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Harry lays the blame for Meghan's miscarriage

<p>Prince Harry has shared a blunt accusation about who was to blame for Meghan Markle's miscarriage in July 2020. </p> <p>The Duchess of Sussex has previously spoken about the failed pregnancy while living in the US after the birth of the couple’s first child.</p> <p>Prince Harry has laid the blame for the miscarriage on on the actions of Associated Newspapers, publisher of the Mail On Sunday and Mail Online, and their relentless harassment of Meghan in the press. </p> <p>In the latest instalment of Harry and Meghan's Netflix documentary, the Duke of Sussex said, “I believe my wife suffered a miscarriage because of what the Mail did. I watched the whole thing. Now, do we absolutely know that the miscarriage was caused by that? Of course we don’t."</p> <p>“But bearing in mind the stress that caused, the lack of sleep and the timing of the pregnancy – how many weeks in she was – I can say from what I saw, that miscarriage was created by what they were trying to do to her.”</p> <p>Meghan’s friend, Abigail Spencer, describes watching the duchess fall to the floor while she was holding her son, Archie, in her new home, having said “I’m having a lot of pain”.</p> <p>The Sussexes were at the time engaged in legal action against Associated Newspapers reproducing a letter that Meghan had sent to her estranged father, Thomas Markle, in February 2019. </p> <p>In the documentary, Meghan said, “When I reveal things that are moments of vulnerability, when it comes to having a miscarriage and maybe having felt ashamed about that, like, it’s OK, you’re human, it’s OK to talk about that."</p> <p>In November 2020, the Duchess wrote a piece for the New York Times called The Losses We Share, saying, "Losing a child means carrying an almost unbearable grief, experienced by many but talked about by few. In the pain of our loss, my husband and I discovered that in a room of 100 women, 10 to 20 of them will have suffered from miscarriage."</p> <p>"Yet despite the staggering commonality of this pain, the conversation remains taboo, riddled with (unwarranted) shame, and perpetuating a cycle of solitary mourning."</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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Bride-to-be’s heartless reaction to sister’s miscarriage prompts groom to cancel their wedding

<p>A heartless bride caused her groom to call off their wedding after he witnessed her cruel reaction to news of her sister’s miscarriage.</p> <p>The bride’s wedding planner shared the horrific story on the website <a href="https://notalwaysright.com/"><strong style="font-style: inherit;"><u>Not Always Right</u></strong></a>, explaining that the drama first began when the sister first announced that she pregnant.</p> <p>After the sister, who was also chosen to a bridesmaid for the wedding, revealed that she was pregnant, the bride became enraged and called it “inconvenient”.</p> <p>“The Bridezilla informed her that her pregnancy is inconvenient and threw a fit at her poor timing because the dress will have to be altered to handle the pregnancy,” she wrote.</p> <p>“I fled to another room and shut the door, but they were having it out so loudly I could still hear the fight,” the wedding planner recalled. </p> <p>The sister reminded the bride that she and her partner had been struggling to conceive for three years.</p> <p>“While the wedding may be your day, you knew what I was going through to get the chance to have a baby,” the sister said.</p> <p>The heartless bride then kicked her out of the bridal party, saying: “Well, then, I guess you can’t be in my wedding, because I don’t want to deal with the problems your pregnancy will cause.”</p> <p>The sister walked out of the meeting and the wedding planner said she had to put on her “best retail face” to continue on with their session.</p> <p>A few months later, the wedding planner was in a meeting with the bride and her mum when the mum excused herself to answer a phone call.</p> <p>After spending a while on the phone, the mum returned with a red face and tears in her eyes, letting her daughter know that the sister had lost her baby.</p> <p>The wedding planner’s heart immediately broke and she felt sympathy tears beginning to form in her eyes.</p> <p>However, the bride remained unaffected by the devastating news.</p> <p>“Oh. Well, I guess she can be in my wedding, then, since she’s not pregnant anymore,” the bride responded.</p> <p>The wedding planner said the mum’s eyes “snapped” before she proceeded to say in a “deadly calm voice” that she would no longer be paying for the wedding.</p> <p>“It looks like my daughter will be taking over paying for everything,” she told the wedding planner.</p> <p>“I hope this doesn’t cause your business any trouble.”</p> <p>The bride immediately started to panic, waving her arms” and “screeching horrified questions” that the mum refused to answer.</p> <p>The wedding planner explained that the groom was also exposed to the bride’s heartlessness shortly after.</p> <p>“The wedding was cancelled entirely, twenty-four hours later, by the would-be groom,” she revealed at the end of the post. </p>

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Zara Tindall reveals secret trauma

<p>She welcomed her second daughter Lena in June, but Zara Tindall has revealed she suffered a second miscarriage shortly after <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="https://www.oversixty.com.au/news/news/2016/12/queens-granddaughter-loses-her-baby/">losing her unborn baby in 2016.</a> </span></strong></p> <p>In an interview with the Sunday Times Magazine, alongside her brother Peter Phillips, Zara said the loss happened “really early on”.</p> <p>The Queen’s eldest granddaughter has previously revealed she suffered a miscarriage, but not her secret second heartache.</p> <p>“I think you need to go through a period where you don’t talk about it because it’s too raw,” she said. “But, as with everything, time’s a great healer.”</p> <p>She explained that going through her first miscarriage was tough as the pregnancy had to be made public, as is the rule for descendants of the Queen.</p> <p>“We had to tell everyone and it’s like, everyone knows — that’s the hardest bit,” she said.</p> <p>“That’s why I think a lot of people don’t talk about it because [a miscarriage] can happen early enough or it’s only your group of friends and your family that know.”</p> <p>But when Zara lost her second baby, she and her husband, former England rugby player Mike Tindall, were able to mourn in private.</p> <p>The 37-year-old equestrian said mourning was easier for her when the miscarriage happened earlier on in the pregnancy.</p> <p>“I think a lot of the time you’re lucky if it happens a lot earlier,” she said.</p> <p>“It’s something a lot of families are affected by but then, hopefully, a lot of the stories I’ve heard, they’ve gone on and had more children and they’re very lucky.”</p>

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Megan Gale bravely opens up about miscarriage

<p>One month after she <a href="/news/news/2017/04/megan-gale-funny-pregnancy-announcement/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">announced her pregnancy in the most adorable way</span></strong></a>, Aussie model Megan Gale has bravely spoken about her miscarriage for the first time since revealing the news, plus sharing how she’s dealing with preparations for baby number two with boyfriend Shaun Hampson.</p> <p>“The pregnancy is going well,” she tells <a href="http://www.mamamia.com.au/megan-gale-second-pregnancy/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Mamamia</span></strong></a>. “In some ways it is different to my first [pregnancy] because of the experience of going through a miscarriage. I was very conscious to not put a lot of pressure on myself or Shaun or us or as a couple [to fall pregnant again] and let it happen organically. We very were lucky that it happened so quickly.”</p> <p>However, the <em>Australia’s Next Top Model</em> host admits she still holds fears for the worst. “With my first pregnancy, I knew there were complications but I didn't worry about it as much. With this pregnancy, I have been waiting for every scan and waiting on the edge of my seat for each one to pass.</p> <p>“I try not to let nerves and stress play a role in it all, but you can't help but wonder - what if it happens again? Shaun spoke about it as a couple and we agreed, whatever will be will be.”</p> <p>Despite all these fears, Gale admits she “wasn’t nervous” sharing her special news with the world. “On the one hand you're very happy to be at the point where you're safe and secure enough to be able to announce it. When you're in the public eye, you want to let people know what's going on rather than have people speculate. To go under that scrutiny before you're ready is a little bit unfair.”</p> <p>In a February interview with <em><a href="https://www.instylemag.com.au/article/celebrity/megan-gale-opens-up-about-carrying-her-first-child-after-miscarriage" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">InStyle</span></strong></a></em>, the model mum recalled the tragic moment she found out she’d lost the baby. “I hopped up on the table and [my obstetrician] put the ultrasound on my tummy. He just kept moving it and not saying anything and I started to feel sick. He was quiet, and then he just said, ‘I’m so sorry, it’s gone.’”</p> <p>We wish all the best for Megan and Shaun with baby number two.</p> <p><em>Image credit: Getty.</em></p>

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