square or handkerchief to your socks</strong></p> <p>Pocket squares are a key component to the modern gentlemen’s look. Let’s be honest though, they’re nothing more than a nicely patterned scrap of material. A handkerchief or anything else in a lightweight fabric will work perfectly.</p> <p><strong>3. Always wear your watch</strong></p> <p>Always wearing your watch not only creates a more finished look, it also gives the feeling that you are organized and controlled.</p> <p><strong>4. Have specific purposes for different shoes</strong></p> <p>Traipsing into the restaurant in sneakers that still have remnants of your morning run just won’t do. Wear shoes to match your outing.</p> <p><strong>5. Carry an umbrella big enough for you and another</strong></p> <p>If the weather looks dreary, a gentleman doesn’t only think of himself. Carry an umbrella large enough for you and your lady for good etiquette. </p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/beauty-style/2015/11/ways-to-style-short-hair/">12 age defying ways to style short hair</a></strong></em></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/beauty-style/2015/10/age-defying-hair-tips/">6 tips for healthy hair that defy ageing</a></strong></em></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/beauty-style/2016/02/perfumes-that-defined-a-decade/">The most popular perfumes that defined a decade</a></strong></em></span></p>

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5 expert-approved ways to stress less

<p>Do you often feel anxious, worried or tense? Then you’re probably familiar with that dreaded feeling called stress. It’s important to remember that stress is not in and of itself bad – after all, when life inevitably throws you challenges, it’s natural to feel stressed out. However, if the occasional bout of stress it not so occasional then stress can be harmful to your mind and body.</p> <p>As Janice Killey, principal psychologist at<a href="http://www.liferesolutions.com.au/kogarah/" target="_blank"><strong> <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Life Resolutions Kogarah</span></strong></a> in New South Wales, Australia tells Over60, “If stress is ongoing there can be physical or psychological symptoms, such as headaches, sleep disturbance, upset stomach, anxiety, anger and more. Studies have suggested that the psychological stressors contribute to poor health outcome in older adults.”</p> <p>It can be easy to fall into a cycle of unease and worry, sometimes without realising it, but there are dangers in ignoring the stress and not dealing with it properly.</p> <p>“Stress can be harmful to a person's health and happiness. Some people can get use to ongoing stress but it has a negative effect on their relationships and health,” Ms Killey explains.</p> <p>So how do you beat stress? The first and most essential point is to learn to identify what triggers your stress. Stress is very individual, and what is a stressor to one person is not necessarily one to others. It can also be dependent on a number of situational variables. Therefore, there is no quick band-aid solution to beating stress, as there can be a number of different coping mechanism for different stressors in different situations at different times. Stress is complex so your strategies in combatting them need to be broad and self-aware.</p> <p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Here are Janice Killey’s quick tips for beating stress: </span></strong></p> <ol> <li>Identify triggers, which might include work deadlines, late nights, seeing particular people and so on. Avoid these triggers where possible.</li> <li>Establish routines, which can include exercise and relaxation; regular mealtimes and bedtimes</li> <li>Spend time with people who you care about and care about you; talk with other don't bottle up your feelings</li> <li>Learn about self-talk (both positive and negative), and how they impact on how you feel.</li> <li>Practise relaxation by learning a formal technique such a progressive muscle relaxation, meditation or yoga.</li> </ol>

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