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Violent concert trend sees Harry Styles added to injured list

<p dir="ltr">Harry Styles has become the latest victim of “object throwing culture” at his concert, after the British pop star was hit in the eye by a flying item.</p> <p dir="ltr">The 29-year-old was in Vienna, Austria, as his years-long Love on Tour begins to wrap up, singing to a sold out crowd of 50,000 strong.</p> <p dir="ltr">During his performance, Styles was prancing around the stage when a flying object hit him directly in the eye.</p> <p dir="ltr">The former One Direction member was seen wincing in pain as he bent over and covered his eyes with his hands.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">This is why we can’t have nice things. Harry Styles is the latest celebrity to be hit with something from the audience while performing at his concert in Vienna. <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/HarryStyles?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#HarryStyles</a> <a href="https://t.co/tithlDqfb2">pic.twitter.com/tithlDqfb2</a></p> <p>— Glitter Magazine (@glittermagazine) <a href="https://twitter.com/glittermagazine/status/1677851992700641280?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">July 9, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p dir="ltr">Videos captured by fans showed Styles rocking a green and purple sequin pants and vest combo and walking across the stage between songs when the unknown item was launched at him.</p> <p dir="ltr">As the trend of throwing items on stage during live performances continues to grow, Styles’ incident leaves many wondering when this ritual got out of hand.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Why do people keep doing this, paying money for the front row just to do this too. I’m tired of y’all,” one person asked on Twitter in response to a video of the incident.</p> <p dir="ltr">“This object throwing culture is about to kill how we experience concerts &amp; festivals moving forward. They’re about to get more expensive and more exclusive,” another person wrote.</p> <p dir="ltr">A third chimed in, “I genuinely don’t understand like I get throwing stuff on the stage where they’ll see it but they always aim for the face like why???”</p> <p dir="ltr">Harry is just one of the latest performers to be struck while on stage, with UK singer Bebe Rexha also coping an object to the face just weeks ago.</p> <p dir="ltr">During her concert in New York, the 33-year-old singer was hit in the face by a mobile phone, resulting in her sustaining a massive black and blue bruise around her eye.</p> <p dir="ltr">While not all objects tend to hit performers in the face, some flying items are just downright strange, as US singer Pink discovered in recent weeks when a concert-goer <a href="https://www.oversixty.com.au/health/caring/fan-throws-mother-s-ashes-on-stage-at-pink-concert" target="_blank" rel="noopener">threw their mother’s ashes</a> on the stage.</p> <p dir="ltr">Shocked by the remains being thrown on stage during her show in London’s Hyde Park, the singer simply said, “I don’t know how I feel about this.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Image credits: Getty Images</p>

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Maccas aren’t lovin’ the over 60s

<p dir="ltr">A McDonald’s in Auckland Central has landed itself in hot water after posting a job ad that wanted nothing to do with the over 60 workforce. </p> <p dir="ltr">The post, shared to the establishment’s Facebook page and since removed, sought new staff to cover the 10pm to 6am ‘graveyard’ shift. The usual benefits and various position criteria were listed, but it was one line at the bottom that caught the attention - and ire - of the masses.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Any age from 16 to 60,” the listing read.</p> <p dir="ltr">Feedback came fast and furious, with many outraged by the blatant ageism the fast food giant was peddling. And while McDonald’s tried to pass it off as the fault of a franchisee, the store’s manager instead said that their head office was at fault.</p> <p dir="ltr">Social media users were vocal about what they thought of the ad, and it wasn’t long before legal experts and union representatives got involved in the ongoing uproar - and even the big wigs over at McDonald’s. </p> <p dir="ltr">“We’ve been made aware that a job ad by one of our franchisees has created some debate on social media like Reddit, as it references an age range of 16-60,” company spokesperson Simon Kenny said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“The reference in the copy was intended to illustrate that people of all ages are welcome. We’ve asked the franchisee to update the copy to avoid any potential confusion.”</p> <p dir="ltr">As Joe Carolan from New Zealand’s Unite Union told the <em>New Zealand Herald</em>, “contrary to the myth that most McDonald’s jobs are [ideal for] part-time students, improvements made by the union throughout the years have seen many workers stay in these jobs into their 50s. </p> <p dir="ltr">“Older workers bring experience, stability and maturity to a workplace and we call on McDonald's to end this discriminatory ageism.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Employment law expert Max Whitehead added that the pay - $22.80 per hour - combined with the age restrictions, were a “blatant” breach of the Human Rights Act. </p> <p dir="ltr">And for those who thought the line had just been an ill-advised marketing move, Whitehead noted “if it really is to get a catchy cliche going, it’s a stupid thing to do.” </p> <p dir="ltr">Whitehead’s fellow expert, Professor Bill Hodge, had more to say on the matter of ageism too, noting that The Human Rights Act actually bans discrimination against people over the age of 60, though he saw no issue with the teenage half of the equation. </p> <p dir="ltr">“We discriminate against people 14 or 15 all the time and it’s justifiable to say ‘no, you can’t drive a car, you can’t leave school’,” he said. “On the face of it I see no obvious requirement that would exclude people over 60.”</p> <p dir="ltr">As a spokesperson for the Humans Right Campaign informed the <em>New Zealand Herald</em>, The Human Rights Act 1993 had rendered it unlawful for people to be treated differently for their age during the employment process. </p> <p dir="ltr">“It is unlawful to discriminate against employees, job applicants, voluntary workers, people seeking work through an employment agency and contract workers because of age,” the spokesperson explained. “The only exception is where, for reasons of authenticity, being of a particular age is a genuine occupational qualification for the position or employment.”</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Images: Shutterstock, Facebook</em></p>

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"I'm lovin' it": McDonald's face public outcry over unfortunately placed ad

<p>McDonald's has faced the wrath of angry locals in Cornwall, UK, after a poorly placed advertisement was called out for being "tasteless". </p> <p>The advertisement in question was for the fast food franchise's new McCrispy burger, which was placed in a prime position on the side of a bus stop. </p> <p>However, what the company didn't realise was that the sign right next to it pointed to Penmount Crematorium across the road, in an unfortunate yet humorous coincidence.</p> <p>Local media outlet <a href="https://www.cornwalllive.com/news/cornwall-news/mcdonalds-remove-tasteless-sign-opposite-8133444" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>CornwallLive</em></a> was the first to report on the poorly placed ad, and asked local residents if they thought the sign should stay or go. </p> <p>"Fell off the chair laughing," one commenter who saw the picture online said. </p> <p>"I'm lovin' it," wrote another, in reference to the popular McDonald's slogan.</p> <p>"I only recently lost 2 loved ones &amp; to be honest if I'd seen that sign near the crematorium I would have smiled. I don't find it offensive at all," said another.</p> <p>"My parents are in this crematorium. My old man had a brilliant sense of humour, so I'm sure he would have chuckled at this!" another added.</p> <p>One concerned local said, "I think how funny it is will probably depend on how long ago you followed the crematorium sign wearing a black tie."</p> <p>One woman, who's mother-in-law was cremated at the crematorium, said, "Although I can see the funny side, it is tasteless and I'm sure some grieving family members won't like to see it when visiting Penmount for the funeral and cremation of a loved one."</p> <p>Cornwall Council, who are in charge of both the crematorium and the bus shelter, have yet to comment on the matter, while McDonald's are taking the concerns about the ad seriously. </p> <p>A spokesperson told <em>CornwallLive</em>, "We were unaware of the road sign in the vicinity of this bus stop. However, in light of the concerns raised by CornwallLive, we have asked for our advertisement to be removed."</p> <p><em>Image credits: Twitter</em></p>

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7 signs your house could be adding to your waistline

<p>Well, this is a first. I am sure you’ll agree that from time to time, we've all been guilty of making excuses for our fluctuating waistlines. Step in fatty, sugar-laden foods, carbohydrates and I-can’t-stop-at-one-piece cheese wheels. But, it turns out, your home could be the culprit that is aiding you in putting on weight. And when they say your home could be responsible, they don’t mean that your house is whispering at you to take another bite, rather the study shows that if your home isn't set up right, it may be encouraging bad habits.</p> <p>The good news is there are things you can do to take back control of your abode. Sherry Pagoto, an associate professor of medicine at the University of Massachusetts Medical School, says: "You can restructure your home environment to protect yourself from unhealthy food and sedentary lifestyle."</p> <p>Here are the problem areas and how to ensure you don’t fall victim to them…</p> <p><strong>Your eating contraptions are too big</strong></p> <p>Large spoons, plates and bowls can create the illusion that you might not have dished yourself up enough dinner, making it alluring to serve yourself a larger portion. Dr Brian Wansink, the author of Mindless Eating: Why We Eat More Than We Think, says that people eat 92 per cent of the food they put on their plate, so the bigger your plate the more you will eat. </p> <p><em><strong>Fix: Use smaller spoons, plates and bowls and serve yourself smaller portions. </strong></em></p> <p><strong>Your healthy food is hidden away</strong></p> <p>Just like the saying “out of sight out of mind” if your healthy food is hidden, you're less likely to reach for it. Think about it, if you’re hungry and your fruit is tucked away in the crisper in the fridge, you’re most likely going to be inclined to reach for the biscuit jar that is sitting in the open of the shelf.</p> <p><em><strong>Fix: Get out a pretty dish and fill it with your favourite fruits and give it pride of place somewhere on a bench in the kitchen.</strong></em></p> <p><strong>Your food is in sight at all times</strong></p> <p>If you store your food out in the open on the bench or expose shelves, you're setting yourself up to eat everything in sight when hunger hits. If you have cookies or sweets on display, when you walk by them it will put that food on your radar – it’s practically asking you to eat it. Dr Brian Wansink says, "You are three times more likely to eat the first thing you see than the fifth thing you see."</p> <p><em><strong>Fix: Keep all unhealthy food hidden away in cupboards. If your kitchen cupboards are too full to hold everything, clear them out pronto!</strong></em></p> <p><strong>You serve food at the dinner table</strong></p> <p>Sometimes dinner just tastes so good that even if you’re full, you want a little extra. And if the serving dishes are on the table and all you have to do is reach across to get it – you are far more likely to have a second helping.</p> <p><em><strong>The fix:Dish out food straight from your pots and pans instead. This strategy decreased food intake by 10 per cent for women in a Cornell University study. Another trick is to dish out dinner, then put the rest away.</strong></em></p> <p><strong>Your house doesn’t get enough light</strong></p> <p>A study published in the International Journal of Endocrinology found light levels affect the fullness and hunger hormones leptin and ghrelin. Sleep-deprived participants exposed to dim light had lower levels of leptin, which is needed to regulate the amount of fat in your body.</p> <p><em><strong>Fix: When you wake up in the morning open your blinds and turn on the lights! By letting the light in you can help regulate your hormones. </strong></em></p> <p><strong>Your house is too hot</strong></p> <p>Sometimes when you get home, all you want to do is curl up on the sofa with a book or to watch TV and it's all too tempting to set the air to a warm-ish temp. But researchers at Maastricht University Medical Centre in The Netherlands have found that in winter shivering can burn around 400 calories an hour. The Lead author Wouter van Marken Lichtenbelt says, "Regular exposure to mild cold may provide a healthy and sustainable alternative strategy for increasing energy expenditure. Mild cold exposure increases body energy expenditure without shivering and without compromising our precious comfort."</p> <p><em><strong>Fix: Resist the temptation to set your home to balmy temps and consider lowering the temperature for a few hours a day.</strong></em></p> <p><strong>You have too many screens</strong></p> <p>Figures from the Australian Bureau of Statistics show Australian adults spend on average four hours per day doing sedentary leisure activities such as watching television compared with only half an hour of physical activity. And as screens are associated with sitting and sitting is associated with several health concerns, if you have one in multiple rooms in the home, you are going to be more likely to spend more time in front of one.</p> <p><em><strong>Fix: Only keep a TV in the lounge room and cut back on your sitting time.</strong></em></p> <p> </p>

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Woman buys ad in newspaper to call out cheating partner

<p dir="ltr">A furious woman who was cheated on by her partner has taken out a whole page of the local newspaper to call him out. </p> <p dir="ltr">Jenny from Queensland purchased one page from the Mackay and Whitsunday Life paper with her cheating partner’s credit card page. </p> <p dir="ltr">“Dear Steve, I hope you’re happy with her,” the message on page 4 read. </p> <p dir="ltr">“Now the whole town will know what a filthy cheater you are. From Jenny.</p> <p dir="ltr">“PS. I bought this ad using your credit card.”</p> <p dir="ltr">The newspaper said they have received several messages from locals asking who Steve and Jenny are but they have kept quiet about it.</p> <p dir="ltr">“We do NOT know who Steve is, but apparently he’s been very very bad,” the newspaper said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“We won’t be revealing any details about Jenny.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Despite writing that she used Steve’s credit card for the ad, the newspaper confirmed they have not yet charged the card. </p> <p dir="ltr">“We have not charged the credit card in question.”</p> <p dir="ltr">The ad made its way to social media with many commending Jenny for calling out her cheating partner. </p> <p dir="ltr">“Jenny sounds like someone I want to be friends with,” someone wrote. </p> <p dir="ltr">“Not all heroines wear capes. Jenny is my new favourite person,” another commented.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Sucks to be Steve,” another wrote. </p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Facebook</em></p>

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Body positivity ad slammed for removing prosthetic limb

<p dir="ltr">A body positivity campaign has hit a poor note after the models featured claimed they weren't compensated and even photoshopped to remove prosthetic limbs or onto another person's body.</p> <p dir="ltr">The advert from the Spanish Ministry of Equality was published last week as part of a campaign to promote body positivity during summer at Spanish beaches, with the caption 'Summer is ours too' displayed over an image of diverse women with non-standard bodies.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-28029417-7fff-32aa-21eb-382810d0b660"></span></p> <p dir="ltr">"Fatphobia, hatred and the questioning of non-normative bodies - particularly those of women, something that's most prevalent in the summertime," the ministry said.</p> <blockquote class="instagram-media" style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CfHmaPUo8WU/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"> </div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <div style="padding: 12.5% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;"> <div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: 8px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: auto;"> <div style="width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;"> </div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CfHmaPUo8WU/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A post shared by S I Â N G R E E N-L O R D (@sianlord_)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p dir="ltr">But, model and activist Sian Green-Lord said she was left "shaken" after friends recognised her in the campaign - despite her not giving permission for her image to be used.</p> <p dir="ltr">Green-Lord suspects her image was taken from her Instagram page. Her prosthetic leg, which she has had since she was hit by a taxi in 2013 and had her leg amputated, had been edited out.</p> <p dir="ltr">"I don't even know how to even explain the amount of anger that I'm feeling right now," the UK model told the <em><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/jul/28/all-bodies-are-beach-bodies-spains-equality-ministry-launches-summer-campaign" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Guardian</a></em>.</p> <p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-94ed9d42-7fff-5359-dbf8-ecaa75df93fa"></span></p> <p dir="ltr">"I'm literally shaking, I'm so angry."</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="es">Con que "el verano tambien es nuestro". Al igual que la imágen y manipulación que le han hecho a Sian Green-Lord sin su permiso <a href="https://t.co/zvb0onut0z">pic.twitter.com/zvb0onut0z</a></p> <p>— Zikade (@zikade_art) <a href="https://twitter.com/zikade_art/status/1553718707049959425?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">July 31, 2022</a></p></blockquote> <p dir="ltr">She isn't the only one whose image was used or altered without permission.</p> <p dir="ltr">Nyome Nichols-Williams, a London model and activist who has worked with Green-Lord previously, said the use of her image by the ministry was "downright disrespectful", after she recognised herself in the advert.</p> <p dir="ltr">"It really is deflating and then on top of that having to fight on my own to get paid," Nichols-Williams said.</p> <p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-d8a08b8b-7fff-6d4a-c7fc-9dfd656d3d5e"></span></p> <p dir="ltr">"Do I not deserve to be paid for the usage of said image?"</p> <blockquote class="instagram-media" style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; 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font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <div style="padding: 12.5% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;"> <div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: 8px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; 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margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Cd0S5p9ggX2/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A post shared by Nyome Nicholas - Williams (@curvynyome)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p dir="ltr">Juliet Fitzpatrick is the third woman to make the surprising discovery that she was feasted- though only her face seemed to have been used.</p> <p dir="ltr">Fitzpatrick, who has undergone a double mastectomy, found that her face had been photoshopped onto the body of another woman who had undergone a single mastectomy.</p> <p dir="ltr">"I have no breasts," she wrote.</p> <p dir="ltr">"I am furious if the image has been used without my consent."</p> <p dir="ltr">Australian paralympic swimmer Jessica Smith was among those slamming the advert, saying it was "so wrong and so gross on so many levels".</p> <p dir="ltr">She criticised those involved for editing the models'  images and for failing to ask for permission to use them.</p> <p dir="ltr">Arte Mapeche, the artist credited with creating the advert for the ministry, was reportedly paid €4,490 ($AUD 6573 or $NZD 7289) to create the image.</p> <p dir="ltr">She has since reached out to the models whose images she used, as well as a graphic design company whose font she used without licensing, and has issued a public apology.</p> <p dir="ltr">"I would like to publicly apologise to the models for having been inspired by their photographs for the "Summer is ours too" campaign and for having used an unlicensed typeface," she wrote.</p> <p dir="ltr">"Given the - justified - controversy over the image rights in the illustration, I have decided that the best way to make amends for the damages that may have resulted from my actions is to share out the money I received for the work and give equal parts to the people in the poster," the artist said.</p> <p dir="ltr">"I accept my mistakes and that is why I am now trying to repair the damage caused."</p> <p dir="ltr">Nicholas-Williams said she was happy to have “inspired” the artwork, but said she should have been contacted beforehand and remunerated, while a trip to Spain for a photoshoot would have been a nice extra.</p> <p dir="ltr">The Spanish government has yet to comment on the matter.</p> <p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-a6db1dbc-7fff-a739-a6c2-8b91e99d7e29"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: The Ministry of Equality</em></p>

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“Sick beyond belief”: Burger chain slammed for Maddy McCann Mother’s Day ad

<p>The Otley Burger Company in the UK has been met with a furious response after posting an ad to social media that made light of the disappearance of Madeleine McCann ahead of Mother’s Day – although the owner of the company has defended the post, claiming it was “just a meme”.</p> <p>Shared to social media by the Leeds-based chain, the ads depict McCann and her mother, along with a small edited image of a masked man escaping with the child, plus a caption: “With burgers this good, you’ll leave your kids at home. What’s the worst that could happen?”.</p> <p>The ad then concludes with the phrase “Happy Mother’s Day to all the mums out there”. </p> <p>Such was the fury the ads were met with that they were quickly banned by Britain’s Advertising Standards Authority, which deemed the posts likely to cause offence and distress after several complaints were made.</p> <p>The ASA stated that the ads made light of the circumstances surrounding McCann’s disappearance.</p> <p>“Any reference to a missing child was likely to be distressing, and that in the context of an ad promoting a burger company, the distress caused was unjustified,” the statement read.</p> <p>The ASA then asked Twitter, Instagram and Facebook to remove the posts and suspend the account pending investigation.</p> <p>Meta said it had reviewed the Instagram post and removed it for violating policies, while Twitter said the post had also been deleted.</p> <p>The burger company’s takeaway service page was quickly flooded with furious comments over the “disgusting” behaviour.</p> <p>“Sick beyond belief, I hope the company goes broke,” one person wrote.</p> <p>“Hang your heads in shame,” wrote another.</p> <p>Owner Joe Scholey, 29, told Metro UK: “I’m not taking the mick out of a missing toddler. I’m basically putting, ‘Happy Mother’s Day’ to all the mums,” he said.</p> <p>“She [Kate McCann] is a mum. Not the world’s greatest mum and not the world’s worst. She’s a mum, there’s one there.”</p> <p><em>Image: Otley Burger Company</em></p>

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"Get the tissues ready": Qantas reveals ad kept on shelf for two years

<p dir="ltr">After sitting on it for two years, Qantas has revealed its new Spirit of Australia ad that promises to be a tear-jerker.</p> <p dir="ltr">CEO Alan Joyce admitted the ad wasn’t technically new, with most of the footage shot in 2019 - before the COVID-19 pandemic saw international travel grind to a standstill.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Get the tissues ready,” he <a href="https://www.news.com.au/travel/travel-advice/flights/qantas-reveals-celebrityfilled-new-ad-with-kylie-minogue-and-hugh-jackman/news-story/3c2460c7ee847a0961869230c3097f9d" target="_blank" rel="noopener">said</a> from Qantas’ HQ just before the ad was screened for the first time.</p> <p dir="ltr">“We have kept it in the can for over two years because the time has never been quite right … it was filmed when things were very different but now is the right time.</p> <p dir="ltr">“We couldn’t do it until the whole country was together again because as the song says, ‘one day we’ll all be together once more’.”</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-7e987427-7fff-0490-424b-7b2a0d4fe739">The ad includes a contemporary version of Peter Allan’s <em>I Still Call Australia Home</em>, which has been an iconic part of Qantas ads since 1987, with vocals from Kylie Minogue, Hugh Jackman, Troye Sivan, and the Australian Girls Choir, National Boys Choir and Gondwana Choir.</span></p> <blockquote class="instagram-media" style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/tv/CbgYoqqLYfl/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"> </div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <div style="padding: 12.5% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;"> <div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: 8px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: auto;"> <div style="width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;"> </div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/tv/CbgYoqqLYfl/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A post shared by Qantas (@qantas)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p dir="ltr">It also includes a nod to the toll of the pandemic, with emotional footage of families reuniting at Australian airports added in the final version.</p> <p dir="ltr">“The last major Qantas advert came as the country was rolling up its sleeves to be vaccinated so we could all reconnect, and it really struck a chord,” Joyce said in a <a href="https://www.qantasnewsroom.com.au/media-releases/qantas-unveils-new-i-still-call-australia-home-campaign/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">statement</a>.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Now that borders are finally open, and staying open, this is the perfect time to relaunch this Peter Allan classic as the national carrier’s anthem.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Other stars that make an appearance include sporting icons Ash Barty, Adam Goodes, Bronte Campbell and Ellie Cole, as well as Indigenous artist and Elder Rene Kulitja, members of the Bangarra Dance Theatre, and children form Longreach.</p> <p dir="ltr">The ad also showed off some of Australia’s most jaw-dropping locations, from the pink-hued Hutt Lagoon in WA and the outback town of Longreach to the jagged cliffs of Tasmania’s Cape Raoul and Sydney Harbour.</p> <p dir="ltr">Meanwhile, Jackman, Minogue and Sivan were filmed in London, Tokyo, and Los Angeles.</p> <p dir="ltr">The ad will be displayed on TV screens, billboards, social media and on international flights returning to Australia for the rest of the year, starting on Sunday.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-fda26270-7fff-1bac-336d-a45d6d1c9b25"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: @qantas (Instagram)</em></p>

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Brutally honest housemate ad applauded

<p dir="ltr">A man has been praised online for his brutally honest advertisement for a roommate, in which he laid out some very specific ground rules for potential tenants.</p> <p dir="ltr">The man from Perth posted the ad on the Perth Buy And Sell Western Australia Facebook group, stating he “really really didn’t want a housemate” but needed someone to share the rent so he could “save for a motorbike”.</p> <p dir="ltr">He went on to list the many traits he wanted in his future housemate, which included someone who smokes outside, “no paedophiles” and a preferably introverted roommate who largely kept to themselves. </p> <p dir="ltr">“I really really don’t want a housemate, especially someone who talks too much or who has lots of visitors,” he wrote.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Prefer someone who just wants to use the room to set up a lan for computer hacking 9-5 or FIFO workers 4/1.”</p> <p dir="ltr">“No eye contact or boring ‘polite’ casual conversations.”</p> <p dir="ltr">On offer in the home was one large room with high ceilings, unlimited internet, with access to a large contained backyard complete with a lemon and orange tree, with the rent also enticingly priced at $165 a week.</p> <p dir="ltr">He also went on to say the prospective roommate could grow marijuana or magic mushrooms in the backyard but only “if you share”.</p> <p dir="ltr">The man who shared the ad has been praised online for being “refreshingly honest” and upfront, with many commenters appreciating his transparency. </p> <p dir="ltr">“Best room to rent ad ever. Expectations and boundaries laid upfront,” one woman wrote.</p> <p dir="ltr">It is as yet unclear if the man has found a roommate that meets his list of demands to move in with him – but we sure hope so. </p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: Getty Images / Facebook</em></p>

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World first tourism ad filmed atop Sydney icon

<p dir="ltr">A new advertisement from Tourism NSW has gone to new heights, featuring the first artist to film a music video on top of the Sydney Harbour Bridge.</p><p dir="ltr">Australian indie musician Azure Ryder recorded her own rendition of Nina Simone’s jazzy 1965 hit, <em>Feeling Good</em>, which is the soundtrack for the NSW government’s latest tourism campaign, Feeling New.</p><p dir="ltr">The ad sees Ryder traverse the Megalong Valley and Lincoln’s Rock in the Blue Mountains, before appearing at Mary’s Underground in The Rocks.</p><p><span id="docs-internal-guid-f1aef81b-7fff-abf4-c907-c88992f8cfb4"></span></p><p dir="ltr">The climax of both the ad and Ryder’s music video sees the artist performing on top of the Sydney Harbour Bridge’s Southern Pylon.</p><p dir="ltr"><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2022/02/Azure-Ryder-Feeling-Good-2-4-screenshot.png" alt="" width="1280" height="544" /></p><p dir="ltr"><em>Azure Ryder took part in a world-first, filming part of her new music video atop one of the pylons of the Sydney Harbour Bridge. Image: Azure Ryder (YouTube)</em></p><p dir="ltr">Stuart Ayres, who is both the Minister for Enterprise, Investment and Trade and the Minister for Tourism and Sport, said the clip truly showed off the diverse landscapes of NSW.</p><p dir="ltr">“I am delighted with the music video for the soundtrack behind our Feel New campaign. It captures all the things I love about our state,” Mr Ayres <a href="https://media.destinationnsw.com.au/feeling-good-nsw" target="_blank" rel="noopener">said</a> in a statement.</p><p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-c3088ace-7fff-ce64-4b6a-994eea96ecf3"></span></p><p dir="ltr">“We are incredibly blessed in NSW to have some of the most spectacular filming backdrops in the world and to have one of our brightest talents in Azure Ryder pay tribute to her home city and state this way highlights what incredible places Sydney and NSW are to live and visit.”</p><p dir="ltr"><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2022/02/Azure-Ryder-Feeling-Good-1-23-screenshot.png" alt="" width="1280" height="544" /></p><p dir="ltr"><em>Azure Ryder collaborated with Tourism NSW to go to new heights, capturing this stunning view from Lincoln’s Rock in the NSW Blue Mountains. Image: Azure Ryder (YouTube)</em></p><p dir="ltr">Ryder said the experience filming the clip for <em>Feeling Good</em> was also quite special for her, capturing both the energy of her home state and the lyrics of the classic tune.</p><p dir="ltr">“The experience you will see through my music video is one that I grew up my entire life believing in,” Ryder said. “The importance of what our surroundings can teach us, show us how to feel, and ultimately teach us how to be human. </p><p dir="ltr">“The soul that Nina embodies and speaks of in <em>Feeling Good</em> is the soul that is all around us if we just step out, open our eyes, and look up to the beauty and the story written along mountaintops and city pavements.</p><p dir="ltr">“We are so lucky to have such magic on our doorstep.”</p><p dir="ltr">You can watch the new ‘Feeling New’ ad from Tourism NSW below.</p><blockquote class="instagram-media" style="background: #FFF;border: 0;border-radius: 3px;margin: 1px;max-width: 540px;min-width: 326px;padding: 0;width: calc(100% - 2px)" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/reel/CZyNzRXFGnw/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"><div style="padding: 16px"><div style="flex-direction: row;align-items: center"><div style="background-color: #f4f4f4;border-radius: 50%;flex-grow: 0;height: 40px;margin-right: 14px;width: 40px"> </div><div style="flex-direction: column;flex-grow: 1;justify-content: center"><div style="background-color: #f4f4f4;border-radius: 4px;flex-grow: 0;height: 14px;margin-bottom: 6px;width: 100px"> </div><div style="background-color: #f4f4f4;border-radius: 4px;flex-grow: 0;height: 14px;width: 60px"> </div></div></div><div style="padding: 19% 0"> </div><div style="height: 50px;margin: 0 auto 12px;width: 50px"> </div><div style="padding-top: 8px"><div style="color: #3897f0;font-family: Arial,sans-serif;font-size: 14px;font-style: normal;font-weight: 550;line-height: 18px">View this post on Instagram</div></div><div style="padding: 12.5% 0"> </div><div style="flex-direction: row;margin-bottom: 14px;align-items: center"><div><div style="background-color: #f4f4f4;border-radius: 50%;height: 12.5px;width: 12.5px"> </div><div style="background-color: #f4f4f4;height: 12.5px;width: 12.5px;flex-grow: 0;margin-right: 14px;margin-left: 2px"> </div><div style="background-color: #f4f4f4;border-radius: 50%;height: 12.5px;width: 12.5px"> </div></div><div style="margin-left: 8px"><div style="background-color: #f4f4f4;border-radius: 50%;flex-grow: 0;height: 20px;width: 20px"> </div><div style="width: 0;height: 0;border-top: 2px solid transparent;border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4;border-bottom: 2px solid transparent"> </div></div><div style="margin-left: auto"><div style="width: 0px;border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4;border-right: 8px solid transparent"> </div><div style="background-color: #f4f4f4;flex-grow: 0;height: 12px;width: 16px"> </div><div style="width: 0;height: 0;border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4;border-left: 8px solid transparent"> </div></div></div><div style="flex-direction: column;flex-grow: 1;justify-content: center;margin-bottom: 24px"><div style="background-color: #f4f4f4;border-radius: 4px;flex-grow: 0;height: 14px;margin-bottom: 6px;width: 224px"> </div><div style="background-color: #f4f4f4;border-radius: 4px;flex-grow: 0;height: 14px;width: 144px"> </div></div><p style="color: #c9c8cd;font-family: Arial,sans-serif;font-size: 14px;line-height: 17px;margin-bottom: 0;margin-top: 8px;overflow: hidden;padding: 8px 0 7px;text-align: center"><a style="color: #c9c8cd;font-family: Arial,sans-serif;font-size: 14px;font-style: normal;font-weight: normal;line-height: 17px;text-decoration: none" href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/CZyNzRXFGnw/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A post shared by New South Wales (@visitnsw)</a></p></div></blockquote><p dir="ltr">To see Ryder’s full music video, head <a href="https://youtu.be/geAG0J820lY" target="_blank" rel="noopener">here</a>.</p><p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-d41c3ada-7fff-e6da-6c50-9890fe55a02d"></span></p><p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Oliver Beggs &amp; Reece McMillan (Tourism NSW)</em></p>

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Damning full-page ad slams Ardern’s border policy

<p dir="ltr">New Zealand Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern has been <a href="https://www.9news.com.au/national/jacinda-ardern-popularity-plunges-as-kiwis-struggle-to-return-home/e350bbd6-907c-4bd9-be82-63037dc52269" target="_blank" rel="noopener">openly criticised</a> in a full-page ad regarding the country’s strict border policy, after news emerged of a pregnant New Zealand journalist fighting to return home to give birth.</p><p dir="ltr">The advertisement, taken out by prominent businessman Michael Horton in one of New Zealand’s most widely-read magazines, claimed that New Zealand was one of the few countries not allowing its citizens to return home.</p><p><span id="docs-internal-guid-2ce06cae-7fff-55cf-e942-5c571f5e3dc0"></span></p><p dir="ltr">Under the headline, “The following countries do not ban their own citizens from returning to their home country”, the ad listed dozens of countries, from Afghanistan to Zimbabwe.</p><blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p dir="ltr" lang="en">This ad, sponsored by Michael Horton, appears in the January 29 <a href="https://twitter.com/nzlistener?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@nzlistener</a>. Thank you Michael. <a href="https://twitter.com/nzgovt?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@nzgovt</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/govtnz?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@govtnz</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/jacindaardern?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@jacindaardern</a> <a href="https://t.co/ZGTW2iFHUr">pic.twitter.com/ZGTW2iFHUr</a></p>— Graeme Jennings (@Graeme_rj) <a href="https://twitter.com/Graeme_rj/status/1484343384357494786?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">January 21, 2022</a></blockquote><p dir="ltr">Above it, another headline read, “The following countries effectively ban their own citizens from returning to their home country”, with New Zealand as the only country listed.</p><p dir="ltr">The ad comes as Charlotte Bell, a 35-year-old journalist  who was working in Qatar for Al Jazeera until recently, remains stranded in Afghanistan, despite being triple-vaccinated and ready to isolate upon her return to her home country.</p><p dir="ltr">Kiwis looking to return home are required to secure a place in government-run quarantine, through a system called Managed Isolation and Quarantine (MIQ).</p><p dir="ltr">According to the MIQ website, travellers are advised to book their place in MIQ - with spots gradually released in the months prior to flight arrivals - before booking their flights.</p><p dir="ltr">“In periods of high demand, some people will miss out on securing an MIQ voucher, regardless of the system that is used,” the website reads.</p><p dir="ltr">As a result of the high demand for the 4500 available spots, thousands of New Zealanders have been unable to return home in time to be with dying family members or be present for milestone moments.</p><p dir="ltr">The system, which used a weekly lottery system to allocate vouchers until early January, has been fully booked out for months in advance which has also meant that impromptu travel or returning for emergencies - such as in Ms Bell’s case - remains virtually impossible. </p><p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-0e7e5743-7fff-7d75-76eb-89bdc2ad4ad7"></span></p><p dir="ltr">Ms Bell published an open letter in <em><a href="https://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/covid-19-omicron-charlotte-bellis-an-open-letter-on-miq/U4WQGYTJHUP36AGVOBN3F6PJSE/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The New Zealand Herald</a></em> over the weekend detailing how she was forced to seek refuge in Afghanistan’s capital of Kabul, after she was no longer able to work in Qatar because it is illegal to be pregnant and unmarried there.</p><blockquote class="instagram-media" style="background: #FFF;border: 0;border-radius: 3px;margin: 1px;max-width: 540px;min-width: 326px;padding: 0;width: calc(100% - 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It is my legal right to go to New Zealand, where I have healthcare, where I have family. All my support is there,” she <a href="https://www.9news.com.au/world/from-kabul-pregnant-reporter-fights-nz-govt-to-come-home/94ed99be-8bbf-4ed0-a0f3-10a77e52ff84" target="_blank" rel="noopener">said</a>.</p><p dir="ltr">Ms Bell first attempted to secure residency in Belgium - where her partner is from - but said the length of the process meant she would have been left in the country with an expired visa.</p><p dir="ltr">With the option to either hop from country to country on tourist visas or attempt to secure a more long-term stay while she fought to return home, Ms Bell and her partner returned to Afghanistan because they had a visa, felt welcome, and could continue their battle there.</p><p dir="ltr">Critics like Mr Horton have claimed the lottery system is a needlessly punishing process as more than 90 percent of the country’s population have been fully vaccinated and boosters continue to be administered.</p><p dir="ltr">Meanwhile, Ms Ardern’s approval ratings have taken a hit, with a recent 1 News Kantor poll indicating that her current approval rate sits at just 35 percent, the lowest it’s been since she became Prime Minister in 2017.</p><p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-ff3c29b5-7fff-be5f-acb9-82fc7a0f93fa"></span></p><p dir="ltr"><em>Image: @charlottebellis (Instagram)</em></p>

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Novak slammed by lamb ad at Australian Open

<p>A billboard has appeared in the surrounding area of the Australian Open, taking a swipe at Novak Djokovic.</p> <p>The billboard features the latest annual Australian Lamb ad, which surface every year around the upcoming Australia Day.</p> <p>This year, they chose to advertise near Melbourne Park, where the tennis tournament is underway without the Serbian tennis champ.</p> <p><span>On the side of a truck, the Meat and Livestock Australia ad reads, “Everyone’s welcome at our BBQ. Not Djoking.”</span></p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Australian Lamb has some new billboards getting around at the <a href="https://twitter.com/AustralianOpen?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@AustralianOpen</a>. <a href="https://t.co/enJ6S8E1MQ">pic.twitter.com/enJ6S8E1MQ</a></p> — Kellie Lazzaro (@kellazzaro) <a href="https://twitter.com/kellazzaro/status/1483281067788627969?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">January 18, 2022</a></blockquote> <p><span>The new ad is part of the 2022 campaign that Meat and Livestock Australia say is all about sharing. </span></p> <p><span>“Building on the ‘Share the Lamb’ brand platform, the 6-week integrated campaign reflects upon how Australia has become isolated from the rest of the world due to strict international border closures during the pandemic,” MLA says on its website.</span></p> <p><span>As the story of Novak </span>Djokovic's recent deportation has stayed in the headlines, the MLA has capitalised on the situation in their signature witty fashion.</p> <p>Novak was tipped as the player to beat in the Australian Open, before he was deported from Australia last week after Immigration Minister Alex Hawke revoked his visa, on the grounds that he had not been vaccinated for Covid-19.</p> <p>Mr Hawke argued in court that allowing Novak to compete in Australia would incite an anti-vaccination sentiment, and greatly impact the amount of people turning up for their booster shots.</p> <p>As well as the witty billboard in Melbourne, the MLA have released their full length TV ad, which showcases Australia cut off from the rest of the world and reunited by a huge barbecue.</p> <p>Check it out here.</p> <p><iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/Ck8CO6zGFB0" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></p> <p><em>Image credits: Twitter @kellazzaro</em></p>

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Muslim bachelor uses billboard ads to find a wife

<p>Muhammad Malik has come up with a unique way to meet a potential partner. </p> <p>The London-based 29-year-old has plastered his face on billboards across England in an unorthodox bid to "save him from an arranged marriage".</p> <p>The series of billboards show the eligible bachelor laying on the ground with a link to his website, called <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.findmalikawife.com" target="_blank">findmalikawife.com</a>.</p> <p>His website gives potential suitors a look into his life, career, and special interests, as well as what he is looking for in a partner. </p> <p>In Mailk's words, he is looking for, "<span>a Muslim woman in her 20s, who's striving to better her deen. I'm open to any ethnicity but I've got a loud Punjabi family - so you'd need to keep with the bants."</span><br /><span>"Always personality and faith over anything else!"</span></p> <p><span>The free-spirited Malik insists he isn't against arranged marriages, but he "just wanted to try and find someone on my own first."</span></p> <p><span>Speaking to BBC's Asian Network, Malik said he became tired of using dating apps, saying they lack a real connection. </span></p> <p class="mol-para-with-font">"It takes a lot of energy swiping left and right, and you almost become immune or this robot," he said.  </p> <p class="mol-para-with-font">"There's that lack of ethereal human connection when we're talking about the online space." </p> <p class="mol-para-with-font">When asked why he went to such extreme lengths with the billboards, he said, "Probably because of my personality."</p> <p class="mol-para-with-font">"I'm a creative and I love doing the most random and absurd things - as long as they are 100 per cent halal of course."</p> <p class="mol-para-with-font">"Traditional methods such as 'rishta aunties' didn't work for me so thought why not take it to the billboards."</p> <p class="mol-para-with-font">Since the billboards have been up since New Years Day, Malik said he has got hundreds of responses, and has enlisted the help of his friends to go through the potential partners. </p> <p class="mol-para-with-font"><span>He said, "It's early days but responses thus far have been in the triple digits and from some really lovely people - keep them coming. I'm hoping to get in touch with women I like soon."</span></p> <p class="mol-para-with-font"><em>Image credits: Twitter @findmailkawife</em></p>

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Mum makes dating ad for daughter in Times Square

<p dir="ltr">A woman with terminal cancer has<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10370849/Mom-cancer-61-takes-Times-Square-billboard-help-daughter-30-boyfriend.html" target="_blank">taken out a billboard in Times Square</a><span> </span>to help her daughter find a boyfriend, with the hope she can see her marry before she dies.</p> <p dir="ltr">Beth Davies was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 2004, receiving chemotherapy to treat it.</p> <p dir="ltr">However, she was informed in June 2020 that she had developed metastatic breast cancer which had spread to her bones.</p> <p dir="ltr">The 61-year-old Boston woman is now hoping to help her daughter Molly, 30, secure a partner so that she can watch her daughter walk down the aisle. She also wants “to know I am leaving her in good hands”.</p> <p dir="ltr">Last week, Ms Davies’ 14-by-seven-metre ad went up at the famed spot, showing a photo of Molly and a link to her profile on dating app Wingman, which lets friends and family share testimonies about the person and pitch them as a suitable partner.</p> <p dir="ltr">Beneath the photo, a message from Beth was also included, reading: “I’m Molly’s wingman and her Mom”.</p> <p dir="ltr"><img style="width: 0px; height: 0px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7846641/daughter-ad1.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/d923f15e7b954133a78f2a04f169b2bc" /></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: The Daily Mail</em></p> <p dir="ltr">Speaking to the<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://nypost.com/2022/01/03/cancer-stricken-mom-gets-times-square-billboard-to-help-daughter-find-a-man/" target="_blank"><em>New York Post</em></a>, Ms Davies said she and her husband Rick were determined to help Molly get married.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I would like to see my daughter well-settled,” Beth told the publication.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Considering that I have serious health issues, there is urgency.”</p> <p dir="ltr">She is currently taking Ibrance tablets, which she hopes will keep the cancer at bay for at least two years.</p> <p dir="ltr">Molly told<span> </span><em>The Post</em><span> </span>the app and billboard “cases a wider net”.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I want someone who adores me and someone I adore as well. I want someone who adds to my life. If this broadcasts that, it will all be worth it.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Her mother added that her role as ‘wingwoman’ to her daughter came after Molly acted as her wingwoman.</p> <p dir="ltr">“It is only fair since Molly acted as my wingman, escorting me to various oncology appointments,” she said.</p> <p dir="ltr">Though Ms Davies said some of her friends’ daughters would “kill them” for attempting a similar stunt, Molly said she appreciated her mum’s efforts.</p> <p dir="ltr">“It’s such a trip. Especially up there next to Gen-Z icon Olivia Rodrigo,” Molly said of the billboard.</p> <p dir="ltr"><img style="width: 0px; height: 0px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7846642/daughter-ad2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/969c6959ffe746bca39f62a4ef29e9ff" /></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Beth Davies (Facebook)</em></p> <p dir="ltr">Since its appearance, Molly and her mum have made the trip to Times Square together, with Ms Davies sharing photos of them beneath it on Facebook.</p> <p dir="ltr">The billboard ad came to be after Molly’s profile came to the attention of Wingman’s founder Tina Wilson, who arranged the whole thing.</p> <p dir="ltr">“She still is focused with love and attention for her daughter and so I wanted to help her accelerate that search and find someone great,” Ms Wilson told<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.nbcwashington.com/news/national-international/mom-gets-times-square-billboard-to-help-daughter-find-a-date/2927663/?_osource=SocialFlowTwt_DCBrand" target="_blank"><em>NBC</em></a>.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Beth Davies (Facebook)</em></p>

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Adding noise to electric cars for safer driving

<div class="copy"> <p>The low-decibel motors of <a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://cosmosmagazine.com/technology/energy/as-the-world-surges-ahead-on-electric-vehicle-policy-the-morrison-governments-new-strategy-leaves-australia-idling-in-the-garage/" target="_blank">electric cars</a> are a blessing to many in noise-polluted cities, where poorly muffled gasoline engines can rattle nerves (and eardrums). But are they <em>too</em> silent?</p> <p>The answer, says Michael Roan, an engineering professor at Penn State University, Pennsylvania, US, is an unfortunate yes, especially for the vision impaired, who rely on their ears to detect approaching danger.</p> <p>In fact, Vision Australia has reported that 35% of the blind or vision impaired report being hit, or nearly hit, by electric vehicles they didn’t hear approaching.</p> <p>Governments are also aware of the problem, Roan says, with Australia, the US, and the EU all setting standards for how much sound electric vehicles must make.</p> <p>But do these standards work?</p> <p>To find out, Roan borrowed a Chevy Volt from General Motors and recruited 16 people, some vision impaired and some with normal vision but blindfolded, to listen to the car approaching on a quiet stretch of road. Sometimes the Volt was unmodified; other times it used speakers programmed to emit four different types of sounds, all meeting the standards.</p> <p>When his volunteers heard the car approaching, he asked them to push a button. When they thought it was gone, they pushed the button a second time.</p> <p>To make it harder, in some of the tests Roan’s team set up speakers to play background noise comparable to that in normal urban settings. Sometimes the car went 20 kilometres per hour, sometimes 10 km/h.</p> <p>The results were disconcerting.</p> <p>In general, Roan said last week in Seattle, Washington, at the 181<sup>st</sup> meeting of the Acoustical Society of America, people heard the car much better at 20 km/h than at 10 km/h—not surprising, because the faster a car goes, the more its overall sound is dominated by tyre noise.</p> <p>Above 20 km/h, he says, tyre noise dominates, and most cars sound pretty much alike. But at 10 km/h, he found that 20% of his volunteers would have stepped into the path of danger.</p> <p>Worse, in the course of 90 experimental runs, there were two in which nobody heard the car. That’s not a lot, “but when you extrapolate it to millions and millions of people, that’s a lot of people getting injured”, he says.</p> <p>The next step is figuring out what type of noises best reduce this risk, without being unpleasantly loud.</p> <p>Regulatory authorities, Roan says, have ruled against simply making the car sound like an internal combustion engine. In tests, he says, “people really didn’t like that”.</p> <p>Instead, they want something “more futuristic” that points to the vehicle being electric. The sounds that seem most effective at catching attention, he adds, aren’t steady whirs, but ones that change in volume or pitch. “That gets people’s attention really quickly,” he says. “[Though] their annoyance factor tends to go up, so it’s a balancing act.”</p> <p>Another issue is how to make this work as the green energy future fully arrives and electric vehicles are everywhere. “If there are 20 of these cars all in one area, how is that going to affect people’s detection of the one that’s most dangerous?” Roan asks. “I don’t think anyone knows that yet.”</p> <em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></div> <div id="contributors"> <p><em>This article was originally published on <a rel="noopener" href="https://cosmosmagazine.com/technology/automation/adding-noise-to-electric-cars-for-safer-driving/" target="_blank">cosmosmagazine.com</a> and was written by Richard A Lovett. </em></p> </div>

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Hotel chain adds royal touch to their new ad

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A luxury chain of hotels have enlisted the help of honest to goodness European royals to help advertise their latest project. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Raffles Hotels &amp; Resorts launched the new ad for their London hotel, which features Princess Maria Olympia of Greece and Prince Nikolai of Denmark. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In the two-minute advertisement, a group of six royals and high-society figures take viewers through the company’s rich history while showcasing their Singapore location. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The first royal cameo comes from George Spencer-Churchill, Marquess of Blandford, who is featured having a flower attached to his lapel in the breakfast room.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Princess Maria is then seen posing with a dog and cockatoo in the drawing room.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Princess Mary’s nephew Prince Nikolai also makes an appearance holding a bird and painting.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Next, the Archduchess of Austria and Princess of Hungary and Bohemia Anna Catharina von Habsburg, is filmed writing a letter at the Raffles Writer's Bar, and elsewhere her mother Archduchess Gabriele, can be seen lounging by the pool.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Another royal cameo is made from Maharaja Sawai Padmanabh Singh of Jaipur, who is seen gallantly riding in on a horse in the art gallery.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The new advertisement finishes with all of the royals seated together for a lavish dinner in the Raffles Singapore resort.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When asked to take part in the project, Princess Maria Olympia told </span><a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/jimdobson/2021/11/02/raffles-hotel-launches-stunning-new-campaign-featuring-actual-royalty/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Forbes</span></a> <span style="font-weight: 400;">that, "Raffles is emblematic of so much history and sophistication, and the brand has played host to so many notable moments with fashionable icons through the ages".</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Upon launching the royal campaign, Raffles stated on its official website, "Welcome to Raffles for our social season of enchantment and wonder, by appointment with six illustrious ambassadors.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">"In the spirit of adventure, we invited them to step into an imaginary day in the life of their beloved Raffles, as wittily conjured up by filmmaker extraordinaire Peter Greenaway CBE. Celebrating our shared love of heritage and Raffles' role as the birthplace of stories and legends – past, present and future."</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Check out the video here:</span></p> <p><iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZyavSZKjX-I" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image credits: Raffles Hotels &amp; Resorts</span></em></p>

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When missing children return: how can we avoid adding to Cleo Smith’s trauma?

<p>Four-year-old Cleo Smith was <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2021/nov/03/cleo-smith-found-first-pictures-of-smiling-girl-as-australian-police-detail-moment-of-rescue" target="_blank">found by Western Australian police earlier this week</a>, 18 days after going missing from a remote campsite.</p> <p>Being taken and removed from one’s family is a significantly traumatic event for any child. It disrupts their entire world.</p> <p>Children are <a href="https://acamh.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1469-7610.2011.02399.x">dependent on their families and attachment figures</a> for their sense of security and support. Sudden loss of these important relationships can result in fear, a sense of abandonment and confusion. Children left alone can become withdrawn and depressed and have little understanding of why this has happened to them.</p> <p>There can be long-term effects, such as memories of the fearful experience, sleep disruption and anxiety. Some children will have difficultly rebuilding their sense of security and trust.</p> <p>As a child psychiatrist who’s researched trauma, I’m interested in how we can ensure such children recover.</p> <p>Family members, the media and the public also need to avoid certain actions or behaviours that could re-traumatise the child.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">"It's one person who has done this horrible thing"<br /><br />WA Police Minister Paul Papalia shares new details about the miracle rescue of missing girl Cleo Smith. <a href="https://t.co/CEAE1U3HFm">pic.twitter.com/CEAE1U3HFm</a></p> — Sunrise (@sunriseon7) <a href="https://twitter.com/sunriseon7/status/1455998352668053507?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">November 3, 2021</a></blockquote> <p><strong>How can the child recover?</strong></p> <p>The first priority after finding the child is to immediately re-establish a sense of safety and stability, and to reunite them with their family.</p> <p>The most important thing is to avoid intrusive, <a rel="noopener" href="https://bpspsychub.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1348/135532506X156620" target="_blank">probing questioning</a> straight away as this can be frightening and distressing. It’s a normal response for the child to try and not think about what they’ve just been through.</p> <p>They will take their own time before they’re able to share details of their experiences, and will need considerable support and care to do this.</p> <p>Intrusive questioning may re-traumatise the child. For survivors of trauma, being asked to focus on their memories and experiences of fear can be distressing and bring back the terror of the experience, particularly if they’re not ready to think about the events.</p> <p>Police forces have skilled interviewers who understand and avoid this when recovering a child, and perform the interviews gradually.</p> <p>There are open questions about any other sort of trauma Cleo may have experienced, but for now we don’t have any information on this. We might never know all the details and we need to respect the family’s right to privacy.</p> <p>Some children might benefit from counselling, particularly if they have severe anxiety symptoms or have been held for a long time.</p> <p>Children held for a long time often become dependent on their captor for survival, as they <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/01926180902754711?journalCode=uaft20" target="_blank">adapt to their situation and attempt to survive</a>. It’s a very strange and traumatising position for the child to be in and may take a long time to recover from.</p> <p>Over time, it’s important for attachment figures such as parents and carers to allow children to express fears in a gentle way.</p> <p>Children may have “disguised anxieties”. They may develop fear about some other thing or event, for example storms or dogs, because they’re <a rel="noopener" href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0829573512468845" target="_blank">expressing anxiety about the traumatic event in a disguised way</a>.</p> <p><strong>Adults should listen, not probe</strong></p> <p>Caregivers need to be <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubpdfs/child-trauma.pdf" target="_blank">guided by the child’s willingness to disclose</a>, and when.</p> <p>The response to trauma varies considerably. Some children tell parents or carers a lot about the experience at first. Others may disclose small details little by little over time, while some may not speak about details for months or years.</p> <p>Parents or carers need to let the child speak at their own pace and be guided by the child’s level of anxiety. The aim is to give the child a safe space to speak to trusted people who can support them.</p> <p>When they do start talking about their experience, adults must listen carefully and validate their feelings. Adults should reassure the child that he or she is safe now. It’s not a good idea to probe.</p> <p>Believing what the child says is crucial.</p> <p><strong>Let’s not get carried away with speculation</strong></p> <p>We don’t know what the long-term consequences for Cleo will be. This will depend on what she’s been exposed to, which we don’t know yet. And we don’t always get a sense of closure – this isn’t as important as working on the best way to support her recovery.</p> <p>The media should avoid premature comment and speculation on what might have occurred. The media currently have no idea what kind of person the suspect is and shouldn’t speculate on his behaviours and motives.</p> <p>It’s also not helpful for the media to focus on extreme ideas about risk to children at the hands of predatory offenders.</p> <p>As the public, we shouldn’t speculate about the circumstances either or prejudge those involved. Police are methodical and thorough in their work and will need time to piece together the story of what may have happened.</p> <p>The local community, and many members of the public, are likely to be anxious and fearful. A missing child strikes at the core of our desire to care for children. This may have negative impacts on community trust and relationships.</p> <p>If this was random act, there’s the potential for ongoing fear. And it’s potentially more scary than the stereotypes we think of, such as a planned attack by a ring of perpetrators. A random attack is harder to make sense of, terrifying and unsettling.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Missing four-year-old girl Cleo Smith has been found safe and well in a locked house in Carnarvon, WA police say.<br /><br />Here's why missing children cases grip the nation (from the archives): <a href="https://t.co/Ybv7JbjCXD">https://t.co/Ybv7JbjCXD</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/Uni_Newcastle?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@Uni_Newcastle</a></p> — The Conversation (@ConversationEDU) <a href="https://twitter.com/ConversationEDU/status/1455646662102241286?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">November 2, 2021</a></blockquote> <p><strong>Parent's need support, too</strong></p> <p>Cleo’s parents, and any parents in a similar situation, have been through a horrendous ordeal.</p> <p>They have the vital role of helping a child feel safe again, so they also need support to do this.</p> <p>All parents may feel increased anxiety about child safety in the face of this event. Children may also hear about Cleo’s experience and worry this could happen to them. Fear is contagious when such a traumatic event impacts a community.</p> <p>If parents are worried about their child showing trauma or anxiety symptoms, they should speak to GP who can refer to a psychologist or psychiatrist if more support is needed.</p> <p><em>If this article has raised issues for you, or if you’re concerned about someone you know, call Lifeline on 13 11 14.</em><!-- Below is The Conversation's page counter tag. 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Unlikely romance starts with Facebook ad

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">An advertisement for a king bed on Facebook marketplace has resulted in an unlikely romance - and the couple have announced that they are now expecting their first child together.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When Kyla Speirs, a Scottish air stewardess, advertised her king bed frame with a mattress online, she was soon approached by Gary MacDonald with a £150 offer that would end in romance.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When she handed over the bed frame, Speirs told </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Mirror</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"> that it was “love at first sight”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“We just got talking while he was there and chatted for ages then he left,” she explained.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though she thought she would “never” hear from MacDonald again, the pair soon began exchanging messages.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A few weeks later, the pair arranged to meet again for a date, and officially started their relationship in April.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Now, the couple have announced that they’re expecting a baby in January 2022.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Speirs announced the pregnancy with two photos - the first of the original Facebook ad and the second of a scan of the baby - with the caption, “How it started v how it’s going. Love at first sight I swear.”</span></p> <p><img style="width: 0px; height:0px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7843507/1_js243237650.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/f5e054d733974acf98080fffe43e9a66" /></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: Deadline</span></em></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The couple’s story has since gone viral on social media, with other users praising their unique romance.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">MacDonald also shared the news, writing on Facebook: “Longest I’ve kept a secret in my life. Baby MacDonald coming January 2022.”</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: Deadline</span></em></p>

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“Hunk of junk”: Mum’s overly honest caravan ad has internet in stitches

<p>Glastonbury mum Katie Perkins has obviously had enough of the 27-year-old caravan taking up space on her property.</p> <p>So, in a fit of fury, she took to Facebook Marketplace to try and find a prospective buyer – but soon turned her post into an opportunity to vent a bit of pent-up rage at the “monstrosity” that had been plaguing her for so long.</p> <p>The UK woman was definitely a little too honest in her expletive-laden ad, and the post quickly went viral due to her astonishingly blunt descriptions.</p> <p>“It is a tin shed on wheels,” she wrote.</p> <p>“It is f***ing hot in the summer. It is f***ing freezing in the winter. It even grows icicles on the inside.”</p> <p>She adds that the oven and fridge are equally rubbish, but the microwave is “pretty decent.”</p> <p>“Get this hunk of junk off my f***ing land,” she pleads.</p> <p>“I’d love to say it’s beautiful, but I’d be lying. I’d love to say I loved living in it, but I’d be lying.”</p> <p>The listing has been shared more than 1,000 times and racked up hundreds of comments as people commended her for the refreshing honesty, calling it the “best ad ever”.</p> <p>Check out the images of the caravan in the gallery below, and here also is the full (slightly cleaned up) post in all its glory:</p> <p>“YES IT'S STILL AVAILABLE - I WILL. REMOVE ONCE IT HAS GONE.</p> <p>IT IS AN ANCIENT 27 YEAR OLD CARAVAN. 32FT x 10FT, 2 BED STATIC.</p> <p>IT HAS BEEN LIVED IN BY A FAMILY OF 7 (WE WERE A FAMILY OF 4 🤰⚠️) FOR 7 YEARS ONSITE WHILST BUILDING OUR DREAM HOME, WHICH TURNED INTO A F***ING NIGHTMARE.</p> <p>IT IS NOT PRISTINE.</p> <p>IT IS NOT PRETTY.</p> <p>IT IS A TIN SHED ON WHEELS.</p> <p>IT IS F***ING HOT IN THE SUMMER.</p> <p>IT IS F***ING FREEZING IN THE WINTER.</p> <p>IT EVEN GROWS ICICLES ON THE INSIDE. IT COULD DO WITH FULL REPLACEMENT OF CARPETS.</p> <p>IT NEEDS A GOOD BLEACH CLEAN THROUGHOUT.</p> <p>IT HAS A SHIT OVEN.</p> <p>IT HAS A SHIT HOB.</p> <p>IT HAS A SHIT FRIDGE.</p> <p>KIDS WERE POTTY TRAINED IN IT.</p> <p>DOG WAS POTTY TRAINED IN IT.</p> <p>IT HAS BEEN USED AS STORAGE FOR THE LAST 9 MONTHS.</p> <p>NEXT STOP THE F***ING CHICKENS ARE GOING IN IT.</p> <p>IT DOES HAVE A PRETTY DECENT MICROWAVE, ALBEIT CHEAP MORRISONS ONE.</p> <p>IT ALSO HAS EXTRAS!</p> <p>COUPLE OLD SHOES IN THE WARDROBE.</p> <p>ABSTRACT ART, ONE OF A KIND, COURTESY OF THE CHILDREN.</p> <p>OLD BOTTLES OF BOOZE UNDER THE SINK.</p> <p>PRETTY SURE THERE'S EVEN A SLOW COOKER THAT WAS ONLY USED ONCE?</p> <p>BEDS THAT HAVE BEEN DESTROYED AND I CANNOT BE F***ED TO REMOVE.</p> <p>I’M SURE IF YOU ARE LOOKING AT IT YOU CAN USE IT FOR SOMETHING, I DON'T GIVE A F**K WHAT.</p> <p>I WANT OFFERS.....I DON'T EXPECT ALOT BUT SOMETHING WOULD BE NICE.</p> <p>F**K IT - IF YOU TRUELY WANT THIS F***ING MONSTROSITY THEN I WILL TRADE IT FOR A COUPLE BOXES OF HUBBY'S FAVOURITE RED WINE - JAMMY RED ROO OR JAM SHED.</p> <p>GET THIS HUNK OF JUNK OFF MY F***ING LAND.</p> <p>I'D LOVE TO SAY IT'S F***ING BEAUTIFUL, BUT I'D BE LYING.</p> <p>I'D LOVE TO SAY I LOVED LIVING IN IT, BUT I'D BE LYING.</p> <p>I'D LOVE TO SAY I'D LOOK FORWARD TO A CARAVAN HOLIDAY, BUT GUESS WHAT...?</p> <p>I'D BE LYING.”</p> <p>… and if you’re still game to read the real thing, take a deep breath, be warned, and click <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.facebook.com/marketplace/item/332595611252474/" target="_blank">here</a>.</p> <p><strong>Images:</strong> Facebook Marketplace</p>

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